FabSwingers.com forum: Same sex attraction

By *iker Jack OP Man
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

So without wanting to open the whole bi and bi curious box can a man look at a man or a woman at a woman and think they are attractive or good looking without feeling any sexual attraction

I definitely can look at another man and think he has a good body or good dress sense that suits his figure

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 week ago

Brum

Yes I would say so

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

Yes. I think a few men are fit as fuck, I have no interest in sexing them up however.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts

Ask it another way..could a gay or lesbian person look at the opposite sex and think they’re attractive, without being sexually attached?

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By *ir-March-a-lotMan
1 week ago

london

Yeah I can admire a guy for their physique.

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By *iker Jack OP Man
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

"Yeah I can admire a guy for their physique. "

I think admire is a better word than attraction. Thank you

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 week ago

Leeds

Yes of course, I know if a blokes good looking and I've zero sexual attraction to blokes.

Mrs

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
1 week ago

London

Of course they can - no point in getting hung up about it. Some men are physically attractive or have a charisma for want of a better word.

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, I'm straight, but can appreciate some woman are beautiful.

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By *vaRose43Woman
1 week ago

Forest of Dean

Yes absolutely. I can look at other ladies and think they’re beautiful without wanting to sleep with them

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 week ago

Ends

Yes. I think plenty of men are attractive or handsome. I’m not sexually interested in men at all.

I think it is also about the ideas around beauty and desirability that we consume and so we understand. So I have consumed my entire life different ideas and ideals of what attractive men look like. Of course I can see someone and decide whether they are or not.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Covent Garden

"Yes. I think a few men are fit as fuck, I have no interest in sexing them up however."

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Agreed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
1 week ago

East Sussex

I can appreciate beauty without sexual attraction

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts

I fairly recently had a very odd moment on this very subject.

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By *iker Jack OP Man
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

"I fairly recently had a very odd moment on this very subject. "

Now you have to divulge…well only if you want to

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts

"I fairly recently had a very odd moment on this very subject.

Now you have to divulge…well only if you want to "

Nothing deeply personal. Just odd. Or interesting. To me.

Sometimes I really fancy a drag queen. The really fishy type. As much as I love drag I know of course it’s a guy. And that guy can be insanely attractive. One such drag queen a while ago came out as trans. At that point it was simply a label switch.

And I instantaneously stopped finding them attractive.

Not because they declared themselves trans, but because they no longer identified male. Suddenly the gender ambiguity of the drag was lost and in my head he became a she. And I lost my interest in that moment.

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
1 week ago

Chatham

I'm bi curious, love to wank and suck a cock. But not attracted to men whatsoever.

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not really , it’s like nothing registers but if I know they are gay it’s different , kinda empathy I can understand why another gay man would find them hot or fit

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By *electableicecreamMan
1 week ago

The West

Yes and I find it interesting that a guy I might point out as attractive might not be attractive at all to someone standing beside me.

And in the same way I've had friends say a guy is super hot and I just don't see it at all.

So it would seem that straight as I am, I have a type.

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By * and R cple4Couple
1 week ago

swansea

I can definitely look at a woman and think she's very attractive and like her dress sense etc without actually wanting to rip her knickers off

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By *eordieJeansCouple
1 week ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

There’s loads of bloke I think are attractive. It doesn’t mean I want to gobble their ballsack.

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By *avexxMan
1 week ago

cheshire

yes defo i can admire a guy with a good physique and good dress sense

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By *aitonelMan
1 week ago

Travelling

"There’s loads of bloke I think are attractive. It doesn’t mean I want to gobble their ballsack."

You definitely would!

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By *eordieJeansCouple
1 week ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"There’s loads of bloke I think are attractive. It doesn’t mean I want to gobble their ballsack.

You definitely would! "

It would have to be a pretty ballsack.

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By *aizyWoman
1 week ago

west midlands

Of course, I find plenty of women attractive, nothing sexual about it.

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By *amie HantsWoman
1 week ago

Atlantis

"Of course, I find plenty of women attractive, nothing sexual about it."

^ fab straight

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By *mmaleiaWoman
1 week ago

East Northamptonshire

There’s a lot of hot women about, I’m often looking at women’s profiles, & I often ask myself why don’t I like the Veejayjay!!!! 😩😩😩😩

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By *imi_RougeWoman
1 week ago

Portsmouth

Yes of course they can

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
1 week ago

Bristol

Absolutely! Anyone can appreciate whether someone of the same sex is physically attractive regardless of desire

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By *AYENCouple
1 week ago

Lincolnshire

I can often think a man to be incredibly attractive, Jamie Foxx and the guy in the blue Range Rover advert to name a couple of examples, but I have absolutely zero sexual attraction to men - not even during my pre/post puberty phase when it's often said it's not unusual to go through varying stages of sexual discovery.

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By *aizyWoman
1 week ago

west midlands

"Of course, I find plenty of women attractive, nothing sexual about it.

^ fab straight "

Got me, sexy lady

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By *ongAndThick123Man
1 week ago

Leeds

"So without wanting to open the whole bi and bi curious box can a man look at a man or a woman at a woman and think they are attractive or good looking without feeling any sexual attraction

I definitely can look at another man and think he has a good body or good dress sense that suits his figure

Yes definitely. I do it all of the time. I mean, I’m bi so I like men and women - but I can totally see someone and think they’re attentive. Whilst at the same time have no desire to sleep with them

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 week ago

Central

Definitely. It's part of humans being social, learning animals.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
1 week ago

The Big Smoke

"So without wanting to open the whole bi and bi curious box can a man look at a man or a woman at a woman and think they are attractive or good looking without feeling any sexual attraction

I definitely can look at another man and think he has a good body or good dress sense that suits his figure

Of course. It’s appreciating them for being beautiful 😘

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By *ongAndThick123Man
1 week ago

Leeds

"So without wanting to open the whole bi and bi curious box can a man look at a man or a woman at a woman and think they are attractive or good looking without feeling any sexual attraction

I definitely can look at another man and think he has a good body or good dress sense that suits his figure

Autocorrect *attractive

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By *allipygousMan
1 week ago

Leicester

"I fairly recently had a very odd moment on this very subject.

Now you have to divulge…well only if you want to

Nothing deeply personal. Just odd. Or interesting. To me.

And I instantaneously stopped finding them attractive.

I totally get what you're saying, Glow. I never want to see a transvestite I find attractive in man-mode because if I do and know who it is then any attraction will just vanish and not come back, no matter what.

And to answer the OP's question, yes, a man can think another man is attractive and have no sexual attraction to him. I do it all the time.

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