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By *ady.pickle OP   Woman
1 day ago

Skipton

Flowers from a secret admirer…stalker central or sexy???

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By *enk15Man
1 day ago

Evesham

Anxiety riddled.

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By *wolf91Man
1 day ago

Rowley

I think sweet x

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By *ittleLiasonsWoman
1 day ago

Birmingham

Only acceptable from Joe Goldberg 🔥

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By *ongAndThick123Man
1 day ago

Leeds


"Flowers from a secret admirer…stalker central or sexy??? "

It would freak me out. I’d think stalker central, unless I was seeing someone and knew it was them.

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 day ago

Leeds

Not a fan...its a bit creepy

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
1 day ago

Chichester

Not for me…worrying.

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 day ago

Dubai & Nottingham

On the rare occasion I send flowers I put who they are from, why wouldn’t you ? I’d say it's insensitive even creepy

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By *urious Explorer 77Man
1 day ago

kink town and Birmingham

Sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago

If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 day ago

Leeds


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest. "

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers"

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing.

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 day ago

Fife

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 day ago

Leeds


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing."

Flowers from someone you know are lovely....

Flowers from some random who knows nothing about your life...not so lovely.

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 day ago

Fife

Depends on how they arrived..

Work creepy

Home extra creepy

Card attached saying something about why they were sent not as creepy, because you should know who you speak to about things..

(I know you've been worried about your upcoming annual MOT, hope these roses send you less worries... Take care secret admirer.)---- not as creepy but still

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum

Hmm...creepy

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 day ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing."

I’m sure some guys think sending unwanted cock picks is sweet too

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing.

Flowers from someone you know are lovely....

Flowers from some random who knows nothing about your life...not so lovely."

If it's a secret then they could be someone they know, just not willing/able to break cover.

Maybe they're a little shy, reading this thread and thinking "thank fuck I didn't put my name on that or I'd be expecting a knock off the fuzz for being a sex pest when all I wanted to do was get her attention."

Flowers are traditionally associated with romance. I've sent anonymous flowers on Valentine's before now.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing.

I’m sure some guys think sending unwanted cock picks is sweet too

"

If that's in the same league for you then good luck to you...

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 day ago

Fife


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing.

I’m sure some guys think sending unwanted cock picks is sweet too

"

Facts!!! But some women are that desperate they'd think either is cute to do

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex

Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

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By *ongAndThick123Man
1 day ago

Leeds


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest. "

Usually if it’s someone that the person fancies, then they will have given off signals that it’s welcome behaviour. So they’d be happy.

So in reverse, of course it’ll be creepy if it’s someone you don’t fancy that you’ve given no signals to.

It’s unusual behaviour to expect someone who doesn’t find you attractive, to want romantic gestures from you.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
1 day ago

Uttoxeter


"Flowers from a secret admirer…stalker central or sexy??? "

Ooops sorry - they’re for Cheryl across the road

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends

What in the

🫵🏾

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By *he Silver FuxMan
1 day ago

Uttoxeter


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously? "

Card has fallen off?

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously? "

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Card has fallen off?"

Good call

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing.

Flowers from someone you know are lovely....

Flowers from some random who knows nothing about your life...not so lovely.

If it's a secret then they could be someone they know, just not willing/able to break cover.

Maybe they're a little shy, reading this thread and thinking "thank fuck I didn't put my name on that or I'd be expecting a knock off the fuzz for being a sex pest when all I wanted to do was get her attention."

Flowers are traditionally associated with romance. I've sent anonymous flowers on Valentine's before now."

What's the point of getting someone's attention if they don't know who you are?

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣"

My fiancé gets anon flowers sent her.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣

My fiancé gets anon flowers sent her. "

Lucky bastard.

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By *ighland couple 99Couple
1 day ago

Inverness

I’d be a bit worried 😅

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Card has fallen off?"

They're usually pretty well secured but it's possible

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
1 day ago

Transsexual Transylvania

It's disconcerting, to say the least.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣

My fiancé gets anon flowers sent her.

Lucky bastard. "

You had a parcel, stop complaining 🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣"

Me too. I just cannot be doing with any form of second guessing and game playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing.

Flowers from someone you know are lovely....

Flowers from some random who knows nothing about your life...not so lovely.

If it's a secret then they could be someone they know, just not willing/able to break cover.

Maybe they're a little shy, reading this thread and thinking "thank fuck I didn't put my name on that or I'd be expecting a knock off the fuzz for being a sex pest when all I wanted to do was get her attention."

Flowers are traditionally associated with romance. I've sent anonymous flowers on Valentine's before now.

What's the point of getting someone's attention if they don't know who you are?"

Yet...

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 day ago

Fife


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing.

Flowers from someone you know are lovely....

Flowers from some random who knows nothing about your life...not so lovely.

If it's a secret then they could be someone they know, just not willing/able to break cover.

Maybe they're a little shy, reading this thread and thinking "thank fuck I didn't put my name on that or I'd be expecting a knock off the fuzz for being a sex pest when all I wanted to do was get her attention."

Flowers are traditionally associated with romance. I've sent anonymous flowers on Valentine's before now.

What's the point of getting someone's attention if they don't know who you are?"

Stalkers love to do that

Sex offenders also love getting off on being invisible but in plain sight, hearing about it negative or not and being unsuspecting is their "kink"... Same as people getting if to degradation talking..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣

My fiancé gets anon flowers sent her. "

From you? She probably knows or guesses

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣

My fiancé gets anon flowers sent her.

From you? She probably knows or guesses"

Not from me. From her other admirers.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣

My fiancé gets anon flowers sent her.

Lucky bastard.

You had a parcel, stop complaining 🤣"

I’m a lucky boy too it’s true

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣

My fiancé gets anon flowers sent her.

Lucky bastard.

You had a parcel, stop complaining 🤣

I’m a lucky boy too it’s true"

😘

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing.

Flowers from someone you know are lovely....

Flowers from some random who knows nothing about your life...not so lovely.

If it's a secret then they could be someone they know, just not willing/able to break cover.

Maybe they're a little shy, reading this thread and thinking "thank fuck I didn't put my name on that or I'd be expecting a knock off the fuzz for being a sex pest when all I wanted to do was get her attention."

Flowers are traditionally associated with romance. I've sent anonymous flowers on Valentine's before now.

What's the point of getting someone's attention if they don't know who you are?

Yet..."

No, not for me. I really don't appreciate being toyed with. If someone finds it romantic then that's great for them

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing.

Flowers from someone you know are lovely....

Flowers from some random who knows nothing about your life...not so lovely.

If it's a secret then they could be someone they know, just not willing/able to break cover.

Maybe they're a little shy, reading this thread and thinking "thank fuck I didn't put my name on that or I'd be expecting a knock off the fuzz for being a sex pest when all I wanted to do was get her attention."

Flowers are traditionally associated with romance. I've sent anonymous flowers on Valentine's before now.

What's the point of getting someone's attention if they don't know who you are?

Stalkers love to do that

Sex offenders also love getting off on being invisible but in plain sight, hearing about it negative or not and being unsuspecting is their "kink"... Same as people getting if to degradation talking.. "

I agree with this.

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By *lueDressWoman
1 day ago

Bath

Ive had unwanted attention from someone unknown...its freaky

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Why would anyone send flowers anonymously?

Exactly,not cheap. I would definitely put my name on anything sent 🤣

My fiancé gets anon flowers sent her.

From you? She probably knows or guesses

Not from me. From her other admirers. "

Does she appreciate them? The flowers I mean

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By *oo..Woman
1 day ago

Boo's World

Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest. "

No. I would immediately stop fancying someone if they sent me flowers anonymously.

If a man wants to compliment a woman or express an interest he should do so respectfully and openly. Even in the dark ages when I was a young woman we labelled men who didn't understand this creepy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry. "

I guess it depends whose body parts they are

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry.

I guess it depends whose body parts they are"

And what they are

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry.

I guess it depends whose body parts they are

And what they are"

True. I draw the line at while limbs but an ear or finger tip...

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry.

I guess it depends whose body parts they are

And what they are

True. I draw the line at while limbs but an ear or finger tip..."

🤣👆

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By *eroLondonMan
1 day ago

Covent Garden

It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?"

Creeps?

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By *laytime_13Woman
1 day ago

Lincs

Love love love getting flowers sent to me.

But given as I can’t think of anyone who would do that without putting their name on, I think I’d be quite creeped out if it happened. Mostly because my anxiety would go into overdrive about who has my address and are they going to come and murder me next

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago

Wow, what a world this has become. Thank fuck I've zero interest in dating. I pity the guy trying. If he gets it wrong he's labelled a sex pest, pervert, creepy and lumped in with sex offenders. He's not even permitted to try something without being given the benefit of the doubt that he at least tried.

Valentine's is lauded as being the ultimate in romance, where anonymity is de rigueur, but do it in November and take yourself off to sign the sex offenders register.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

Creeps?"

😂😂😂😂

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By *iker JackMan
1 day ago

Wolverhampton

Sending flowers or any gifts to someone anonymously is for me creepy. Where to they know where I work. Or live.

If they liked me in that way just tell me. Much cheaper than sending gifts

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By *uliette500Woman
1 day ago

Hull


"If it turns out to be someone you fancy then it's be sweet, otherwise it'll be dismissed as creepy...

The same is true of compliments or any other unsolicited attention.

Gone are the good old days where a bloke could see someone they fancied and try to initiate contact with a view to finding out if the feelings are mutual, without fear of being labelled a creep, stalker or some other ne'er-do-well sex pest.

I'd rather they initiated through conversation...not flowers

How do they know that?

I've seen lots of women bemoan they don't get flowers, romance is dead, etc.

Somebody decided to do something nice and romantic but instead gets labelled a creep.

I wooed a previous gf with a surprise anonymous flower delivery...

Unless it's Poison Ivy or a Rhododendron (traditional used to convey a threat), I'd see it as a sweet thing."

I would say sweet if they had put their name on it but flowers from an unnamed source is creepy.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"Only acceptable from Joe Goldberg 🔥"

By the way, Goldberg wouldn’t send anon. He’s a real

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Wow, what a world this has become. Thank fuck I've zero interest in dating. I pity the guy trying. If he gets it wrong he's labelled a sex pest, pervert, creepy and lumped in with sex offenders. He's not even permitted to try something without being given the benefit of the doubt that he at least tried.

Valentine's is lauded as being the ultimate in romance, where anonymity is de rigueur, but do it in November and take yourself off to sign the sex offenders register."

Really!? I think you're vastly overreacting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?"

They never existed Nero

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago


"Wow, what a world this has become. Thank fuck I've zero interest in dating. I pity the guy trying. If he gets it wrong he's labelled a sex pest, pervert, creepy and lumped in with sex offenders. He's not even permitted to try something without being given the benefit of the doubt that he at least tried.

Valentine's is lauded as being the ultimate in romance, where anonymity is de rigueur, but do it in November and take yourself off to sign the sex offenders register.

Really!? I think you're vastly overreacting "

So are those referring to the sender in the same sentence as a sex offender, creep or similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago


"Sending flowers or any gifts to someone anonymously is for me creepy. Where to they know where I work. Or live.

If they liked me in that way just tell me. Much cheaper than sending gifts "

Surely the fact they know where to send them suggests it's someone they do know?

Too much CSI watching...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Wow, what a world this has become. Thank fuck I've zero interest in dating. I pity the guy trying. If he gets it wrong he's labelled a sex pest, pervert, creepy and lumped in with sex offenders. He's not even permitted to try something without being given the benefit of the doubt that he at least tried.

Valentine's is lauded as being the ultimate in romance, where anonymity is de rigueur, but do it in November and take yourself off to sign the sex offenders register.

Really!? I think you're vastly overreacting

So are those referring to the sender in the same sentence as a sex offender, creep or similar."

People are saying this is what those people do. They are not saying that everyone who sends flowers anonymously is a sex offender.

Many women on here are saying it would worry them to receive flowers anonymously. Yet *some* guys are taking it as a personal insult. I think if women say something unsettles them it's probably best to assume they are telling how it is for them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Sending flowers or any gifts to someone anonymously is for me creepy. Where to they know where I work. Or live.

If they liked me in that way just tell me. Much cheaper than sending gifts

Surely the fact they know where to send them suggests it's someone they do know?

Too much CSI watching..."

So why not say who you are?

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"Wow, what a world this has become. Thank fuck I've zero interest in dating. I pity the guy trying. If he gets it wrong he's labelled a sex pest, pervert, creepy and lumped in with sex offenders. He's not even permitted to try something without being given the benefit of the doubt that he at least tried.

Valentine's is lauded as being the ultimate in romance, where anonymity is de rigueur, but do it in November and take yourself off to sign the sex offenders register.

Really!? I think you're vastly overreacting

So are those referring to the sender in the same sentence as a sex offender, creep or similar."

No but seriously why send anonymously? It feels like it could be romantic if the card was sent with an obvious hint of who it’s from but no name (that’s what my fiance receives). But sending flowers without any indication of who they are from is a bit weird. Also like, again, just sign your name?

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
1 day ago

Stoke

Nooooo!!

Had a stalker from here last year, it would freak me out!!

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"Wow, what a world this has become. Thank fuck I've zero interest in dating. I pity the guy trying. If he gets it wrong he's labelled a sex pest, pervert, creepy and lumped in with sex offenders. He's not even permitted to try something without being given the benefit of the doubt that he at least tried.

Valentine's is lauded as being the ultimate in romance, where anonymity is de rigueur, but do it in November and take yourself off to sign the sex offenders register.

Really!? I think you're vastly overreacting

So are those referring to the sender in the same sentence as a sex offender, creep or similar.

No but seriously why send anonymously? It feels like it could be romantic if the card was sent with an obvious hint of who it’s from but no name (that’s what my fiance receives). But sending flowers without any indication of who they are from is a bit weird. Also like, again, just sign your name?"

Exactly,otherwise who would the recipient know who to go down on 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago


"Wow, what a world this has become. Thank fuck I've zero interest in dating. I pity the guy trying. If he gets it wrong he's labelled a sex pest, pervert, creepy and lumped in with sex offenders. He's not even permitted to try something without being given the benefit of the doubt that he at least tried.

Valentine's is lauded as being the ultimate in romance, where anonymity is de rigueur, but do it in November and take yourself off to sign the sex offenders register.

Really!? I think you're vastly overreacting

So are those referring to the sender in the same sentence as a sex offender, creep or similar.

People are saying this is what those people do. They are not saying that everyone who sends flowers anonymously is a sex offender.

Many women on here are saying it would worry them to receive flowers anonymously. Yet *some* guys are taking it as a personal insult. I think if women say something unsettles them it's probably best to assume they are telling how it is for them "

And all I'm saying g us that it's a shame that the first reaction to what could have been intended as a romantic gesture is so negative and abhorrent.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"Nooooo!!

Had a stalker from here last year, it would freak me out!!"

Plenty of weirds out there

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By *ularliWoman
1 day ago

Worcester

I never get flowers so send some my way

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By *iker JackMan
1 day ago

Wolverhampton


"Sending flowers or any gifts to someone anonymously is for me creepy. Where to they know where I work. Or live.

If they liked me in that way just tell me. Much cheaper than sending gifts

Surely the fact they know where to send them suggests it's someone they do know?

Too much CSI watching...

So why not say who you are? "

I agree.

The OP asked for an opinion on what people felt

Now there seems to be criticism for giving an opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago

On Valentine's anonymous gestures are exciting but in November it's creepy?

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago


"I never get flowers so send some my way "

Sorry, I've just cancelled my order in case I get labelled a creep!

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"On Valentine's anonymous gestures are exciting but in November it's creepy?"

I personally think anything anonymous is creepy. Maybe when I was 18 and didn't know the extent of creeps out there it wouldn't be

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
1 day ago

District 13

If a person thinks it’s creepy bin the flowers.

If the person thinks it’s flattering and a nice gesture keep the flowers.

Whoever sent them is never gonna be right but I applaud them for funding the nice gesture 🤦🏽

Note to self “don’t send anyone flowers” 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
1 day ago


"If a person thinks it’s creepy bin the flowers.

If the person thinks it’s flattering and a nice gesture keep the flowers.

Whoever sent them is never gonna be right but I applaud them for funding the nice gesture 🤦🏽

Note to self “don’t send anyone flowers” 🤷🏽‍♂️"

Spot on pal...

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum

No, if you send them then don't do it anon🫣

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 day ago

Fife


"On Valentine's anonymous gestures are exciting but in November it's creepy?"

No one but YOU found it exciting. THE MAJORITY have told you why it's creepy yet you still choose to equate annomous as knowing. Getting a surprise from a KNOWN sender is not the same as a gesture from an invisible unknown sender..

Maybe comprehension isn't your speciality but creepy is?

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry. "

Shh, don't give people ideas ... (and do toe nail clippings count as body parts? need to start small)

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 day ago

Herts


"Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry.

Shh, don't give people ideas ... (and do toe nail clippings count as body parts? need to start small) "

Frankly if you ever licked a stamp you sent sone body fluid to a complete stranger..

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
1 day ago

District 13


"On Valentine's anonymous gestures are exciting but in November it's creepy?

No one but YOU found it exciting. THE MAJORITY have told you why it's creepy yet you still choose to equate annomous as knowing. Getting a surprise from a KNOWN sender is not the same as a gesture from an invisible unknown sender..

Maybe comprehension isn't your speciality but creepy is?"

But surely the sender must be known of sorts because I personally couldn’t send flowers annon to ANYONE on or off fab unless I knew them or at least where they live 🤷🏽‍♂️

And I don’t believe ANYONE on or off fab are stupid enough to divulge such info freely 🤔

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By *iker JackMan
1 day ago

Wolverhampton


"Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry.

Shh, don't give people ideas ... (and do toe nail clippings count as body parts? need to start small)

Frankly if you ever licked a stamp you sent sone body fluid to a complete stranger.."

Licking stamps is so 1980s🤣🤣

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 day ago

Herts


"Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry.

Shh, don't give people ideas ... (and do toe nail clippings count as body parts? need to start small)

Frankly if you ever licked a stamp you sent sone body fluid to a complete stranger..

Licking stamps is so 1980s🤣🤣"

I’m paranoid they used it to clone me (how very dare they??). I’m paranoid they didn’t use it to clone me too (wtf am I not clone worthy??).

Hate you stamps in the 80s. Damn you.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 day ago

Leeds

Wouldn't like it, I'd want to know who it was from it would freak me out being anonymous.

Mrs

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"Not everything in life is weird, if they start sending body parts in the post, then worry.

Shh, don't give people ideas ... (and do toe nail clippings count as body parts? need to start small)

Frankly if you ever licked a stamp you sent sone body fluid to a complete stranger..

Licking stamps is so 1980s🤣🤣"

Have you seen the price of stamps? I now keep them with my gold ingots, buried in the garden.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"Wow, what a world this has become. Thank fuck I've zero interest in dating. I pity the guy trying. If he gets it wrong he's labelled a sex pest, pervert, creepy and lumped in with sex offenders. He's not even permitted to try something without being given the benefit of the doubt that he at least tried.

Valentine's is lauded as being the ultimate in romance, where anonymity is de rigueur, but do it in November and take yourself off to sign the sex offenders register.

Really!? I think you're vastly overreacting

So are those referring to the sender in the same sentence as a sex offender, creep or similar.

People are saying this is what those people do. They are not saying that everyone who sends flowers anonymously is a sex offender.

Many women on here are saying it would worry them to receive flowers anonymously. Yet *some* guys are taking it as a personal insult. I think if women say something unsettles them it's probably best to assume they are telling how it is for them "

‘Women don’t know what’s best for them. Why can’t they just take a compliment. Men are scared to approach women. Feminism. Grrrr’

Or something like that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"Sending flowers or any gifts to someone anonymously is for me creepy. Where to they know where I work. Or live.

If they liked me in that way just tell me. Much cheaper than sending gifts

Surely the fact they know where to send them suggests it's someone they do know?

Too much CSI watching...

So why not say who you are?

I agree.

The OP asked for an opinion on what people felt

Now there seems to be criticism for giving an opinion

"

It's the age old story

Women say they don't like something some men do.

Some men want to keep doing it despite that so they criticise women for not liking it.

It's really simple and straightforward. There are some women who see all men as a threat it would be wise to consider their backstory. However the majority of us like men and welcome polite expressions of interest at appropriate times and in the correct context.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends

Shit. I’m the white knight.

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By *enk15Man
1 day ago

Evesham


"On Valentine's anonymous gestures are exciting but in November it's creepy?

No one but YOU found it exciting. THE MAJORITY have told you why it's creepy yet you still choose to equate annomous as knowing. Getting a surprise from a KNOWN sender is not the same as a gesture from an invisible unknown sender..

Maybe comprehension isn't your speciality but creepy is?

But surely the sender must be known of sorts because I personally couldn’t send flowers annon to ANYONE on or off fab unless I knew them or at least where they live 🤷🏽‍♂️

And I don’t believe ANYONE on or off fab are stupid enough to divulge such info freely 🤔 "

People divulge that info all the time. Any form you fill in online when buying stuff, every delivery person to have ever visited your house, selling stuff on FB marketplace for pickup. Stalkers also follow people home.

Receiving something anonymously would creep me out.

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"Shit. I’m the white knight. "

Have you been wearing that sheet and hood again?

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"Shit. I’m the white knight.

Have you been wearing that sheet and hood again?"

Only when I’m going undercover in the me- nvm .

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"Shit. I’m the white knight.

Have you been wearing that sheet and hood again?

Only when I’m going undercover in the me- nvm . "

You are John David Washington

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By *neeyedwillieMan
1 day ago

Darlington


"Flowers from a secret admirer…stalker central or sexy??? "

Dunno. I'm a bloke. No woman has ever bought me flowers so I couldn't answer.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"On Valentine's anonymous gestures are exciting but in November it's creepy?

No one but YOU found it exciting. THE MAJORITY have told you why it's creepy yet you still choose to equate annomous as knowing. Getting a surprise from a KNOWN sender is not the same as a gesture from an invisible unknown sender..

Maybe comprehension isn't your speciality but creepy is?

But surely the sender must be known of sorts because I personally couldn’t send flowers annon to ANYONE on or off fab unless I knew them or at least where they live 🤷🏽‍♂️

And I don’t believe ANYONE on or off fab are stupid enough to divulge such info freely 🤔 "

If you know where they live you could be the postman, the delivery guy (have you seen the threads from delivery men who want a woman to flash them?), the guy who fixed your central heating two months ago (have you seen the threads about going through washing baskets in other people's homes), etc etc. Can you see why some women would be a little concerned at anonymous flowers?

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By *eroLondonMan
1 day ago

Covent Garden


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero"

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

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By *vaRose43Woman
1 day ago

Forest of Dean

Flowers with a card/note saying who they’re from? Lovely

Flowers on valentines anonymously but knowing really who they are from? lovely

Flowers out of the blue and no idea at all? Would really freak me out

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By *iker JackMan
1 day ago

Wolverhampton


"On Valentine's anonymous gestures are exciting but in November it's creepy?

No one but YOU found it exciting. THE MAJORITY have told you why it's creepy yet you still choose to equate annomous as knowing. Getting a surprise from a KNOWN sender is not the same as a gesture from an invisible unknown sender..

Maybe comprehension isn't your speciality but creepy is?

But surely the sender must be known of sorts because I personally couldn’t send flowers annon to ANYONE on or off fab unless I knew them or at least where they live 🤷🏽‍♂️

And I don’t believe ANYONE on or off fab are stupid enough to divulge such info freely 🤔

People divulge that info all the time. Any form you fill in online when buying stuff, every delivery person to have ever visited your house, selling stuff on FB marketplace for pickup. Stalkers also follow people home.

Receiving something anonymously would creep me out."

I remember something in the news thst a delivery driver started a stalking campaign against someone they delivered to. If I remember it wasn’t the only incident of it either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈"

You love it really.

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈"

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
1 day ago

District 13


"On Valentine's anonymous gestures are exciting but in November it's creepy?

No one but YOU found it exciting. THE MAJORITY have told you why it's creepy yet you still choose to equate annomous as knowing. Getting a surprise from a KNOWN sender is not the same as a gesture from an invisible unknown sender..

Maybe comprehension isn't your speciality but creepy is?

But surely the sender must be known of sorts because I personally couldn’t send flowers annon to ANYONE on or off fab unless I knew them or at least where they live 🤷🏽‍♂️

And I don’t believe ANYONE on or off fab are stupid enough to divulge such info freely 🤔

People divulge that info all the time. Any form you fill in online when buying stuff, every delivery person to have ever visited your house, selling stuff on FB marketplace for pickup. Stalkers also follow people home.

Receiving something anonymously would creep me out."

Luckily I don’t use social media, unless here counts, and I always use suggested hide my email addresses which makes it harder for my details to be leaked however if someone sent me annon flowers, as I said earlier, I’d appreciate or bin them 😁👍🏽

God forbid the brave soul turns up at my door 😉

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)"

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
1 day ago

District 13


"On Valentine's anonymous gestures are exciting but in November it's creepy?

No one but YOU found it exciting. THE MAJORITY have told you why it's creepy yet you still choose to equate annomous as knowing. Getting a surprise from a KNOWN sender is not the same as a gesture from an invisible unknown sender..

Maybe comprehension isn't your speciality but creepy is?

But surely the sender must be known of sorts because I personally couldn’t send flowers annon to ANYONE on or off fab unless I knew them or at least where they live 🤷🏽‍♂️

And I don’t believe ANYONE on or off fab are stupid enough to divulge such info freely 🤔

If you know where they live you could be the postman, the delivery guy (have you seen the threads from delivery men who want a woman to flash them?), the guy who fixed your central heating two months ago (have you seen the threads about going through washing baskets in other people's homes), etc etc. Can you see why some women would be a little concerned at anonymous flowers? "

I don’t see this thread but that is creepy and scary but the context of this thread is quite vague hense my responses because I feel it isn’t creepy but in your explanation I concur it’s messed up 😳

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all "

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?

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By *iker JackMan
1 day ago

Wolverhampton

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"Shit. I’m the white knight.

Have you been wearing that sheet and hood again?

Only when I’m going undercover in the me- nvm .

You are John David Washington "

You get me

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By *amie HantsWoman
1 day ago

Atlantis

I had this when I was younger and still living with my parents. Someone kept leaving flowers and gifts on the doorstep for me. Dad was fuming as every morning he’d nearly break his neck tripping over them

I’m now 32 and no secret admirers leave me gifts on the doorstep. No open admirers either 😢

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"I had this when I was younger and still living with my parents. Someone kept leaving flowers and gifts on the doorstep for me. Dad was fuming as every morning he’d nearly break his neck tripping over them

I’m now 32 and no secret admirers leave me gifts on the doorstep. No open admirers either 😢 "

Did you find out who had been leaving them?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?"

Some fool who couldn't foresee the consequences.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
1 day ago

Ends


"I had this when I was younger and still living with my parents. Someone kept leaving flowers and gifts on the doorstep for me. Dad was fuming as every morning he’d nearly break his neck tripping over them

I’m now 32 and no secret admirers leave me gifts on the doorstep. No open admirers either 😢 "

Well, you are 32 now.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 day ago

Covent Garden


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?"

Since the rheumatism kicked in her lådyship is unable to tap the appropriate words into Google™. She's still bonk-worthy though. 😇

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?

Some fool who couldn't foresee the consequences. "

Should never have given us the vote ..damn those Pankhursts

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?

Some fool who couldn't foresee the consequences. "

Next you'll be telling me they are allowed to leave the house and find gainful employment! What is the world coming to?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
1 day ago

walsall

That milk tray man is a creepy bugger, swanning around giving women chocolates anonymously. How very dare he, the slimy creep!

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By *amie HantsWoman
1 day ago

Atlantis


"I had this when I was younger and still living with my parents. Someone kept leaving flowers and gifts on the doorstep for me. Dad was fuming as every morning he’d nearly break his neck tripping over them

I’m now 32 and no secret admirers leave me gifts on the doorstep. No open admirers either 😢

Did you find out who had been leaving them?"

Yeah. It was a a local guy in the village. Lovely guy, we dated for a bit but then I went travelling. I still bump into him when I go back home and always love catching up with him

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?

Some fool who couldn't foresee the consequences.

Next you'll be telling me they are allowed to leave the house and find gainful employment! What is the world coming to?"

I think it all started going wrong when it became illegal to sell your wife at market

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By *ellinever70Woman
1 day ago

Ayrshire

It would leave me feeling a little unsettled

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By *aven.Woman
1 day ago

Not the North West...

Netflix documentary

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?

Some fool who couldn't foresee the consequences.

Next you'll be telling me they are allowed to leave the house and find gainful employment! What is the world coming to?

I think it all started going wrong when it became illegal to sell your wife at market"

I wonder how many camels I would be worth 🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

1 day ago

East Sussex


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?

Some fool who couldn't foresee the consequences.

Next you'll be telling me they are allowed to leave the house and find gainful employment! What is the world coming to?

I think it all started going wrong when it became illegal to sell your wife at market

I wonder how many camels I would be worth 🤣"

You'd be a prize beyond measure

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By *ayronfeetMan
1 day ago

Cardiff

I'm not sure if a man would get the same thing from a woman? Its definitely think its more of a man thing to do..... but yeah 50 / 50 good intentions and nice to creepy and odd 😂😂

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?

Some fool who couldn't foresee the consequences.

Next you'll be telling me they are allowed to leave the house and find gainful employment! What is the world coming to?

I think it all started going wrong when it became illegal to sell your wife at market

I wonder how many camels I would be worth 🤣"

There's a website which can calculate how many camels you are worth. It says "The camel calculator is designed like a quiz and calculates as a result how many camels you are worth. Based on your information about various characteristics such as age, size and hair color, the number of camels that you, your partner or your friends are worth is calculated."

I shall now try it!

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?

Some fool who couldn't foresee the consequences.

Next you'll be telling me they are allowed to leave the house and find gainful employment! What is the world coming to?

I think it all started going wrong when it became illegal to sell your wife at market

I wonder how many camels I would be worth 🤣

There's a website which can calculate how many camels you are worth. It says "The camel calculator is designed like a quiz and calculates as a result how many camels you are worth. Based on your information about various characteristics such as age, size and hair color, the number of camels that you, your partner or your friends are worth is calculated."

I shall now try it!

"

Right off to Google that one 🤣

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 day ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"It's sexy. It's delightfully old-fashioned with an air of mystique.

It's only creepy if you want it to feel creepy. It's only creepy until it (possibly) becomes creepy.

Whatever happened to the days of innocence?

·

They never existed Nero

And yet you continue to spurn my amorous advances with my honourable intentions, you saucy minx! 😈

Send her flowers, but sign it Claudius Caesar Drusus Germanicus - that way it is not anonymous, but would require some sleuthing (or she might just use Google)

Or 'she' might not need to Google it at all

Damn, who had the bright idea to educate women?

Some fool who couldn't foresee the consequences.

Next you'll be telling me they are allowed to leave the house and find gainful employment! What is the world coming to?

I think it all started going wrong when it became illegal to sell your wife at market

I wonder how many camels I would be worth 🤣

There's a website which can calculate how many camels you are worth. It says "The camel calculator is designed like a quiz and calculates as a result how many camels you are worth. Based on your information about various characteristics such as age, size and hair color, the number of camels that you, your partner or your friends are worth is calculated."

I shall now try it!

Right off to Google that one 🤣"

Was actually at Al Ain Camel market on Saturday morning with my daughter and a female friend. It’s a crazy place of haggling and baby camels are so cute!

For fun we asked and my daughter is worth 200 cams , and my friend an old goat and 2 chickens

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"

I wonder how many camels I would be worth 🤣

There's a website which can calculate how many camels you are worth. It says "The camel calculator is designed like a quiz and calculates as a result how many camels you are worth. Based on your information about various characteristics such as age, size and hair color, the number of camels that you, your partner or your friends are worth is calculated."

I shall now try it!

Right off to Google that one 🤣"

OK, I may have taken liberties (this is going to get the label 'creepy') but it says:

"Your girlfriend ist worth 42 camels."

(not sure why it says 'ist' and apologies for the 'girlfriend' bit).

Do you mind if I accept the camels, it does seem like a good offer

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"

Was actually at Al Ain Camel market on Saturday morning with my daughter and a female friend. It’s a crazy place of haggling and baby camels are so cute!

For fun we asked and my daughter is worth 200 cams , and my friend an old goat and 2 chickens "

Brilliant

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
1 day ago

Brum


"

I wonder how many camels I would be worth 🤣

There's a website which can calculate how many camels you are worth. It says "The camel calculator is designed like a quiz and calculates as a result how many camels you are worth. Based on your information about various characteristics such as age, size and hair color, the number of camels that you, your partner or your friends are worth is calculated."

I shall now try it!

Right off to Google that one 🤣

OK, I may have taken liberties (this is going to get the label 'creepy') but it says:

"Your girlfriend ist worth 42 camels."

(not sure why it says 'ist' and apologies for the 'girlfriend' bit).

Do you mind if I accept the camels, it does seem like a good offer "

Well I made it 46 camels and 47 sheep. Not going lower that 46, I know my worth

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By *atex and KinkCouple
1 day ago

Edinburgh

It's a very interesting dilemma.

Unfortunately 99% of woman have a tainted view of the male of the species due to continuous learing, abuse and physical abuse through the years.

What seems a simple gift of flowers becomes a huge red flag!

Which is an absolute shame as it may be completely inoculous and innocent with no meaning.

Modern societal problems in its basic form...

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By *he ReturneeMan
1 day ago

Barnet


"

I wonder how many camels I would be worth 🤣

There's a website which can calculate how many camels you are worth. It says "The camel calculator is designed like a quiz and calculates as a result how many camels you are worth. Based on your information about various characteristics such as age, size and hair color, the number of camels that you, your partner or your friends are worth is calculated."

I shall now try it!

Right off to Google that one 🤣

OK, I may have taken liberties (this is going to get the label 'creepy') but it says:

"Your girlfriend ist worth 42 camels."

(not sure why it says 'ist' and apologies for the 'girlfriend' bit).

Do you mind if I accept the camels, it does seem like a good offer

Well I made it 46 camels and 47 sheep. Not going lower that 46, I know my worth"

Clearly I guessed the wrong eye colour, hair colour and hair length!

It didn't offer me sheep! I feel cheated. I better haggle.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
1 day ago

walsall


"That milk tray man is a creepy bugger, swanning around giving women chocolates anonymously. How very dare he, the slimy creep!"

And not to mention those creepy weirdos at Cadbury, and the secret stalking Santa…..

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