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Do you think you attract certain types of people?

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By *eeliciouschaos OP   Woman
36 weeks ago

London

Even if you don’t specifically look for those types of people?

Whether it’s by your profile, forum presence or both?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I don't think I do x

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

On here.. just anyone with a penis and the occasional tits.

In real life it's a pattern that I attract avoidant, emotionally unavailable people who take more than they give. I'm a lot more selective who I give my energy too now as I'm done being the nice girl to the wrong people.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

On here I don’t attract anyone in particular. In fact I don’t think I attract anyone- I usually message first.

Off of here? Again I don’t attract anyone so hard to answer

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I think I’m attracted to certain types of people (personality wise) though.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"In fact I don’t think I attract anyone- I usually message first.

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Lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"In fact I don’t think I attract anyone- I usually message first.

Lies. "

Did you message me first

It was SO long ago

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By *ags73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Dunno. I don’t think of myself as attractive per se, so it’s not for me to say, beauty’s in eye of the beholder and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

On here not really.

In terms of relationships and dating yes I attract the same personality type everytime.

Perhaps I just have a thing for selfish commitment phobes, I dont know.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
36 weeks ago

Stoke


"On here.. just anyone with a penis and the occasional tits.

In real life it's a pattern that I attract avoidant, emotionally unavailable people who take more than they give. I'm a lot more selective who I give my energy too now as I'm done being the nice girl to the wrong people."

Love it 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"In fact I don’t think I attract anyone- I usually message first.

Lies.

Did you message me first

It was SO long ago"

Pretty sure I did

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
36 weeks ago

Reading

No both the people I am attracted to and those attracted to me are very diverse.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Well I get waaaayyyy more middle aged men than hot ladies in their 30’s thats for sure

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Probably, but then again you do have to be a certain specific breed of human to like me. And there’s not many.

The mr

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By *viatrixWoman
36 weeks ago

Redhill

The type I attract- I would say late 30s, average-to-short height, beard, dadbod-to-cuddly bear frame…

Basically the complete opposite to what I am attracted to usually I am the one doing the chasing of the type I like. But it’s been the story of my life, here and in “the real world” (whatever that means) 🌎

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By *oodo69Man
36 weeks ago

London (visiting frequently)

Not really sure, but hope l can attract some of you naughty sexy mature women on this site xx

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By *ot really famousMan
36 weeks ago

monaghan

Around these parts..im known as an asshole magnet..

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
36 weeks ago

St Leonards

I think most people attract lots of other people during their life, even if only an initial "exploratory" attraction that can fade within an hour or so.

So the ones who tend to stay attracted to me for a bit longer are usually straddling the introvert/extrovert dividing line, capable of finding great energy as well as needing a quiet space to retreat, and they tend to like taller guys with big shoulders.

They usually like my slight "fuck you" and lefty, smarty-pants vibe, and my voice is often seen as an unexpected minor bonus.

These be the main themes for the more lasting attractions to me since teenagehood.

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By *eeliciouschaos OP   Woman
36 weeks ago

London


"The type I attract- I would say late 30s, average-to-short height, beard, dadbod-to-cuddly bear frame…

Basically the complete opposite to what I am attracted to usually I am the one doing the chasing of the type I like. But it’s been the story of my life, here and in “the real world” (whatever that means) 🌎 "

Now I find it interesting because it was exactly my experience and made me even wonder is it me, or does everyone looks the same nowadays?

I’m not talking personality wise, I’m not that deep.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
36 weeks ago

Reading

I feel like I'm a magnet for the really decent, good people who are genuinely nice and caring. Which is perfect because this is just my type.

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By *eroLondonMan
36 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Yes, neurodivergent women, mostly. I have no explanation for this.

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By *viatrixWoman
36 weeks ago

Redhill


"The type I attract- I would say late 30s, average-to-short height, beard, dadbod-to-cuddly bear frame…

Basically the complete opposite to what I am attracted to usually I am the one doing the chasing of the type I like. But it’s been the story of my life, here and in “the real world” (whatever that means) 🌎

Now I find it interesting because it was exactly my experience and made me even wonder is it me, or does everyone looks the same nowadays?

I’m not talking personality wise, I’m not that deep."

I think it is a bit of both, Dee. Many men look the same nowadays… so it all blends into a single type. And also they must be into mature, gorgeous women haha x

A couple of weeks ago I thought I would open my mind and step out of that fixed type I go for and met someone with this description- personality wise it was great, lovely soul, but physically just no. At all. I felt terrible afterwards and not making that mistake again. 🫣

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"I feel like I'm a magnet for the really decent, good people who are genuinely nice and caring. Which is perfect because this is just my type. "

You’re just my type.

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By *ellhungvweMan
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I feel I attract the people who actually want to meet. I can live with that.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

Online hard to say. Can’t see a pattern.

Off line IRL yes. Silver foxes usually about 5-10 years older, they all seem to have a history of being a bit of a villain. Tend to be very smart, low tolerance of bullshit.

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

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I don't know. Kind of. I don't mind though; they tend to be the type I'm attracted to.

Away from Fab, definitely yes.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
36 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It seems to attract those much older than ourselves, sadly who we aren't looking for.

I wonder if the age group in our relationship is the cause.

Bizarrely, Mrs prefers younger men and I prefer older.

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