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Would a poly relationship be good or not?

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By *imToPlease400 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

northwest

Would a poly relationship be better than being single?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Southampton

Depends on what you want... surely better to be single than in the wrong relationship x

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
11 weeks ago

Bristol


"Depends on what you want... surely better to be single than in the wrong relationship x

"

The only advice necessary

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By *imToPlease400 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

northwest

Yeah that’s true but sometimes it’s nice to be cuddled at night ahah x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Southampton


"Yeah that’s true but sometimes it’s nice to be cuddled at night ahah x"

Need to get yourself a giant Teddy bear

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By *imToPlease400 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

northwest

Haha now that’s an idea haha x

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
11 weeks ago

Chester

I’ve got some bad news for you - poly people are just as choosy about the people they connect with as anyone else is. It sounds as if you think poly people would be easy pickings!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Would a poly relationship be better than being single?"

If you're actually poly and find a compatible and available person, sure.

If you're just treating poly relationships as casual fuckjobs, please don't ever use that label 💜

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

Would any relationship be better than being single?

If you’re looking for a relationship because you’re scared of being single GOOD LUCK

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By *vaRose43Woman
11 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Not necessarily

Poly is as hard (and arguably sometimes harder) to manage than a traditional mono relationship.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

11 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not for me, I'm not a poly person

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By *HUSH-Man
11 weeks ago

London


"Depends on what you want... surely better to be single than in the wrong relationship x

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This

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Southampton


"Haha now that’s an idea haha x"

Plus.. no fights over the duvet 🤣

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By *issmorganWoman
11 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Not necessarily op.

They work out great for some, but I don't think they'd be for all.

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By *hePleasurerMan
11 weeks ago

Cheshire

It might filla gap...

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By *imToPlease400 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

northwest

Thanks for the news ahah

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By *ear in the chairMan
11 weeks ago

yeah there

I've enjoyed the swing scene, I am Poly with a wife and another relationship. Lucky me most of the time but navigating Poly is not the 'easy' option. Takes a lot of effort, thought and time to make it work for everyone.

That and if both/all partners know each other they can gang up on you as well

Last word today, would you also be happy with your Poly partner having other partners? Lots of guys prefer a one cock policy which unless it's actually the couples choice together isn't exactly Poly

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
11 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm struggling to find one partner let alone multiple

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By *imToPlease400 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

northwest

Haha I know the feeling

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
11 weeks ago

Bristol


"I'm struggling to find one partner let alone multiple "

A good point well made

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
11 weeks ago

newcastle

thats a good expression it depend on how you feel ive had a few partners and husbands had 2 including me and we met at 16 soo if one of you is jealous (me!!) then definately no but if your both fine go for it XX I have the best of both worlds but if husband wanted i know id suffer its not easy oh and i Do have husband and a lover!! xxxD

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Southampton

My husband had a polypartner for the best part of a year... it takes a lot of communication on everyone's part xx

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

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Erm, if you're poly and actively want to date some two/three people then yes, I think so.

If you're doing it because it's rather trendy and seen as an easy way to get a fuck, no. Being poly isn't an access all areas pass. And when it doesn't work, it's a headfuck.

But if you find the right people, are really happy? Then yes, it's infinitely better than being single.

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By *imToPlease400 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

northwest

That’s the trouble in finding the right people xx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Side note. If you're only considering a relationship with someone because it's better than being alone rather than because you actually want to be with them. Please don't 💜

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

Ends


"I'm struggling to find one partner let alone multiple "

Don’t worry. I want you to be one of my multiple.

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