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I love my man with all my being. He's struggling (just a bit with burntout) atm, so this is nice to see  | |||
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"Great shout dude. I’ve seen and heard so many good things about this.👆🏻" For sure! The majority who attend gain something positive from going. Even just to have a cuppa and a chat for a couple hours. When I first went, it was around 10 people or so. I popped in around a year later, to say hello and they were up to 50+ I think. That made me very happy, that more men are opening up about their mental health. 😊 | |||
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"Great shout dude. I’ve seen and heard so many good things about this.👆🏻 For sure! The majority who attend gain something positive from going. Even just to have a cuppa and a chat for a couple hours. When I first went, it was around 10 people or so. I popped in around a year later, to say hello and they were up to 50+ I think. That made me very happy, that more men are opening up about their mental health. 😊" It's why we need the phrase 'man up' to be put in the bin. The expectation to just carry on regardless has caused a lot of damage over the years | |||
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"Any chance that this can stay positive? " Each one, teach one. One love to my brothers worldwide. 1/ To the mentors who guide with wisdom, showing others the path forward, your influence ripples through generations. 2/ To the protectors, standing tall for your families, friends, and communities, your strength inspires courage. 3/ To the nurturers, breaking stereotypes with compassion and care, proving that empathy is power. 4/ To the dreamers and doers, building bridges, chasing visions, and creating a better world—your drive is unmatched. 5/ Remember: your worth isn’t defined by titles or wealth, but by the love, light, and growth you bring to those around you. 6/ Today and every day, celebrate the men who uplift, inspire, and strive for better. Together, we rise. #InternationalMensDay  | |||
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"Any chance that this can stay positive? Each one, teach one. One love to my brothers worldwide. 1/ To the mentors who guide with wisdom, showing others the path forward, your influence ripples through generations. 2/ To the protectors, standing tall for your families, friends, and communities, your strength inspires courage. 3/ To the nurturers, breaking stereotypes with compassion and care, proving that empathy is power. 4/ To the dreamers and doers, building bridges, chasing visions, and creating a better world—your drive is unmatched. 5/ Remember: your worth isn’t defined by titles or wealth, but by the love, light, and growth you bring to those around you. 6/ Today and every day, celebrate the men who uplift, inspire, and strive for better. Together, we rise. #InternationalMensDay "Holy shit! Where have you been hiding What an amazing post | |||
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"Any chance that this can stay positive? Each one, teach one. One love to my brothers worldwide. 1/ To the mentors who guide with wisdom, showing others the path forward, your influence ripples through generations. 2/ To the protectors, standing tall for your families, friends, and communities, your strength inspires courage. 3/ To the nurturers, breaking stereotypes with compassion and care, proving that empathy is power. 4/ To the dreamers and doers, building bridges, chasing visions, and creating a better world—your drive is unmatched. 5/ Remember: your worth isn’t defined by titles or wealth, but by the love, light, and growth you bring to those around you. 6/ Today and every day, celebrate the men who uplift, inspire, and strive for better. Together, we rise. #InternationalMensDay
Holy shit! Where have you been hiding
What an amazing post "Awh your cute, thanks :D one love to the sistas too of corse I used to frequent the forums on my old profile. But decided to drop in for a nose. I haven't been using fab as often as I used to x | |||
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"Today I’m shouting out the Black men and boys struggling to see their value in this world. I see you and I love you. ❤️" 🫂 | |||
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"Today I’m shouting out the Black men and boys struggling to see their value in this world. I see you and I love you. ❤️ 🫂" I’ll add Brown men to that if I may. We often get a hard time on here and elsewhere | |||
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"Any chance that this can stay positive? Each one, teach one. One love to my brothers worldwide. 1/ To the mentors who guide with wisdom, showing others the path forward, your influence ripples through generations. 2/ To the protectors, standing tall for your families, friends, and communities, your strength inspires courage. 3/ To the nurturers, breaking stereotypes with compassion and care, proving that empathy is power. 4/ To the dreamers and doers, building bridges, chasing visions, and creating a better world—your drive is unmatched. 5/ Remember: your worth isn’t defined by titles or wealth, but by the love, light, and growth you bring to those around you. 6/ Today and every day, celebrate the men who uplift, inspire, and strive for better. Together, we rise. #InternationalMensDay "Here, here! What a summary. What a hero! | |||
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"Today I’m shouting out the Black men and boys struggling to see their value in this world. I see you and I love you. ❤️ 🫂 I’ll add Brown men to that if I may. We often get a hard time on here and elsewhere "I see you ❤️ | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx" Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ...  | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ... "Ahhh you flushed her out 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ... "I just pointed out that it’s also world toilet day. No association | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ...
I just pointed out that it’s also world toilet day. No association "True | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ...
I just pointed out that it’s also world toilet day. No association "World toilet day?!? Dafaq 😂 😂 😂 | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ...
I just pointed out that it’s also world toilet day. No association "You felt it was a necessity to point out that international men's day is on the same day as world toilet day ... on a thread that was talking about international men's day...but you ment no association between the two 🤔... ok, cool that makes sense | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ...
I just pointed out that it’s also world toilet day. No association
You felt it was a necessity to point out that international men's day is on the same day as world toilet day ... on a thread that was talking about international men's day...but you ment no association between the two 🤔... ok, cool that makes sense "Fret not. There’s no need to labour over what was a comment elsewhere. If you wanna continue it, pop to that thread and discuss it. | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ...
I just pointed out that it’s also world toilet day. No association "It was International Mens Day long before feminists at the UN changed it to be world toilet day. Honestly, they will do absoutly anything to avoid saying a single nice thing about men, or even acknowledge all the good men do, and the need to recognise and praise men. SO Men get ignored and insulted again. Meanwhile, These same people demand womens day be made a national holiday. Which represents just one of the many issues facing men, and the need for us to have our day. Generally speaking, Men are great! We are kind, caring, compasionate, funny, creative and thoughtful. We need to stop tearing men down, and treat us with better. | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ...
I just pointed out that it’s also world toilet day. No association
You felt it was a necessity to point out that international men's day is on the same day as world toilet day ... on a thread that was talking about international men's day...but you ment no association between the two 🤔... ok, cool that makes sense
Fret not. There’s no need to labour over what was a comment elsewhere.
If you wanna continue it, pop to that thread and discuss it.
...for some reason that thread mysteriously disappeared 👀"It’s also world entrepreneurs day and have a bad day day too…  | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ...
I just pointed out that it’s also world toilet day. No association
You felt it was a necessity to point out that international men's day is on the same day as world toilet day ... on a thread that was talking about international men's day...but you ment no association between the two 🤔... ok, cool that makes sense
Fret not. There’s no need to labour over what was a comment elsewhere.
If you wanna continue it, pop to that thread and discuss it. "Magic, you seem to be having a bad day. Genuinely hope it improves for you | |||
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"Ah well, before it spiral fully downwards. Folks. I tried. "Sorry John I’ll back out | |||
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"Ah well, before it spiral fully downwards. Folks. I tried.
Sorry John
I’ll back onto you"Ooft | |||
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"Can’t we have one day? Although I’m not blaming feminists for world toilet day " The IWD threads are way worse | |||
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"Can’t we have one day? Although I’m not blaming feminists for world toilet day The IWD threads are way worse "They’re allowed a day too and fair enough | |||
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"Can’t we have one day? Although I’m not blaming feminists for world toilet day The IWD threads are way worse
They’re allowed a day too and fair enough "Feminism bro. Feminism. | |||
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"Can’t we have one day? Although I’m not blaming feminists for world toilet day The IWD threads are way worse
They’re allowed a day too and fair enough
Feminism bro. Feminism. "I want to be with the sisters too. Always on my mind. | |||
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"Can’t we have one day? Although I’m not blaming feminists for world toilet day The IWD threads are way worse
They’re allowed a day too and fair enough
Feminism bro. Feminism.
I want to be with the sisters too. Always on my mind."You horny devil | |||
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"Can’t we have one day? Although I’m not blaming feminists for world toilet day The IWD threads are way worse
They’re allowed a day too and fair enough
Feminism bro. Feminism.
I want to be with the sisters too. Always on my mind.
You horny devil"Peace love and unity man. | |||
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In a purely wholesome way, of course.
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"I’m a fan of men.
In a purely wholesome way, of course.
Enjoy your day "🧢🧢 | |||
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"Ah well, before it spiral fully downwards. Folks. I tried. "I tried to get it back on track too  | |||
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"Love this Happy international men’s day to the many lovely men of fab xx Didn't you associate us with toilets on the other thread ...
I just pointed out that it’s also world toilet day. No association
You felt it was a necessity to point out that international men's day is on the same day as world toilet day ... on a thread that was talking about international men's day...but you ment no association between the two 🤔... ok, cool that makes sense
Fret not. There’s no need to labour over what was a comment elsewhere.
If you wanna continue it, pop to that thread and discuss it.
Magic, you seem to be having a bad day. Genuinely hope it improves for you "A person doesn't need to have a bad day to call someone out... you made a silly unnecessary comment on another thread (that has the same topic as this one), that seems to be a polar opposite to your comment on here...was just confusing. Thank you and I hope your day improves as well 🙏. | |||
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"It really shouldn't surprise me but I live with eternal hope that we could buck the trend just for once on a male positivity thread, instead of dragging it into the detritus...the effluent...the toilet references. Had this been a similar thread championing the wondrousness of women and a man had made a similar jokey remark, women and white-knights would be going thermonuclear, without compunction. So, thank you 'ladies'. 🫤" That's masculinity for you though unfortunately, (bringing the tone down I mean) in response no wonder we needed the devine femininity to bring it back on track. Partly the reason we need some real proper woman in places of power, mascline engery is war, feminine engery is love. | |||
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"Any chance that this can stay positive? Each one, teach one. One love to my brothers worldwide. 1/ To the mentors who guide with wisdom, showing others the path forward, your influence ripples through generations. 2/ To the protectors, standing tall for your families, friends, and communities, your strength inspires courage. 3/ To the nurturers, breaking stereotypes with compassion and care, proving that empathy is power. 4/ To the dreamers and doers, building bridges, chasing visions, and creating a better world—your drive is unmatched. 5/ Remember: your worth isn’t defined by titles or wealth, but by the love, light, and growth you bring to those around you. 6/ Today and every day, celebrate the men who uplift, inspire, and strive for better. Together, we rise. #InternationalMensDay
Here, here!
What a summary. What a hero!
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"To those who are a positive male role model to the young'ns in their lives (dads/grandads/uncles/brothers/coaches/teachers etc) I just want to give you a reet big smacker and say thank you for all that you're doing and continue to do. To those that are strugglimg in whichever way, for whatever reason, please accept a big cuddle from me. We love you all, and well we kind of need you to keep the human race going ❤️❤️ "Thank you 🥰 | |||
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"To those who are a positive male role model to the young'ns in their lives (dads/grandads/uncles/brothers/coaches/teachers etc) I just want to give you a reet big smacker and say thank you for all that you're doing and continue to do. To those that are strugglimg in whichever way, for whatever reason, please accept a big cuddle from me. We love you all, and well we kind of need you to keep the human race going ❤️❤️ "Amen sista | |||
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"Stay strong guys. We struggle onwards... and live isn't always easy. As long as you have your closest friends and family around you, you'll be OK" Unless of corse your family are raving lunatics, and your friends are all depressed  | |||
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"To those who are a positive male role model to the young'ns in their lives (dads/grandads/uncles/brothers/coaches/teachers etc) I just want to give you a reet big smacker and say thank you for all that you're doing and continue to do. To those that are strugglimg in whichever way, for whatever reason, please accept a big cuddle from me. We love you all, and well we kind of need you to keep the human race going ❤️❤️ "Well said xx | |||
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"I positive I'm a man! Well 99%" From what I can see I agree  | |||
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"It really shouldn't surprise me but I live with eternal hope that we could buck the trend just for once on a male positivity thread, instead of dragging it into the detritus...the effluent...the toilet references. Had this been a similar thread championing the wondrousness of women and a man had made a similar jokey remark, women and white-knights would be going thermonuclear, without compunction. So, thank you 'ladies'. 🫤" You don’t need to imagine. There’s been plenty of examples of men derailing threads about women. Anyway this thread has been positive. There’s nothing for us to be sad about. | |||
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"It really shouldn't surprise me but I live with eternal hope that we could buck the trend just for once on a male positivity thread, instead of dragging it into the detritus...the effluent...the toilet references. Had this been a similar thread championing the wondrousness of women and a man had made a similar jokey remark, women and white-knights would be going thermonuclear, without compunction. So, thank you 'ladies'. 🫤" On a thread championing women, it would be full of comments about boobs. Says it all really. | |||
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"Gods bless the good wangs and the penis people they're attached to 💜" Oh.. and this too | |||
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"Surely international men's day provides the perfect opportunity for men to have a dialogue about how damaging toxic masculinity is...damaging to men What could be more positive than aiming to eradicate or at least diminish that " Because it’s impossible for folk to have a rational discussion about it. The other men’s day thread tried, and it was promptly pulled by the Mods. So I’ll stick with the fluffy, you guys are quality geezers thread. | |||
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"Surely international men's day provides the perfect opportunity for men to have a dialogue about how damaging toxic masculinity is...damaging to men What could be more positive than aiming to eradicate or at least diminish that Because it’s impossible for folk to have a rational discussion about it. The other men’s day thread tried, and it was promptly pulled by the Mods. So I’ll stick with the fluffy, you guys are quality geezers thread. " It's back | |||
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"Surely international men's day provides the perfect opportunity for men to have a dialogue about how damaging toxic masculinity is...damaging to men What could be more positive than aiming to eradicate or at least diminish that " Dunno, we don’t exactly help ourselves, but the idiots like Tate, no matter how much they’re condemned still seem to have their platform to spew nonsense | |||
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"Surely international men's day provides the perfect opportunity for men to have a dialogue about how damaging toxic masculinity is...damaging to men What could be more positive than aiming to eradicate or at least diminish that Dunno, we don’t exactly help ourselves, but the idiots like Tate, no matter how much they’re condemned still seem to have their platform to spew nonsense " He’s not an idiot. That’s a lot of the problem. | |||
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"Surely international men's day provides the perfect opportunity for men to have a dialogue about how damaging toxic masculinity is...damaging to men What could be more positive than aiming to eradicate or at least diminish that Dunno, we don’t exactly help ourselves, but the idiots like Tate, no matter how much they’re condemned still seem to have their platform to spew nonsense He’s not an idiot. That’s a lot of the problem. " Agree but how he’s got that sort of audience in follower numbers and all that, I dunno. | |||
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"If you're struggling with mental health, I can highly recommend having a peek at Andy's Man Club. https://andysmanclub.co.uk/ It's a free men's mental health support group. They hold meetings every Monday at 7pm, across multiple towns and cities. It's not counselling or professional support, just fellow men listening and supporting each other. You're never pressured into talking and you can choose to share as little or as much as you're comfortable with. I used to attend regularly a few years ago, when I split from my girlfriend and they really helped me. I will say that some people who attend can be in a very bad way, absolutely devastated, which can also affect your own mental health. So be wary of that, because it caught me unawares one day and I came out feeling worse than when I went in. But they're always there for you, whenever you need them. Some members have set up their own group chats as well, which could give you an outlet on days outside of Mondays. All the best. 😊" I’m a yorkshire group member of AMC , its ok to talk 👌 | |||
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"Could we maybe try to keep that man's name out of the thread? It's supposed to be a positive thread "Apologies | |||
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"Could we maybe try to keep that man's name out of the thread? It's supposed to be a positive thread
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"Could we maybe try to keep that man's name out of the thread? It's supposed to be a positive thread
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