FabSwingers.com forum: No luck

By *uphoria_Hub OP Man
11 weeks ago

London

Hello,I am having no luck so far. My introductions aren't abrasive or harsh, I never seem to get any reply. Also, I get blocked often by black females whenever I send a message.

What am I doing wrong?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

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Charge. It. To. The. Game.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

You're shutting down everyone's fun, no one likes the police.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

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"You're shutting down everyone's fun, no one likes the police."
especially not -

Let me not even

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By *outhern77Man
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

You've only been here 5wks Chap, Some have been on here a lot longer and had nothing.. Just give it time and try not to let it get to you

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By *offiaCoolWoman
11 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

You have joined a site that is flooded with single men. You have only been here 5 weeks, which is not long.

Welcome to the forums, you will sometimes find connections on here through your posts 😊

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

🔌 for my picnic

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By *andPextraCouple
11 weeks ago

North West

There are THOUSANDS of threads like this.

Men vastly outnumber women or couples by a magnitude that is probably 100/1.

Hence as a single man I think you need to be realistic in that you'll need some luck, patience and resilience to be successful on here.

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By *cnugatugMan
11 weeks ago

Chatham

Your profile just doesn't have much to go on or get interested about I'm afraid try being ABIT more open in the bio maybe a joke or 2 also 1 pic of a hidden face isn't helping much

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

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"There are THOUSANDS of threads like this.

Men vastly outnumber women or couples by a magnitude that is probably 100/1.

Hence as a single man I think you need to be realistic in that you'll need some luck, patience and resilience to be successful on here. "
I’ve done one more

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By *andPextraCouple
11 weeks ago

North West

And I forgot to add men CAN (not all ) treat this place like dominos pizza

I'm hungry (I want sex) so I look at the menu (browse fab) pick what I want (that profile meets my needs, bugger all thought if I meet theirs ) and I'll "order " it (send cut and paste message)

Then wonder why they aren't tucking into a delicious hot and spicy

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Getting people to meet you on here is not down to luck. 🤷‍♂️

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By *endalshaggersCouple
11 weeks ago

Lake District

"And I forgot to add men CAN (not all ) treat this place like dominos pizza

I'm hungry (I want sex) so I look at the menu (browse fab) pick what I want (that profile meets my needs, bugger all thought if I meet theirs ) and I'll "order " it (send cut and paste message)

Then wonder why they aren't tucking into a delicious hot and spicy

That's a great way of looking at it!

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By *own4fun81Man
11 weeks ago

Bournemouth

To be fair I've been on and off for years with this site. People's taste and desires change over time you've just got to accept that sometimes you are not going to be lucky and meet every couple or woman. But when you do respect them and it will start to flow. Reputation also speaks louder so when you get a meet verify them. Do not expect a verification in return as sometime people don't. Just have to suck it up for the time being

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Also, I get blocked often by black females whenever I send a message.

What am I doing wrong?"

Stop messaging "black females". Those 'sistas' will go medieval on you and it's not worth the agro/afro. 😉🩶

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Don't get to involved, fab isn't what it use to be ,1000 guys to 1 girl , most girls don't bother replying ,even if they read your msg a little "no thankyou" seems beyond most ,

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

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"Also, I get blocked often by black females whenever I send a message.

What am I doing wrong?

Stop messaging "black females". Those 'sistas' will go medieval on you and it's not worth the agro/afro. 😉🩶"

VAR David Coote is checking this one

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By *oodmessMan
11 weeks ago

yumsville

"Also, I get blocked often by black females whenever I send a message.

What am I doing wrong?

Stop messaging "black females". Those 'sistas' will go medieval on you and it's not worth the agro/afro. 😉🩶"

One time I met a black woman who's pictures were so blown out I thought she was white. 'Wrong address' I said, 'no it's not'. Chatting away 'why did you say wrong address', 'you look white, look', 'I do a bit'

Old Chinese proverb say: mail white women as you might never know.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

Black women on here won't block for no reason, right?

Got to be more to it surely.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

What luck do you need? Unless there's some women that just do a lottery for who they're gonna fuck next.

We don't know what you're actually doing to tell you what you're doing right or wrong OP. But if your current approach isn't working maybe just have a think about what your other options are 💜

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

It's mostly not luck. But it helps to think mathematics and rationally. Who's here, the odds of all parties liking each other enough to get naked together etc

Nobody should expect a reply, unless in the ridiculously tiny percentage of people who know confidently that they could be matched.

Your task is to make it easier for the rare few who might match, to actually know that they do.

When the profile words could hardly have been written by anyone else And the photos presented would 100% allow someone to know they could find you attractive. Make it easy for people.

If in doubt, they move on to someone who does it, instead.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

She ^ gives a purple heart to those soldiers of fortune.

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By *onestphilMan
11 weeks ago

Preston

The world of fab is a woman world and therefore they decide weather to reply or not. Remember the lady will receive hundreds of messages per day from all kinds so will delete most of them without reading them.

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By *onestphilMan
11 weeks ago

Preston

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By *inger_SnapWoman
11 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"And I forgot to add men CAN (not all ) treat this place like dominos pizza

I'm hungry (I want sex) so I look at the menu (browse fab) pick what I want (that profile meets my needs, bugger all thought if I meet theirs ) and I'll "order " it (send cut and paste message)

Then wonder why they aren't tucking into a delicious hot and spicy

I love this analogy

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

What am I doing wrong?"

Expecting people to meet.

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By *ruceyyMan
11 weeks ago

London

"Hello,I am having no luck so far. My introductions aren't abrasive or harsh, I never seem to get any reply. Also, I get blocked often by black females whenever I send a message.

What am I doing wrong?"

Messaging them. Don't be so rude!

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By *ruceyyMan
11 weeks ago

London

"And I forgot to add men CAN (not all ) treat this place like dominos pizza

I'm hungry (I want sex) so I look at the menu (browse fab) pick what I want (that profile meets my needs, bugger all thought if I meet theirs ) and I'll "order " it (send cut and paste message)

Then wonder why they aren't tucking into a delicious hot and spicy

When I am on dominos, I pay quite easily for a delicious hot and spicy...are you saying we need to pay for it?! 😲

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By *he Silver FuxMan
11 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Woop-woop, that's the sound of da police

Woop-woop, that's the sound of da beast

Your profile isn’t exactly tantalising mate, you’ve got to try harder than that. Loads of competition out there

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By *hunky GentMan
11 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sorry to hear about your luck.

If it makes you feel any better, I'm having lots of luck - mostly bad. 😆 🤣 😂

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By *udamet666Woman
11 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

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By *udamet666Woman
11 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

Does not help you are excluding the largest group of women on here (mf couplez)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Central

Also, decide on some realistic expectations, so that you don't get unexpected outcomes. Only you can do that. Evaluate whether having above 1% of the population able to be mutually compatible is likely, etc. And how well they'd potentially know if you're in the 1% for them.

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By *mily36CWoman
11 weeks ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"And I forgot to add men CAN (not all ) treat this place like dominos pizza

I'm hungry (I want sex) so I look at the menu (browse fab) pick what I want (that profile meets my needs, bugger all thought if I meet theirs ) and I'll "order " it (send cut and paste message)

Then wonder why they aren't tucking into a delicious hot and spicy

What about a Papa John's?

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By *uliette500Woman
11 weeks ago

Hull

"Don't get to involved, fab isn't what it use to be ,1000 guys to 1 girl , most girls don't bother replying ,even if they read your msg a little "no thankyou" seems beyond most , "

That little "no thank you" stops future filters from working which is why most don't reply.

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

Not saying it's you OP but there is a recognisable pattern in bio's that have been written by ChatGPT.

They feel generic too.

Besides that most men don't get replies so maybe consider events as an alternative approach.

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By *ffervescentMan
11 weeks ago

winfrith

"Hello,I am having no luck so far. My introductions aren't abrasive or harsh, I never seem to get any reply. Also, I get blocked often by black females whenever I send a message.

What am I doing wrong?"
Its very difficult to give you advice because we don't know how you message but although your profile seems fine it could do with a few more public pics anyways good luck .

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By *harAndBryCouple
11 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"And I forgot to add men CAN (not all ) treat this place like dominos pizza

I'm hungry (I want sex) so I look at the menu (browse fab) pick what I want (that profile meets my needs, bugger all thought if I meet theirs ) and I'll "order " it (send cut and paste message)

Then wonder why they aren't tucking into a delicious hot and spicy

The other issue is that Dominos get fed up and disheartened when they spend an hour prepping a pizza, then closing the kitchen for the night, only for 75% if the orders to not be collected....

(Bry)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Maybe it’s because people don’t like to have their fun policed.

The mr

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By *teelballsMan
11 weeks ago

central london

"Hello,I am having no luck so far. My introductions aren't abrasive or harsh, I never seem to get any reply. Also, I get blocked often by black females whenever I send a message.

What am I doing wrong?"

You’re assuming that people on here actually want to meet.

Big mistake.

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By *harAndBryCouple
11 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"You’re assuming that people on here actually want to meet.

Big mistake. "

Wrong.

(Bry)

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

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"You’re assuming that people on here actually want to meet.

Big mistake.

Wrong.

(Bry)"

Nobody from the forums meets. It’s a well known fact

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By *harAndBryCouple
11 weeks ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Nobody from the forums meets. It’s a well known fact "

And yet here we are, in the forums.

(Bry)

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

"Nobody from the forums meets. It’s a well known fact

And yet here we are, in the forums.

(Bry)"

Are you suggesting that the people of the forums do in fact meet?

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By *he Silver FuxMan
11 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Nobody from the forums meets. It’s a well known fact

And yet here we are, in the forums.

(Bry)

Are you suggesting that the people of the forums do in fact meet?

Only for mutual masturbation

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
11 weeks ago

Ends

"Nobody from the forums meets. It’s a well known fact

And yet here we are, in the forums.

(Bry)

Are you suggesting that the people of the forums do in fact meet?

Only for mutual masturbation"

The men that wank together.

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By *teelballsMan
11 weeks ago

central london

"You’re assuming that people on here actually want to meet.

Big mistake.

Wrong.

(Bry)

Nobody from the forums meets. It’s a well known fact "

And totally different when seen from the view point of a single guy and not as a couple..

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