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"One thing I would be interested to know, is whether the way single guys behave on here is because if the site (ratios n all that) or it’s just how they actually are? " I think the men on fab are bad and still not the worst of us. So definitely just how they are. | |||
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"Fab is the kind of place where men go just before they start watching Andrew Tate videos. " It really fucking isn’t. | |||
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"Fab is the kind of place where men go just before they start watching Andrew Tate videos. It really fucking isn’t." I bet the fab to Tate pipeline is legit. | |||
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"Positive role models and mental health. Is fab a good place for men in this respect ?" Happy International Mens Day! Most men are good role models, though some are better than others. Although it is interesting we see so much talk of male role models and what makes a good one etc etc yet never see the same for women. We really need to stop putting men down, Insulting them and labelling them sexist or toxic. Most men are wonderful, kind, good, helpful and caring people. | |||
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"Positive role models and mental health. Is fab a good place for men in this respect ? Happy International Mens Day! Most men are good role models, though some are better than others. Although it is interesting we see so much talk of male role models and what makes a good one etc etc yet never see the same for women. We really need to stop putting men down, Insulting them and labelling them sexist or toxic. Most men are wonderful, kind, good, helpful and caring people. " Calling most wonderful etc is no more useful than calling most men toxic etc. | |||
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"Positive role models and mental health. Is fab a good place for men in this respect ? Happy International Mens Day! Most men are good role models, though some are better than others. Although it is interesting we see so much talk of male role models and what makes a good one etc etc yet never see the same for women. We really need to stop putting men down, Insulting them and labelling them sexist or toxic. Most men are wonderful, kind, good, helpful and caring people. Calling most wonderful etc is no more useful than calling most men toxic etc." Calling most men toxic, is entirely wrong though and has a dreadful negative effect on society. Calling most men good is positive and closer to the truth. Feminists need to stop claiming masculinity it toxic or wrong. We need to stop hating men, and instead offer kindness and respect for all the good we do. This is especially true for the one day a year that is meant to be about us. Yet the UN, and feminists refuse to acknowledge it. | |||
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"Positive role models and mental health. Is fab a good place for men in this respect ? Happy International Mens Day! Most men are good role models, though some are better than others. Although it is interesting we see so much talk of male role models and what makes a good one etc etc yet never see the same for women. We really need to stop putting men down, Insulting them and labelling them sexist or toxic. Most men are wonderful, kind, good, helpful and caring people. " I concur. 👍 | |||
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"Positive role models and mental health. Is fab a good place for men in this respect ? Happy International Mens Day! Most men are good role models, though some are better than others. Although it is interesting we see so much talk of male role models and what makes a good one etc etc yet never see the same for women. We really need to stop putting men down, Insulting them and labelling them sexist or toxic. Most men are wonderful, kind, good, helpful and caring people. I concur. 👍 " You’re hot | |||
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"Positive role models and mental health. Is fab a good place for men in this respect ? Happy International Mens Day! Most men are good role models, though some are better than others. Although it is interesting we see so much talk of male role models and what makes a good one etc etc yet never see the same for women. We really need to stop putting men down, Insulting them and labelling them sexist or toxic. Most men are wonderful, kind, good, helpful and caring people. I concur. 👍 You’re hot" I’m cold today, it’s bloody freezing. | |||
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"Positive role models and mental health. Is fab a good place for men in this respect ? Happy International Mens Day! Most men are good role models, though some are better than others. Although it is interesting we see so much talk of male role models and what makes a good one etc etc yet never see the same for women. We really need to stop putting men down, Insulting them and labelling them sexist or toxic. Most men are wonderful, kind, good, helpful and caring people. I concur. 👍 You’re hot I’m cold today, it’s bloody freezing." I thought you were an older woman. Aren’t you hot everyday | |||
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"At the moment I'm becoming disheartened where men are concerned. Probably time to pack it all in and start looking for a cat." i won’t let that become of you | |||
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"One thing I would be interested to know, is whether the way single guys behave on here is because if the site (ratios n all that) or it’s just how they actually are? " I think the internet just brings out the worst in some people and let's them behave badly by allowing them anonymity behind a screen. Having seens some of messages female friends receive, I do often wonder if it's some unspoken competition between certain idiots who can send the stupidest most annoying messages. Either that or too many blokes break the rule of never drinking and Fabbing | |||
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"At the moment I'm becoming disheartened where men are concerned. Probably time to pack it all in and start looking for a cat." Insert pussy comment here 😺 | |||
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"At the moment I'm becoming disheartened where men are concerned. Probably time to pack it all in and start looking for a cat.i won’t let that become of you" Ok, I'll look for another dog. Or crotchet. | |||
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"At the moment I'm becoming disheartened where men are concerned. Probably time to pack it all in and start looking for a cat. Insert pussy comment here 😺" Apparently my worth is my pussy and boobs  | |||
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"The one thing I’ve seen a lot of on here is blokes slagging other blokes off in the hope of getting into bed with a lady. That’s the sort of petty crap that belongs in the bin. " Suicide is the biggest killer for men under the age of 50 in this country. We shouldn't be dragging each other down, but uplifting one another. | |||
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"The one thing I’ve seen a lot of on here is blokes slagging other blokes off in the hope of getting into bed with a lady. That’s the sort of petty crap that belongs in the bin. Suicide is the biggest killer for men under the age of 50 in this country. We shouldn't be dragging each other down, but uplifting one another. " 100% but it’s far easier to drag others down and make them feel like crap. | |||
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"The one thing I’ve seen a lot of on here is blokes slagging other blokes off in the hope of getting into bed with a lady. That’s the sort of petty crap that belongs in the bin. Suicide is the biggest killer for men under the age of 50 in this country. We shouldn't be dragging each other down, but uplifting one another. 100% but it’s far easier to drag others down and make them feel like crap. " Sad to see. But I've seen it so often especially on this site. | |||
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"The one thing I’ve seen a lot of on here is blokes slagging other blokes off in the hope of getting into bed with a lady. That’s the sort of petty crap that belongs in the bin. Suicide is the biggest killer for men under the age of 50 in this country. We shouldn't be dragging each other down, but uplifting one another. 100% but it’s far easier to drag others down and make them feel like crap. " Nietzsche wrote to be careful when fighting monsters, because if you stare too long into the abyss, the abyss states back into you. He meant people become what they first fight against. I suspect many well intentioned, decent people joined here, tried to stand out from the toxicity, only to find themselves at some point relenting and adopting behaviours they intended not to. | |||
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"Fab is the kind of place where men go just before they start watching Andrew Tate videos. " I had never heard of Andrew Tate before this post. Having resorted to Google, I am now better informed. What a revolting, worthless creature. | |||
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"The one thing I’ve seen a lot of on here is blokes slagging other blokes off in the hope of getting into bed with a lady. That’s the sort of petty crap that belongs in the bin. " I've also seen a lot of men be supportive of other guys who are struggling with their mental health.... anyhoo happy mens day guys, xx | |||
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"Well I was going to start a thread on today but it seems that there might be men that can't actually celebrate it, or support one another which is what it's for "I know, seriously. I know some excellent men and hope to raise 2 more. There's a place for discussing the negative behaviours of some men, for sure, but it's sad that this thread hasn't been kept as a platform for celebrating the positives. | |||
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"Well I was going to start a thread on today but it seems that there might be men that can't actually celebrate it, or support one another which is what it's for "If you want to start a thread you should. There's a lot to celebrate about men, for all the bad that also exists. I've seen men support other men. Lift each other up. Offer help during times of low mental health, uncertainty etc. It's a bit sad that we can't recognise/appreciate the good without the bad becoming the main topic of conversation. | |||
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"Well I was going to start a thread on today but it seems that there might be men that can't actually celebrate it, or support one another which is what it's for
If you want to start a thread you should. There's a lot to celebrate about men, for all the bad that also exists.
I've seen men support other men. Lift each other up. Offer help during times of low mental health, uncertainty etc. It's a bit sad that we can't recognise/appreciate the good without the bad becoming the main topic of conversation. "That’s pretty typical of any thread that shines the positive on guys. There’s always one or two that are hell bent on highlighting the opposite. | |||
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"Well I was going to start a thread on today but it seems that there might be men that can't actually celebrate it, or support one another which is what it's for
If you want to start a thread you should. There's a lot to celebrate about men, for all the bad that also exists.
I've seen men support other men. Lift each other up. Offer help during times of low mental health, uncertainty etc. It's a bit sad that we can't recognise/appreciate the good without the bad becoming the main topic of conversation.
That’s pretty typical of any thread that shines the positive on guys. There’s always one or two that are hell bent on highlighting the opposite. "That’s true of any serious topic on here though. | |||
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"Bumping this for the gentle fellows and honourable men." Get up go to work, work hard come home cook dinner, provide for your family, support your wife and kid's be a positive role model ,be kind and loving. Repeat for 40 year's We don't want praise just don't knock us down at every opportunity some of us try very hard to do it right despite wanting to curl into a ball and cry some days. Nope Get up go to work, come home cook dinner wash up, keep house clean,do all the DIY provide a stable environment for the family........ | |||
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"It’s also world toilet day " This must be the "not to be" thread then. | |||
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"It’s also world toilet day " · Cheers. 🫤 | |||
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"One thing I would be interested to know, is whether the way single guys behave on here is because if the site (ratios n all that) or it’s just how they actually are? " That's interesting Miss Doll, My general thoughts indicate a strong 'no'. Do guys walk around the streets showing women their dyxx? Acting weird as fuck, getting abusive if a woman ignored them, etc. No. Absolutely not. That being said, I think guys are tortured sexually, and this site gives them a safe environment in which they can blow out. Lol. Although I highly recommend that they play the game if they want foo foo, because being a creepy guys gets you nowhere. | |||
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"One thing I would be interested to know, is whether the way single guys behave on here is because if the site (ratios n all that) or it’s just how they actually are? That's interesting Miss Doll, My general thoughts indicate a strong 'no'. Do guys walk around the streets showing women their dyxx? Acting weird as fuck, getting abusive if a woman ignored them, etc. No. Absolutely not. That being said, I think guys are tortured sexually, and this site gives them a safe environment in which they can blow out. Lol. Although I highly recommend that they play the game if they want foo foo, because being a creepy guys gets you nowhere." Given it’s often stated how this site (and perhaps others too) negatively impact the mental health of aforementioned sexually tortured guys, is it really a ‘safe’ place to blow out? | |||
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"One thing I would be interested to know, is whether the way single guys behave on here is because if the site (ratios n all that) or it’s just how they actually are? That's interesting Miss Doll, My general thoughts indicate a strong 'no'. Do guys walk around the streets showing women their dyxx? Acting weird as fuck, getting abusive if a woman ignored them, etc. No. Absolutely not. That being said, I think guys are tortured sexually, and this site gives them a safe environment in which they can blow out. Lol. Although I highly recommend that they play the game if they want foo foo, because being a creepy guys gets you nowhere. Given it’s often stated how this site (and perhaps others too) negatively impact the mental health of aforementioned sexually tortured guys, is it really a ‘safe’ place to blow out? " I don't think it is a safe place for them to blow out, no. This site can destroy men, or so it seems. I've seen some on here, and the mass rejection seems to send them into what appears to be a very dark place. I think they assume that a "sex" site must surely facilitate them getting their sexual needs met. When they see that it's not as amazing as they initially thought, it seems to fuck them up more. Then again, for others, I suppose it's not a big deal. I don't like rejection either, but it doesn't harm me. I'm aware of the numbers, I know it's nothing personal (as they say). That being said, I don't get rejected as much, and that's because I actually use my head when I deal with women rather than just blowing out with whatever frustrated sexual thoughts are in my head at the time. "Babe, I've got a massive dick, piss down throat babe"... Obviously, that's not going to facilitate anything.. | |||
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"Happy International Men’s day Gents " · 🍸❤️🍸 | |||
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