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"Whoa that's a lot of questions!" I’m intense | |||
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"Do you feed reassurance from your partner often? Do you need to feel loved from your partner? Do you need time? Do you miss them a lot? Do you need regular/ daily communication? Do you hate these things in a partner?" Reassuring - occasionally. Feel loved - definitely. Time - yes Miss them - not really we aren't apart long. Communication - we see each other daily so again it just happens. Mrs | |||
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"Do you feed reassurance from your partner often? Do you need to feel loved from your partner? Do you need time? Do you miss them a lot? Do you need regular/ daily communication? Do you hate these things in a partner?" Can you be needy and still want your own space? Because in a reltionship I like reassurance and feeling loved. But i also like my space. When we're together I want all those things. But I only want to spend half of the week with you | |||
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"She is I'm very low maintenance." Hmmmmmmmmm | |||
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"She is I'm very low maintenance. Hmmmmmmmmm " Shush you | |||
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"Dunno. I've had partners say I'm far too self-sufficient and others say I'm too needy 🤷♀️" Healthy balance then | |||
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"Dunno. I've had partners say I'm far too self-sufficient and others say I'm too needy 🤷♀️" I can relate to that. All dependent on compatibility I guess, willingness to compromise, consideration for partners feelings and so on. | |||
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"Dunno. I've had partners say I'm far too self-sufficient and others say I'm too needy 🤷♀️" Definitely feel that it may depend on the person. I’ve had partners where they’ve said they felt like the needy one and other relationships where I’m like- it’s me. | |||
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"Do you feed reassurance from your partner often? Do you need to feel loved from your partner? Do you need time? Do you miss them a lot? Do you need regular/ daily communication? Do you hate these things in a partner?" Reassurance - no, never. Feel loved - no, respected, yes. Time - erm, I'm going to say yes, because without time, you're not partners. Miss them - I don't miss people who I see regularly. I lost a fwb a while ago though, and yes, I miss her. Different people have different talents. Regular daily communication - not necessarily regular/daily no. I don't see it like that. I see it as "whenever one party wants to chat". That might be daily, hourly, bi-daily or whatever else. Do I hate these things in a partner - Hmmm... If a woman is constantly seeking reassurance, it's tiring. If a woman wants to feel loved, it's nice I suppose. If a woman constantly wants my time, it can be divisive - I don't like that. If a woman misses me, it's nice to feel wanted but it can make people feel guilty when it shouldn't. Regular daily communication, I'm happy with that. I like to listen to new ideas, new concepts and so on. Infact, that's an interesting point. I crave/I'm attracted to people who are able to augment my mental wellbeing - if that makes sense. I find women who watch love Ireland, who just want to watch films all day, and who don't think at all - to be utterly boring. I'd go as far as saying that if a really beautiful woman who was mentally dull was to come onto me, I wouldn't get hard. 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ | |||
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"Do you feed reassurance from your partner often? Do you need to feel loved from your partner? Do you need time? Do you miss them a lot? Do you need regular/ daily communication? Do you hate these things in a partner?" Definitely not | |||
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"Yes. I definitely need more reassurance than most. I don't think I'm needy though. Just that I need confirmation of things. " I like that. Nicely put. | |||
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"I would say overall that if I'm 'involved' with someone and emotions are present, then yes... I suppose I am. " My man | |||
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"Do you feed reassurance from your partner often? Do you need to feel loved from your partner? Do you need time? Do you miss them a lot? Do you need regular/ daily communication? Do you hate these things in a partner? Can you be needy and still want your own space? Because in a reltionship I like reassurance and feeling loved. But i also like my space. When we're together I want all those things. But I only want to spend half of the week with you " Do you start to feel trapped or restricted if someone starts getting too obsessive? Like as if they're trying to suppress you and lock you down? Almost like "Someone is trying to remove my claws"... Something like that? Something like someone is trying to succinctly move your fences back or forward while your sleeping. Something weird like that? Leave my fences alone!!! | |||
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"Dunno. I've had partners say I'm far too self-sufficient and others say I'm too needy 🤷♀️" How do you feel if someone tries to demand too much of your time or attention? | |||
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"Do you feed reassurance from your partner often?" No, I don't. Just consistent behaviour/communication. That doesn't mean frequent, it's more about the style. Otherwise it can be a bit of a headfuck and I ask questions to understand it/lose interest. "Do you need to feel loved from your partner? " If they love me, yes. If they don't no. If they say they love me, I like to feel they do. "Do you need time? " Yes, quality time. Again, it's not so much about the frequency of it as it is the quality. I make them my focus when I spend time with them. It's a basic level of respect in my mind. Even more important if it's a long distance partner. "Do you miss them a lot? " Sometimes yes. If things remind me of them, songs, films, certain literature. More so if I don't see them oft. It is what it is, just makes spending time with them even more enjoyable. "Do you need regular/ daily communication?" No I don't. I do need quality communication though. If every conversation is "Hey Meli, how's your day been?" etc my eyes quickly dry from utter boredom. One partner messages me every 2-3 business days. When he does it's mentally stimulating, engaging. I can't be doing with daily if it's mundane. As much as I wish I could mask it, I give zero fucks about what someone's eaten every day, how the weather is. That level of dull. I do like more messages in the run up to spending time with someone, to feel like they actively want to spend time with me. "Do you hate these things in a partner?" No. It depends on how it's handled. I know that one person's needy can be another's distance. I've been called needy for hoping for a message after a date with someone I've been dating for some time. Distant because one message sufficed. I'm very happily poly but if it feels like they're demanding things I can't offer, expect me to be their everything I shut down. | |||
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"I can't stand needy people." tell me how much so , please please I need to know how much you can't stand the neediness 🤣🤣( sorry had too 🤣) | |||
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"I can't stand needy people.tell me how much so , please please I need to know how much you can't stand the neediness 🤣🤣( sorry had too 🤣)" 🤣🤣 the ones that need constant attention..like 2 year old kids! 🤣🤣 | |||
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"I can't stand needy people.tell me how much so , please please I need to know how much you can't stand the neediness 🤣🤣( sorry had too 🤣) 🤣🤣 the ones that need constant attention..like 2 year old kids! 🤣🤣" I need more examples a 1000 times more and reassuring in my sleep as to why !! 😂😂(I'll stop now I promise 🤗) | |||
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"Can we just all agree that neediness is the anti lube here ? Pretty sure in the profiles I've seen it's not been listed as a turn on " And yet- I’m doing just fine on this website | |||
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"Can we just all agree that neediness is the anti lube here ? Pretty sure in the profiles I've seen it's not been listed as a turn on And yet- I’m doing just fine on this website " haha in that case I'm all ears Paduan , teach me the needy arts please 🙏😅 | |||
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"Can we just all agree that neediness is the anti lube here ? Pretty sure in the profiles I've seen it's not been listed as a turn on And yet- I’m doing just fine on this website haha in that case I'm all ears Paduan , teach me the needy arts please 🙏😅" I make all women feel like I NEED them. They love that shit. | |||
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"I want a man who will come in from work, walk up behind me while I'm at the sink, wrap his arms around me and nuzzle my neck while whispering how much he loves me. I'm that needy." That's just being a partner isn't it? Maybe I'm that needy too... PS, you can do that to me too. The sexiest thing a woman can do in my book is initiate affection without being prompted. | |||
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"Dunno. I've had partners say I'm far too self-sufficient and others say I'm too needy 🤷♀️ How do you feel if someone tries to demand too much of your time or attention?" I like giving attention when I have the time and energy to do so. I get depleted often so need solitude to recharge, and most people are understanding of that and it's not an issue. It's become an issue when my need for solitude has been met with sulkiness and passive aggressive comments, even when I've given them a heads up in advance. That makes me feel resentful and suffocated. | |||
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"I want a man who will come in from work, walk up behind me while I'm at the sink, wrap his arms around me and nuzzle my neck while whispering how much he loves me. I'm that needy. That's just being a partner isn't it? Maybe I'm that needy too... PS, you can do that to me too. The sexiest thing a woman can do in my book is initiate affection without being prompted." It's not something I've ever had the pleasure of, and I'm not sure it's something most people do. | |||
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"I want a man who will come in from work, walk up behind me while I'm at the sink, wrap his arms around me and nuzzle my neck while whispering how much he loves me. I'm that needy. That's just being a partner isn't it? Maybe I'm that needy too... PS, you can do that to me too. The sexiest thing a woman can do in my book is initiate affection without being prompted. It's not something I've ever had the pleasure of, and I'm not sure it's something most people do." I can't speak of others but it's a huge part of a relationship for me, much more important than sex. I think to have a partner look at me with eyes that say "you'd get it" as we leave for a night out is so undervalued. And the feeling of giving that to someone else is exciting. | |||
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