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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

It really puts me off when a guy makes no noise when he's banging away. Seems oddly constrained, given the circumstances. Anyone else find that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I like to hear some appreciative moans and groans and some dirty talk too. ..nothing more off putting than a guy who is silent x

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By *hybutsweetCouple
over a year ago

sweetness

i find it off putting as makes me feel theyre not enjoying it lol mutual noises not rip roaring screaming thou

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By *tillwaterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Being vocal is a big turn on esp if she talks dirty hahs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh heavens yes!

I was in a club once and lay down to play with my fb next to a couple having sex in total silence! It was one of the oddest things Ive ever seen

When we started to have some fun, every whimper out of my mouth and they would both turn and give me daggers. It was like shagging in a library

Needless to say we got up and left them to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you dont make s noise then u shouldnt be doing it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pretty vocal during sex, love to moan and can't help but tell the fb what i am enjoying and i do direct. One horny experience was not being allowed to moan or direct, but just suck on his fingers, if i moaned then his hand would go over my mouth and nose. Fuck hot on so many levels !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh heavens yes!

I was in a club once and lay down to play with my fb next to a couple having sex in total silence! It was one of the oddest things Ive ever seen

When we started to have some fun, every whimper out of my mouth and they would both turn and give me daggers. It was like shagging in a library

Needless to say we got up and left them to it! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may not be just the men that are not vocal but it can be said that there are few women who act in any other way than as a corpse, no sound, no movement, no imagination.

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By *hérieWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

Oh yes appreciative moans and groans work for me.

I don't get the silence, never experienced it personally.

I would think my partner was bored or asleep, so I would be dishin out a nudge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to have some ' Yeeee Haaa's' and ' Sweet baby Jesus' moans and yells

Silence would make me think he was just going through the motions ..

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We love making noise and when i come Leslie has to muffle my sounds its that bad. So the kids don't hear us .she said Im getting noisier as i get older lol

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Got to have some ' Yeeee Haaa's' and ' Sweet baby Jesus' moans and yells

Silence would make me think he was just going through the motions .."

, sounds very American!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got to have some ' Yeeee Haaa's' and ' Sweet baby Jesus' moans and yells

Silence would make me think he was just going through the motions ..

, sounds very American! "

Hahaha I guess it does ... but who does theatrics better Im half American you know ... you get some Yeee's from me

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By *oxerjoshleeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I like to read aloud various articles from the latest Top Gear magazine. I find it helps me from going off too early.

I'm a reet good catch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to read aloud various articles from the latest Top Gear magazine. I find it helps me from going off too early.

I'm a reet good catch. "

Hey some people may like that

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I would sooner someone shut the fuck up and just enjoy the moment, than divert their attention away from what was happening to work out what fake noise to make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is a very fine line between being vocal and BEING VOCAL tho

someone stepping over that line can take a great deal of enjoyment of the meet

one thing i don't like tho are guys (and sorry guys, it is mainly you) that try and talk you through sex

'right i'm gonna do this to you' etc

or guys who ask if you are enjoying it like 30 times in the same meet

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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"It may not be just the men that are not vocal but it can be said that there are few women who act in any other way than as a corpse, no sound, no movement, no imagination. "

That's my ex wife!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love making noise and when i come Leslie has to muffle my sounds its that bad. So the kids don't hear us .she said Im getting noisier as i get older lol "

snap but its ian that has to muffle me and we also live in a block of flats and the walls are thin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much rather silence than fake noises. Not everyone has to be loud to be enjoying sex.

If you measure your partners enjoyment by the decimal levels produced then maybe you're missing something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I start to make too much noise it usually means my rohypnol is wearing off.

Just spritz me with another hit of my special 'breath freshener' spray and all will be well in 20 to 30 seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh lord fake noises ....

Why fake noises ....

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Oh lord fake noises ....

Why fake noises .... "

Because the Bible of Porn tells us it shall be so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would sooner someone shut the fuck up and just enjoy the moment, than divert their attention away from what was happening to work out what fake noise to make."

Agree, although sometimes like to quote German porn during sex, swapping body fluids, not serious business.

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

Thank god for the last few posts, was starting to think I was really odd as I'm quite silent with only a few soft moans escaping. Have to say that I haven't really noticing it putting people off so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh lord fake noises ....

Why fake noises ....

Because the Bible of Porn tells us it shall be so."

I must buy this book and memorise the 14 commandments - I feel such an utter fool that I missed this book on my induction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt to be quiet(er) got 6 kids so its embarrassing if they hear then comment the next day doesn't mean I'm not loving it though might have to do some sound proofing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing how people take most things literally on here

I wonder if people will now see me and imagine me ' Yeee Haaaing' whilst waving a cowboy hat round my head riding a stallion of a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank god for the last few posts, was starting to think I was really odd as I'm quite silent with only a few soft moans escaping. Have to say that I haven't really noticing it putting people off so far "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I was married for thirty years.

I lived for one year at my in laws.

I had three children.

I KNOW how to fuck in silence.

( That included holding the head board at the in laws )

Life is a tad more relaxed these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy fall asleep on me during sex years ago 'pre-swinging'.

So I definitely don't like quiet men now.

And before you feckers think it.....No! of course I was fabulous.....he was very pissed and very tired!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate guys who r silent its a total turn off feels like a sympathy shag some how!!!

Having said that we were once playing with fbs and she was getting banged doggy and she started wailing like a banshee I was ontop of my hubby who had to put his hand over my mouth as we were both laughing sop much he was clearly faking it and watched too much porn lol gave us a giggle tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would sooner someone shut the fuck up and just enjoy the moment, than divert their attention away from what was happening to work out what fake noise to make."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...how about those who start singing 'Tristan und Isolde'? Or the 'Ring Cycle' during anal...?

Very off-putting!

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

I must be different from the norm...during sex I loose myself in the moment & concentrate on listening to the women's heartbeat her breath ....watching how her body reacts to my touch knowing how to change my actions to her responses but never found an urge to be vocal despite fully enjoying the experience......maybe I need to leave the armour on so that I can clink and clank to make a noise.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm relatively quiet - no banshee wailing from me, more soft moans and 'yessss' kind of thing. Doesn't mean that I'm not enjoying myself. I don't feel the need to make more noise and hate it when some women in clubs start doing an impression of Meg Ryan as soon as a hand or cock goes vaguely near them... I mean really...???? There's no need to sound like a bad porn film straight off. If it's in a group room I am likely to stop play and find another place as fake noises are just awful

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

What I also don't like, though, is the guys in the glory holes who just stand there with no thrusting at all or noise - how the feck can I tell if they're enjoying it if they're just silently stood unmoving - it's like sucking a statue. If I'm getting no feedback of any sort (noise, pelvic thrusting or hands coming through) then I stop - it's not enjoyable for me to suck an unresponsive person

(and whilst I don't make much noise myself during sex there are plenty of visual clues as to whether I'm having a good time - you lose that in a glory hole)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really off putting if someone is quiet!! They don't have to scream the place down, but some sort of grunt is better then quiet!!!

Give me dirty talk and groaning anyday!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knowing how people take most things literally on here

I wonder if people will now see me and imagine me ' Yeee Haaaing' whilst waving a cowboy hat round my head riding a stallion of a man "

I wasn't......but I am now!

I think it's just polite if you're enjoying something to let the person know with a few appreciative, oh yeahs or perhaps even a 'YEEE HAAA! Ride me cowgirl!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Oh yes appreciative moans and groans work for me.

I don't get the silence, never experienced it personally.

I would think my partner was bored or asleep, so I would be dishin out a nudge.

"

Some peeps I know actually moan in their sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silence would feel like i were being fucked by a corpse... vocal is good, but not too vocal that i would ear muffs!?!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

i like noise, moans, groans and instruction...!

Silence is weird for me x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Silence would feel like i were being fucked by a corpse... vocal is good, but not too vocal that i would ear muffs!?! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silence would feel like i were being fucked by a corpse... vocal is good, but not too vocal that i would ear muffs!?! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I know does lots of mmmmmmmmmmmm's. He is very vocal when we are chatting generally though. Im the silent type but doesnt mean im not enjoying it. I appreciate the mmmmmmm's

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I don't get silent sex lol I'm quite vocal and like appreciative moans and groans from my partner.

I did once meet a man who roared as he came lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knowing how people take most things literally on here

I wonder if people will now see me and imagine me ' Yeee Haaaing' whilst waving a cowboy hat round my head riding a stallion of a man

I wasn't......but I am now!

I think it's just polite if you're enjoying something to let the person know with a few appreciative, oh yeahs or perhaps even a 'YEEE HAAA! Ride me cowgirl!'"

Good vision is it ??? Its a pink hat by the way - you don't have artistic license with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong, I have no issue with someone being vocal, I just don't believe that it should be seen as the main 'barometer' to measure the level of someones enjoyment. Especially when one person may only be adding sound effects to help make the other feel good. There's a big difference between the natural sounds of lovemaking and acting.

Hearing is only one of the senses.

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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

It isn't essential to make lots of noise during sex; someone mentioned earlier that all they make is a few soft moans. Any noise should always be involuntary response to external stimuli rather than a parrotted repertoire of porn star expletives (try saying that with your mouth full!); TOTAL silence though? C'mon people! That's just weird!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was married for thirty years.

I lived for one year at my in laws.

I had three children.

I KNOW how to fuck in silence.

( That included holding the head board at the in laws )

Life is a tad more relaxed these days "

don't forget the old pillow behind the head beard trick also!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not very vocal during sex, the lady I'm having sex with typically makes enough noise for both of us, but I am known to breath heavily as I climax.

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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I'm not very vocal during sex, the lady I'm having sex with typically makes enough noise for both of us, but I am known to breath heavily as I climax."

Is that into the phone or into your woman's ear??

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I would sooner someone shut the fuck up and just enjoy the moment, than divert their attention away from what was happening to work out what fake noise to make."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not very vocal during sex, the lady I'm having sex with typically makes enough noise for both of us, but I am known to breath heavily as I climax.

Is that into the phone or into your woman's ear?? "

Don't be silly, of course not into the phone - I'd have that down my pants set to vibrate

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By *rtemisia OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I'm not very vocal during sex, the lady I'm having sex with typically makes enough noise for both of us, but I am known to breath heavily as I climax.

Is that into the phone or into your woman's ear??

Don't be silly, of course not into the phone - I'd have that down my pants set to vibrate "

Smart move!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not very vocal during sex, the lady I'm having sex with typically makes enough noise for both of us, but I am known to breath heavily as I climax.

Is that into the phone or into your woman's ear??

Don't be silly, of course not into the phone - I'd have that down my pants set to vibrate

Smart move!"

Well, a single male has to improvise sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would sooner someone shut the fuck up and just enjoy the moment, than divert their attention away from what was happening to work out what fake noise to make.

"

People who expect a lot of noise during sex have been watching too much porn!

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By *oublewodkaWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I am very vocal during sex if I enjoy it.

I can't help myself! My Hubby is also vocal so when I am on a meet and the guy doesn't make any noises I am a little put off because I like to know a guy is enjoying it... But hey...each to their own too... We all prefer different things as individuals

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Got to have some ' Yeeee Haaa's' and ' Sweet baby Jesus' moans and yells

Silence would make me think he was just going through the motions .."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knowing how people take most things literally on here

I wonder if people will now see me and imagine me ' Yeee Haaaing' whilst waving a cowboy hat round my head riding a stallion of a man

I wasn't......but I am now!

I think it's just polite if you're enjoying something to let the person know with a few appreciative, oh yeahs or perhaps even a 'YEEE HAAA! Ride me cowgirl!'

Good vision is it ??? Its a pink hat by the way - you don't have artistic license with this "

Pink hat, leather chaps and brown cowboy boots! YEEEE HAAAAA! Real proper 'ho down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh heavens yes!

I was in a club once and lay down to play with my fb next to a couple having sex in total silence! It was one of the oddest things Ive ever seen

When we started to have some fun, every whimper out of my mouth and they would both turn and give me daggers. It was like shagging in a library

Needless to say we got up and left them to it! "
Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Knowing how people take most things literally on here

I wonder if people will now see me and imagine me ' Yeee Haaaing' whilst waving a cowboy hat round my head riding a stallion of a man

I wasn't......but I am now!

I think it's just polite if you're enjoying something to let the person know with a few appreciative, oh yeahs or perhaps even a 'YEEE HAAA! Ride me cowgirl!'

Good vision is it ??? Its a pink hat by the way - you don't have artistic license with this

Pink hat, leather chaps and brown cowboy boots! YEEEE HAAAAA! Real proper 'ho down."

You know it Cowboy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you dont make s noise then u shouldnt be doing it lol "

don't know about that. Silent sex is something as a parent I have learnt lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Sex in silence can be even more intense than vocal sex, with the right person. As with all things, depends on the situation.

But you know, nothing like a sweeping generalisation on a sunday eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All we can say is good job we lucky enough to live in a detached house! lol one of us is a screamer apparently lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy fall asleep on me during sex years ago 'pre-swinging'.

So I definitely don't like quiet men now.

And before you feckers think it.....No! of course I was fabulous.....he was very pissed and very tired!! "

Sorry.... If you are who are who I think you are... I had just finished a 15 hour shift and you insisted on going out for a few drinks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other side, you can get some guys who never shut the fuck up......on and on and on and on...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man, it's important for me to hear the vocal receptive responses from my partner. It acts as a barometer that assures me that iam pleasing someone.

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