FabSwingers.com forum: Who do you talk to about non monogamy

By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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All the drama, all the excitement, all the good and all the bad. Who do YOU tell?

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
1 week ago

London (She/Her)

You

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By *he Silver FuxMan
1 week ago

Uttoxeter

…Other non-monogamists.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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"You"

❤️❤️❤️❤️

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
1 week ago

Southampton

No one....

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By *ohnjones3210Man
1 week ago

Chester

Male friends. My dad understands too.

Female friends never really understand it.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
1 week ago

North West

Good question. I do have lovely chats with a meta, not about our partner though. 😂

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
1 week ago

London (She/Her)

"All the drama, all the excitement, all the good and all the bad. Who do YOU tell? "

Who do you talk to

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By *ohnjones3210Man
1 week ago

Chester

Hang on a minute?!? The excitement and details?! In don't tell anyone the details.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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"All the drama, all the excitement, all the good and all the bad. Who do YOU tell?

Who do you talk to"

I won’t name anyone from this site other than you Trixie ❤️

Also my fiancé and my partner.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

Only other enm folks, and even then not all of those. Depends on what flavour of enm they do as to whether they get it as well. So many swingers (enm) are judgy at my relationship/s (also enm but not in the way they like it)

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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"Good question. I do have lovely chats with a meta, not about our partner though. 😂"

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By *ell GwynnWoman
1 week ago

North Yorkshire

"…Other non-monogamists.

Same.

Not the details, though

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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Did I write details?

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By *iker JackMan
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

I don’t. Especially here with a lot of people as they see it as you’re inviting them to join you

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By *aven.Woman
1 week ago

Not the North West...

"All the drama, all the excitement, all the good and all the bad. Who do YOU tell? "

Erm, I have none of this so no one.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
1 week ago

North Yorkshire

"Did I write details? "

No, but JohnJones did

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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"Did I write details?

No, but JohnJones did"

I don’t get why he did

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By *ohnjones3210Man
1 week ago

Chester

I hold my hands up. I made a mistake.

Nelly-knickers did nothing wrong. It was entirely my fault.

I misread it or something. I don't know.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
1 week ago

Newcastle

I have a lot of lifestyle friends who I can talk to. Some I get deeper into it than with others. It’s nice to have people who you can tell when I’ve had a great time but also people who you can really talk the big stuff through with.

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

No one all of it. I have some close friends I can talk to about certain things. When it comes to excitement? I don't know, I'm increasingly keeping my cards close to my chest after events over the past year or so. That's a me thing though, more than a reflection of them.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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"I hold my hands up. I made a mistake.

Nelly-knickers did nothing wrong. It was entirely my fault.

I misread it or something. I don't know."

I was so confused

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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"No one all of it. I have some close friends I can talk to about certain things. When it comes to excitement? I don't know, I'm increasingly keeping my cards close to my chest after events over the past year or so. That's a me thing though, more than a reflection of them."

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
1 week ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Other non-monogamous pals. It’s one of the things I love about fab, finding other folk who understand the joy to be found ❤️

Mrs TMN x

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
1 week ago

North West

"Good question. I do have lovely chats with a meta, not about our partner though. 😂

Why are you laughing at me Stephen? 😭

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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"Good question. I do have lovely chats with a meta, not about our partner though. 😂

Why are you laughing at me Stephen? 😭"

What? You laughed. I laughed too.

I’m sorry Julie- I’ll stick to just telling you I’d hang you in response to things

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By *ohnjones3210Man
1 week ago

Chester

"I hold my hands up. I made a mistake.

Nelly-knickers did nothing wrong. It was entirely my fault.

I misread it or something. I don't know.

I was so confused

So was I. I think I read two things at once or something and just made a mess of it.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
1 week ago

North West

"Good question. I do have lovely chats with a meta, not about our partner though. 😂

Why are you laughing at me Stephen? 😭

What? You laughed. I laughed too.

I’m sorry Julie- I’ll stick to just telling you I’d hang you in response to things

Good point. I think I was expecting a word reply and two laughing faces made me all defensive. 🤭😅

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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"Good question. I do have lovely chats with a meta, not about our partner though. 😂

Why are you laughing at me Stephen? 😭

What? You laughed. I laughed too.

I’m sorry Julie- I’ll stick to just telling you I’d hang you in response to things

Good point. I think I was expecting a word reply and two laughing faces made me all defensive. 🤭😅"

I make you defensive don’t I

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
1 week ago

your head

My friends, my partner, my mum, my brother. Whoever I need to depending on the situation.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Covent Garden

Only to those with whom I make love to.

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By *ortyairCouple
1 week ago

Wallasey

Don't feel the need to tell anyone, whatever anybody wants to do is up to them, likewise what we get up to is up to us,

Mrs x

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By *r John WickMan
1 week ago

The Continental

People of fab.

Nobody else.

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By *entleman JayMan
1 week ago

Wakefield

Fortunately I’ve a good number of Fab friends I can have a Fab natter with.

If I hadn’t, I wouldn’t enjoy it as much.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
1 week ago

kent

Nobody. There is no one out there in our lives who would understand.

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No one. that’s why there is no drama & it’s called a personal life

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By *agnar73Man
1 week ago

glasgow-ish

"All the drama, all the excitement, all the good and all the bad. Who do YOU tell? "

Your mum?

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By *EAT..85Woman
1 week ago

Nottingham

My ex poly not-girlfriend. She usually has more drama going on than me though

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

My therapist hears all of it.

I'll share the surface good with other partners if that's appropriate for our dynamic and I believe they'd like to hear about the things that have brought me joy, but never the bad. And not including intimate details unless both sides have clearly expressed to me that they are happy for that to be shared.

I'll share general good and bad with friends, intimate or extreme details only to my closest two 💜

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
1 week ago

chichester

"All the drama, all the excitement, all the good and all the bad. Who do YOU tell? "

My mum or dad

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By *tsJustKateWoman
1 week ago

London

My best friend. She has my back but doesn't get involved herself.

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By *agnar73Man
1 week ago

glasgow-ish

"My best friend. She has my back but doesn't get involved herself."

A good friend

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
1 week ago

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"All the drama, all the excitement, all the good and all the bad. Who do YOU tell?

Your mum?"
Good luck

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By *agnar73Man
1 week ago

glasgow-ish

"All the drama, all the excitement, all the good and all the bad. Who do YOU tell?

Your mum? Good luck"

Sorry

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