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What is love ?

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By *ohnnyo2024 OP   Man
6 days ago

Rugby

A feeling or a choice ?

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By *ansoffateMan
6 days ago

Sagittarius A

Both?

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
6 days ago

Brum

I will go with a feeling

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
6 days ago

Wales

A waste of time.

It's an idea we build up in our heads, then we rope another person in and wait for the onslaught.

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By *agnar73Man
6 days ago

glasgow-ish

Dunno.

It’s the most written about subject of songs I guess.

As an intangible thing it’s different for all of us too as it’s how we feel and how it makes us feel. I guess some things in common with the butterflies, those looks that you have with a person, the depth of feelings.

But you can never go out of your own body to see the effect or properly describe it once it hits

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By *hampagneblondeWoman
6 days ago

Bournemouth

Baby don't hurt me

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By *he ExcaliburMan
6 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Baby don't hurt me"

Don’t hurt me, no more

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By *oubleswing2019Man
6 days ago

Colchester

Brain and body chemicals, essentially. They trigger the initial process.

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That then gets finessed and directed according to the needs and desires of the individuals in a constant back and forth ebb-and-flow during the lifetime of their association. The latter is rarely "static" and always in a state of change.

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By *agnar73Man
6 days ago

glasgow-ish


"Baby don't hurt me

Don’t hurt me, no more"

First thought was typing haddaway

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
6 days ago

Brum

Certainly don't think it's a choice

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By *he ExcaliburMan
6 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"A feeling or a choice ?"

It’s neither a feeling nor a choice. It’s just there. Like a base instinct.

When you know, you know

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By *igWoodManMan
6 days ago

Chester

True love is happiness and happiness is true love ❤️ 😍

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
6 days ago

My Own Little World

True love is feeling

True love is forever

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By *aven.Woman
6 days ago

Not the North West...

A crock of shit

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By *ron300Man
6 days ago

north west

Now I can't get this song out my head 😑

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By *luebell888Woman
6 days ago

Glasgowish


"True love is happiness and happiness is true love ❤️ 😍 "

Maybe I should marry an apple pie.

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By *ackformore100Man
6 days ago

Tin town


"A feeling or a choice ?"

An emotion

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By *0Shades_of_PlayMan
6 days ago

Lichfield

My nephew once asked me whether he may be in love with a new girlfriend. I just asked him whether he would give her one of his kidneys, that day, without hesitation if she needed it to survive. He said he wouldn't. I just said that when he met someone for whom he would, then he'd truly love her.

"In a universe of ambiguity, this kind of certainty comes only once, and never again, no matter how many lifetimes you live". A quote from:

The Bridges of Madison County by Robert James Waller

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By *moothpussyMan
6 days ago

Glasgow

Hormones.

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By *sWyldWoman
6 days ago

Edinburgh

It's a feeling first but then it becomes a choice. It's an action. You choose to maintain.

The heart is a beautiful liability but love alone, that feeling isn't enough. You need to choose it and the person, every day to keep it going

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By *r John WickMan
6 days ago

The Continental

It’s a load of old pony

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By *sian FlowerWoman
6 days ago

Sin City X

A knife twisting in your heart.

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By *orksRockerMan
6 days ago

Bradford


"A knife twisting in your heart. "

Yesssssss this

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 days ago

Leeds

A second hand emotion.

Mrs

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By *ustintime69Man
6 days ago

Bristol

Something hard to find and devastating to lose

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By *ell GwynnWoman
6 days ago

North Yorkshire


"It's a feeling first but then it becomes a choice. It's an action. You choose to maintain.

The heart is a beautiful liability but love alone, that feeling isn't enough. You need to choose it and the person, every day to keep it going "

Perfectly put ❤️

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By *elloIntrigueMan
6 days ago

North West UK

Am I bad for thinking Haddaway?

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By *r John WickMan
6 days ago

The Continental


"Am I bad for thinking Haddaway?"

Nope.

That was my first thought too.

Banger!

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By *ookie46Woman
6 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Giving someone your heart and trusting them not to break it

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By *weetiepie99Woman
6 days ago

cardiff

Definitely not a choice. You can't help feeling it, so you don't choose it, it almost chooses you. It's more physiological, something you just can't help feeling.

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By *enfleetMaleMan
6 days ago

Hadleigh

A feeling. That's when the moment you say goodbye is the moment you want to see them again. The first person you think of when you wake up and the last person you think of when you go to bed. Where every image you have of yourself is with the other person.

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By *allGuy1000Man
6 days ago

Reading

It’s a secondhand emotion

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By *luebell888Woman
6 days ago

Glasgowish


"My nephew once asked me whether he may be in love with a new girlfriend. I just asked him whether he would give her one of his kidneys, that day, without hesitation if she needed it to survive. He said he wouldn't. I just said that when he met someone for whom he would, then he'd truly love her.

Actually, being a live kidney donor is something I have researched quite a bit and I would be quite happy to donate one of my kidneys to a stranger to help give them a better quality of life. The only thing stopping me at the moment is the amount of time I would require off work before and after the operation. Definitely something I hope to follow through in the future

"In a universe of ambiguity, this kind of certainty comes only once, and never again, no matter how many lifetimes you live". A quote from:

The Bridges of Madison County by Robert James Waller"

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By *oubleswing2019Man
6 days ago

Colchester


"It’s a secondhand emotion "

Excellent quote there

If you haven't heard, Il manque un mot (feat. David Sylvian) on You Tube is a hauntingly beautiful song by Isabelle Adjani.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

6 days ago

East Sussex

It's not a choice.

Nobody chooses to love their children...or not.

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By *wolf91Man
6 days ago

Rowley

What is love?

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me.. no more x

(Sorry, couldn't resist)

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By *ackformore100Man
6 days ago

Tin town


"What is love?

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me.. no more x

(Sorry, couldn't resist)"

Still... Comment 35...youre allowed.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
6 days ago

Brum


"Definitely not a choice. You can't help feeling it, so you don't choose it, it almost chooses you. It's more physiological, something you just can't help feeling."

^^^this

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By *aydar99Man
6 days ago

Rochester

Nothing like the feeling of being in love ❤️ ooo memories ✨️

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
6 days ago

Ends

What you know bout love?

I got what you need.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
6 days ago

Chester

It's a natural care that parents have for their children, or when people freely give care to ones that they feel need protection.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
6 days ago

Brum


"It's a natural care that parents have for their children, or when people freely give care to ones that they feel need protection.

"

I disagree, not all parents have loved for their children for whatever reason...and I do not love to give protection xx

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By *ohnjones3210Man
6 days ago

Chester


"It's a natural care that parents have for their children, or when people freely give care to ones that they feel need protection.

I disagree, not all parents have loved for their children for whatever reason...and I do not love to give protection xx"

I think you get the odd exception Mrs girl.

Interesting though. I mean, I'm not the dictionary. Well, I think I should be... But... You know...

Originally, I was going to say "love is the feeling all the forum ladies have for me".

Bahahahahaha! I'm not ready for arguments this morning though. I have a headache after a long night.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
6 days ago

Brum


"It's a natural care that parents have for their children, or when people freely give care to ones that they feel need protection.

I disagree, not all parents have loved for their children for whatever reason...and I do not love to give protection xx

I think you get the odd exception Mrs girl.

Interesting though. I mean, I'm not the dictionary. Well, I think I should be... But... You know...

Originally, I was going to say "love is the feeling all the forum ladies have for me".

Bahahahahaha! I'm not ready for arguments this morning though. I have a headache after a long night."

No arguments here, it's the day of rest after all 😘🤣

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By *riel13Woman
6 days ago

Northampton

Both

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By *ripfillMan
6 days ago

havant

The Eskaleut languages have 14 definitions of the word love

… never go out without your “dick shone airy” !

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By *ohnjones3210Man
6 days ago

Chester


"It's a natural care that parents have for their children, or when people freely give care to ones that they feel need protection.

I disagree, not all parents have loved for their children for whatever reason...and I do not love to give protection xx

I think you get the odd exception Mrs girl.

Interesting though. I mean, I'm not the dictionary. Well, I think I should be... But... You know...

Originally, I was going to say "love is the feeling all the forum ladies have for me".

Bahahahahaha! I'm not ready for arguments this morning though. I have a headache after a long night.

No arguments here, it's the day of rest after all 😘🤣"

What!!! You're not going to dispute it!!! No, that's too easy. I do need some sort of challenge.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
6 days ago

Brum


"It's a natural care that parents have for their children, or when people freely give care to ones that they feel need protection.

I disagree, not all parents have loved for their children for whatever reason...and I do not love to give protection xx

I think you get the odd exception Mrs girl.

Interesting though. I mean, I'm not the dictionary. Well, I think I should be... But... You know...

Originally, I was going to say "love is the feeling all the forum ladies have for me".

Bahahahahaha! I'm not ready for arguments this morning though. I have a headache after a long night.

No arguments here, it's the day of rest after all 😘🤣

What!!! You're not going to dispute it!!! No, that's too easy. I do need some sort of challenge."

Wrestle?

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
6 days ago

West Suffolk

Love is….. the hardest thing to put into words. Poets and songwriters have tried for centuries, we like the songs and poems that resonate with our own interpretation of the feeling. And those with a good tune of course.

You don’t get to choose who pops up on your radar, but you do choose what actions to take with the people who do.

Love is the ultimate in liking. We tend to like people who are like us. To say “I like you” very often means “I am like you”. In a relationship you need similarities to build a foundation but differences to keep it exciting. When you have what seems to be the perfect balance, you feel love.

The love for your child or parent is not the same as the love for a partner of course. The physical pleasure one person can bring out in another certainly heightens the feeling of love.

My very poor attempt at a description.

Love is…..

The desire to protect

The desire to nurture

The desire to make happy

The desire spend time and the willingness to make time.

The desire to put that person before all others

The person you love is the person you can’t live without

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By *ohnjones3210Man
6 days ago

Chester


"It's a natural care that parents have for their children, or when people freely give care to ones that they feel need protection.

I disagree, not all parents have loved for their children for whatever reason...and I do not love to give protection xx

I think you get the odd exception Mrs girl.

Interesting though. I mean, I'm not the dictionary. Well, I think I should be... But... You know...

Originally, I was going to say "love is the feeling all the forum ladies have for me".

Bahahahahaha! I'm not ready for arguments this morning though. I have a headache after a long night.

No arguments here, it's the day of rest after all 😘🤣

What!!! You're not going to dispute it!!! No, that's too easy. I do need some sort of challenge.

Wrestle?"

Hmmm, can't you just send me a load of abuse via PM or something? I'd accept that as an easy way out.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
6 days ago

Brum


"It's a natural care that parents have for their children, or when people freely give care to ones that they feel need protection.

I disagree, not all parents have loved for their children for whatever reason...and I do not love to give protection xx

I think you get the odd exception Mrs girl.

Interesting though. I mean, I'm not the dictionary. Well, I think I should be... But... You know...

Originally, I was going to say "love is the feeling all the forum ladies have for me".

Bahahahahaha! I'm not ready for arguments this morning though. I have a headache after a long night.

No arguments here, it's the day of rest after all 😘🤣

What!!! You're not going to dispute it!!! No, that's too easy. I do need some sort of challenge.

Wrestle?

Hmmm, can't you just send me a load of abuse via PM or something? I'd accept that as an easy way out."

🤣😘

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
6 days ago

Ends

It’s one thing to be loved. It is another thing to FEEL loved.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

6 days ago

East Sussex


"It’s one thing to be loved. It is another thing to FEEL loved. "

This is very true

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
6 days ago

Ends


"It’s one thing to be loved. It is another thing to FEEL loved.

This is very true"

I’m wise beyond my years. Trust me

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By *ittleLiasonsWoman
6 days ago

Birmingham

You love the way a person makes you feel, you choose to reciprocate that love.

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By *rHotNottsMan
6 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

A choice and a verb you love through the things you do for someone

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