FabSwingers.com forum: Sexual encounter you are most ashamed of!

By *randMrs2008 OP Couple
7 days ago

Dartford

Curious if anyone else has ever had a sexual encounter which they are seriously ashamed of, hoped that nobody else ever found out about and tried to erase every memory of it from their mind?

We obviously tell each other everything so have spoken about this before, here goes with ours.

Mr-

I was about to have my cock sucked for the first time by this woman ( had Bj’s before this one ) and I blew my load literally as soon as her lips touched my cock. It was so embarrassing and I felt so ashamed.

I’d sneaked downstairs to get this woman in the house and up to my room, we were laying on the bed and I was in just my boxers as it was early morning and I just woke up, I instantly got a massive hard on it was absolutely solid and there was no hiding it!

I pulled my cock out my boxers then she put her hand round it right at the base just as she moved her head towards it I felt my cock pulsating and so did she, she said no your not doing that yet but as soon as her lips went around the end just about touching it with it barely in her mouth I couldn’t control myself and it exploded, a little went in her mouth but the rest went all over her face!

Mrs-

The one and only time I had a one night stand still makes me cringe and die with shame, it was 18 years ago.

I was so pissed that I fell off of his cock and hit the floor landing awkwardly on my neck I must have fallen asleep after this as I have no more memory of anything until I woke up in the morning. I was alone when I woke up, I didn’t remember where I was either for a few minutes and then it started coming back to me!

He was a soldier and I’d gone back to the barracks.

I rushed to put my clothes on (they were really inappropriate for daytime wear) couldn’t find my knickers but I was so desperate to get out of there so I didn’t bother to keep looking for them I just wanted to look for my way out.

I left the room and walked down a long corridor for what seemed like ages and there was nobody else about, I came to a door which looked like it was a way out…….. I was so relieved!

As soon as I walked through the door I knew I was fucked……. I walked directly into some sort of morning turning out parade thing! Soldiers in full uniform.

Obviously they all knew I wasn’t supposed to be there and shouted comments and whistled while I was dying of shame.

I did the walk of shame past all of them and finally got to the security gates where I begged to be let out while still having the piss taken out of me. How I got in there the night before still baffles me.

Then I had to work out how to get home by bus with no knickers on wearing a short skirt, with a really sore neck that I could barely move and looking like I’d slept in a bush.

I’ve never had a one night stand again it put me off for life!

So what’s yours?

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By *ellinever70Woman
7 days ago

Ayrshire

That's a lot of detail for memories you're trying to erase

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By *rSircumsizedMan
7 days ago

Risca

I slept with a 68 year old lady when I was a rampant 19 year old. Seemed like a good idea at the time after a few Bacardi Breezers......I didn't have the same outlook on it the next day.

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By *andy-swTV/TS
7 days ago

wellingborough

As a horny but eager cock sucker, I once sucked off an elderly homeless man.

Nothing wrong with the man, but just shows what little self respect I have

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By *randMrs2008 OP Couple
7 days ago

Dartford

Yeah we know!

We only sat there remembering details to give people a laugh and to see if anyone would like share their moments and all laugh about them.

So have you got one you’d like to share?

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By *randMrs2008 OP Couple
7 days ago

Dartford

I’ve ( mr ) done something very similar mate and know just how you feel lol

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By *lofeldMan
7 days ago

Redhill

Dunno about ashamed, but there's plenty that could have gone better, it's just the law of averages.

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By *ashful_at_firstMan
7 days ago

Canterbury

As a teenager with my first GF, had just managed to fuck together for the first time in a bed, both still feeling horny and managed to stay hard after cumming, she decided I needed a BJ and went down on me, unfortunately I`d had a few drinks and you know what`s coming next, don`t you? She forgave me, let me head to the loo to finish that part off and resumed the BJ on my return...Maybe she should have been a keeper!!

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By *urry BlokeMan
7 days ago

Stalybridge

I don't really do shame

I'd sooner look back with a chuckle and a cringe

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By *randMrs2008 OP Couple
7 days ago

Dartford

"As a horny but eager cock sucker, I once sucked off an elderly homeless man.

Nothing wrong with the man, but just shows what little self respect I have"

I don’t think anyone will ever top this one!

You must have been absolutely traumatized for a very long time?

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By *randMrs2008 OP Couple
7 days ago

Dartford

"I slept with a 68 year old lady when I was a rampant 19 year old. Seemed like a good idea at the time after a few Bacardi Breezers......I didn't have the same outlook on it the next day. "

I’ve ( mr ) done something very similar mate and know just how you feel lol

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By *randMrs2008 OP Couple
7 days ago

Dartford

"That's a lot of detail for memories you're trying to erase

Yeah we know!

We only sat there remembering details to give people a laugh and to see if anyone would like share their moments and all laugh about them.

So have you got one you’d like to share?

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By *aven.Woman
7 days ago

Not the North West...

All of them 😭

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By *randMrs2008 OP Couple
7 days ago

Dartford

"Dunno about ashamed, but there's plenty that could have gone better, it's just the law of averages."

Very true but if they didn’t complain we must of been doing something right.

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By *randMrs2008 OP Couple
7 days ago

Dartford

"All of them 😭"

So come on you must have one you want to share with us lol

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
7 days ago

London (She/Her)

When I was a student my friend/housemate’s bf kissed me and I let him, then kissed back. I still have a huge amount of guilt. About 8 years later, after they had long broken up, we met up again and accidentally had incredibly hot sex.

We agreed not to to tell anyone, it was no one else’s business and we didn’t want to upset my friend (his ex and now friend too) but within an hour of him leaving my house she called and asked if I’d slept with him. She could tell because he was being weird to her, she was pretty upset

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By *ellinever70Woman
7 days ago

Ayrshire

"When I was a student my friend/housemate’s bf kissed me and I let him, then kissed back. I still have a huge amount of guilt. About 8 years later, after they had long broken up, we met up again and accidentally had incredibly hot sex.

How do you accidentally end up having sex?

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
7 days ago

Ends

How do you accidentally end up having sex?"

Don’t you remember the vine way back? About the girl that sucked dick on accident?

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
7 days ago

Ends

Was much younger. Went to have sex for the first time. Couldn’t figure out how to put it in.

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By *ilverjagMan
7 days ago

swansea

As one of the last of the dinosaurs from the era when hardware was something that you got at the iron mongers, and the only software around was located between old men's legs before viagara was invented, when you also didn't have the advantage of information technology to help you pull, but relied on your own natural charm and charisma, it tended to be case of, "Any port in a storm, and right now it's blowing a gale," and so there are too many adventures to list that I wouldn't repeat but I wouldn't go as far as to say ashamed of. In fact some are quite funny looking back on those days when, "A standing cock never had a conscience."

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
7 days ago

London (She/Her)

How do you accidentally end up having sex?"

We hadn’t met to have sex. We met up and we’re having out and it happened naturally. At least for me, maybe he had been waiting all that time for his opportunity to score lol

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By *ansoffateMan
7 days ago

Sagittarius A

That's an impressive walk of shame. I had to do one passed my classmates and three teachers, as we got sprung on a narrow boat, at Ellesmere port boat museum. I was more embarrassed than ashamed, it was my first time. And I had some hangups around sex, as I'd had a few fucked up things happen to me when I was younger. So this was kind of a liberating experience and she was wonderful with me, guided me through my apprehension and made it fun and exciting. So yeah, teachers furiously banging on the door, was a bit of a shock come-down.

They made us sit on opposite ends of the bus and they were so pissed off, the bus was silent all the way home. Apart from the occasional sniggering of a few of the girls. I just put my Walkman on and listened to Stone Roses, I think. I remember one of the female teachers, she was a bit younger and less stuffy. She looked at me, put her finger to her lips in that shush gesture, as if to say keep your head down, I got you covered. She was trying not to laugh herself. I remember Sally Cinnamon playing in my head and thinking, fuck it - what they gonna do.

I don't think I'd feel ashamed, unless I betrayed someone's trust.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
7 days ago

in Lancashire

"I don't really do shame

I'd sooner look back with a chuckle and a cringe"

Pretty much this, think it's pretty safe to assume that all when much younger had instances where things went a bit pear shaped but it's all part and parcel of life and learning..

And for the record it wasn't all my fault

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By *atandjayCouple
6 days ago

Brighton

Jay got delayed at work we were to meet at an unofficial nudist beach near Brighton

I found out it was a gay cruising spot so I stripped off hoping to pull a sexy guy to get him riled up but most the guys were paying attention to other guys

Unit an old man 70/80 ( uncle Albert lookalike)came and sat beside me and offered to rub lotion on my back

I thought why not and let him, I didn’t complain when I felt his fingers slipping in my crack I turned over to see his hard cock, I barely touched it and he exploded over my tummy

Just to turn him on I rubbed it over my breasts

A couple of guys were watching and I felt so embarrassed, he then apologised but asked for my number

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
6 days ago

Hell

Any sex I had with my ex husband 🤣

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By *8on33Man
6 days ago

winfrith

"Curious if anyone else has ever had a sexual encounter which they are seriously ashamed of, hoped that nobody else ever found out about and tried to erase every memory of it from their mind?

We obviously tell each other everything so have spoken about this before, here goes with ours.

Mr-

Mrs-

The one and only time I had a one night stand still makes me cringe and die with shame, it was 18 years ago.

He was a soldier and I’d gone back to the barracks.

I left the room and walked down a long corridor for what seemed like ages and there was nobody else about, I came to a door which looked like it was a way out…….. I was so relieved!

As soon as I walked through the door I knew I was fucked……. I walked directly into some sort of morning turning out parade thing! Soldiers in full uniform.

Obviously they all knew I wasn’t supposed to be there and shouted comments and whistled while I was dying of shame.

Then I had to work out how to get home by bus with no knickers on wearing a short skirt, with a really sore neck that I could barely move and looking like I’d slept in a bush.

I’ve never had a one night stand again it put me off for life!

So what’s yours?

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Being pissed while having sex isn't good surely you'd want to enjoy it ,remember it but I've had a couple I'd rather forget and have actually forgotten .

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By *ABflirtyWoman
6 days ago

Norwich

Never have as i think you live a learn .... and i am still learning. x

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By *8on33Man
6 days ago

winfrith

"Never have as i think you live a learn .... and i am still learning. x"
Can I learn with you ?

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
6 days ago

york

Don't know if it counts as aexual or not. But as an 18 year old virgin I hooked up with a girl in a club, whilst my mate got off with her friend. We all shared a taxi back to their dorms where she invited me in.

I proceeded to not have any clue what to do with myself, which culminated in her climbing into bed saying "you're welcome to join me" so I got in next to her, ontop of the covers and lay there straight as a board saying "night night" I basically stared at the ceiling till 6am before creeping out.

I look back now and still can't believe my own stupidity

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By *luebell888Woman
6 days ago

Glasgowish

Years ago I fucked a married man in his car which was parked in the church car park. His wife was at the 11 o clock Sunday service. Pretty awful really. Not many people know this.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
6 days ago

Somewhere

"Don't know if it counts as aexual or not. But as an 18 year old virgin I hooked up with a girl in a club, whilst my mate got off with her friend. We all shared a taxi back to their dorms where she invited me in.

I look back now and still can't believe my own stupidity "

Bless

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 days ago

East Sussex

"Years ago I fucked a married man in his car which was parked in the church car park. His wife was at the 11 o clock Sunday service. Pretty awful really. Not many people know this."

They do now 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
6 days ago

Got off with a woman on a night out. She was part of a hen party and my mate got with her mate. Had a few sex dates with her as my mate and her mate become close but eventually knew she was married and carried on when the chance presented itself.

Eventually they got serious and I was introduced to her mates husband and family as part of the new friendship group and he was one of the nicest blokes I've met. Became firm mates and realised fucking his wife was not one of my proudest moments. Vowed never to get with a cheating woman again.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 days ago

East Sussex

^^ she was bold!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
6 days ago

Southampton

I look back now and still can't believe my own stupidity "

Oh bless you lol

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By *imply DeeWoman
6 days ago

Wherever

Not really ashamed of but I do regret a few.

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By *oo..Woman
6 days ago

Boo's World

I'll own up the day I leave Fab 🤣🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
6 days ago

"^^ she was bold!"

She didn't expect I'd ever meet him. She was sitting it when it became obvious I'd meet him but I had no intention of saying anything and getting my head kicked in. Lesson learned.

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By *end1Man
6 days ago

southend on sea

Have no regrets or shame 😊

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 days ago

East Sussex

"^^ she was bold!

She didn't expect I'd ever meet him. She was sitting it when it became obvious I'd meet him but I had no intention of saying anything and getting my head kicked in. Lesson learned."

Experience is the best teacher

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By (user no longer on site)
6 days ago

"^^ she was bold!

She didn't expect I'd ever meet him. She was sitting it when it became obvious I'd meet him but I had no intention of saying anything and getting my head kicked in. Lesson learned.

Experience is the best teacher"

She sure is... I must take some more of her classes.

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By *abioMan
6 days ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Nothing I am ashamed of.. but one I bolted out during!!

When I was at university I went to a nightclub that was known for “grab a granny” (people in Leicester will know exactly the one I went to)

Anyway…I was 20, she was late 30’s

Went back to hers.. every going well, midway thru the deed being the kind and considerate person I asked if there was anything she particularly fancied… and then she uttered the words

“I love it when people pee on me… please pee on me… please “

I didn’t believe in hard offs until that point… I just couldn’t look her in the face again, I upped and left!

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By *ikoCouple
6 days ago

Bedford

Four times I (Mrs) can recall that I felt guilty about.

1: It was with a married man, apparently his wife had been chatting with me the whole time so when we (he and I) met at his work he had no idea what was going on ( I didn’t know this till later). I also didn’t know he was married till we met at his house that weekend.

2: Another married man, but I only let him 👈🏻 me then the guilt settled in and I sent him away blue.

3. The older brother of a friend. It was one time and that was enough.

4: loosing my V to someone I didn’t really love.

I don’t regret this one but I regret the place 😂 public unisex bathroom…. It was just nasty! The guy was a hot Australian ❤️

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By *WB85Man
6 days ago

Staffordshire

Probably my first ever experience as a swinger.

I'd been chatting to a lady for weeks and was very eager to meet. I made that silly error of bigging myself up.

We finally got a room and I couldn't get hard. I was so anxious.

Don't get me wrong, we both had an amazing time....but i felt like a real disappointment.

Mr.

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