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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie.

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By *armandwet50Couple
2 weeks ago

Far far away

Go for it

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By *eneralKenobiMan
2 weeks ago

North Angus

A lace bodysuit would be my favourite look 🤔

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By *he AmbassadorMan
2 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie."

not all Meli, go rock the shizdazzles out of those fishnets, but ya gotta send on the photo evidence

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie. not all Meli, go rock the shizdazzles out of those fishnets, but ya gotta send on the photo evidence "

You're shamelessly incorrigible Ambassador.

I'm musing out loud; well, on the forums at least. Sometimes perhaps body shapes/sizes look better/worse in particular items. I have quite big thighs and you know when thigh kind of spills over the top of a stocking? Yeah; I don't think that'll work on me.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I find most items of lingerie appealing as long as they are not garish or - dare I say it- slutty. I am a man of simplicity and much prefer understated and muted styles and colours, with a modernistic twist as opposed to vintage patterns.

A provocative set of Bra and Knickers will win me over more than than basque and suspenders.

Oh, and Hold Ups....these leave me weak at the knees. Bring a defibrillator, just in case!

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Covent Garden

P.S. I have a harpoon for every self-deprecating woman caught in a Whale's net!

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By *IXEN200Woman
2 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie."

Try getting mock stockings, they feel sexy to me and so much easier to put on as they have no suspenders to fasten onto stockings

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By *ltrMan
2 weeks ago

sheffield


"A lace bodysuit would be my favourite look 🤔"

Same here

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By *uriousscouserWoman
2 weeks ago

Wirral

I wear lingerie not because it makes me feel confident, but because I like the feel of the fabric on my skin.

For confidence I'd rather be naked - I always have a sneaking suspicion that in lingerie I must resemble the punchline of some ghastly joke. Hattie Jacques trying to appear alluring to Kenneth Williams in Carry On Doctor, where we all laugh at the absurdity of it.

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
2 weeks ago

Medway


"A lace bodysuit would be my favourite look 🤔"

I agree!! I love a fishnet one too!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
2 weeks ago

North Angus


"A lace bodysuit would be my favourite look 🤔

I agree!! I love a fishnet one too! "

IMO fishnets never look bad

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"A lace bodysuit would be my favourite look 🤔"

When you say bodysuit you mean the short things yes? Not a bodystocking.

Bodystockings tend to be raved about but for one, I don't have the patience to put one on/I'd get itchy and two... yeah. Don't think it'll work. Bodysuits might be a shout, will look in to them, thanks!

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
2 weeks ago

Ends

I don’t care in the heat of the moment or not in the heat of the moment. It all looks sexy to me. And I’m thinking of what’s underneath regardless

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
2 weeks ago

Ends

Bigger bodies are sexy to me and they don’t need to be pressed or shown off in a particular way. For me. And I realise that’s unhelpful. But I think I hope many others share this pov.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
2 weeks ago

North Angus


"A lace bodysuit would be my favourite look 🤔

When you say bodysuit you mean the short things yes? Not a bodystocking.

Bodystockings tend to be raved about but for one, I don't have the patience to put one on/I'd get itchy and two... yeah. Don't think it'll work. Bodysuits might be a shout, will look in to them, thanks!"

Yes sorry, the short ones almost like swimsuit shape 🤔

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By *emidemiWoman
2 weeks ago

basingstoke


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie.

Try getting mock stockings, they feel sexy to me and so much easier to put on as they have no suspenders to fasten onto stockings"

Second the mock stockings! Snag do some amazing ones, and they have fishnet ones too

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
2 weeks ago

Medway


"A lace bodysuit would be my favourite look 🤔

I agree!! I love a fishnet one too!

IMO fishnets never look bad "

I know! I wear them instead of normal tights! Not just for horny times!

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By *ularliWoman
2 weeks ago

Worcester

I love wearing stockings and hold ups but the tops of my legs look how you describe. It’s frustrating for sure.

Outfit wise I like alsorts but it definitely is hard finding what looks right.

I buy quite a lot from shein, Amazon, Ann summers and love honey.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
2 weeks ago

North Angus


"A lace bodysuit would be my favourite look 🤔

I agree!! I love a fishnet one too!

IMO fishnets never look bad I know! I wear them instead of normal tights! Not just for horny times! "

With most of my friends being rockers or goths fishnets seem to be the most popular among them

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By *amie HantsWoman
2 weeks ago

Atlantis

Oh OP! This was very nearly a voicenote to you later as I’ve been having a clear out.

I try to avoid anything with thin/spaghetti straps as I look and feel like a joint of pork wrapped in twine. It’s not sexy, I don’t feel sexy, if I don’t feel sexy we’re not having sex. There’s nothing wrong with my body or the style, the issue for me is the style on my body.

I am confident enough to not settle for feeling insecure so rather than wearing something and feeling self conscious, I’d rather wear something that works for me.

I tend to stick to full, well fitting cup designs (bodysuits, bras, baby dolls) as I have large boobs and don’t like the look of them spilling out. I feel better wearing something that fits well.

I also prefer something to be tighter on my waist to cinch me in. I don’t have the most hourly hourglass in the world so I’ll take the help where I can

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Ryde

Posted a pic of the wife in 50s lingerie on here only last night.

She's got the whole white ensemble, including pantie-girdle, etc. I really like her in it (the guy in the picture thought so, too...) and is great for old-fashioned domestic roleplay.

There are few things better than a big ol' girl in her "delicates".

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By *enk15Man
2 weeks ago

Evesham


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

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I've yet to find lingerie I don't like, on any size woman.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
2 weeks ago

Southampton


"P.S. I have a harpoon for every self-deprecating woman caught in a Whale's net!"

I'll bet you do 😈😈😉🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I think a lady looks well wearing anytning especially pvc 🥵🥵

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By *hristopherd999Man
2 weeks ago

Brentwood


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie."

I think you'd look so sexy, shame I'm out of your age range

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"I find most items of lingerie appealing as long as they are not garish or - dare I say it- slutty. I am a man of simplicity and much prefer understated and muted styles and colours, with a modernistic twist as opposed to vintage patterns.

A provocative set of Bra and Knickers will win me over more than than basque and suspenders.

Oh, and Hold Ups....these leave me weak at the knees. Bring a defibrillator, just in case!"

You can say slutty. I get that. We all have different tastes and some lingerie is deliberately slutty. That's not insulting or anything.

I have quite muted colours, well dark tones, simple sets but lingerie that makes me feel... 🔥 (hot in a sexy way, in case your Boomer mind doesn't translate it) would be good. You know, upgraded sets from the day to day stuff.

You have quite a classic taste, I like that.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie.

Try getting mock stockings, they feel sexy to me and so much easier to put on as they have no suspenders to fasten onto stockings"

I've got a couple of pairs of those but the denier is too high. Great for wearing under a skirt/dress, bit too thick otherwise. Might see if they've updated their range!

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By *ewgirl42Woman
2 weeks ago

london

I’m a big body stocking fan, all kinds of fishnet and patterns. They are ok to get on once but pretty impossible after that

I have all sorts of thing from love honey; prefer stretchy things with easy access I expect I have a selection on my profile

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By *ffy.Woman
2 weeks ago

Fife

There’s nothing that would make me think “oh no” when it comes to lingerie just based off someone’s size.

I think if it fits well and you can see how confident the person wearing it looks and feels, it makes them sexy as hell!

Go for it. Buy the fishnets!

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By *ffy.Woman
2 weeks ago

Fife

Oh, and if you don’t want to go all in with the regular fishnets, you could try some with a double fishnet pattern first.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"I find most items of lingerie appealing as long as they are not garish or - dare I say it- slutty. I am a man of simplicity and much prefer understated and muted styles and colours, with a modernistic twist as opposed to vintage patterns.

A provocative set of Bra and Knickers will win me over more than than basque and suspenders.

Oh, and Hold Ups....these leave me weak at the knees. Bring a defibrillator, just in case!

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You can say slutty. I get that. We all have different tastes and some lingerie is deliberately slutty. That's not insulting or anything.

I have quite muted colours, well dark tones, simple sets but lingerie that makes me feel... 🔥 (hot in a sexy way, in case your Boomer mind doesn't translate it) would be good. You know, upgraded sets from the day to day stuff.

You have quite a classic taste, I like that. "

I'm a post-Boomer, Miss Eliza DoVeryLittle!

But I hear you. xx²

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
2 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

The vic secret monogrammed lipstick red smooth Brazilian is very nice.

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales

Anything that hoiks up my saggy boobs.

I wish there was sexy lingerie solutions for bingo wings 😩

I like bodysuits but that’s about it really. I get too hot and uncomfortable if I wear too many items of clothing, plus I like the feeling of a naked man atop my naked body.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

I've just moved most of my lingerie pics into my friends gallery but my approach so far has been pretty much buy whatever (and I've usually gone fairly cheap in this first stage) try them all on and take pictures, see how I feel in them. I've tried body suits, bodystockings, fish nets, mock garters, floaty things, string pieces, different colours, different fabrics. and once I've spotted trends that I think make me look sexy, I've ordered similar sets in something a little nicer/pricier.

I have found I quite like dark colours - dark blue, forest green, purple. I like halter necks designs on top, florals, cut out spaces around my hips and stomach that show off skin but cover too. Hate (loathe really) the high cut design of the knicker part. Spaghetti straps seem to accentuate my winder shoulders and makes me feel self conscious of my arms but I also can't wear sleeves because I feel suffocated. Love a good design or pattern.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"I wear lingerie not because it makes me feel confident, but because I like the feel of the fabric on my skin.

For confidence I'd rather be naked - I always have a sneaking suspicion that in lingerie I must resemble the punchline of some ghastly joke. Hattie Jacques trying to appear alluring to Kenneth Williams in Carry On Doctor, where we all laugh at the absurdity of it."

Ah so it's more of a sensory thing? That's why I can't get along with some lingerie... it's a bit itchy and bleurgh and just. Not pleasant.

Nooo. Don't say that. You're gloriously zaftig.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"I love wearing stockings and hold ups but the tops of my legs look how you describe. It’s frustrating for sure.

Outfit wise I like alsorts but it definitely is hard finding what looks right.

I buy quite a lot from shein, Amazon, Ann summers and love honey.

"

Yes, I love that look on other women but on me I just think bleurgh, no Meli.

I did look at your profile and recognise a couple of LH items. The longer mini dress style one (think it's called parisienne?) looks fantastic on you.

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By *ularliWoman
2 weeks ago

Worcester


"I love wearing stockings and hold ups but the tops of my legs look how you describe. It’s frustrating for sure.

Outfit wise I like alsorts but it definitely is hard finding what looks right.

I buy quite a lot from shein, Amazon, Ann summers and love honey.

Yes, I love that look on other women but on me I just think bleurgh, no Meli.

I did look at your profile and recognise a couple of LH items. The longer mini dress style one (think it's called parisienne?) looks fantastic on you."

Thank you. I can’t remember the names of the styles. I just buy what I think looks nice and hope it looks ok on. I do have plenty of bras etc here that just look terrible so don’t wear them.

My favourite dress at the moment is a black body con one with lace up the sides and chest area. If I was slimmer I’d wear it into town on a night out but I’m sure I’d get classed as mutton dressed as lamb 🤣🤣

So I keep that for the bedroom paired with stockings.

If you can recommend somewhere good for fishnets stockings/hold ups etc that would be good.

I struggle with sizes.

I’m short legged with chunky thighs so find medium is often to tight but large to small.

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By *ave2289Man
2 weeks ago

N.Ireland

There is nothing sexier than a big woman in lingerie, any style.

Big thighs and stockings are so hot, fishnets covering big bums

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I go for the super stretchy body stocking. My curves are 360 degrees so the stocking fits seamlessly over my Humpty Dumpty tum without digging in.

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By *IXEN200Woman
2 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie.

Try getting mock stockings, they feel sexy to me and so much easier to put on as they have no suspenders to fasten onto stockings

I've got a couple of pairs of those but the denier is too high. Great for wearing under a skirt/dress, bit too thick otherwise. Might see if they've updated their range!"

Snag have some great ones, I've got fishnet and big sharkeys from snag

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By *ularliWoman
2 weeks ago

Worcester


"I love wearing stockings and hold ups but the tops of my legs look how you describe. It’s frustrating for sure.

Outfit wise I like alsorts but it definitely is hard finding what looks right.

I buy quite a lot from shein, Amazon, Ann summers and love honey.

Yes, I love that look on other women but on me I just think bleurgh, no Meli.

I did look at your profile and recognise a couple of LH items. The longer mini dress style one (think it's called parisienne?) looks fantastic on you.

Thank you. I can’t remember the names of the styles. I just buy what I think looks nice and hope it looks ok on. I do have plenty of bras etc here that just look terrible so don’t wear them.

My favourite dress at the moment is a black body con one with lace up the sides and chest area. If I was slimmer I’d wear it into town on a night out but I’m sure I’d get classed as mutton dressed as lamb 🤣🤣

So I keep that for the bedroom paired with stockings.

If you can recommend somewhere good for fishnets stockings/hold ups etc that would be good.

I struggle with sizes.

I’m short legged with chunky thighs so find medium is often to tight but large to small.

"

Meant to say large to big 🤦‍♀️

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By *ove2LurveCouple
2 weeks ago

Dartford


"Anything that hoiks up my saggy boobs.

I wish there was sexy lingerie solutions for bingo wings 😩

"

I've not peeked, but I'm sure any man who loves to see plus size woman would admire your figure. 'More is more'-we're happy to leave the walking talking Barbie dolls to the lads.

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By *ira2024Woman
2 weeks ago

SW

Girl, confidence looks sexy in any lingerie.

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By *hunky GentMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Fuck yeah, especially if it's blue.

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By *EAT..85Woman
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

I swear by body stockings. Naked but not naked. Instant confidence boost. Reasonably cheap. Partners think I've gone to an effort

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By *he AmbassadorMan
2 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Fuck yeah, especially if it's blue. "
what,, no...

White,,

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"Oh OP! This was very nearly a voicenote to you later as I’ve been having a clear out.

I try to avoid anything with thin/spaghetti straps as I look and feel like a joint of pork wrapped in twine. It’s not sexy, I don’t feel sexy, if I don’t feel sexy we’re not having sex. There’s nothing wrong with my body or the style, the issue for me is the style on my body.

I am confident enough to not settle for feeling insecure so rather than wearing something and feeling self conscious, I’d rather wear something that works for me.

I tend to stick to full, well fitting cup designs (bodysuits, bras, baby dolls) as I have large boobs and don’t like the look of them spilling out. I feel better wearing something that fits well.

I also prefer something to be tighter on my waist to cinch me in. I don’t have the most hourly hourglass in the world so I’ll take the help where I can "

You've been having a clear out?! Wait does this mean you're *******? I'm impressed.

This can and still should be a voicenote please and thank you.

"There’s nothing wrong with my body or the style, the issue for me is the style on my body." Well, that's exactly it isn't it? It's good to read what other women like, get ideas etc. I know me, my body. It's not overthinking to think that a style won't look good on me, that I won't feel confident in it. And I want to.

Baby dolls! I'd not considered them before, I am now. Thanks 🐿 ❤️

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By *agneto.Man
2 weeks ago

Bham

Plus size women suit any sexy lingerie in my opinion. You hear some saying I wouldn't wear that, I'd look like a ham or whatever, not at all.

The lingerie just accentuates their sexiness. Love a fishnet body stocking.

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By *ust another WonkoMan
2 weeks ago

here and there

Yes yes yes!

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Fife

I wear it for me.. if he likes it good if not good..

I prefer crotchless.. obvious reasons

I like halter styles..again DDs like their support.

I prefer a baby doll cut something flowy.

Start by putting on what makes you comfortable, sexiness is a state of mind.

Those that Mind DON'T MATTER those that MATTER don't mind.

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Cannock

Love to see Mrs in basques and stockings or tights, luckily enough she enjoys wearing them aswell

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Absolutely curvy/ large women look beautiful in lingerie.

I love to wear body stockings I generally dislike my body but when I wear them I feel comfortable and dare I say it sexy

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By *ickawitchCouple
2 weeks ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

It’s very difficult to find stuff that fits correctly, especially when your boobies are as big as my wife’s. But when you do find stuff that flatters the gorgeous curves all ladies have it looks amazing.

Of course on a personal level I always prefer my ladies naked , unfortunately some have confidence issues so don’t like to strip off completely.

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By *8warrenMan
2 weeks ago

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All day long, love this , please feel free to inbox me ladies

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By *lirtyfun123Woman
2 weeks ago

essex

I like lace bodies easy to put on and comfy. Sometimes body stockings are good too I’m all for anything easy to get on and off

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By *hunky GentMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I like lace bodies easy to put on and comfy. Sometimes body stockings are good too I’m all for anything easy to get on and off "

I'd happily help taking it off.

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By *amie HantsWoman
2 weeks ago

Atlantis


"Oh OP! This was very nearly a voicenote to you later as I’ve been having a clear out.

I try to avoid anything with thin/spaghetti straps as I look and feel like a joint of pork wrapped in twine. It’s not sexy, I don’t feel sexy, if I don’t feel sexy we’re not having sex. There’s nothing wrong with my body or the style, the issue for me is the style on my body.

I am confident enough to not settle for feeling insecure so rather than wearing something and feeling self conscious, I’d rather wear something that works for me.

I tend to stick to full, well fitting cup designs (bodysuits, bras, baby dolls) as I have large boobs and don’t like the look of them spilling out. I feel better wearing something that fits well.

I also prefer something to be tighter on my waist to cinch me in. I don’t have the most hourly hourglass in the world so I’ll take the help where I can

You've been having a clear out?! Wait does this mean you're *******? I'm impressed.

This can and still should be a voicenote please and thank you.

"There’s nothing wrong with my body or the style, the issue for me is the style on my body." Well, that's exactly it isn't it? It's good to read what other women like, get ideas etc. I know me, my body. It's not overthinking to think that a style won't look good on me, that I won't feel confident in it. And I want to.

Baby dolls! I'd not considered them before, I am now. Thanks 🐿 ❤️

"

Try ASOS for baby dolls. They don’t always have them but I’ve got a couple off there that have lasted me years!

I love that people speak so much about body confidence but it’s starting to feel a bit forced.

I think understanding our bodies and what we like to show off/the bits we’d rather not show off does more for our confidence. We can’t always choose to love our bodies but we can choose what to wear that makes us feel good about ourselves

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By *iz78Woman
2 weeks ago

wirral

Honestly have a look on shein I have just received some lovely stuff from there. So many different styles on there so you can be as covered up or as risqué as you desire and it's dirt cheap too.

I also thought I would look like a whale trapped in a net but I threw caution to the wind and bought some body stockings from Ebay off a seller called princess lace boutique. Excellent quality lovely material and washes well.

I think wearing lingerie is 50% quality of the product and 50% bravery in carrying it off!

Be brave you will look sexy as hell ❤️

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West

Give me a silky sheer baby doll or cami set any day of the week.

I like things I can slide my hands over and under and fall silently and effortlessly to the ground.

Draped curves just beg to be caressed.

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By *emorefridaCouple
2 weeks ago

La la land

I own fishnet stockings and as my picture I have a body stocking. I don't think I look like I'm a ham. What I've found it's the difficulty on getting ones that actually flipping fit. Cause I'm fat and short and stocking nearly come up to my crotch most of the time.

I think I'm most comfortable when I wear things that fit. Which isn't always easy when your plus size.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
2 weeks ago

Wirral


"I wear lingerie not because it makes me feel confident, but because I like the feel of the fabric on my skin.

For confidence I'd rather be naked - I always have a sneaking suspicion that in lingerie I must resemble the punchline of some ghastly joke. Hattie Jacques trying to appear alluring to Kenneth Williams in Carry On Doctor, where we all laugh at the absurdity of it.

Ah so it's more of a sensory thing? That's why I can't get along with some lingerie... it's a bit itchy and bleurgh and just. Not pleasant.

Nooo. Don't say that. You're gloriously zaftig. "

Yes, if it feels nice that's why I'm wearing it.

Someone mentioned Princess Lace Boutique - they're the only bodystockings I will wear because they are beautifully soft and just feel lovely.

Snag are lovely once washed a couple of times but I can't wear them straight out of the pack. They do some great fishnet stockings - quite small fishnet rather than great big ones where I feel trussed like a joint of pork. Bonus that they work for my long fat legs rather than ending up as knee-highs like most plus size stockings do.

Otherwise I wander round shops fondling underwear until I find something that feels nice. I have some nice silk bits from Ann Summers and velvet devore from M&S.

My underwear is touching my most sensitive skin, so should be nicer fabric than my clothes!

In terms of style I like fussiness - ribbons and ruffles and bows and lace. Stuff that makes it's presence felt while I'm wearing it. Stockings and suspenders rather than hold-ups. Tie-side knickers with long ribbon ties rather than thongs. It suits my purpose.

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By * and R cple4Couple
2 weeks ago

swansea

I'm a fan of bodystockings and their crotchless so saves on all the faffing about .. I'm a fan of basques they hold you in in all the right places and I think are perfect for bigger busts like myself.

Love honey is great for basques and teddy's and they have some great sales on constantly.

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By *loriouscurvesWoman
2 weeks ago

wild west lothian

As you can tell I looooove lingerie and I’m not skinny by any stretch of the imagination.

I used to wear body stockings but post nipple piercings I can’t as they get caught in them.

Baby dolls, chemises, basques (though trying to put a basque on alone is an art!), matching sets, bodies, boobless, crotchless etc

I like it all but OP you try some things on and see what you like. Sometimes I like to cover my belly other times it’s on show all depends on how I’m feeling.

As I’m rather short I do find suspenders seem to be made for 6 foot amazonians so I like the mock garters from snag and hold ups otherwise my stockings end up around my knees !

Hope you find something you like too

GC xx

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"As you can tell I looooove lingerie and I’m not skinny by any stretch of the imagination.

I used to wear body stockings but post nipple piercings I can’t as they get caught in them.

Baby dolls, chemises, basques (though trying to put a basque on alone is an art!), matching sets, bodies, boobless, crotchless etc

I like it all but OP you try some things on and see what you like. Sometimes I like to cover my belly other times it’s on show all depends on how I’m feeling.

As I’m rather short I do find suspenders seem to be made for 6 foot amazonians so I like the mock garters from snag and hold ups otherwise my stockings end up around my knees !

Hope you find something you like too

GC xx "

I found ghe dame with body stocking getting caught in piercings, took mine out a year ago now

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By *sian FlowerWoman
2 weeks ago

Sin City X

Plenty of sites selling awesome fishnet body stockings OP go for it I’m sure you’ll look great.

I normally buy from Lovehoney or Anne Summers

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"I've just moved most of my lingerie pics into my friends gallery but my approach so far has been pretty much buy whatever (and I've usually gone fairly cheap in this first stage) try them all on and take pictures, see how I feel in them. I've tried body suits, bodystockings, fish nets, mock garters, floaty things, string pieces, different colours, different fabrics. and once I've spotted trends that I think make me look sexy, I've ordered similar sets in something a little nicer/pricier.

I have found I quite like dark colours - dark blue, forest green, purple. I like halter necks designs on top, florals, cut out spaces around my hips and stomach that show off skin but cover too. Hate (loathe really) the high cut design of the knicker part. Spaghetti straps seem to accentuate my winder shoulders and makes me feel self conscious of my arms but I also can't wear sleeves because I feel suffocated. Love a good design or pattern. "

Oh that's a really good idea I'd not thought of before - ordering cheap versions of styles and seeing what makes me feel good/looks better. Inspired by this (and many other posts), thank you. And thanks to everyone who has commented, it's been really helpful. x

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By *cotlad178Man
2 weeks ago

falkirk

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By *cotlad178Man
2 weeks ago

falkirk


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie."

you'll smash whatever you pick lovely, knock it out the park!! You can make anything your in stunning

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By *urry BlokeMan
2 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I'm not a fan of underwear in general, regardless of the wearers body size / shape

However, I am a huge fan of confidence

If, by wearing lingerie that they like and feel good in, someone gains next level confidence, then I'm all for it

I think, all too often, underwear is used to detract and distract as opposed to add to a scenario

I guess what I'm saying Meli, is wear something that you like you in, wear it with confidence and pride and adopt a carefree attitude towards the projected opinions and thoughts of others

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By *ad NannaWoman
2 weeks ago

East London

For comfort I go with stretchy lace dresses.

I hate suspender belts and anything nylon on my legs.

I have a photo somewhere of me in a favourite lace dress I felt sexy in.

I wasn't as fat then, but still big.

I think I'll try to dig it out.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry

As someone who had the great pleasure of assisting with lingerie choices of wonderfully proportioned woman I know it's a minefield.

Larger women may share being larger but they are all different shapes and sizes. What set/brand suits one bigger woman may not suit another. Lingerie is designed to enhance certain features, minimise others and sometimes alter shape. But bigger ladies are all different shapes and sizes. Carrying their weight weight in different proportion and areas. Long legs, short legs, short torsos, long torsos.

So in my opinion/experience it's very hard to tell what will suit you and what won't until you try it on. Granted you'll get a better idea of what works as you go on. And frustratingly sometimes you find something that works and technically it's the right size but turns out not to be right. Maybe it's size 22 sure, but when you put it on its clearly not made for a torso that's so long and just doesn't sit right on your (even though you know a woman the same dress size who looks amazing in it).

And I'm assuming the same is for women of other proportions too. Because women don't just come in small, medium and large, they come in a almost limitless range of differing shapes and sizes in addition to their dress size. Which to all us who love women that range of variety is awesome and makes this place such a beautiful one. But that same variety is a pain in the neck when it comes to finding lingerie. However its awesome when a woman find something she kills it in. So I guess just keep trying different stuff on till you find what works for you.

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By *emininominonWoman
2 weeks ago

Blackwood

Any ideas for any sexy Christmas outfits? Help a girl out! Xx

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

I think the choices for our plus sized bigger bodies has gotten so much better these last few years, especially with the likes of Shein.

I love fishnets, bodysuits, sets, skirt and bralette. X

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Any ideas for any sexy Christmas outfits? Help a girl out! Xx"

Seeing have some lovely sexy Xmas dresses

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
2 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Any ideas for any sexy Christmas outfits? Help a girl out! Xx"

Shein, love honey, ann summers x

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West


"I think the choices for our plus sized bigger bodies has gotten so much better these last few years, especially with the likes of Shein.

I love fishnets, bodysuits, sets, skirt and bralette. X"

Seems like since shein started doing it, a lot more companies are started to include more choices too x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
2 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I think whatever I like the look of looks good to me. On me.

Even slim people can have the look of strung boiled bacon, with ill fitting straps.

I'll always buy my size and not try to shoe horn myself into stuff that is too small for me. That's what gives me my "I look good confidence" and not a worry that what I am wearing, might suddenly split....

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Oh, I'm well aware I look like a pig caught in chainlink fencing. That won't stop me feeling good about myself for making an effort though. Especially I can't even be bothered to shave my legs unless I *really have to most of the time.

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By *agnar73Man
2 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Oh, I'm well aware I look like a pig caught in chainlink fencing. That won't stop me feeling good about myself for making an effort though. Especially I can't even be bothered to shave my legs unless I *really have to most of the time. "

You do not. You look amazing.

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
2 weeks ago

somewhere


"Oh, I'm well aware I look like a pig caught in chainlink fencing. That won't stop me feeling good about myself for making an effort though. Especially I can't even be bothered to shave my legs unless I *really have to most of the time. "

Gorgeous hun..

Mrs..

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"I think whatever I like the look of looks good to me. On me.

Even slim people can have the look of strung boiled bacon, with ill fitting straps.

I'll always buy my size and not try to shoe horn myself into stuff that is too small for me. That's what gives me my "I look good confidence" and not a worry that what I am wearing, might suddenly split...."

I can't say I've ever had a worry that what I'm wearing might suddenly split... I don't think most women do.

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"For comfort I go with stretchy lace dresses.

I hate suspender belts and anything nylon on my legs.

I have a photo somewhere of me in a favourite lace dress I felt sexy in.

I wasn't as fat then, but still big.

I think I'll try to dig it out.

"

You look fantastic in that dress Nanna! Lace is beautiful isn't it? I've found a really gorgeous lacy cami set and added it to my other 100+ tabs I currently have open (not all lingerie. At all).

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By *r M Gray88Man
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Telegram

Swaps: videos and pictures?

Sex chat

Fitchy888

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
2 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"Telegram

Swaps: videos and pictures?

Sex chat

Fitchy888"

I'm okay thanks, thanks though.

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By *ig TennentsMan
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie."

To begin with it needs to be something you’re comfortable wearing. There’s no point putting something on and hating it

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
2 weeks ago

Markfield


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie."

Have you looked at snags tights (they also do stockings and suspender belts and fake suspender/stockings combos). Great range of sizes which are perfect for curvy figures and also tallies and even cope with my combo of tall and curvy (fat).

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By *lack beauty 35Woman
2 weeks ago

South west

I find thigh high stockings flattering and sexy, they stay up especially when having thicker thigh like myself. I also recommend fishnet crotchless bodystockings too

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol


"I find thigh high stockings flattering and sexy, they stay up especially when having thicker thigh like myself. I also recommend fishnet crotchless bodystockings too "

Fishnets for sure

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I naturally gravitate to vintage styles.

Suspenders with thick straps, well fitting stockings, non thong knickers and a good push up bra. With or without a corset

However I also love feeling a little slutty in a nice fishnet body stocking and harness. I still wear a bra and knickers with them. I was self conscious at first because I was rather afraid I’d look a bit like a bag of onions or a joint of rolled pork but apparently not.

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By *haiababeWoman
2 weeks ago

North devon

So i personally am i big fan of sexy underwear sets wjat ever the occasion on a day to day bases. I do like to wear bodysuits and other stuff sometimes as well. I had tje same issue with hokd ups and stockings about bits of my thighs bubbling over. But i also received lots of compliments when wearing them so obviously they have the desired effect.

I lot of my stuff comes from ann summers but I have also got a few items from shien as well.

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I wear stuff that hides the parts I'm most insecure about. High waisted, waspies, things with structure or that smooth me down a bit.

I don't try and stuff myself into anything too small and I always go up a dress size for pants to make them slightly more flattering.

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By *rivatecouple30sCouple
2 weeks ago

Newcastle and Edinburgh

I quite like body covering lingerie. I will wear a 2 piece but not my preference x

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By *amblimgman05Man
2 weeks ago

bolton

I love curvy thighs in tights, nothing sexier than them stretched to their limits and wanting to feel

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

Flaunt your curves.

Wear what you want.

Feel gorgeous.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie.

Have you looked at snags tights (they also do stockings and suspender belts and fake suspender/stockings combos). Great range of sizes which are perfect for curvy figures and also tallies and even cope with my combo of tall and curvy (fat)."

I must admit one of our guilty pleasures is having a flick through the Snag catalogue and the models

Mrs Misfit used to buy a lot of tights from Snag but the quality doesn't seem quite the same these days

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By *ife NinjaMan
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Available to look at ladies modelling lingerie

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales


"Mrs Misfit used to buy a lot of tights from Snag but the quality doesn't seem quite the same these days "

I’m glad to hear someone else thinks so, I thought I was just unlucky with my purchases!

I think the quality has been lost in their bid to diversify into clothing, sadly.

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By *he ReturneeMan
2 weeks ago

Barnet


"Available to look at ladies modelling lingerie "

Or ladies who model sans lingerie

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By *ingleguyforfunswMan
2 weeks ago

Cornwall

Tights or stocking tights that go all the way up to the waist. Hole made in the pussy area, so so hot

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By *r TriomanMan
2 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Good morning OP, from my experience, it not what you wear, it's how you wear it; wear it with confidence, own it.

By the way, I think you'd look stunning in Fishnet Stockings, Suspenders, lacy Cami Knickers and a matching lacy bra

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By *emorefridaCouple
2 weeks ago

La la land


"Mrs Misfit used to buy a lot of tights from Snag but the quality doesn't seem quite the same these days

I’m glad to hear someone else thinks so, I thought I was just unlucky with my purchases!

I think the quality has been lost in their bid to diversify into clothing, sadly."

I can't get them to fit me used the guide on the website and have tried asozes either side but with no luck.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
2 weeks ago

Ends


"Mrs Misfit used to buy a lot of tights from Snag but the quality doesn't seem quite the same these days

I’m glad to hear someone else thinks so, I thought I was just unlucky with my purchases!

I think the quality has been lost in their bid to diversify into clothing, sadly.

I can't get them to fit me used the guide on the website and have tried asozes either side but with no luck. "

I Frida. Can I see you in lingerie please?

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
2 weeks ago

Ends


"Mrs Misfit used to buy a lot of tights from Snag but the quality doesn't seem quite the same these days

I’m glad to hear someone else thinks so, I thought I was just unlucky with my purchases!

I think the quality has been lost in their bid to diversify into clothing, sadly.

I can't get them to fit me used the guide on the website and have tried asozes either side but with no luck.

I Frida. Can I see you in lingerie please? "

Also it’s FPF btw

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By *issy_named_cTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm needing some help.

I want to buy something sexy for a plus size lady, but It's an absolute minefield trying to find some thing that fits, and that will make her feel sexy rather than awkward, or like what others have said above.

Ann Summers don't cater, love honey can look really cheap, so I'm wondering what other outlets there are that can cater..

I'd love some advice.

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By *issy_named_cTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"

Flaunt your curves.

Wear what you want.

Feel gorgeous.

"

Easy to say for some, hard to do for others

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"I'm needing some help.

I want to buy something sexy for a plus size lady, but It's an absolute minefield trying to find some thing that fits, and that will make her feel sexy rather than awkward, or like what others have said above.

Ann Summers don't cater, love honey can look really cheap, so I'm wondering what other outlets there are that can cater..

I'd love some advice.

"

There are so many retailers now, it depends on her size. If she's at the smaller end of plus size, Pour Moi, Figleaves Curve, Bluebella.

General, Playful Promises, Tutti Rouge, PrettyLittleThing and Asos. And Savage X Fenty! Tutti Rouge do beautiful sets as well.

I'd really suggest looking at PP first - it's midrange in terms of price point but they do sales frequently.

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By *loydyMan
2 weeks ago

British


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie."

big lasses in tights so horny

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Basque and suspender tights for me.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
2 weeks ago

North West


"

Flaunt your curves.

Wear what you want.

Feel gorgeous.

Easy to say for some, hard to do for others"

Learning to love yourself is a journey.

I chose positive words for a reason.

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By *hunky GentMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Basque and suspender tights for me."

Ooft.

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By *ildmanYorksMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"Posted a pic of the wife in 50s lingerie on here only last night.

She's got the whole white ensemble, including pantie-girdle, etc. I really like her in it (the guy in the picture thought so, too...) and is great for old-fashioned domestic roleplay.

There are few things better than a big ol' girl in her "delicates". "

I'd like to have her in her "delicates"

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By *educing_EmCouple
2 weeks ago

Tipperary

I'm not a bigger girl but Meli wear what you want to wear and F anyone else's opinions on it.

Buy cheap first as someone said above, try out styles to see what you like, shein is great for that.

The sexier you feel, the sexier you'll look x

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By *ildmanYorksMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster & Bembridge


"I'm not a bigger girl but Meli wear what you want to wear and F anyone else's opinions on it.

Buy cheap first as someone said above, try out styles to see what you like, shein is great for that.

The sexier you feel, the sexier you'll look x"

I agree, wear what you want and you feel comfortable in. You're all gorgeous and hot

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By *bboredguyMan
2 weeks ago

dundee

Always a winner

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By *o_Called_SwingersCouple
2 weeks ago

Atherton

I’m a wearer - I had the same feeling about fishnets. Though my image was more a sausage breaking free of the sausage skin..

I bought a set that came with fishnets and thought ah why not I might as well at least try them. And I’ve never felt sexier than when wearing them.

For general, lingerie styles though, I like something that draws attention to my waist/hips and almost hides my belly.

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By *partharmonyCouple
2 weeks ago

Ruislip

The most important thing, Meli, is that you share photos on here of you wearing whatever you end up getting.

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By *ami4321Man
2 weeks ago

wrexham

Chubby woman look just as good as any other probably better than in some cases love a bit of meat on the bones xx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Do it.

I was wearing fishnet stockings when I had another 8 stone on top of what I have now. Still looked fucking good.

I do have a big preference for hold ups using unnecessary suspenders from then, the wider lacier band at the top helps them feel like they look good when you're not feeling too confident yet 💜

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By *eardyBikerMan
2 weeks ago

nr stonehaven

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
2 weeks ago

A dazzling place you never knew


"

I'm musing out loud; well, on the forums at least. Sometimes perhaps body shapes/sizes look better/worse in particular items. I have quite big thighs and you know when thigh kind of spills over the top of a stocking? Yeah; I don't think that'll work on me."

I have these kind of thighs. I’ve noticed no one else sees the thighs kind of spilling over the top but me. The focus, by others, is never on my thighs inability to be contained inside the stockings or inside the fishnet.

Do it with confidence! You’ll be hot because it’s you.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Ryde

Just posted another pic of me wearing 50s hosiery. The guy looking as though he's doing something weird is just kissing my bum

OK, most would probably call that weird!

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By *eli OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

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"

I'm musing out loud; well, on the forums at least. Sometimes perhaps body shapes/sizes look better/worse in particular items. I have quite big thighs and you know when thigh kind of spills over the top of a stocking? Yeah; I don't think that'll work on me.

I have these kind of thighs. I’ve noticed no one else sees the thighs kind of spilling over the top but me. The focus, by others, is never on my thighs inability to be contained inside the stockings or inside the fishnet.

Do it with confidence! You’ll be hot because it’s you. "

Thank you Bella, you get what I'm talking about. I rarely notice it on another woman and when I do, I find it really quite attractive. But on me, I'm not sure. It's very much a case of thighs spilling over the top, a heightened awareness of that. A few people have sent me tried and tested recommendations so hopefully I'll get along with a couple of items! x

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By *elboy1978Man
2 weeks ago

Fellgate

All women no matter what size they are look good in underwear

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
2 weeks ago

A dazzling place you never knew


"

I'm musing out loud; well, on the forums at least. Sometimes perhaps body shapes/sizes look better/worse in particular items. I have quite big thighs and you know when thigh kind of spills over the top of a stocking? Yeah; I don't think that'll work on me.

I have these kind of thighs. I’ve noticed no one else sees the thighs kind of spilling over the top but me. The focus, by others, is never on my thighs inability to be contained inside the stockings or inside the fishnet.

Do it with confidence! You’ll be hot because it’s you.

Thank you Bella, you get what I'm talking about. I rarely notice it on another woman and when I do, I find it really quite attractive. But on me, I'm not sure. It's very much a case of thighs spilling over the top, a heightened awareness of that. A few people have sent me tried and tested recommendations so hopefully I'll get along with a couple of items! x"

I hope you get along with the recommendations and if they suit you, please pass them along.

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
2 weeks ago

Gravesend


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie."

Red is an amazing awxy gorgeous, and yes larger woman. I'd you have the energy to flick through our pics there are some I'm lingerie and certainly fishnets make an appearance.

Generally they will be Lovehoney or Snags. The latter do mock garters which are easy to wear and have fun in!

Give it a go, have fun, and fight the guys off!

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"When it comes to larger women in lingerie - what do you think looks good? Are there any styles you don't particularly like or do you not care in the heat of the moment?

And those who wear said lingerie - what designs make you feel confident/sexy? Where do you get yours from? See, I love fishnet tights and I'm toying with the idea of fishnet stockings but worried they'll look a bit... whale caught in nets. :D

Signed

A Procrastinating Chubby Woman Thinking About Lingerie."

Only my opinion but size is far less important than the confidence of the woman or man wearing anything

I'm sure you would look appealing to 12764902 people because you're you.

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By *oveandfastWoman
2 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

I’m always a believer in confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear. If wearing fishnets will make you feel like a badass, go and get a pair!

My own personal lingerie tastes are basques and corsets/ waspies that have my boobs sitting under my chin and exaggerates my waist so it looks like I’ve had a rib removed 😂😂. Paired with some well fitted stockings/ hold ups and I’m in my confident place!

Etsy have some amazing retailers that specialise in plus lingerie. I also buy from Lovehoney, playful promises, Ann summers, some fetish sites.

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By *hunky GentMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m always a believer in confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear. If wearing fishnets will make you feel like a badass, go and get a pair!

My own personal lingerie tastes are basques and corsets/ waspies that have my boobs sitting under my chin and exaggerates my waist so it looks like I’ve had a rib removed 😂😂. Paired with some well fitted stockings/ hold ups and I’m in my confident place!

Etsy have some amazing retailers that specialise in plus lingerie. I also buy from Lovehoney, playful promises, Ann summers, some fetish sites. "

Anything in blue?

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By *oveandfastWoman
2 weeks ago

Bromsgrove


"I’m always a believer in confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear. If wearing fishnets will make you feel like a badass, go and get a pair!

My own personal lingerie tastes are basques and corsets/ waspies that have my boobs sitting under my chin and exaggerates my waist so it looks like I’ve had a rib removed 😂😂. Paired with some well fitted stockings/ hold ups and I’m in my confident place!

Etsy have some amazing retailers that specialise in plus lingerie. I also buy from Lovehoney, playful promises, Ann summers, some fetish sites.

Anything in blue? "

Blue’s not really my colour hun 😂

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By *hunky GentMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m always a believer in confidence is the sexiest thing you can wear. If wearing fishnets will make you feel like a badass, go and get a pair!

My own personal lingerie tastes are basques and corsets/ waspies that have my boobs sitting under my chin and exaggerates my waist so it looks like I’ve had a rib removed 😂😂. Paired with some well fitted stockings/ hold ups and I’m in my confident place!

Etsy have some amazing retailers that specialise in plus lingerie. I also buy from Lovehoney, playful promises, Ann summers, some fetish sites.

Anything in blue?

Blue’s not really my colour hun 😂"

I had to ask.

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