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By *ndy8440 OP   Man
1 week ago

Jarrow

Been here almost 4 weeks now and not one conversation with anyone. So I’m at the point now of do I stay or do I delete my account

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By *allySlinkyWoman
1 week ago

Leeds

I think you need to decide if you want swinging or dating

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
1 week ago

St Leonards


"I think you need to decide if you want swinging or dating"

Wot Sally sed.

Also, how many messages have you sent to different people who have appealed to you?

I generally used to send 30-50 women messages before a response, each of which was tailored to the person I was messaging, rather than a blanket (or dull) message.

Short version - you can find casual sex here, you can find dating here, but you've got to put a lot of effort in to draw the rewards.

And, if as Sally has asked, you're looking more for dating, there are better ways of achieving that than FAB, even though FAB does provide it too.

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

4 week and you are already contemplating throwing in the towel?

You will need more perseverance than that.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
1 week ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

You have 2 options

1) Become gay, you'll be inundated with messages within minutes

2) go incognito/silhouette and just wank over pics

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By *outhern77Man
1 week ago

Quinton


"I think you need to decide if you want swinging or dating

Wot Sally sed.

Also, how many messages have you sent to different people who have appealed to you?

I generally used to send 30-50 women messages before a response, each of which was tailored to the person I was messaging, rather than a blanket (or dull) message.

Short version - you can find casual sex here, you can find dating here, but you've got to put a lot of effort in to draw the rewards.

And, if as Sally has asked, you're looking more for dating, there are better ways of achieving that than FAB, even though FAB does provide it too."

This !!

Just be patient, I'm 4 months in (this time) and had a few conversations and no play meets (I'm no-ones type it seems) but had lots of laughs within the Forums

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
1 week ago

Stoke

Go to clubs, you'll find a lot better success rate than here.

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By *ilthy perv777Man
1 week ago

Waterlooville

It’s all about the fun

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
1 week ago

Gloucestershire

OP by starting this post you’re already having conversations either people.

The forums are a good way to get to know people. The chatrooms too.

Don’t give up so soon

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Covent Garden

Four weeks is but a picosecond in the Fåb timeframe. Patience, OP. Persevere...!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts

It’s a website not marriage.

Pick it up and put it down. You don’t need to make it so binary and dramatic.

But if you paid a sub at least squeeze a fivers worth of whatever out of it.

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By *r John WickMan
1 week ago

The Continental

Up your game

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 week ago

Leeds

Only you can decide but 4 weeks is nothing on fab, some guys have been here 4 months/years and not had any luck.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
1 week ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I think you need to decide if you want swinging or dating"

Not necessarily. You can do both on here without issue. Many do.

But I agree 4 weeks is nothing in terms of Fab life. I'd also suggest looking at additional options as well as just sending messages on a website. Clubs and organised social events aren't for everyone, but they sure as hell open a lot more doors than a brief message on t'internet. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ruceyyMan
1 week ago

London

Do I what I do!

Scream into a pillow!

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