FabSwingers.com forum: What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?

By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

Well, what is it?

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By *uperS77Man
11 weeks ago

Gloucester

Decided to go on a six month trip around the world

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"Decided to go on a six month trip around the world "

Oh, I love that❤️

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
11 weeks ago

kent

I once quit a job based on the flip of a coin.

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"I once quit a job based on the flip of a coin. "

Did it work out well?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
11 weeks ago

kent

It did! I was young and didn’t have too many responsibilities, so there wasn’t too much riding on it. It was liberating!

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By *ffervescentMan
11 weeks ago

winfrith

I gave up a few jobs didn't like them so moved on ,I move a lot ,I book holidays and just go .I'm a spontaneous person .

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Asked a girl to marry me.

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"It did! I was young and didn’t have too many responsibilities, so there wasn’t too much riding on it. It was liberating!"

I'm glad to hear it👍

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"Asked a girl to marry me."

Did she say yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Decided to move countries because a girl dumped me! Oh the things we do when we are young and carefree

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"Decided to move countries because a girl dumped me! Oh the things we do when we are young and carefree

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By *ndian_jmCouple
11 weeks ago

Wigston

Meet a girl off face book fkr sex

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Asked a girl to marry me.

Did she say yes?"

With all her heart ❤️

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By *ongAndThick123Man
11 weeks ago

Leeds

As a broke student I once went on a night out in Leeds, got blackout d*unk, went on a rant with a friend about how “nobody is spontaneous any more” while looking up flights on the internet and deciding to run away and start a new life abroad. Next thing I know I’m waking up the next morning in a bush in Ibiza with only 20p in my pocket and a return flight for 7 days. No hotel. No other money. No plan.

Just had to spend 7 days blagging it until we could get home. Most have lost a stone in a week.

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"Asked a girl to marry me.

Did she say yes?

With all her heart ❤️ "

🫶

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"As a broke student I once went on a night out in Leeds, got blackout d*unk, went on a rant with a friend about how “nobody is spontaneous any more” while looking up flights on the internet and deciding to run away and start a new life abroad. Next thing I know I’m waking up the next morning in a bush in Ibiza with only 20p in my pocket and a return flight for 7 days. No hotel. No other money. No plan.

Just had to spend 7 days blagging it until we could get home. Most have lost a stone in a week.

Brilliant

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Fife

Sold my house car furnishings chunked my career in and moved to Scotland....went from 6 figures to making less than I did at 18

yeah spontaneous dumbness

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"Sold my house car furnishings chunked my career in and moved to Scotland....went from 6 figures to making less than I did at 18

yeah spontaneous dumbness "

Spontaneity is the spice of Fife

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Fife

"Sold my house car furnishings chunked my career in and moved to Scotland....went from 6 figures to making less than I did at 18

yeah spontaneous dumbness

Spontaneity is the spice of Fife"

Lol at least I live in a Kingdom..only thing Dom about here.

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By *ymClassDropoutMan
11 weeks ago

Berkshire

Spontaneity is so overrated.

Even if contemplating changing my deodorant, I tend to procrastinate for a week !!!

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By *iss.BellaWoman
11 weeks ago

Chester

I once decided to book a 6 month cruise around the med for that same weekend. I'd had enough and thought sod it.

Unfortunately my payment declined

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By *aizyWoman
11 weeks ago

west midlands

"I once decided to book a 6 month cruise around the med for that same weekend. I'd had enough and thought sod it.

Unfortunately my payment declined

Tbf, you probably got off lucky with it declining, I have been watching on youtube the 9 month cruise saga that happened, it sounds like my idea of hell!

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By *octor ProdMan
11 weeks ago

working Overseas

While at a fitting for a morning suit for my wedding at Moss Bros in Chester, I got cold feet, walked out (leaving my best mate and best man behind) and went to the nearest travel agent and booked an 18-30 holiday flying out that night.

Had a great holiday, didnt get married to that one, couldn't go to the town she lived in as her Italian family were baying for blood and changed my locks as her sister threated to cut my cock off.

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By *abluesbabyMan
11 weeks ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

I played in bands back in the 90's and we'd literally just finished a tour and the tour bus had dropped us off at the rehearsal studio where we stored all our gear. So me and two other band mates were walking back home with just our bags with dirty clothes in and we called in at out local laundrette.

Next door was a travel agents and we saw a deal in the window. So, having a wad of cash in our packets from touring, we bought flights to Amsterdam, packed our bags with freshly laundered clothes and headed straight to the airport.

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By *opinovMan
11 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I decided, one morning, to go fruit picking in Europe for a couple of weeks. I got on a bus that evening with £120 on me - didn't return home until five years and several continents later.

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By *rincipessaWoman
11 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

Agreed to book a villa in Sicily for the next day with 8 people I’d never met before and had only spoken to on group messages for 24 hrs

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By *ohnjones3210Man
11 weeks ago

Chester

I quit a very good job at the drop of a hat. I was fed up of getting ripped off tax and NI. I was fed up of working according to someone else's schedule, etc. I was fed up of working on projects that I knew were futile.

I wanted to be free.

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By *rHotNottsMan
11 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Just had to spend 7 days blagging it until we could get home. Most have lost a stone in a week.

At least you weren’t tempted to steal someone’s watch & got yourself murdered

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By *runette n JayCouple
11 weeks ago

bilston

Bought a hortub!

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I don’t do spontaneity 😳 I have to have a plan sorry 😉

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

Getting pregnant

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
11 weeks ago

newcastle

my wife asked me to marry her (shed bad living) i said yes wasnt even mentioned before that, still together after 46 years XX

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"Agreed to book a villa in Sicily for the next day with 8 people I’d never met before and had only spoken to on group messages for 24 hrs"

How did it work out?

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"my wife asked me to marry her (shed bad living) i said yes wasnt even mentioned before that, still together after 46 years XX"

❤️

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

I moved to Thailand and spent six months working in various orphanages and refugee camps along the Burmese bother.

Total spur of the moment decision based on an email fired forwarded to me

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By *parkle1974Woman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Asked someone to meet later that night....(we had been talking for ages)....luckily he said yes

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"I moved to Thailand and spent six months working in various orphanages and refugee camps along the Burmese bother.

Total spur of the moment decision based on an email fired forwarded to me "

Sounds like a fantastic trip, though

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
11 weeks ago

Bristol

Quit my job, came up to Bristol to see a mate for what was supposed to be a week and 18 years later.. I’m still here

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By *liza_13Woman
11 weeks ago

Hamilton

Tattoo probably lol

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By *uffymayfairCouple
11 weeks ago

vera playa, Almeria

Moved to Spain

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

On my way home tonight I just thought fuck it and went through the Costa drive thru.

Best decision ever

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By *ansoffateMan
11 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Yesterday I went Maccies to get the wrap of the day. Apparently, it wasn't available all the other wraps where just the wrap of the day.

It's been like that the last three times I've been.

So I went rogue this time and went to KFC instead. Just walked out mid-order.

Ha screw you Ronald, you clown.

It tasted like victory.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Within hours of turning 40, i booked a tattoo, pierced my nipples,ordered myself a new car. Then went online shopping 🫣

Spent a fortune 🤣🤣

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
11 weeks ago

Bristol

"Within hours of turning 40, i booked a tattoo, pierced my nipples,ordered myself a new car. Then went online shopping 🫣

Spent a fortune 🤣🤣"

Kind of have to respect that!

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
11 weeks ago

Norwich

"I decided, one morning, to go fruit picking in Europe for a couple of weeks. I got on a bus that evening with £120 on me - didn't return home until five years and several continents later."

That’s the way to do it. Wish I had.

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By *cLovin2Man
11 weeks ago

Reading

I had sex with a lady live on cam broadcasting it in the cam room

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By *cLovin2Man
11 weeks ago

Reading

"I once decided to book a 6 month cruise around the med for that same weekend. I'd had enough and thought sod it.

Unfortunately my payment declined

It surely doesn't take 6 months to cruise round the med? You could cycle it in less than 6 months

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By *layfull pairingCouple
11 weeks ago

Bristol

Many years ago while walking through Bath one evening with a girlfriend.... seeing some scantily clad ladies and well dressed gents queuing up to go down into a basement club I’d never noticed before... So spontaneously joined the queue... turned out to be Bath Swingers Club (sadly now closed down) ... and started a love affair with Swingers clubs ...

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By *weetiepie99Woman
11 weeks ago

cardiff

I had sex once

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By *ee642024Woman
11 weeks ago

Crook

i lost my virginity at 21 to a man twice my age. We were in he's taxi(he was a taxi driver from Darlington) as i recall.parked up and he said 'do you want sex' and i shocked myself by saying yes.because i had refused a few guys prior to him.i remember it hurt and he stopped straight away. We did meet again a few times,and it got much better. He was suprised i was a virgin.havent seen him for a long time. He be 84 now.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"i lost my virginity at 21 to a man twice my age. We were in he's taxi(he was a taxi driver from Darlington) as i recall.parked up and he said 'do you want sex' and i shocked myself by saying yes.because i had refused a few guys prior to him.i remember it hurt and he stopped straight away. We did meet again a few times,and it got much better. He was suprised i was a virgin.havent seen him for a long time. He be 84 now."

Does that make you 42 🤔

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
11 weeks ago

The Continental

I booked my trip to climb Kilimanjaro on a whim. Just decided I wanted to do it, booked it there and then.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
11 weeks ago

London

Spontaneity has its time and place.

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By *lueDressWoman
11 weeks ago

Bath

Met someone from another place and went to 8 concerts, 11 dinners and 8 lunches

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By *rthur30Man
11 weeks ago

Warrington

"On my way home tonight I just thought fuck it and went through the Costa drive thru.

Best decision ever"

You daredevil!

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By *rincipessaWoman
11 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

"Agreed to book a villa in Sicily for the next day with 8 people I’d never met before and had only spoken to on group messages for 24 hrs

How did it work out?"

Was an amazing 10 days, made some great friends and is incidentally the source of my profile name

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By *appytochatMan
11 weeks ago

Deep in the New Forest

Turned up for work one morning at 8am...buy 8.10am I'd told the boss to stick his job up his arse as was driving home again. Went self employed a few days later. That was 10yrs ago and the best spur of the moment decision I've ever made.

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By *olin22Man
11 weeks ago

washington

Did a para jump at local airfield this year . Nearly bottled it but gf was watching i jumped in my old army para smock with wings up earned in 83 its the last one ill ever do was glad wen I landed on dz and was safe

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By *milie1994Woman
11 weeks ago

wellingborough

bought an amg merc knowing i can’t afford it

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By *annessaTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Denham

Met a now married ex and we both decided on a shag, for old times sake.

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By *odevilWoman
11 weeks ago

exeter

Binned off my entire life and moved abroad.

Also, got a silly (though rather significant tattoo) for a laugh

(It's still funny though)

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By *laytime_13Woman
11 weeks ago

Lincs

I am not generally a spontaneous person, Farr too boring and sensible for that

But two things do stick out… buying a horse on the spur of the moment, despite her not being what I’d been looking for. And earlier this year I went digital nomad and booked a trip to the canaries a week after booking and sat out in the sunshine whilst I worked. That’s about as spontaneous as it gets for me

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By *rReyMan
11 weeks ago

Fleet

"Well, what is it?"

Coughed, sneazed, farted and a little, all at the same time, no warning. Just painfully embarrassing 🤣🤣

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By *Silver-Man
11 weeks ago

Mold

Took my jimjams off and went to bed naked one night. Was so liberating!

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I'm planning on doing something spontaneous in the new year

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By *ivpoolmanMan
11 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I'm planning on doing something spontaneous in the new year"

😂😂

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
11 weeks ago

Cambs

Moving to Spain

Decided Christmas day and actually following through with it.

Was the best decision we have ever made

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By *omRachCouple
11 weeks ago

Wirral

Growing to intensely dislike a job that I had previously loved and - after one innocuous fall out with a colleague - gave my resignation on the spot.

2 weeks later I relocated to another part of the country for 3 + years and what followed were the happiest 3 years of my life.

Tom,

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By *uffymayfairCouple
11 weeks ago

vera playa, Almeria

"Moving to Spain

Decided Christmas day and actually following through with it.

Was the best decision we have ever made

Same here, we were looking at a different part of Scotland, and out of the blue Buffy said let's go to Spain. I'd tried to get here to come here before but she said "no, too hot for me" 😆

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
11 weeks ago

york

After an offhand comment from a friend, got up at 3am and cycled 200 miles from hobbiton to mordor across New Zealand. I had no plan on what to do at the other end, just wanted to prove I could. Ended up sleeping in a hedge and eating my body weight in mcdonalds breakfast the next day before having to ride the whole thing back home again

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"After an offhand comment from a friend, got up at 3am and cycled 200 miles from hobbiton to mordor across New Zealand. I had no plan on what to do at the other end, just wanted to prove I could. Ended up sleeping in a hedge and eating my body weight in mcdonalds breakfast the next day before having to ride the whole thing back home again"

After 400 miles on a bike, did you destroy the ring?

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By *eliWoman
11 weeks ago

Turned down an UC offer from UCL and said fuck it, I'm studying in Scotland. Applied, got in, moved up two days later.

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
11 weeks ago

york

"After 400 miles on a bike, did you destroy the ring?"

The ring was well and truly destroyed that is very safe to say

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By *allySlinkyWoman
11 weeks ago

Leeds

I once went to the charity shop to buy a cardigan. I looked in the window of the Eatate Agents next door. I saw a house for sale in a street I have always liked. I got a viewing that afternoon, put in an offer for the full asking price and bought the house.

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By *illy Idol OP Man
11 weeks ago

Midlands

"After 400 miles on a bike, did you destroy the ring?

The ring was well and truly destroyed that is very safe to say"

Hero🙌

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By *olinOfBathMan
11 weeks ago

Corsham

Was heading for a café to buy a coffee. As I walked past the army careers office, decided instead to go in and scrounge a free cuppa from a mate who worked there. Turned out that he'd taken the day off. In my defence, I really disliked living in Telford. Anyway, I started the process that led to six years in the army.

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By *iguymatureMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Our first couple meet was a spontaneous meet with us playing with each other and talking about our fantasy ideas and she said she had a message from a couple and after we exchanged pictures and phone numbers them we had a chat with them about what they were into and what they wanted to do and when they gave us their address and we get ready and go meet them and it was really good fun and it was the first time I had ever seen my wife getting fucked and her first seeing me fuck another girl

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By *ags73Man
10 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I once went to the charity shop to buy a cardigan. I looked in the window of the Eatate Agents next door. I saw a house for sale in a street I have always liked. I got a viewing that afternoon, put in an offer for the full asking price and bought the house. "

Still there?

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Replied overtly abrasively to a message I received asking me a (to me) daft question.

My response could have been ignored or the recipient could have thought I was a cunt and told me so. Instead, what happened next surprised me. Surprised them too.

An a spontaneous, wild ride it’s been since.

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By *vonne5exMan
10 weeks ago

Doncaster

Joined the French foreign legion

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By *art1968Man
10 weeks ago

stafford

Went to a gay sauna as was curious!

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Planned a date to go for dinner, decided to go to France on the way there and ended up with a dinner in Paris instead…. Lots of airmiles helped make that happen but we were young and kids hadn’t arrived then

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By *assy69Man
10 weeks ago

West Sussex and Wales

"Well, what is it?"

when i was 18, i woke up in the middle of the night, thought to myself, what am i doing here?.....got up, packed a bag and walked to the train station with no destination in mind.......ended up at the top of a mountain in the French Alps

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By *he AmbassadorMan
10 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Quit my job and moved to NYC

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