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"I think it's very easy to be judgemental online too btw, just thought I'd point that out before the mudslinging starts" Is it mud from the wrestling thread? | |||
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"On fab yes In real life yes, because I automatically think I'm going to be judged at first glance, so I do it. Did that make sense lol" Actually it does make sense, has there been times when you've thought "oops got that wrong"?? | |||
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"I think it's very easy to be judgemental online too btw, just thought I'd point that out before the mudslinging starts Is it mud from the wrestling thread?" You wish | |||
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"Im all about the first pic" And you've never thought "too hasty" ? | |||
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"Are you from first impressions. Do you judge a book by it's cover immediately or show patience to see what evolved BS Meter is set to full, because we all know it's tough being entirely truthful" Sometimes. I don't think its a good thing though so when I notice I'm doing it I try and stop myself. On here though it's very rare I have any thoughts about others as it's the Internet and could just as easily be a bot or some scammer. | |||
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"Are you from first impressions. Do you judge a book by it's cover immediately or show patience to see what evolved BS Meter is set to full, because we all know it's tough being entirely truthful Sometimes. I don't think its a good thing though so when I notice I'm doing it I try and stop myself. On here though it's very rare I have any thoughts about others as it's the Internet and could just as easily be a bot or some scammer. " So you use it as a defense mechanism? | |||
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"On fab yes In real life yes, because I automatically think I'm going to be judged at first glance, so I do it. Did that make sense lol Actually it does make sense, has there been times when you've thought "oops got that wrong"??" I hate to say it but no, I've been spot on with my judgement of their judgement of me. Whether that's something I do that makes them have that opinion of me I don't know? Like I give off a fuck off vibe..I hope I don't lol | |||
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"I think it's near impossible to not make impulsive judgements, you probably do it all the time and not even realise. " Probably the best answer so far, "are we even aware most of the time" | |||
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"Pretty much 50/25/25 Answering a message I give it 50%. If they fully can't read a profile it's zero chances. it's an instant block. I then get to the meeting stage and depending on that it's either continuity or it's a sorry I'm not interested further. If it is a sexual interaction. I'm fully engaged in them until the first red flag, lie, or their true intentions pop up and it's a swift kick out the door and the last block. I don't do retakes or 2nd chances. " Judging by that you're far less judgemental than most | |||
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"Pretty much 50/25/25 Answering a message I give it 50%. If they fully can't read a profile it's zero chances. it's an instant block. I then get to the meeting stage and depending on that it's either continuity or it's a sorry I'm not interested further. If it is a sexual interaction. I'm fully engaged in them until the first red flag, lie, or their true intentions pop up and it's a swift kick out the door and the last block. I don't do retakes or 2nd chances. " Started reading it but fell asleep..🥱. | |||
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"Pretty much 50/25/25 Answering a message I give it 50%. If they fully can't read a profile it's zero chances. it's an instant block. I then get to the meeting stage and depending on that it's either continuity or it's a sorry I'm not interested further. If it is a sexual interaction. I'm fully engaged in them until the first red flag, lie, or their true intentions pop up and it's a swift kick out the door and the last block. I don't do retakes or 2nd chances. Started reading it but fell asleep..🥱." Harsh! | |||
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"3/4 - some people have surprised me " That's the thing tho isn't it, would they surprise if you'd written them off immediately | |||
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Always wait and see because people do it to me, so I don't do it to others | |||
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"Pretty much 50/25/25 Answering a message I give it 50%. If they fully can't read a profile it's zero chances. it's an instant block. I then get to the meeting stage and depending on that it's either continuity or it's a sorry I'm not interested further. If it is a sexual interaction. I'm fully engaged in them until the first red flag, lie, or their true intentions pop up and it's a swift kick out the door and the last block. I don't do retakes or 2nd chances. Judging by that you're far less judgemental than most" Looks grow and change Dicks grow and change Age and size changes Character chemistry personality is either compatible or not. I rather see it to that stage than get rid before the chance occurs. Not reading a profile for me shows a big character flaw. Looking at pics responding vile is a character flaw and race fettishism is a character flaw... So my instant blocks are harsh to some but I've said my reasons and if someone can't respect the simplest of things. I can't trust they are capable of respecting the harder wetter silkier sexier things..... | |||
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"Pretty much 50/25/25 Answering a message I give it 50%. If they fully can't read a profile it's zero chances. it's an instant block. I then get to the meeting stage and depending on that it's either continuity or it's a sorry I'm not interested further. If it is a sexual interaction. I'm fully engaged in them until the first red flag, lie, or their true intentions pop up and it's a swift kick out the door and the last block. I don't do retakes or 2nd chances. Started reading it but fell asleep..🥱." That's brilliant you definitely couldn't last through a sex session with me. | |||
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"Pretty much 50/25/25 Answering a message I give it 50%. If they fully can't read a profile it's zero chances. it's an instant block. I then get to the meeting stage and depending on that it's either continuity or it's a sorry I'm not interested further. If it is a sexual interaction. I'm fully engaged in them until the first red flag, lie, or their true intentions pop up and it's a swift kick out the door and the last block. I don't do retakes or 2nd chances. Started reading it but fell asleep..🥱. That's brilliant you definitely couldn't last through a sex session with me." depends, ...is that boring too? 😂 | |||
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"Pretty much 50/25/25 Answering a message I give it 50%. If they fully can't read a profile it's zero chances. it's an instant block. I then get to the meeting stage and depending on that it's either continuity or it's a sorry I'm not interested further. If it is a sexual interaction. I'm fully engaged in them until the first red flag, lie, or their true intentions pop up and it's a swift kick out the door and the last block. I don't do retakes or 2nd chances. Judging by that you're far less judgemental than most Looks grow and change Dicks grow and change Age and size changes Character chemistry personality is either compatible or not. I rather see it to that stage than get rid before the chance occurs. Not reading a profile for me shows a big character flaw. Looking at pics responding vile is a character flaw and race fettishism is a character flaw... So my instant blocks are harsh to some but I've said my reasons and if someone can't respect the simplest of things. I can't trust they are capable of respecting the harder wetter silkier sexier things..... " I don't think instant blocks are harsh, you're just very loyal to your choices | |||
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"Pretty much 50/25/25 Answering a message I give it 50%. If they fully can't read a profile it's zero chances. it's an instant block. I then get to the meeting stage and depending on that it's either continuity or it's a sorry I'm not interested further. If it is a sexual interaction. I'm fully engaged in them until the first red flag, lie, or their true intentions pop up and it's a swift kick out the door and the last block. I don't do retakes or 2nd chances. Started reading it but fell asleep..🥱. That's brilliant you definitely couldn't last through a sex session with me. depends, ...is that boring too? 😂" You'd never know.. Plus my verifications have big long words for the wee man... | |||
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"3/4 - some people have surprised me That's the thing tho isn't it, would they surprise if you'd written them off immediately " I don't write people off in any situation I will though, only after I get to know them if they annoy me 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Pretty much 50/25/25 Answering a message I give it 50%. If they fully can't read a profile it's zero chances. it's an instant block. I then get to the meeting stage and depending on that it's either continuity or it's a sorry I'm not interested further. If it is a sexual interaction. I'm fully engaged in them until the first red flag, lie, or their true intentions pop up and it's a swift kick out the door and the last block. I don't do retakes or 2nd chances. Started reading it but fell asleep..🥱. That's brilliant you definitely couldn't last through a sex session with me. depends, ...is that boring too? 😂 You'd never know.. Plus my verifications have big long words for the wee man..." oh well....scotlands a bit far anyway....although I did like the pizza one, nice touch | |||
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"3/4 - some people have surprised me That's the thing tho isn't it, would they surprise if you'd written them off immediately I don't write people off in any situation I will though, only after I get to know them if they annoy me 🤣🤣" I'm incredibly annoying in a sexy way 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Are you from first impressions. Do you judge a book by it's cover immediately or show patience to see what evolved BS Meter is set to full, because we all know it's tough being entirely truthful Sometimes. I don't think its a good thing though so when I notice I'm doing it I try and stop myself. On here though it's very rare I have any thoughts about others as it's the Internet and could just as easily be a bot or some scammer. So you use it as a defense mechanism?" No jot at all. I don't use it as anything. I try not to do it and if I realise I'm judging or more likely orejudging I stop. Real people are generally good of you give them a chance to be. | |||
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