FabSwingers.com forum: Social Meet

By *airlessgent OP Man
1 week ago

southampton

Does anybody actually arange a social meet or is ot just expected to go from txt to sex?

I'd be happy.just to meet people for a coffee bur even that's a struggle

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

Always a social first.

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By *rafter69Man
1 week ago

upminster

Always up for a social

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By *vaRose43Woman
1 week ago

Forest of Dean

With rare exceptions I insist on a social first

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By *airlessgent OP Man
1 week ago

southampton

But do you find it hard to arrange just a social meet ?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

"But do you find it hard to arrange just a social meet ? "

Never.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
1 week ago

Chester

"Does anybody actually arange a social meet or is ot just expected to go from txt to sex?

I'd be happy.just to meet people for a coffee bur even that's a struggle "

Always go for a social first. If you don't, you risk nasty stuff happening.

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By *lym4realCouple
1 week ago

plymouth

We always do a social thing first !! but does seem that a fair few expect sex after one message or afew messages ? and we guarantee nothing apart from we will actually show up if we arrange to ..xx

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
1 week ago

Burton-on-Trent

Social always, It helps me greatly.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

We had one yesterday. Wifey wasn't feeling well enough for sex but the guy came round and we had a few hours awesome conversation and laughs.

Socials are totally our thing.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
1 week ago

Gloucestershire

I absolutely love a good social. It's not all about bonking.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
1 week ago

Chester

"But do you find it hard to arrange just a social meet ? "

In what sense?

The ratios between men and women here are massively disproportionate.

But actuallybarranging it, no not at all. You'll find that women have the expectation that a social IS on the cards by default.

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By *airlessgent OP Man
1 week ago

southampton

So social seems OK and easy to arrange and accepted.

Could it be then that because my profile says descret, I won't get touched or seen , even just for a social chat ?

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By *imply DeeWoman
1 week ago

Wherever

Always social first. There’s quite a possibility the mutual attraction in person is just not there, for many different reasons.

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By *airlessgent OP Man
1 week ago

southampton

"I absolutely love a good social. It's not all about bonking. "

I totally agree , never expect , just like a chat and see where it goes

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By *oo..Woman
1 week ago

Boo's World

Socials first

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By *imply DeeWoman
1 week ago

Wherever

"So social seems OK and easy to arrange and accepted.

Could it be then that because my profile says descret, I won't get touched or seen , even just for a social chat ? "

OP, your profile says that you have a partner, that would be an instant no for many, myself included, but at least you’re being honest upfront.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 week ago

Leeds

Always a social 1st, I like to make sure we have a connection in person as so many times it isn't there, plus make sure they look like their pics.

Mrs

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By *sWyldWoman
1 week ago

Edinburgh

I love a social

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple
1 week ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

Always a social first

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 week ago

Fife

"Does anybody actually arange a social meet or is ot just expected to go from txt to sex?

I'd be happy.just to meet people for a coffee bur even that's a struggle "

Hate coffee meets I think the topic is typically too sexual for that environment and everything here shuts by 6.. I prefer to go bowling go play pool doing something a bit competitive flirty have a laugh able to sit down generally quiet to chat Vs chugging coffee saying I liked you friends only pics over burntbucks coffee.... But that's deemed dating on here or strings or non discreet etc and yeah most want coffee and instafucks..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 week ago

Paradise, Herts

Always. I couldn’t agree to have sex with someone I’ve never even met

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
1 week ago

Burton-on-Trent

"Does anybody actually arange a social meet or is ot just expected to go from txt to sex?

I'd be happy.just to meet people for a coffee bur even that's a struggle

Our bowling alley got burnt down. 😭

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By *ohnjones3210Man
1 week ago

Chester

"Always. I couldn’t agree to have sex with someone I’ve never even met

Ffs, what's the matter with you?!

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By *eardedguy800Man
1 week ago

Kidderminster

Love a social

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 week ago

Paradise, Herts

"Always. I couldn’t agree to have sex with someone I’ve never even met

Ffs, what's the matter with you?!"

I’m starting to wonder 🤣

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 week ago

Fife

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By *enelope2UWoman
1 week ago

Fife

"So social seems OK and easy to arrange and accepted.

Could it be then that because my profile says descret, I won't get touched or seen , even just for a social chat ? "

Too many red flags and no's for me..

Can't accommodate

Can't travel

Bi/bi curious

Discreet needed

Partner situation

And distance

If we got along it would be only penpals and that's not my goal on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

OP your having a partner is gonna put off maybe 95% of the people who would have considered you.

Even for a social it a hard no for most.

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By *airlessgent OP Man
1 week ago

southampton

Thanks to every one who's replied some interesting replies and some honest ones too which I appreciate will take on board when messaging on here . Cheers 🍻 👍

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By *aven.Woman
1 week ago

Not the North West...

I don't do just a social, but I do talk to guy for a while.

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By *8on33Man
1 week ago

winfrith

"Does anybody actually arange a social meet or is ot just expected to go from txt to sex?

I'd be happy.just to meet people for a coffee bur even that's a struggle "
Men don't tend to do socials with other men if that's what you mean also distance comes into play but I guess this site is difficult for most men,only a few are successful at it maybe try the clubs it may cost you to get in but you meet people .

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By *dswingersCouple
1 week ago

chelmsford

always a social meet for us first. we both like to know there’s some kind of sexual spark first x

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

Yes I do. And it's very rare it's more than a social that first time. OP, if it's important to you, stick to it. There are people on here who prefer socials first, who like meeting just for a coffee/chat, nothing more.

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By *ear in the chairMan
1 week ago

yeah there

Much prefer a social first but away from forumites the overwhelming desire to go straight to it is actually quite high it seems.

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By *ife loves cockCouple
1 week ago

Wymondham

Always a social first.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
1 week ago

wonderland.

We don't really do a social or text before lol.

We just go to clubs though

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Covent Garden

It's a social first.

For me it's on the back of protracted messaging - either on here, WhatsApp or Telegram. The socials are usually elaborate luncheons, a walk around an art gallery or some cultural emporium, or a quick tea/coffee with cake in a quaint coffee shop.

If we wish to take things further then... mågïç happens in some prearranged joyously joyful way.

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
1 week ago

District 13

Social first always 😉 what happens from there is in the hands of the universe 😁

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By *ayDee-Woman
1 week ago

swansea

Honestly can’t remember the last time I had a social first 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Lots of conversations and only meet once I’m comfortable.

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