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When is a swinger NOT a Swinger ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When people just chat .?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a time waster isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't swing, I get motion sickness.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Webcam fun only!

I'm partly joking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they are on a see saw lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When they are on a see saw lol "
you cleaver Dick , so all can be swingers if on a swing ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they are on a see saw lol you cleaver Dick , so all can be swingers if on a swing , "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they are on a see saw lol you cleaver Dick , so all can be swingers if on a swing , "

I don't like the swings they make me sick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When they are on a see saw lol you cleaver Dick , so all can be swingers if on a swing ,

I don't like the swings they make me sick "
Do you know ..... today on a site I see a garden bed that swing , was thinking could be fun , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they are on a see saw lol you cleaver Dick , so all can be swingers if on a swing ,

I don't like the swings they make me sick Do you know ..... today on a site I see a garden bed that swing , was thinking could be fun , lol "

As long as there is a bucket nearby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single woman so I don't class myself as a ' swinger' ...

Free woman free to do what she wants with whom she chooses

Im pedantic too

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's possible to be single and have a swinging mentality , attitude , outlook toward sex and relationships.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The one's that I think were NEVER swingers are the ones who 'meet' someone, and immediately declare a monogamastic state of mind.

Worse still they leave the site as if swingers are now vermin

Or even WORSE they STAY and oooooooze out their new found take on relationship in every forum thread.

They make me balk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when they are cheating.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"when they are cheating."

This too

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"when they are cheating."
I beg to differ, enough of em on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel more of a swinger now I'm with J as we have started to swap. There's nothing sexier in my opinion than watching him pleasing someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when they are cheating.I beg to differ, enough of em on here."

there maybe plenty of people cheating on here, but doesnt change the fact its not swinging.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"when they are cheating.I beg to differ, enough of em on here.

there maybe plenty of people cheating on here, but doesnt change the fact its not swinging."
So are you saying they don't belong here then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when they are cheating.I beg to differ, enough of em on here.

there maybe plenty of people cheating on here, but doesnt change the fact its not swinging."

What is swinging then? Is bdsm sex in cam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when they are cheating.I beg to differ, enough of em on here.

there maybe plenty of people cheating on here, but doesnt change the fact its not swinging.So are you saying they don't belong here then?"

yes i am, there are sites for cheating wives or extra marital affairs, this is a swinging site its about openess, honesty, exploring fantasies with other like minded people, it isnt about lieing and cheating.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"when they are cheating.I beg to differ, enough of em on here.

there maybe plenty of people cheating on here, but doesnt change the fact its not swinging.So are you saying they don't belong here then?

yes i am, there are sites for cheating wives or extra marital affairs, this is a swinging site its about openess, honesty, exploring fantasies with other like minded people, it isnt about lieing and cheating."
Well I beg to differ. You can still do all that and have a partner at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when they are cheating.I beg to differ, enough of em on here.

there maybe plenty of people cheating on here, but doesnt change the fact its not swinging.So are you saying they don't belong here then?

yes i am, there are sites for cheating wives or extra marital affairs, this is a swinging site its about openess, honesty, exploring fantasies with other like minded people, it isnt about lieing and cheating.Well I beg to differ. You can still do all that and have a partner at home."

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when they are cheating.I beg to differ, enough of em on here.

there maybe plenty of people cheating on here, but doesnt change the fact its not swinging.So are you saying they don't belong here then?

yes i am, there are sites for cheating wives or extra marital affairs, this is a swinging site its about openess, honesty, exploring fantasies with other like minded people, it isnt about lieing and cheating."
I have a husband at home, who is unaware, so therefore I am a cheating wife, who hasnt had many physical meets, but enjoys them when she gets them. I am here because a friend suggested it and because I have not been getting sex at home for a very long time. So I should not be here or would you like me to leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when they are cheating.I beg to differ, enough of em on here.

there maybe plenty of people cheating on here, but doesnt change the fact its not swinging.So are you saying they don't belong here then?

yes i am, there are sites for cheating wives or extra marital affairs, this is a swinging site its about openess, honesty, exploring fantasies with other like minded people, it isnt about lieing and cheating.I have a husband at home, who is unaware, so therefore I am a cheating wife, who hasnt had many physical meets, but enjoys them when she gets them. I am here because a friend suggested it and because I have not been getting sex at home for a very long time. So I should not be here or would you like me to leave?"

Hell no you shouldn't leave just cos someone pontificates about what you can or can't do here. Admin set the site up allowed single profiles allowed you to be attached single and have a profile so they know what the site is for rather than some jumped up nobody you stop and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when they are cheating.I beg to differ, enough of em on here.

there maybe plenty of people cheating on here, but doesnt change the fact its not swinging.So are you saying they don't belong here then?

yes i am, there are sites for cheating wives or extra marital affairs, this is a swinging site its about openess, honesty, exploring fantasies with other like minded people, it isnt about lieing and cheating.I have a husband at home, who is unaware, so therefore I am a cheating wife, who hasnt had many physical meets, but enjoys them when she gets them. I am here because a friend suggested it and because I have not been getting sex at home for a very long time. So I should not be here or would you like me to leave?

Hell no you shouldn't leave just cos someone pontificates about what you can or can't do here. Admin set the site up allowed single profiles allowed you to be attached single and have a profile so they know what the site is for rather than some jumped up nobody you stop and have fun. "
Thank yu for your support, FG, im here for the chat, social or sex if im that lucky and to meet some nice guys. been lucky in that so far. Im staying no-one boots me out unless i want to leave

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I have a husband at home, who is unaware, so therefore I am a cheating wife, who hasnt had many physical meets, but enjoys them when she gets them. I am here because a friend suggested it and because I have not been getting sex at home for a very long time. So I should not be here or would you like me to leave?"

You are free to do what you want on here, just as others are free to judge you if they so wish. People are consistent for the most part when it comes to their views on cheating, be you a man or woman.

Personally i don't believe cheating is swinging in the truest sense of the word and what it entails. BUT.....i don't think cheaters should be carted off from here either. As long as they are honest about their situation to prospective playmates, then said playmates can make an informed decision whether to meet with them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a husband at home, who is unaware, so therefore I am a cheating wife, who hasnt had many physical meets, but enjoys them when she gets them. I am here because a friend suggested it and because I have not been getting sex at home for a very long time. So I should not be here or would you like me to leave?

You are free to do what you want on here, just as others are free to judge you if they so wish. People are consistent for the most part when it comes to their views on cheating, be you a man or woman.

Personally i don't believe cheating is swinging in the truest sense of the word and what it entails. BUT.....i don't think cheaters should be carted off from here either. As long as they are honest about their situation to prospective playmates, then said playmates can make an informed decision whether to meet with them or not."
Exactly I do get that swinging is not for cheaters, my profile clearly states I am married, twice actually If memory serves, so like you say is individuals choice whether to tangle with me or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a husband at home, who is unaware, so therefore I am a cheating wife, who hasnt had many physical meets, but enjoys them when she gets them. I am here because a friend suggested it and because I have not been getting sex at home for a very long time. So I should not be here or would you like me to leave?

You are free to do what you want on here, just as others are free to judge you if they so wish. People are consistent for the most part when it comes to their views on cheating, be you a man or woman.

Personally i don't believe cheating is swinging in the truest sense of the word and what it entails. BUT.....i don't think cheaters should be carted off from here either. As long as they are honest about their situation to prospective playmates, then said playmates can make an informed decision whether to meet with them or not."

And people judged then can be judged back and can't complain if they are judged intolerant, deceive, small minded and many more besides. They don't have a right to under any circumstances to tell others what they should or shouldn't do though.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't agree with cheating.

I do agree that one partner can have a different attitude to sex than their partner and CAN be swinging behind their partners back.

By that definition cheats can be swingers.

It's the relationship that's the lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree with cheating.

I do agree that one partner can have a different attitude to sex than their partner and CAN be swinging behind their partners back.

By that definition cheats can be swingers.

It's the relationship that's the lie."

Granny thank you, I had never thought of it like that but it makes total sense like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the site a year no meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree with cheating.

I do agree that one partner can have a different attitude to sex than their partner and CAN be swinging behind their partners back.

By that definition cheats can be swingers.

It's the relationship that's the lie."
I agree, my relationship is the lie and im the one lying, to myself as well as him when I get out to meet a guy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Im a single woman so I don't class myself as a ' swinger' ...

Free woman free to do what she wants with whom she chooses

Im pedantic too "

Not very, otherwise you might have put an apostrophe between the 'I' and the 'm' to make 'I'm' rather than 'Im'.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"On the site a year no meets"

Oh that's awful! I wonder why? Maybe you could ask 221 and find out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok so if your not on swingers sites and stuff and meeting for no strings fun SEX ......... what are you ? swinger and just don't know it , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't agree with cheating.

I do agree that one partner can have a different attitude to sex than their partner and CAN be swinging behind their partners back.

By that definition cheats can be swingers.

It's the relationship that's the lie."

Spot on Granny. It's one thing to be cheating on/lying to your partner/spouse. What 'grinds my gears' is when that lie is brought into 'our world' when people come onto this site (and others) and perpetuate it by not being honest with the Swinging Community (Ugh!, but can't think of another way to encapsulate it) and admitting they are playing away from home.

As I guy, I have more time for other guys who have the spherical objects to admit they are doing so, than those (including three my partner caught out this week alone) who make a pathetic attempt to conceal the truth. What they seem unable to see is that, in time, their honesty about their true situation will get them further, may help them see the reality of that situation and do something about it, one way or the other. All the time they are in denial about their own actions, they will just make the inevitable all the more painful for all concerned...

Sorry that's a rant that should have been confined to a Thursday, by the way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when hes a jar.

oh wrong joke....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when hes a jar.

oh wrong joke...."
lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one's that I think were NEVER swingers are the ones who 'meet' someone, and immediately declare a monogamastic state of mind.

Worse still they leave the site as if swingers are now vermin

Or even WORSE they STAY and oooooooze out their new found take on relationship in every forum thread.

They make me balk."

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

A very very very very small % of members of this site post on forums (1-2% if I can believe a recent post) so please tell me why I should honestly give a flying f**k about what you self righteous lot think!!! You do not hold the ultimate truth about 'swinging' oh wait...you think you do!! Lmaooo

I am having the best sex of my life. I swing from left to right, forward and backwards, round and round again...I must be a swinger then!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Im a single woman so I don't class myself as a ' swinger' ...

Free woman free to do what she wants with whom she chooses

Im pedantic too "

+1 - I struggle to class myself as a swinger because I am single...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very very very very small % of members of this site post on forums (1-2% if I can believe a recent post) so please tell me why I should honestly give a flying f**k about what you self righteous lot think!!! You do not hold the ultimate truth about 'swinging' oh wait...you think you do!! Lmaooo

I am having the best sex of my life. I swing from left to right, forward and backwards, round and round again...I must be a swinger then!

"
Second time i've seen this stat quoted this week, not sure what it proves. Forum users are a fraction of the open minded fun people on here?

I get that bit certainly,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very very very very small % of members of this site post on forums (1-2% if I can believe a recent post) so please tell me why I should honestly give a flying f**k about what you self righteous lot think!!! You do not hold the ultimate truth about 'swinging' oh wait...you think you do!! Lmaooo

I am having the best sex of my life. I swing from left to right, forward and backwards, round and round again...I must be a swinger then!

"

I think you'll see it was a discussion. As for self righteous not at all, I see there's no language barrier today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often see posts about being bi/gay/whatever and in the main, the usual majority response is 'oh why do we need labels' Wondering why the same principle doesn't apply in this instance? Does it actually matter how each individual uses the site.....is it not just enough the people do and thereby keep it going?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"A very very very very small % of members of this site post on forums (1-2% if I can believe a recent post) so please tell me why I should honestly give a flying f**k about what you self righteous lot think!!! You do not hold the ultimate truth about 'swinging' oh wait...you think you do!! Lmaooo

I am having the best sex of my life. I swing from left to right, forward and backwards, round and round again...I must be a swinger then!

"

Wow where did that come from

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"A very very very very small % of members of this site post on forums (1-2% if I can believe a recent post) so please tell me why I should honestly give a flying f**k about what you self righteous lot think!!! You do not hold the ultimate truth about 'swinging' oh wait...you think you do!! Lmaooo

I am having the best sex of my life. I swing from left to right, forward and backwards, round and round again...I must be a swinger then!

"

Now you can only call someone self righteous if they moralise and say what you do is wrong.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I often see posts about being bi/gay/whatever and in the main, the usual majority response is 'oh why do we need labels' Wondering why the same principle doesn't apply in this instance? Does it actually matter how each individual uses the site.....is it not just enough the people do and thereby keep it going? "

Amen...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 5p worth......

No one has the right to sit in judgement of anyone else on this site or indeed in life, Any person or couple on this site has the right ot take whatever path they choose and ultimately it is them that will pay the penalty if they are cheating , lying or being deceitful.

Yes there is a community on here but lets face it a huge majority of us will never actually meet so its juts words on a screen basically. Take out of Fab what you choose and do it for YOU not anyone else or what anyone else tells you you should.

If you have a clear concience and dont hurt anyone in the process then your all good and for those that choose to judge , preach or tell people how they should behave then ultimately karma will catch up in one way or another and that will be your downfall.

Thats my 5 pence worth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often see posts about being bi/gay/whatever and in the main, the usual majority response is 'oh why do we need labels' Wondering why the same principle doesn't apply in this instance? Does it actually matter how each individual uses the site.....is it not just enough the people do and thereby keep it going? "

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"My 5p worth......

No one has the right to sit in judgement of anyone else on this site or indeed in life, Any person or couple on this site has the right ot take whatever path they choose and ultimately it is them that will pay the penalty if they are cheating , lying or being deceitful.

Yes there is a community on here but lets face it a huge majority of us will never actually meet so its juts words on a screen basically. Take out of Fab what you choose and do it for YOU not anyone else or what anyone else tells you you should.

If you have a clear concience and dont hurt anyone in the process then your all good and for those that choose to judge , preach or tell people how they should behave then ultimately karma will catch up in one way or another and that will be your downfall.

Thats my 5 pence worth lol "

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

The stats came from an Admin...so they must know their stuff/stats!

My earlier post came from a pissed off Fabs member who is a confessed cheater so please do stay away from the single bi woman if you dont like cheaters (its not just the men you know...)...yes I am married and my OH does not know....I just want to have a great time...who cares what a swinger is or is not? Swinging is what I MAKE it!!!

This is not a discussion...it is becoming a witch hunt against cheaters....a judgmental rant...having a go at everyone that does not meet someobody's criteria...is this really what this community is about?..pretending to answer a question and having a go, stirring things up for the sake of entertainment....we have Simon Cowel for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There really are some hugely moralistic people on her and frankly, the fact that you always post with the proviso 'that my opinion and I'm entitled to it' doesn't make you any less moralistic!

Yes, everyone is entitled to their opinion, of course they are however, its only valid and worth listening to if its relevant to the particular thread and as I recall, the OP asked what constitues a swinger and the ones that dragged it off into a thread about cheaters (again, yawnnnnn!) aren't worth taking notice of in the context of this thread.

No one has the right to say who should and shouldn't be on this site. Ever! Even if its 'just your opinion'.

As someone mentioned, there are website for people who like to cheat so perhaps there should be one for people who like to fuck other peoples partners while labouring under the misapprehension that because permission has been given, that makes everything morally neat and tidy. Oh hang on, there is...

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"The stats came from an Admin...so they must know their stuff/stats!

My earlier post came from a pissed off Fabs member who is a confessed cheater so please do stay away from the single bi woman if you dont like cheaters (its not just the men you know...)...yes I am married and my OH does not know....I just want to have a great time...who cares what a swinger is or is not? Swinging is what I MAKE it!!!

This is not a discussion...it is becoming a witch hunt against cheaters....a judgmental rant...having a go at everyone that does not meet someobody's criteria...is this really what this community is about?..pretending to answer a question and having a go, stirring things up for the sake of entertainment....we have Simon Cowel for that. "

Confused....the subject of cheating was brought up by a couple wasn't it - looking through the posts...It was they who said swinging wasn't swinging when it was cheating....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The stats came from an Admin...so they must know their stuff/stats!

My earlier post came from a pissed off Fabs member who is a confessed cheater so please do stay away from the single bi woman if you dont like cheaters (its not just the men you know...)...yes I am married and my OH does not know....I just want to have a great time...who cares what a swinger is or is not? Swinging is what I MAKE it!!!

This is not a discussion...it is becoming a witch hunt against cheaters....a judgmental rant...having a go at everyone that does not meet someobody's criteria...is this really what this community is about?..pretending to answer a question and having a go, stirring things up for the sake of entertainment....we have Simon Cowel for that. "

Excuse me but I am a bi single and I'm def not cheating on anyone

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"The stats came from an Admin...so they must know their stuff/stats!

My earlier post came from a pissed off Fabs member who is a confessed cheater so please do stay away from the single bi woman if you dont like cheaters (its not just the men you know...)...yes I am married and my OH does not know....I just want to have a great time...who cares what a swinger is or is not? Swinging is what I MAKE it!!!

This is not a discussion...it is becoming a witch hunt against cheaters....a judgmental rant...having a go at everyone that does not meet someobody's criteria...is this really what this community is about?..pretending to answer a question and having a go, stirring things up for the sake of entertainment....we have Simon Cowel for that.

Excuse me but I am a bi single and I'm def not cheating on anyone "

Not excused

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"The stats came from an Admin...so they must know their stuff/stats!

My earlier post came from a pissed off Fabs member who is a confessed cheater so please do stay away from the single bi woman if you dont like cheaters (its not just the men you know...)...yes I am married and my OH does not know....I just want to have a great time...who cares what a swinger is or is not? Swinging is what I MAKE it!!!

This is not a discussion...it is becoming a witch hunt against cheaters....a judgmental rant...having a go at everyone that does not meet someobody's criteria...is this really what this community is about?..pretending to answer a question and having a go, stirring things up for the sake of entertainment....we have Simon Cowel for that.

Excuse me but I am a bi single and I'm def not cheating on anyone "

Not talking about you so...dont flatter yourself!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The stats came from an Admin...so they must know their stuff/stats!

My earlier post came from a pissed off Fabs member who is a confessed cheater so please do stay away from the single bi woman if you dont like cheaters (its not just the men you know...)...yes I am married and my OH does not know....I just want to have a great time...who cares what a swinger is or is not? Swinging is what I MAKE it!!!

This is not a discussion...it is becoming a witch hunt against cheaters....a judgmental rant...having a go at everyone that does not meet someobody's criteria...is this really what this community is about?..pretending to answer a question and having a go, stirring things up for the sake of entertainment....we have Simon Cowel for that.

Excuse me but I am a bi single and I'm def not cheating on anyone

Not talking about you so...dont flatter yourself!"

But you said to stay away from the single bi woman , that's me so how can you not be talking about me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get a post from a young man saying he loves being a swinger its opened up a new world. And one day he hope to meet people and not just on cam.. He is a swing virgin , So theres ones that do ... ones that don't and ones that think about it .. all swingers in there way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The stats came from an Admin...so they must know their stuff/stats!

My earlier post came from a pissed off Fabs member who is a confessed cheater so please do stay away from the single bi woman if you dont like cheaters (its not just the men you know...)...yes I am married and my OH does not know....I just want to have a great time...who cares what a swinger is or is not? Swinging is what I MAKE it!!!

This is not a discussion...it is becoming a witch hunt against cheaters....a judgmental rant...having a go at everyone that does not meet someobody's criteria...is this really what this community is about?..pretending to answer a question and having a go, stirring things up for the sake of entertainment....we have Simon Cowel for that. "

A witch hunt it is not. You enjoy your good time, its your husband I feel sorry for,.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"The stats came from an Admin...so they must know their stuff/stats!

My earlier post came from a pissed off Fabs member who is a confessed cheater so please do stay away from the single bi woman if you dont like cheaters (its not just the men you know...)...yes I am married and my OH does not know....I just want to have a great time...who cares what a swinger is or is not? Swinging is what I MAKE it!!!

This is not a discussion...it is becoming a witch hunt against cheaters....a judgmental rant...having a go at everyone that does not meet someobody's criteria...is this really what this community is about?..pretending to answer a question and having a go, stirring things up for the sake of entertainment....we have Simon Cowel for that.

Excuse me but I am a bi single and I'm def not cheating on anyone

Not talking about you so...dont flatter yourself!

But you said to stay away from the single bi woman , that's me so how can you not be talking about me "

Sorry! but this whole rant was about me...I should have had the '' on either side of 'single'...see we are back to language barrier lol or writing barriers. You make me laugh - not in a bad way OK so chill...laughing with you, more like!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You see for some just being on site like fab ........ makes them a swinger in there eyes .. I am sure .. its why I ask this . we get a right mix of people and its whats right for you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The stats came from an Admin...so they must know their stuff/stats!

My earlier post came from a pissed off Fabs member who is a confessed cheater so please do stay away from the single bi woman if you dont like cheaters (its not just the men you know...)...yes I am married and my OH does not know....I just want to have a great time...who cares what a swinger is or is not? Swinging is what I MAKE it!!!

This is not a discussion...it is becoming a witch hunt against cheaters....a judgmental rant...having a go at everyone that does not meet someobody's criteria...is this really what this community is about?..pretending to answer a question and having a go, stirring things up for the sake of entertainment....we have Simon Cowel for that.

Excuse me but I am a bi single and I'm def not cheating on anyone

Not talking about you so...dont flatter yourself!

But you said to stay away from the single bi woman , that's me so how can you not be talking about me

Sorry! but this whole rant was about me...I should have had the '' on either side of 'single'...see we are back to language barrier lol or writing barriers. You make me laugh - not in a bad way OK so chill...laughing with you, more like! "

Phew cos I've been searching everywhere for the man I'm cheating on and couldn't find him

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Phew cos I've been searching everywhere for the man I'm cheating on and couldn't find him "

Is that wishful thinking again FMR???

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"You see for some just being on site like fab ........ makes them a swinger in there eyes .. I am sure .. its why I ask this . we get a right mix of people and its whats right for you ."

Only 140 miles to Norwich ..I bet I can be there in 3 hours...(I will have to stop for a wee . Its all those vibrations Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phew cos I've been searching everywhere for the man I'm cheating on and couldn't find him

Is that wishful thinking again FMR??? "

Yep

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Phew cos I've been searching everywhere for the man I'm cheating on and couldn't find him

Is that wishful thinking again FMR???

Yep "

Loving your style....

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Phew cos I've been searching everywhere for the man I'm cheating on and couldn't find him

Is that wishful thinking again FMR??? "

Why would you automatically think cheating is about cheating on a man???? Just a question!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You see for some just being on site like fab ........ makes them a swinger in there eyes .. I am sure .. its why I ask this . we get a right mix of people and its whats right for you .

Only 140 miles to Norwich ..I bet I can be there in 3 hours...(I will have to stop for a wee . Its all those vibrations Lol "
better stop all weekend .. lol feel my vibs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phew cos I've been searching everywhere for the man I'm cheating on and couldn't find him

Is that wishful thinking again FMR???

Why would you automatically think cheating is about cheating on a man???? Just a question! "

Good point, for me it's because I wouldn't have a full blown relationship with a woman

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"You see for some just being on site like fab ........ makes them a swinger in there eyes .. I am sure .. its why I ask this . we get a right mix of people and its whats right for you .

Only 140 miles to Norwich ..I bet I can be there in 3 hours...(I will have to stop for a wee . Its all those vibrations Lol better stop all weekend .. lol feel my vibs. "

Ha ha Hopefully lady vibs xxx So difficult to know with couple whom you're addressing

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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"Phew cos I've been searching everywhere for the man I'm cheating on and couldn't find him

Is that wishful thinking again FMR???

Why would you automatically think cheating is about cheating on a man???? Just a question!

Good point, for me it's because I wouldn't have a full blown relationship with a woman "

Nor would I! Being bi-sexual for me means enjoying men and women in equal measures, one on one or in groups.

Now if you will excuse me....OH calls so I will be back for more banter as soon as I can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You see for some just being on site like fab ........ makes them a swinger in there eyes .. I am sure .. its why I ask this . we get a right mix of people and its whats right for you .

Only 140 miles to Norwich ..I bet I can be there in 3 hours...(I will have to stop for a wee . Its all those vibrations Lol better stop all weekend .. lol feel my vibs.

Ha ha Hopefully lady vibs xxx So difficult to know with couple whom you're addressing "
me jo fem , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeeeez! I go away and cook dinner and what happens while my back is turned????

What the above boils down to is this: There will ALWAYS be people in sexless/loveless relationships who turn to swinging to bring some 'excitement' or whatever they want to call it to their sex lives in the broadest sense.

If that is without their partners consent then that - most people would accept - is cheating.

But... having been in a crap relationship for many years (although I didn't play away - she did) I can well understand how unfulfilled someone feels in that situation and why they would want to change their part of it, but also why they cannot just pack up and leave the relationship. There are myriad reasons why someone cannot - or may not wish to - just 'up and leave'.

The difference comes when people in that position are NOT upfront about their relationship situation and are passing themselves off as something they are not.

It's the old saying:- Forewarned is forearmed. If you KNOW their TRUE relationship position then you can make an informed, adult decision whether you want to get involved or not. It's not being judgmental. It's being realistic.

(Dons tin helmet and retires to fall-out bunker... )

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Jeeeeez! I go away and cook dinner and what happens while my back is turned????

What the above boils down to is this: There will ALWAYS be people in sexless/loveless relationships who turn to swinging to bring some 'excitement' or whatever they want to call it to their sex lives in the broadest sense.

If that is without their partners consent then that - most people would accept - is cheating.

But... having been in a crap relationship for many years (although I didn't play away - she did) I can well understand how unfulfilled someone feels in that situation and why they would want to change their part of it, but also why they cannot just pack up and leave the relationship. There are myriad reasons why someone cannot - or may not wish to - just 'up and leave'.

The difference comes when people in that position are NOT upfront about their relationship situation and are passing themselves off as something they are not.

It's the old saying:- Forewarned is forearmed. If you KNOW their TRUE relationship position then you can make an informed, adult decision whether you want to get involved or not. It's not being judgmental. It's being realistic.

(Dons tin helmet and retires to fall-out bunker... )"

Castor and Pollux over here are clapping furiously!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Jeeeeez! I go away and cook dinner and what happens while my back is turned????

What the above boils down to is this: There will ALWAYS be people in sexless/loveless relationships who turn to swinging to bring some 'excitement' or whatever they want to call it to their sex lives in the broadest sense.

If that is without their partners consent then that - most people would accept - is cheating.

But... having been in a crap relationship for many years (although I didn't play away - she did) I can well understand how unfulfilled someone feels in that situation and why they would want to change their part of it, but also why they cannot just pack up and leave the relationship. There are myriad reasons why someone cannot - or may not wish to - just 'up and leave'.

The difference comes when people in that position are NOT upfront about their relationship situation and are passing themselves off as something they are not.

It's the old saying:- Forewarned is forearmed. If you KNOW their TRUE relationship position then you can make an informed, adult decision whether you want to get involved or not. It's not being judgmental. It's being realistic.

(Dons tin helmet and retires to fall-out bunker... )"

Very well put!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a husband at home, who is unaware, so therefore I am a cheating wife, who hasnt had many physical meets, but enjoys them when she gets them. I am here because a friend suggested it and because I have not been getting sex at home for a very long time. So I should not be here or would you like me to leave?

the difference been you inform people of your situation so they can make there choice, however cheating is still wrong, and its the lieing and threads that attempt to glorify it that are the worst.

You are free to do what you want on here, just as others are free to judge you if they so wish. People are consistent for the most part when it comes to their views on cheating, be you a man or woman.

Personally i don't believe cheating is swinging in the truest sense of the word and what it entails. BUT.....i don't think cheaters should be carted off from here either. As long as they are honest about their situation to prospective playmates, then said playmates can make an informed decision whether to meet with them or not.Exactly I do get that swinging is not for cheaters, my profile clearly states I am married, twice actually If memory serves, so like you say is individuals choice whether to tangle with me or not. "

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Swinging is what the individual (or couple) personally chooses it to be.

Simple as that

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

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aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh i am so chilled, the big bad teddy bear could eat me up I would enjoy it

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