FabSwingers.com forum: Giving people a second chance on fab.

By *ABflirty OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Norwich

How likely are you to give people a second chance on fab if they let you down in some way. ??

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

I'll give a second chance but not a third one

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By *nya NeesWoman
12 weeks ago

Brum

Depends on the circumstances. If legit then second chance is fine

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By *ags73Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Nope.

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By *inx000Couple
12 weeks ago

Manchester

I do give second chances but that's where I draw a line.If you let me down again after that then your wasting my time.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
12 weeks ago

Bristol

It’s contextual, it would entirely depend on the nature of how I was let down

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
12 weeks ago

Maidstone

Completely depends on the circumstances and how genuine I think the person is. I don't do blanket responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Zero these days, being the nice girl gets tiring.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Sure.

I'm not that self obsessed, people have lives away from here and things happen.

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By *aitonelMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

If a second chance is good enough for jesus, it's good enough for me!

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By *asterfulsoulMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester

I'll give the most boring answer on any thread but: it depends.

I/we once gave someone three chances to meet which were frustrated by car trouble and.. I can't remember what else. Each time it was believable and I had sympathy for them, but at some point you have to pull the plug.

I've also had a few people just.. not turn up, then message me a few weeks later with excuses and asking to set up another meet. Obviously I didn't give any of them a second chance 🤷

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By *amie HantsWoman
12 weeks ago

Atlantis

It would completely depend on the situation and how they handled it, if they’ve done it before etc.

I think a blanket Yes or No is too extreme either way.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
12 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Depends what it was. If something came up and I thought it was genuine of course I would.

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By *ccasionallyNaughtyWoman
12 weeks ago

Sussex

Nah, plenty more fish in the sea as they say, and I'm not up for being stood up or messed around for a second time if someone fucked about first time. The "dead nan/dog/goldfish" excuse has been given too many times now 🤣

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Depends what they fucked up and how, and how invested I am.

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By *elix SightedMan
12 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Nope, fuckem.

It would be different if it’s someone I already know as that’s an existing friendship and I know they’re not taking the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Depends on the situation around whatever it was.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Nope.

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands

All depends on the context tbh.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Do am you watch a crap film expecting it to be better second time around?

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By *winging for the fencesMan
12 weeks ago

london

Depending on the reason but regardless of anything there wouldn't be a 3rd chance

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

It all depends on how the person let me down plus how much I respect or like them 😁

But once done whomever it may be they’re dead to me 👍🏽

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
12 weeks ago

kent

I recently let someone down, and I feel shit about it. We’ve been trying to meet up for ages and life just keeps getting in the way. I had a free weekend in the middle of a project, so I said yes. Then my days on the project got increased and as I’m under contract for the duration, I couldn’t say no. She’s a beautiful person, and someone I really like, someone I really want to know much better as a friend and maybe a lot more, so I’m hoping other chances will follow. Sometimes, life doesn’t always work out for you. So second chances can be very welcome. But it is of course up to the individuals involved. Like almost everything else, context is key. Xx

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By *ecky and justCouple
12 weeks ago

Godalming

If we know them well then we’ll be understanding.

If it’s someone new then no, no second chance.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
12 weeks ago

North West

If they have a really good reason, then yes I will. But if they fuck me off like what happened last week, blocking me and not having the courtesy to say no. Then they can quite frankly fuck off.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
12 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

None now. I've been burnt too many times, so I drew a line for myself

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By *ildTimes.Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"How likely are you to give people a second chance on fab if they let you down in some way. ??"

Depends...how big are her tiddys?

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By *B69Woman
12 weeks ago

Wiltshire

If they had to cancel for a legitimate reason then yes they have a second chance, we all have lives to live.

If a date was arranged and they go quiet but pop up a week later apologising then no second chance.

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By *ee69Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow

For right folk and there gen then aye , I’m a sucker for a pretty girl tho , there’s one a would love a send chance with

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By *riendlyPhilyMan
12 weeks ago

Bexley

There Lucky to get a first chance

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

I’ll give them a chance to explain their 1st misdemeanour which will lead to no 2nd chance

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By *ell GwynnWoman
12 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

It totally depends on the person, the situation, and how they go about cancelling. Some people, yes. Others, no.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
12 weeks ago

The Continental

Depends how much I wanna bang ‘em.

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By *ee69Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow

"Depends how much I wanna bang ‘em. "

lol an honest answer sir lol

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
12 weeks ago

Stoke

Zero, zilch, none as it's just swinging.

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By *ira2024Woman
12 weeks ago

"Depends what they fucked up and how, and how invested I am."

Same 🙌🏻

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By *riel13Woman
12 weeks ago

Northampton

It's hard enough to get me to give people a first chance, these days... Got no hope for a second

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By *cflirtyMan
12 weeks ago

Hampshire

Depends.... if first time and no response- absolutely no chance

But with good reason - why not!

2 snubs and you are out!

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By *ags73Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Nope."

Thinking about it I probably would as I can be soft as shite sometimes

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By *he AmbassadorMan
12 weeks ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Depends on the offence OP.

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