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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am sure I am not the only guy on here that takes medication to help with erections and repeat performances. After all the pressure to perform is great. After discussing with a friend, I know there is more to swing than a cock and I have other qualities...there for I have decided to let my body work in its natural way...My cock will rise, go limp then rise, it's part of nature and an age thing. I know how to please a lady, so won't pop after I have used my last two up...

If a guy doesn't rise/perform would it put you ladies off meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have repeated said this in the past: there is more than one way to please a lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

Its a pressure thing ... most women would understand that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not at all

Its a pressure thing ... most women would understand that "

I have had mixed reactions in the vanilla world one girlfriend couldn't accept it, the other was great and supportive...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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If a guy doesn't rise/perform would it put you ladies off meeting?

"

Not at all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is so much more than having a permanent hard cock. .ok if it goes limp you have your fingers and tongue and mouth. .Most women are totally understanding xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all

Its a pressure thing ... most women would understand that

I have had mixed reactions in the vanilla world one girlfriend couldn't accept it, the other was great and supportive..."

I think it can be difficult especially on here because the woman may think its her and thats the reason. If it was a girlfriend then hopefully it would be someone who would support x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is so much more than having a permanent hard cock. .ok if it goes limp you have your fingers and tongue and mouth. .Most women are totally understanding xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If I have arranged to meet someone for sex then I am afraid I would be disappointed if sex then did not happen. Its nice to be entertained with tongue and fingers, but after a while fingers start hurting, and once I come orally it takes me a while to 'come down'. Just at that point I would love a hard cock to slide into me, but if the gentleman struggles to perform it would be like half a meet for me.

Also, sucking a soft cock for ages isn't as entertaining as you think. I prefer to see that my energies are turning someone on.

I wouldn't ever want to pressure someone into trying to perform, but I would prefer to know that there might be a problem, and choose whether to meet accordingly.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"There is so much more than having a permanent hard cock. .ok if it goes limp you have your fingers and tongue and mouth. .Most women are totally understanding xxx"

I have no interest in a guys tongue and fingers....

Still wouldnt be problem for me..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Hey tongue, I'd need to watch close up to make a mature and informed decision

My cock goes hard and soft at intervals during a sex session and it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I hope people don't just want my body but if they do, there's a lot more of me than just my cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt bother me, jules, in the least, other ways to please eachother, kissing massage etc, little fella will show his head when hrs ready xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather a guy got hard because he met me and not because he has taken something to make him hard. Have actually requested a guy not to take the little blue pill because it didn't sit right with me ,he didn't and we had a fantastic night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather a guy got hard because he met me and not because he has taken something to make him hard. Have actually requested a guy not to take the little blue pill because it didn't sit right with me ,he didn't and we had a fantastic night "

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"If I have arranged to meet someone for sex then I am afraid I would be disappointed if sex then did not happen. Its nice to be entertained with tongue and fingers, but after a while fingers start hurting, and once I come orally it takes me a while to 'come down'. Just at that point I would love a hard cock to slide into me, but if the gentleman struggles to perform it would be like half a meet for me.

Also, sucking a soft cock for ages isn't as entertaining as you think. I prefer to see that my energies are turning someone on.

I wouldn't ever want to pressure someone into trying to perform, but I would prefer to know that there might be a problem, and choose whether to meet accordingly."

100% agree

I don't mind a cock going limp after the guy has cum, as long as it's not too soon

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I would rather a guy got hard because he met me and not because he has taken something to make him hard. Have actually requested a guy not to take the little blue pill because it didn't sit right with me ,he didn't and we had a fantastic night "

The little blue pill doesnt just make them hard....

If you didnt do it for him it simply wouldnt work....

Its designed to KEEP them hard....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather a guy got hard because he met me and not because he has taken something to make him hard. Have actually requested a guy not to take the little blue pill because it didn't sit right with me ,he didn't and we had a fantastic night

The little blue pill doesnt just make them hard....

If you didnt do it for him it simply wouldnt work....

Its designed to KEEP them hard....

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Sorry , I didn't know that.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


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Sorry , I didn't know that. "

Mind you, you dont want a guy you have just met to be going at it all night....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Sorry , I didn't know that.

Mind you, you dont want a guy you have just met to be going at it all night.... "

That is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been tempted to slip a little something into someones coffee on the odd occasion - at his age he needs a little 'helping hand' now n then

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

Interesting thread. I have no problem getting hard and staying there EXCEPT, without fail, if i am giving oral

For a long time, i do lose it, but it springs back quickly. I can take ages to cum, but, and here is my admission, once i have cum thats it. I dont know if it is physical or mental. "Done it, time to do something else (sleep, go home etc).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am sure I am not the only guy on here that takes medication to help with erections and repeat performances. After all the pressure to perform is great. After discussing with a friend, I know there is more to swing than a cock and I have other qualities...there for I have decided to let my body work in its natural way...My cock will rise, go limp then rise, it's part of nature and an age thing. I know how to please a lady, so won't pop after I have used my last two up...

If a guy doesn't rise/perform would it put you ladies off meeting?

"

If I liked someone one or so episode wouldn't put me off, I might wonder if its down to me net being attractive enough but I wouldn't have a problem taking time to the end goal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am sure I am not the only guy on here that takes medication to help with erections and repeat performances. After all the pressure to perform is great. After discussing with a friend, I know there is more to swing than a cock and I have other qualities...there for I have decided to let my body work in its natural way...My cock will rise, go limp then rise, it's part of nature and an age thing. I know how to please a lady, so won't pop after I have used my last two up...

If a guy doesn't rise/perform would it put you ladies off meeting?

"

Things that have a bearing...

Tiredness

stress

pressure to perform

Psychological damage through previous relationships/ meets...

Just a few factors

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