FabSwingers.com forum: If you could name and shame would you?

By *iggi3 OP Man
1 week ago

And why?

How did they do you dirty?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
1 week ago

Den of Iniquity

Although I don't and won't I do feel like letting other social organisers names of folk who don't turn up without letting the host know at all ..

It bloody irritates me ..

Takes 2 minutes to let the host know you can't make up ..

Courtesy is paramount I thought

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By *iker JackMan
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

No. Who knows what you are saying is the truth and vice versa

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By *ah HumbugMan
1 week ago

here and there

Wonko’s a prick he never turns up

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By *iggi3 OP Man
1 week ago

"No. Who knows what you are saying is the truth and vice versa "

Surely the person in question could see the post and defend themselves?

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By *iker JackMan
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

"No. Who knows what you are saying is the truth and vice versa

Surely the person in question could see the post and defend themselves? "

Why should they. The damage is done at that point.

The site has a facility to report people use that instead

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By *umpkinandCakeCouple
1 week ago

Hitchin

"X didn't show up to a meet"

"Yes I did, Y didn't show up"

"Yes I did"

Every other forum post and just repeat until the end of time.. would be tedious and annoying to trawl through!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

Publicly, hard no.

Letting event organisers and hosts know privately if someone poses a risk to the community, absolutely 💜

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By *tephanie63Woman
1 week ago

BRIDGWATER

No I wouldn't name and shame, if I felt necessary I would report the person to admin..

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By *_rosesCouple
1 week ago

Bolton

Never felt the need to name and shame we just use the notes system to remind ourselves about them and maybe even the block button if needs be and then move on

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By *r John WickMan
1 week ago

The Continental

Nah, I don’t see any point in wasting my energy on it. There’s no real punishment for it, so why bother?

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By *agnar73Man
1 week ago

glasgow-ish

Nope.

I’m not sure what good would come from it

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

No. Life is too short for that.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 week ago

Leeds

No, I ain't got time for drama.

Mrs

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
1 week ago

Staffordshire

Meli forgot my name.

Don’t meet her, you’re just a piece of meat to her 🥲

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By *aizyWoman
1 week ago

west midlands

No. If it was that bad I would report them, I get over things on here pretty quickly though just forget and move on.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
1 week ago

Stoke

No one is that Important here to name, sorry! It's just swinging.

Mr F.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
1 week ago

kent

If I thought someone was a danger to others I would report them, but otherwise, Nope. Guaranteed it would create more problems than it solves.

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

"Meli forgot my name.

Don’t meet her, you’re just a piece of meat to her 🥲"

You're a chateaubriand, not just a piece of meat. Don't talk yourself down like that. 🩷

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By *amie HantsWoman
1 week ago

Atlantis

Yes. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. If there’s one thing this site is missing, it’s more shaming.

Take Meli for example. The heathen doesn’t have jam on crumpets

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By *Silver-Man
1 week ago

Southport

No, wouldn't name and shame

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

As tempting as it is, you just have to let it go. I also think it takes two to tango and your experience might not be their experience... Or others

Block +delete sure helps

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By *r John WickMan
1 week ago

The Continental

"Yes. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. If there’s one thing this site is missing, it’s more shaming.

Take Meli for example. The heathen doesn’t have jam on crumpets "

EVERYONE knows about Meli though, and she has no shame.

So a friend told me anyway.

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
1 week ago

District 13

Yeah I’d love to and not because they’ve done anything to me I just think they’re twats 😂😂😂

As they may think of me 😂😂

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By *lym4realCouple
1 week ago

plymouth

Nope as it would then get rather silly and we've been at the end of rumours/naming shaming ( sort of ) spread about us and our socials when we did them in the past ! and we just moved on and twas amusing though and just bad manners in the end if you can't be botherd to show up at a meeting or a social event or sad gits if that's how you get your kicks ? or per chance a combo of both !?

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By *ffy.Woman
1 week ago

Fife

Publicly? No. I’d rather not have to deal with all the drama it could cause

If they had done something that could potentially put a friend or as others have said, people at an event at risk, I’d do it privately.

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By *nalleesaMan
1 week ago

Bangor

Just block them

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 week ago

Central

No. It's vulgar and inappropriate. We consent to sex and naming and shaming is likely to reflect on people who get offers declined. The whole process should have full discretion around it.

Plus, it's further open to abuse.

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By *ad NannaWoman
1 week ago

East London

"Meli forgot my name.

Don’t meet her, you’re just a piece of meat to her 🥲"

Oh Sid, that's awful 😔

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By *ig1gaz1Man
1 week ago

bradford

No i wouldnt name and shame openly.

Too also name and shame them to others i wouldnt do unless they pose a risk to others.

Therefore i might name them, so that person is on there guard.

As its been mentioned on here before where people have removed condoms and gone bareback without consent.

then in that case you should inform the others so they are aware of this action.

Would i name and shame over gossip no as i wouldnt like it done to me.

people meet and gossip spreads often on these forums even when the people dont know them personally.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

The Town by The Cross

No. I would never name and shame as it's laughingly called.

1. It shows your immaturity and tantrum status and your pathetic attempt to hit back or discredit someone.

2. You'd be naming and shaming according to your own criteria and not everybody elses.

3. You actually delude yourself into thinking that anyone else wants to know or even gives a fuck about your over inflated ego and pathetic sex life.

4. Everyone else is an adult who adults and makes adult decisions in an adult manner. One day you will be too.

5. It doesn't get you shagged. It just expends extra energy on a negative result.

That'll do for now.

No I wouldn't because I have always chosen and organised slowly and safely and surround myself with people with my values....

Go me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S. When I use the word 'your' I mean that in a non specific generic way it isn't aimed at any individual

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By *aven.Woman
1 week ago

Not the North West...

No.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
1 week ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No I don't want to give the twats any space in my brain, I'm a cut and block kinda disgruntled gal

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By *oo..Woman
1 week ago

Boo's World

100% I would if they had done something to me verbally or physically.

This is supposed to be a site for adults only, but the behaviour and bullying behaviours of some people on here either by one person or in groups is and has always been horrendous to see and deal with.

You get the option to report it , but nothing happens to them.

If they don't want to be outed for something then surely don't do it?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
1 week ago

Den of Iniquity

"100% I would if they had done something to me verbally or physically.

You get the option to report it , but nothing happens to them.

If they don't want to be outed for something then surely don't do it?

💯

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 week ago

Paradise, Herts

God no. Besides you’d make yourself look a right twat. I always think that about people who do it on statuses.

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By *agnar73Man
1 week ago

glasgow-ish

"God no. Besides you’d make yourself look a right twat. I always think that about people who do it on statuses. "

Understand why, but it does no good

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

"No I wouldn't name and shame, if I felt necessary I would report the person to admin.."

^^^^^^^ This.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
1 week ago

chichester

"No one is that Important here to name, sorry! It's just swinging.

Mr F. "

Based

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