FabSwingers.com forum: Turn off.? What is it.?

By *ABflirty OP Woman
39 weeks ago

Norfolk Coast

We all like being turned on…but what makes it all come to a stop? What’s your biggest turn off .?

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By *NormalMan01Man
39 weeks ago

Harrogate

Rudeness. I can’t stand it, when someone is just too abrupt and rude. Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Selfishness

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
39 weeks ago

Always on the move

Arrogance, rudeness, "I'm alright jack" mentality, self absorbed

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By *orki3guyMan
39 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Hygiene, or lack of it.

Arrogance - we're all human beings with lives and feelings. We're on here to meet and have sex (well, most of us anyway). Get over yourself, be clear, be polite, and get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Desperation

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By *onnynclaireCouple
39 weeks ago

Reading

Cockiness.

Don’t be so sure of yourself.

We don’t mind confidence but cockiness is a real turn off for us.

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By *imples24Man
39 weeks ago

tamworth

Before hand has to be rude people

During asking what’s for dinner or similar question 🤣

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
39 weeks ago

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During sex, an immediate turn off is if someone does something out of my comfort zone, without warning or getting permission.

In dating or day to day life, I find needy, persistent behaviour a complete turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Lack of confidence. It’s not their fault of course, but I’m attracted to confidence which isn’t mine.

If i’m constantly having to validate everything they do/say/wear then I’m going to be turned off pretty quick. I’m a natural hype girl and cheerleader as it is but it gets draining when someone constantly needs more

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
39 weeks ago

Leeds

Arrogance, selfishness, self entitlement, bad breath.....

Mrs

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By *ABflirty OP Woman
39 weeks ago

Norfolk Coast

For me people who lie. And people who think they know me but dont and make stuff up. Its a Big turn off .

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By *aren_nylonsWoman
39 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

Was just called ‘Baby girl’

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By *r SensualMan
39 weeks ago

London

Getting asked my penis size 🤨

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
39 weeks ago

Birmingham/Lowestoft

Rudeness for me, that and being laughed at kills the mood lol

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By *ags73Man
39 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Arrogance, rudeness and inability to understand others are the things that annoy me.

In terms of sex, bad kissers

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By *ickxstevensMan
39 weeks ago

london

I was thinking about this the other day and mine is curly hair. A woman could be everything I've ever wanted in a person but if they've got curly hair- No.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
39 weeks ago

Ipswich

Arrogance

Entitlement

Rude

We all have right to do and say whatever we want whether you agree or not is you’re prerogative

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By *iggi3Man
39 weeks ago

Body odour

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
39 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Snogging like an octopus

Trying to do something I've said no to

Referring to themselves as daddy..

All guaranteed to dry me up quicker than the Sahara in summer

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Poor dental hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

A wife who only gives boring sex. Might as well have no sex at all

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By *ripfillMan
39 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

People having NO regard for others, and their property

Arrogance, poor manners and a self belief they are always right …

…. Please how long have we got …. lol

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By *ABflirty OP Woman
39 weeks ago

Norfolk Coast

smell BO I hate it even when out in super market smell some people yukk xx

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By *ags73Man
39 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Snogging like an octopus

Trying to do something I've said no to

Referring to themselves as daddy..

All guaranteed to dry me up quicker than the Sahara in summer "

Got called ‘daddy’ in a message. Horrible 😬

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By *vaRoseWoman
39 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Degredation or humiliation language.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
39 weeks ago

Bristol

“Daddy” just no

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By *ABflirty OP Woman
39 weeks ago

Norfolk Coast

"“Daddy” just no "
I get called mummy no i dont with to be that to no one on fab . lol

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
39 weeks ago

Bristol

"“Daddy” just no I get called mummy no i dont with to be that to no one on fab . lol

Yeah I really just can’t with that, it’s vile

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By *ags73Man
39 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"“Daddy” just no I get called mummy no i dont with to be that to no one on fab . lol

Yeah I really just can’t with that, it’s vile "

It’s just horrible

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By *zChiefWoman
39 weeks ago

middle of somewhere

Arrogance .. lying .. etc

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
39 weeks ago

Bristol

"“Daddy” just no I get called mummy no i dont with to be that to no one on fab . lol

Yeah I really just can’t with that, it’s vile

It’s just horrible "

Thank you! Nothing would make me up and leave quicker than being called that, thanks no fucking thanks!

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By *luebell888Woman
39 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"A wife who only gives boring sex. Might as well have no sex at all

Or maybe the male should stimulate her more. Sex is a 2 way thing.

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By *ags73Man
39 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Arrogance .. lying .. etc "

Had that in non-fab life. Prefer not to have to do again

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
39 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"A wife who only gives boring sex. Might as well have no sex at all

Or maybe the male should stimulate her more. Sex is a 2 way thing."

A bad workman always blames his tools 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Arrogance can turn someone real pretty to real ugly very quick.

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By *ookie46Woman
39 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Dishonesty and arrogance

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By *ools and the brainCouple
39 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

The Dutch

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Simping.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
39 weeks ago

Bristol

"The Dutch "

And people who are intolerant of others cultures? (If you get the quote)

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By *ccasionallyNaughtyWoman
39 weeks ago

Nearby

Bad smells/breath

Nasty teeth

Bushy beards

Arrogance

Underbites

And a whole load more - I'm picky 🤣

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By *exxyyDy11Man
39 weeks ago

North West

"The Dutch "

Why? I like the Dutch 🤔

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By *ools and the brainCouple
39 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"The Dutch

And people who are intolerant of others cultures? (If you get the quote) "

Yup

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By *riar BelisseWoman
39 weeks ago

Holibobs

Smells are my main one, I've a sensitive nose and if I'm gagging, I'm off

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"I was thinking about this the other day and mine is curly hair. A woman could be everything I've ever wanted in a person but if they've got curly hair- No. "

And we could have had such beautiful children 🤣🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Photo tattoos of family members

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By *exxyyDy11Man
39 weeks ago

North West

People who are rude to waiters or bar staff in pubs or restaurants. They can quite frankly fuck off.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
39 weeks ago

Bristol

"The Dutch

And people who are intolerant of others cultures? (If you get the quote)

Yup

Brilliant! It popped into my mind as soon as I read it, in his exact voice too

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Bad kissing

Smelly people

Unwashed look/dirty nails

Grown out scruffy haircuts

Dinner stains down their clothes

Fake tan

Piss poor attitudes

Lack of effort when doing "The Sex"

Cars that look like dustbins on the inside .

That's a few basics so far 🤣🤭

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Wonko

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By *ools and the brainCouple
39 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Bad kissing

Smelly people

Unwashed look/dirty nails

Grown out scruffy haircuts

Dinner stains down their clothes

Fake tan

Piss poor attitudes

Lack of effort when doing "The Sex"

Cars that look like dustbins on the inside .

That's a few basics so far 🤣🤭

Shit that's me right out of the picture then

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By *ools and the brainCouple
39 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Wonko "

I was going to say wonko but thought it wouldn't be fair to wonko.

Disclaimer: no wonkos were hurt in the making of this thread

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By *weetiepie99Woman
39 weeks ago

cardiff

If I'm not their priority, even if its just for a short time, I don't want to be just an option

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By *tr8MrEMan
39 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

When they decide they are something they really are not...pretence is a killer

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By *ags73Man
39 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Bad kissing

Smelly people

Unwashed look/dirty nails

Grown out scruffy haircuts

Dinner stains down their clothes

Fake tan

Piss poor attitudes

Lack of effort when doing "The Sex"

Cars that look like dustbins on the inside .

That's a few basics so far 🤣🤭

Surprised to say I’ve survived that list.

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By *orbidden eastMan
39 weeks ago

london dodging electric bikes

Arrogance and self entitled or simply get off that pedestal

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
39 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"People who are rude to waiters or bar staff in pubs or restaurants. They can quite frankly fuck off. "

Or shop workers generally and don't get me started on people who assault our police, fire and ambulance workers 🤬🤬

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By *olvespairCouple
39 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

We appreciate a little confidence, however when it turns into arrogance that's a huge turn off xx

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