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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago

Have you ever had “that moment” where you think

I need a change

I won’t tolerate

I need for me

I need a break

I need something more

I need to look at myself and look after myself

I need to put me first

Or any other variation

How did it go? Did you make the changes you needed

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By *aybeLadyWoman
39 weeks ago

West Dublin

Yes. I did. I got the worst news a person could get.

And at that moment, I decided to get rid of all stress in my life & that meant my then husband.

Life is too short xo

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By *orphia2003Woman
39 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yeah, several times.

I did what I needed to do to make a fresh start. Held people to account over behaviour, didn't accept the toxic lies and excuses.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
39 weeks ago

Brum

Regularly.

It rarely lasts but it helps and then the cycle repeats.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
39 weeks ago

Leeds

I might be the only one here, but for a very long time everyday I wake up with a fuck everyone else attitude, why wouldn’t you put yourself first 🤷🏻‍♂️

But then again I’m a selfish cunt, so that could be a factor.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I had that moment when I realised that I had to end it with someone.

Turned out to be manipulating and a narcissist, I don’t need someone like that in my life.

I wish her well and all the best for the future too, but I hope she gets the help she genuinely needs.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
39 weeks ago

Swansea

I am treading this path at the moment in relation to my work. I haven't had the capacity to figure out my plan yet due to other extremely stressful circumstances but I hope to be able to start considering my options soon.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Yeah i had that moment. It's been painful and hard.. Still on the journey.

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By *imples24Man
39 weeks ago

tamworth


"Have you ever had “that moment” where you think

I need a change

I won’t tolerate

I need for me

I need a break

I need something more

I need to look at myself and look after myself

I need to put me first

Or any other variation

How did it go? Did you make the changes you needed "

Surely if you have never asked one of these to yourself you ain’t human 🤷‍♂️

I ask myself these from time to time sometimes I make change or do something new sometimes these feelings pass until the next episode.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I've had a few of those moments this year and it's worked out well. It's not good to get complacent and stagnate.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Yes I have recently. I’m no longer putting up with their shitty behaviour to suit other people. It feels good to be standing up for myself for once.

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