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By *eeliciouschaos OP   Woman
11 weeks ago

Wherever

What's the most consistent compliment you get from people who interact with you?

I’m specifically thinking about those compliments you usually shake off or a particular one you always hear but don't believe.

Someone has recently told me “Just talking to you makes my day” and it was nice to hear.

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

My hair. I get comments about it daily.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

That I don't talk to them enough.

I'm taking it as a compliment as men aways moan on about women talking too much.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
11 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

That I am funny

Love regaling terrible tales of antics

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
11 weeks ago

Ipswich

Sense of humour

Can talk inane shit for hours

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By *entlemanrogueMan
11 weeks ago

Motherwell

My eyes always get complimented and my hair, lovers of a silver fox always seem to want to stroke it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex

People often tell me I'm 'reasonable' which must be one of the dullest compliments a person can receive

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

Wouldn’t know, I don’t really pay that much attention when someone is talking, I tend to drift off a lot.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

My humour and honesty is mostly appreciated which I can take. I get compliments a lot now about my physical appearance which is nice but those I shake off because I'm still not fully comfortable with it I guess.

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire

people say i have a good dress sense and physique,, and a gent which is nice not bad of an old dog

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By *iker JackMan
11 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I get told I’m too nice

There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣

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By *WB85Man
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"I get told I’m too nice

There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣"

I get told the same. I'm too nice for this lifestyle apparently.

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

I struggle to appreciate any compliment that come my way, I guess I’m just strange like that 🤷🏼‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"My humour and honesty is mostly appreciated which I can take. I get compliments a lot now about my physical appearance which is nice but those I shake off because I'm still not fully comfortable with it I guess. "

You really should be

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
11 weeks ago

Birmingham


"My humour and honesty is mostly appreciated which I can take. I get compliments a lot now about my physical appearance which is nice but those I shake off because I'm still not fully comfortable with it I guess.

You really should be "

Here here!

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By *entlemanrogueMan
11 weeks ago

Motherwell


"I get told I’m too nice

There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣

I get told the same. I'm too nice for this lifestyle apparently. "

it is an oddity when women ask, where are all the nice guys or that all the nice guys are taken, then also complain men are too nice.

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By *ustmehorny1976Man
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

This lifestyle can dent any confidence you have if you are not strong enough.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I get told I’m too nice

There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣

I get told the same. I'm too nice for this lifestyle apparently.

it is an oddity when women ask, where are all the nice guys or that all the nice guys are taken, then also complain men are too nice."

Sometimes women use the word nice to mean decent, respectful men.

Sometimes they use it when they want to be your friend rather than your lover.

Sometimes they use 'nice guy' to describe a man who expects his niceness to be rewarded with sex and drops the niceness when turned down.

Your mission is to infer the meaning from the context in which the word is used

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Apparently I'm easy to talk to.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
11 weeks ago

Motherwell


"I get told I’m too nice

There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣

I get told the same. I'm too nice for this lifestyle apparently.

it is an oddity when women ask, where are all the nice guys or that all the nice guys are taken, then also complain men are too nice.

Sometimes women use the word nice to mean decent, respectful men.

Sometimes they use it when they want to be your friend rather than your lover.

Sometimes they use 'nice guy' to describe a man who expects his niceness to be rewarded with sex and drops the niceness when turned down.

Your mission is to infer the meaning from the context in which the word is used "

Maybe they coild be a bit more expressive in their words so that everyone can clearly understand their meaning.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
11 weeks ago

Essex

I’m funny. Which sometimes backfires #friendzone

🤣

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By *zeroMan
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

I've had comments on eyes a fair bit. After reading through my veris the most common compliments are "friendly and funny"

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Excluding comments from bi males I don't get compliments.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
11 weeks ago

Ipswich

Can be a bit grumpy sometimes

Especially before breakfast

Or Numerous Morning coffee’s

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By *Ollyinone.Man
11 weeks ago

West Mids

Funny. Sadly, rarely when I try

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire


"I’m funny. Which sometimes backfires #friendzone

🤣"
... you have a good sense of humour misty

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
11 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I get told I’m too nice

There’s a backhanded compliment for saying I don’t fancy you 🤣

I get told the same. I'm too nice for this lifestyle apparently.

it is an oddity when women ask, where are all the nice guys or that all the nice guys are taken, then also complain men are too nice.

Sometimes women use the word nice to mean decent, respectful men.

Sometimes they use it when they want to be your friend rather than your lover.

Sometimes they use 'nice guy' to describe a man who expects his niceness to be rewarded with sex and drops the niceness when turned down.

Your mission is to infer the meaning from the context in which the word is used

Maybe they coild be a bit more expressive in their words so that everyone can clearly understand their meaning.

"

The context usually gives a clue

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
11 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

I'm not too fussed about compliments, but I do give them to exceptional people and I don't mean that...

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West

My physique mostly and that I'm chatty and funny

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By *londemilfnextdoorCouple
11 weeks ago

howden

My ass

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By *avincorkMan
11 weeks ago

cork


"Apparently I'm easy to talk to. "

Well that's a 👍 from me, far better speaking to someone you can open up to, than staring at each other in stunned since xx

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By *night in armourMan
11 weeks ago

stafford

I have nice legs which I always find a bit off but I’ll take anything that comes lol

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
11 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

I have my own eyes, well they were taken from someone, but they are mine now.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
11 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

That I'm "lovely". It's such a non-specific thing to say, like "nice", and I never know what someone means by it.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Other people: Glow I love our dynamic. It just works.

Me: we’ve never met or talked.

Other people: exactly.

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By *runette n JayCouple
11 weeks ago

bilston

Me Jay = My eyes

S = everything about her usually!

Yes I'm used to being in her shadow haha

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
11 weeks ago

Essex


"I’m funny. Which sometimes backfires #friendzone

🤣... you have a good sense of humour misty "

🤦🏼‍♀️

🤣🤣🤣

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By *enelope2UWoman
11 weeks ago

Fife

That I'm the most genuine and interesting person they have met.....

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading

You are stunning.

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By *dam1971Man
11 weeks ago

Bedford


"I’m funny. Which sometimes backfires #friendzone

🤣"

I promise not to friendzone you, we can be mortal enemies if that’s better?

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By *ohnjones3210Man
11 weeks ago

Chester

I get a few;

"You're not stupid are you?" 🙄

"You have a pretty/beautiful penis" ♥️

"You listen to me and don't lie" ♥️

"Your body looks good" 🙄

Then again, I get a few nasty comments from time to time also. Ofcourse, non of which are accurate. 🫢🫢😂

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By *igglesssMan
11 weeks ago

bradford

Get a few on my hair.

Had a few on my ass as well which always throws me

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By *ohnjones3210Man
11 weeks ago

Chester


"That I'm "lovely". It's such a non-specific thing to say, like "nice", and I never know what someone means by it."

👀🫢

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By *ellinever70Woman
11 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I like unspoken compliments better...like someone wanting to spend time regularly in my company because they enjoy it

I don't need them to voice it

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By *ouisecdTV/TS
11 weeks ago

leeds

My dress sense

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
11 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

Non-verbals are the majority of communication, right?

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By *ortney CocksWoman
11 weeks ago

fab land

I get ‘I’m funny’ as in make some laugh

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

The ones I often get are "how does it feel to walk in Willy Idol's shadow?".

I say that I cannot imagine a worst shadow to walk in. ✨

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By *entlemanrogueMan
11 weeks ago

Motherwell


"That I'm "lovely". It's such a non-specific thing to say, like "nice", and I never know what someone means by it."

as I was told earlier

"The context usually gives a clue "

But I reiterate people should be more expressive with their words and say what they mean.

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By *hyboy200Man
11 weeks ago

liverpool

That I am honest and speak the truth, sometimes gets me in trouble, but have to be honest to yourself

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By *rumph650Man
11 weeks ago

Cardiff

Apparently I excel in not being peoples type 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Passionate…both inside and outside the bedroom I guess!

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By *illy IdolMan
11 weeks ago

Midlands


"The ones I often get are "how does it feel to walk in Willy Idol's shadow?".

I say that I cannot imagine a worst shadow to walk in. ✨"

The shadow of someone's greatness is not a good place to dwell. Being the next someone else pales into insignificance against being the first you.🫶

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By *G74Woman
11 weeks ago

Blackburn

People say I'm a great listener ... People seem to like opening up to me and telling me all their troubles, moans and groans. Really I'm not listening I just let them talk rubbish at me while I'm probably figuring out what I'm gonna eat later 🙈

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By *G74Woman
11 weeks ago

Blackburn

Also that I am so young at heart ... where i really think it's just a polite way of saying i act like a big kid and immature 😅

Age is just a number but immaturity can last forever!! 🤪

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I get complimented on my smile and my eyes 😁 I can’t see why but I accept 😉

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
11 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

I used to listen to a male customer for about 1-1.5 hours per day at my old workplace. Most times I was always late cashing up, and getting out... I was too polite to do what the other people did and wander off... lol Still, I like a good chat also.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Usually about my physical appearance. I rarely ever get compliments about who I am as a person, which is a little sad actually🥲

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
11 weeks ago

Oxford

In everyday (versus swinging!) Thoughtful, charming and 'always fun to do things with' (obviously non-sexual lol ...)

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By *p4Fun7070Man
11 weeks ago

Leven

Apparently I have a very nice chest. A few have mentioned

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By *orphia2003Woman
11 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

My arse usually.

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By *illy IdolMan
11 weeks ago

Midlands


"Usually about my physical appearance. I rarely ever get compliments about who I am as a person, which is a little sad actually🥲"

You let your sister have the last pair of jeans in the sale. That says a lot about you as a person🫶

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

That I'm the complete opposite in person to what they thought 🤭🤣

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By *tr8MrEMan
11 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

I get told often that if ugly is what I'd desire you'd be my no.1 choice.

Fairly sure it isn't a compliment 🤣🤣

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

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By *ir tootMan
11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"That I'm the complete opposite in person to what they thought 🤭🤣"

You don't like malibu?

But I just got done printing your new brand.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"Usually about my physical appearance. I rarely ever get compliments about who I am as a person, which is a little sad actually🥲

You let your sister have the last pair of jeans in the sale. That says a lot about you as a person🫶"

Let me get over it now, please. It still hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"That I'm the complete opposite in person to what they thought 🤭🤣

You don't like malibu?

But I just got done printing your new brand. "

Malibu and Malteasers are still winners for me 🤣

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By *illy IdolMan
11 weeks ago

Midlands


"Usually about my physical appearance. I rarely ever get compliments about who I am as a person, which is a little sad actually🥲

You let your sister have the last pair of jeans in the sale. That says a lot about you as a person🫶

Let me get over it now, please. It still hurts. "

I'll respect your wishes 🙏

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By *cLovin2Man
11 weeks ago

Reading

People tell me that I am funny.

I would have preferred they said I had a massive penis.

Hang on wait, no they just call me a massive bell end ...

Damnit McLovin get it the right way round, I mean what will the neighbours say?

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By *hard1wetCouple
11 weeks ago

south wales

When at clubs

Mrs always gets: you have lovely hair and boobs

Mr- you have a lovely cock.

They seem to be the most common comments

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
11 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

I suppose they are apt comments, given the scenario.

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By *assion8Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

What's a compliment?? You mean like salt and pepper lol!!

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By *_murphWoman
11 weeks ago

Glasgow


"What's a compliment?? You mean like salt and pepper lol!!"

Pmsl!!

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By *ea monkeyMan
11 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I get told that I make people feel seen and heard, that my attention makes them feel special.

That I have a magic penis.

That I’m a very good kisser.

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By *.T.Man
11 weeks ago

Glasgow

I make people feel safe

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By *rAitchMan
11 weeks ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

On here - nice cake

In a previous job, the MD told me I was irreplacable, to which I took a dim view of.

"That's a compliment", I was told. My reply: "If I'm irreplacable, then I can't be promoted".

"Good point well made", said he.

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By *ordcommanderMan
11 weeks ago

betweenyourlegsxx

"You are hot, wild and rough".

Is that a compliment? Lol.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
11 weeks ago

Reading


"I like unspoken compliments better...like someone wanting to spend time regularly in my company because they enjoy it

I don't need them to voice it"

Actions trump words every time.

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By *entleman JayMan
11 weeks ago

Wakefield

That I can tell a story.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
11 weeks ago

North West

On here? Physically it's my boobs that get the compliments.

Otherwise it's that I'm kind, caring and positive both on here and in person.

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By *aizyWoman
11 weeks ago

west midlands

I have had a couple of operations this year and everytime the anaesthetist has complimented me on my hand veins. I will take a compliment where I can get it! 🤚

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By *ife NinjaMan
11 weeks ago

Dunfermline

People tell my team they've dropped lucky having me as their boss.......whereas on here, I have people saying I look like their dad

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
11 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

My last 2 (displayed) verifications are 8 words in total and pretty much sum me up. I think they're compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago


"My last 2 (displayed) verifications are 8 words in total and pretty much sum me up. I think they're compliments."

I'd agree with the 2nd one down 🤭

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By *anceAloneWoman
11 weeks ago

Adjacent to him

I have recently been compared to a flamingo🤨

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
11 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"My last 2 (displayed) verifications are 8 words in total and pretty much sum me up. I think they're compliments.

I'd agree with the 2nd one down 🤭"

You know I could shuffle my verifications to display the one that says I am a machine that went all day with my 9" jackhammer...etc etc as my 2nd one down! 😉

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
11 weeks ago

North West


"I have recently been compared to a flamingo🤨"

Ummm, pink and good at standing on one leg? 🤔

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By *unshine 57Woman
11 weeks ago

essex

From on here that i have nice boobs and nipples In life in general my eyes and how easy i am to talk to

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By *rincipessaWoman
11 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

My smile, my hair.

I need to start getting to know people so they can say something less superficial about me

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By *altonUkguyMan
11 weeks ago

Walton On Thames

Would be nice for someone to say …”not bad for an oldie” !!

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By *anceAloneWoman
11 weeks ago

Adjacent to him


"I have recently been compared to a flamingo🤨

Ummm, pink and good at standing on one leg? 🤔"

Apparently it was because I had long legs...they considered it a viable compliment 🤣

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By *ags73Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Had ‘nice thighs’, but I dunno..

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
11 weeks ago

kent

Out there in the real world I usually get - ‘it’s been great talking to you,’ or ‘you’re so kind’.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
11 weeks ago

North West


"I have recently been compared to a flamingo🤨

Ummm, pink and good at standing on one leg? 🤔

Apparently it was because I had long legs...they considered it a viable compliment 🤣"

Just wow. 🤣

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Swansea

Depends on who it is. C gets compliments on her legs when people are taking about her looks, her sharp witted sarcastic humour by many and her kindness by those who know her well. I compliment her on lots as she really is a special woman.

I get told I'm very objective, which is probably the compliment I'm most proud of. Have been told I have a perfect willy more than once but suspect that's just one of those things people say. Apparently my bum is quite peachy also

P

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

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By *ABflirtyWoman
11 weeks ago

Norwich

How Big my eyes are. x

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"How Big my eyes are. x "

That must be women. Men won't notice your eyes...

🤣

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
11 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I'll try this again without typos...

Men who have met me under particular circumstances have all told me I give a phenomenal blow job.

😏

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By *ABflirtyWoman
11 weeks ago

Norwich


"How Big my eyes are. x

That must be women. Men won't notice your eyes...

🤣"
Men say i have Big lovely eyes . lol xxxx

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By *exxyyDy11Man
11 weeks ago

North West


"How Big my eyes are. x "

Yes you have lovely nipples. Sorry I mean eyes. Deffo eyes 🤣🤣

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
11 weeks ago

Southampton

I get told I have nice boobs lol... in real life its usually I'm funny

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