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What is Bi-curious

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By *ushwacker75 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Measham

I'm curious what is the definition of Bi-curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"I'm curious what is the definition of Bi-curious? "

You enjoy looking at other men’s cocks, but you’re not sure if you’ll like it or not

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By *ags73Man
13 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

‘Fab straight’ 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Not sure if preference is for two wheels or one I dunno ?

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By *ushwacker75 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Measham


"I'm curious what is the definition of Bi-curious?

You enjoy looking at other men’s cocks, but you’re not sure if you’ll like it or not"

haha yeah I guess

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
13 weeks ago

The Continental

Bi Curious - thinking/fantasising about it.

Bisexual - doing it.

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By *orthernJayMan
13 weeks ago

DXB / SG / Thailand Krabi

Why does it matter?

I genuinely don’t understand the desire to label oneself or to label others.

Perhaps “us” of a certain age should take counsel from Gen-Z’s or Millennials who neither care or seek to label.

As for your question OP, do whatever makes you feel comfortable with those who are the same; in my experience, there’s many of us around the scene who are more than happy to help/support your own learning of you; but it has to start internally.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Stockport


"Bi Curious - thinking/fantasising about it.

Bisexual - doing it."

Bicurious also includes doing it a first time, or even a second time to make sure (just in case they were doing it wrong the first time, or it was just the wrong person for it). But if after two or three goes you still fancy doing it again, then you've definitely crossed the threshold into Bisexual.

Note that it is perfectly allowable to later on change your mind, you can become Straight Again with a Bisexual History. Just the same as you could be Single with a Married History. And I suppose that it would be perfectly possible to be Gay/Lesbian with a Bisexual History. Or Straight with a Gay/Lesbian History with a Bisexual History etc. And with gender reassignment it's perfectly possible to be Lesbian Transwoman with a Straight Man History, Gay Transman with a Lesbian Woman History, or any other meaningful combination of sexuality and gender identity...

Now somebody ask fab to provide all these options, let's see if we can give their website designer a nervous breakdown!

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By *azmar62Couple
13 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Why does it matter?

I genuinely don’t understand the desire to label oneself or to label others.

Perhaps “us” of a certain age should take counsel from Gen-Z’s or Millennials who neither care or seek to label.

As for your question OP, do whatever makes you feel comfortable with those who are the same; in my experience, there’s many of us around the scene who are more than happy to help/support your own learning of you; but it has to start internally. "

This

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
13 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why does it matter?

I genuinely don’t understand the desire to label oneself or to label others.

Perhaps “us” of a certain age should take counsel from Gen-Z’s or Millennials who neither care or seek to label.

As for your question OP, do whatever makes you feel comfortable with those who are the same; in my experience, there’s many of us around the scene who are more than happy to help/support your own learning of you; but it has to start internally. "

From my perspective it is not those over 50 creating the myriad of new labels and ways of identifying sexuality that pop up on a daily basis.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
13 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm curious what is the definition of Bi-curious? "

It means you had the same thought twice.

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By *ootyfruityCouple
13 weeks ago

andover

Your curious about being bi 😂

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By *xstevenxxMan
13 weeks ago

Ashbourne

My view - once talked about before hand

What happens between consenting adult behind a closed door

NO ONE ELSES BUSINESS - so no label

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By *tephanie63Woman
13 weeks ago

BRIDGWATER


"Why does it matter?

I genuinely don’t understand the desire to label oneself or to label others.

Perhaps “us” of a certain age should take counsel from Gen-Z’s or Millennials who neither care or seek to label.

As for your question OP, do whatever makes you feel comfortable with those who are the same; in my experience, there’s many of us around the scene who are more than happy to help/support your own learning of you; but it has to start internally.

From my perspective it is not those over 50 creating the myriad of new labels and ways of identifying sexuality that pop up on a daily basis.

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I agree there, its younger people than 50 creating labels and demanding to be called by different pro nouns...

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By *ustamanMan
13 weeks ago

weymouth

I think hetero flexible is a better term. You're attracted or not gender immaterial

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
13 weeks ago

Sheffield


"My view - once talked about before hand

What happens between consenting adult behind a closed door

NO ONE ELSES BUSINESS - so no label "

Well it kinda is, how would you know said person was bicurious without a label.

I wouldn’t ever approach a woman who was straight.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Central

I think it's better to take it somewhat literally. I'd view it as an uncertainty about tastes, with openness.

Some don't have an absolute and rigid concept of what their sexuality may be. Others are potentially different, not perceiving any uncertainty about themselves

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
13 weeks ago

Swansea


"Why does it matter?

I genuinely don’t understand the desire to label oneself or to label others.

Perhaps “us” of a certain age should take counsel from Gen-Z’s or Millennials who neither care or seek to label.

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I clearly know different younger people then. I've never met a group of people with more of a hankering for labels - they're the first generation in human history to insist on choosing their own pronouns for a start. The majority of us have always assumed these are assigned to us by others based on their assumptions about our appearence. Add in the internet diagnosed mental health conditions and there's more labels than in a stationary store.

That said, the label Bi Curious is a strange one. Given the division above, that bi curious is thinking about it, and bi is having done it, it would appear to be a relatively short term label. I suspect many use it to explain their level of "I don't fancy the same sex but I'm happy to do X or y with them in the right situation"

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Why does it matter?"

Who says it matters? The OP is simply curious and looking for clarification.


"I genuinely don’t understand the desire to label oneself or to label others."

That has no relevance to the OP's question.


"Perhaps “us” of a certain age should take counsel from Gen-Z’s or Millennials who neither care or seek to label."

Totally incongruous response that has little to do with the OP's question.


"As for your question OP, do whatever makes you feel comfortable with those who are the same; in my experience, there’s many of us around the scene who are more than happy to help/support your own learning of you; but it has to start internally. "

The OP isn't looking for tutelage or edification, nor is he looking for patronising responses. ❤️

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
13 weeks ago

West Suffolk

Sexuality is definitely more of a spectrum than a set of compartments.

Bisexual is a term that is often avoided by men who certainly would fall into that category in many peoples opinions, such as a guy who lets men suck his cock but won’t fuck guys or suck cock himself. Orally bi is often used to describe these people.

As for answering the OP….

Bi curious = interested sexual activity with people of the same sex, but no actual experience

Straight = no interest in sexual activity with the same sex

Bisexual = engages in sexual activity with both sexes and enjoys it.

Having said that we often meet men who think of themselves as straight, but engage in sexual activity with men purely because it’s far easier to find outside of a relationship than sex with a woman.

I agree that labels aren’t necessary, but they can shorten what would otherwise be a lengthy explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"I'm curious what is the definition of Bi-curious? "

It means you are curious and open to exploring your sexual attraction of the same gender as yourself.

Think of it as a half way point.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
13 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs

I think it needs to be contextualised with who is sought - bicurious and doesn't want to meet single guys means for instance, the guy will play with another guy only if a lady is present .....

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By *immyinreadingMan
13 weeks ago

henley on thames


"I'm curious what is the definition of Bi-curious? "

Maybe look it up?

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