FabSwingers.com forum: Winking. Yes or no?

By *oppabear82 OP Man
3 weeks ago

near you

The winks on here, does anyone pay attention to them?

Are they a good idea just to show you like what you see and read or is a straight message better?

Thoughts??

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't always look, but we have had some good meets that started with a wink.

Mrs

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By *mmaleiaWoman
3 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

At the moment, I’m using the winks section as almost like an answering service, as all my filters are on, which means if somebody winks at me, I can check them out & get back to them if I wish

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By *uncouple153Couple
3 weeks ago

Abergavenny

Often like a wink x sometimes it's not convenient to message

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By *im_1878Man
3 weeks ago

Formby

I use the winks. Can’t say they come back often though 🤷‍♂️

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By *ewby01327Man
3 weeks ago

Daventry

You never know where it can lead, It’s shows an appreciation.

wink away

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

We don't mind a wink. As long as our profile has been read first.

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
3 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

We like a wink

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By *cott14Man
3 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Nothing wrong with a cheeky wink now and again 🫡😘

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I never look at them unless part of a forum thread

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By *dam1971Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford

"At the moment, I’m using the winks section as almost like an answering service, as all my filters are on, which means if somebody winks at me, I can check them out & get back to them if I wish"

“Your wink is important to us, however we are currently experiencing heavier than usual winks”

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By *urenutsMan
3 weeks ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

I do use wink. Lots ppl don't

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
3 weeks ago

Scarborogh

We look. Can be a great icebreaker.

Can get a bit frustrating with profiles who wink wildly and regularly and don’t take the hint.

Winking in moderation is appreciated

Mrs SW

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By *arnelianWoman
3 weeks ago

Ely/Cambridge - between the two

It's the only time I can wink because I've never been any good at it IRL. I don't wink if their profile says not to though and I check mine each time I log on.

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By *irebrand 1263Man
3 weeks ago

near you

I enjoy a wink

Please wink away.

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By *hris 1000200Man
3 weeks ago

kells

Love to receive a little wink

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By *oo..Woman
3 weeks ago

Boo's World

I look

I scan through them

I'm not sure if I've ever replied to someone due to a wink 🤔

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By *hesubtlegentMan
3 weeks ago

surrey

My first meet started with a wink so I’m all for them. However, reading profiles helps as a lot of people state they either don’t want to receive winks or they don’t bother looking at them so no point. Other profiles encourage you to wink if interested. Overall, I’m a fan of winks

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By *mmaleiaWoman
3 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

"At the moment, I’m using the winks section as almost like an answering service, as all my filters are on, which means if somebody winks at me, I can check them out & get back to them if I wish

“Your wink is important to us, however we are currently experiencing heavier than usual winks”

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *onestphilMan
3 weeks ago

Preston

Winks are ok,done a couple this morning lol

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By *riendlyPhilyMan
3 weeks ago

Bexley

Never had one since I joined

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By *ickedwillyCouple
3 weeks ago

Bangor

Nothing wrong with a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

They bore me, if they have something to say.. say it with chest.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
3 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes I like winks

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By *uncouple153Couple
3 weeks ago

Abergavenny

Haven't had a wink for 2 days now!

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By *loydyMan
3 weeks ago

British

"The winks on here, does anyone pay attention to them?

Are they a good idea just to show you like what you see and read or is a straight message better?

Thoughts??"
why not .I can't understand why people expect your life story in the first message

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By *rSircumsizedMan
3 weeks ago

Risca

Haven't had a wink for a few weeks now.

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By *r SensualMan
3 weeks ago

London

I do send them out to get a feel if there’s any interested from said profile… if I receive one i’ll wink back & follow up with a message if they don’t message first

Don’t understand those who send them first then ignore the follow up message though 🤷🏾‍♂️

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By *avexxMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire

ive never had a wink

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By *dam1971Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford

"I look

I scan through them

I'm not sure if I've ever replied to someone due to a wink 🤔"

I’m checking mine now. It won’t take long

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By *urenutsMan
3 weeks ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

"We look. Can be a great icebreaker.

Can get a bit frustrating with profiles who wink wildly and regularly and don’t take the hint.

Winking in moderation is appreciated

Mrs SW"

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By *artina400TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Chard

Winks ok, it shows interest. But why not Fab a picture or two - gives a better idea of what it is you like.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
3 weeks ago

Merseyside

We always check winks and just delete the ones that don’t meet our preferences

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By *uffymayfairCouple
3 weeks ago

vera playa, Almeria

We always have a look at who's winked us

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By *aven.Woman
3 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I don't even look at them, if I liked someone I would just message them.

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By *riendlyPhilyMan
3 weeks ago

Bexley

If any woman called me daddy in the bedroom or any weird stuff I’m off

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
3 weeks ago

Lurgan

We always check out our winks and reply to any that catch our eye. Hard to beat a message though

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

We check our winks and reply to the people who catch our eye or we would have interest in.

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By *uietlycheekyMan
3 weeks ago

aberdeen

I wink … rarely gets reciprocated but it’s nice when it does

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By *heYorkshireHotwifeCouple
3 weeks ago

Yorkshire

We tend to take a look every so often! So it does work

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By *orki3guyMan
3 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"Winks ok, it shows interest. But why not Fab a picture or two - gives a better idea of what it is you like."

This, I often wink and fab a few, then if the attraction is mutual I'm happy to receive the same back and start chatting from there. Its a way to subtly show interest without coming across pushy like I assume half their messages are 😅

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By *Jblue321Man
3 weeks ago

Chester

I tend to have a look every so often it’s a good starting point for us to check the others profile and see if it’s mutual, but do prefer a message

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

And.... Immediately start getting winks from guys who haven't read our profile!

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By *elliflousCouple
3 weeks ago

North West.

We use the wink. If we like the profile, we return the wink. If not just ignore it.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
3 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Winks are harmless things. A bit like smiling at someone you fancy in a bar.

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
3 weeks ago

Gloucester

We use winks to show we are interested in a profile. If we get one back we will then send a message, if we return a wink we then expect the profile to send the first message however seems many people stop at the wink part.

Kink (Mrs)

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By *ensherman333Man
3 weeks ago

Newcastle/Durham

I like to wink but don’t think many on here use it now x

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By *agertha73Couple
3 weeks ago

Cardiff

We like winks, and wink ourselves. Don't see them all though

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By *.hrisMan
3 weeks ago

Bath

Just sent some pointless winks

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By *andAukCouple
3 weeks ago

leeds

We only look at ours once or twice a week.

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By *osey WalesMan
3 weeks ago

Surrey

Many exciting experiences have started with a wink or a "Good Morning"

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By *MattyMan
3 weeks ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

I like to wink and indeed to receive them, they can be a real good ice breaker on here

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By *emarkablybobMan
3 weeks ago

Bradley Stoke

Yes from me - although i dont get any.

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By *r M Gray88Man
3 weeks ago

Lancaster

Hell yeah 🔥

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
3 weeks ago

Scarborogh

"Just sent some pointless winks

Maybe target 🎯 your winks rather than just winking people 300miles away.

Might work wonders.

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I like a wink

I think it shows an initial interest

If you were out and about or in a club you wouldn’t go in to a full and rhetoric message so I think the wink works well

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By *ozzybear1981Man
3 weeks ago

preston

No not really, if someone is interested I’d rather a message.

But I think it’s just more old fashioned having the art of conversation.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I never use the wink facility. It's quite superfluous for me. I rarely check my winks.

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By *teve9991Man
3 weeks ago

Wilts

I never wink as prefer to message those who I find interesting. Great to receive though, so I can choose who to respond to without having to send the no thank you message out of courtesy.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

I respond to winks and will send a wink back off if I like the profile and pics

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton

"I respond to winks and will send a wink back off if I like the profile and pics "

Ahem

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

Yes. I like them and wink back if they are potentially a match

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By *he return of meMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I really do not like winks. If you reply with a wink, it goes no further. If you reply with a message, that message stays unread. It would be great if we had the option to turn off winks.

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By *olvespairCouple
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

We like winks

If we send one, it's an ice breaker to say hi and we like your profile - if wink is returned then we'll message

Same rule for winks received - we'll return the wink of we like profile and normally follow up with a message x

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By *ulie RobertsTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Southampton

"Yes. I like them and wink back if they are potentially a match "

I do the same 😉

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By *ne.eyed.willyMan
3 weeks ago

Ammanford

I like a wink. I'll wink and reply.

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By *ivilised matureMan
3 weeks ago

Barnes sometimes Dulwich Village

Yes I wink and fab profiles and photos I like. No replies or too far are not an issue

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By *irtydanMan
3 weeks ago

Blackpool

likes a wink

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By *and12Couple
3 weeks ago

flint

If we get a wink we always try and at least say thanks unless you wink every day and some do

Dee x

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By *orbidden eastMan
3 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Sometimes it works. I think it depends on the day

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By *obilebottomMan
3 weeks ago

All over

I like them

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By *ir SupremacyMan
3 weeks ago

Bolton

I never check them .

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

I look every few days or so. And will wink back occasionally.

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By *.T.Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham Airport Hotel

I love a good wink, I use them just to put myself on someone's radar and if they wink back, thats a good sign.

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By *j2015Couple
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

We do. Yeah. Find it helpful for chats that go a few weeks without update

Certainly never been annoyed by them.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No from me, most of mine are from people miles away who don't meet what I'm looking for and get deleted.

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By *ou only live onceMan
3 weeks ago

London

I like winks. Casual way of saying 'I just popped by to say that I think you look hot...'

Don't really understand what people have against them. Good way of nodding interest - exchange winks, sign you're up for a chat. Saves time all round!

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By *olinOfBathMan
3 weeks ago

Corsham

Fab is full of winkers...

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