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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Right to the core 🍏

I’m finally healing from my PTSD (woo) but it’s making me fully accept I’m the black sheep of the family (boo)

Anyone else just find it so frustrating that no one else wants to break the generational trauma pattern and it falls on you?

Like out of 30+ family members it had to be ME? I’m pissed !

But I’m so glad I chose recovery.

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By *he ExcaliburMan
3 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Right to the core 🍏

I’m finally healing from my PTSD (woo) but it’s making me fully accept I’m the black sheep of the family (boo)

Anyone else just find it so frustrating that no one else wants to break the generational trauma pattern and it falls on you?

Like out of 30+ family members it had to be ME? I’m pissed !

But I’m so glad I chose recovery."

I don’t know you, so I’m not sure what the full story is. However, I’m feeling the positivity, and I hope it continues.

If it helps, I’ve cut my entire family out of my life. I moved away and carved out a life of my own, and I am in the best place I’ve ever been

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By *tevieboyyyMan
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville

"Right to the core 🍏

I’m finally healing from my PTSD (woo) but it’s making me fully accept I’m the black sheep of the family (boo)

Anyone else just find it so frustrating that no one else wants to break the generational trauma pattern and it falls on you?

Like out of 30+ family members it had to be ME? I’m pissed !

But I’m so glad I chose recovery."

Hello!

Black sheep here too; my birth family are narcissistic sycophants who feed off each other, as in rainbows pop out of each other bottoms and the lick er, okay you get the idea.

Have worked on it a lot.

Had to be me, and due to poison that birth family threw out prior to the funeral:

- No food for me as I have strict dietary requirements that they gave no s*it about

- Poisoned family friends by making up stuff, I don't care as if they are too stupid to listen to one side of the story...a few family friends ignored it, love them!

Feel free to DM if you wish, no worries either way.

Sorry you are going through this.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
3 weeks ago

Swansea

Hi OP

I too cut my family ties, I decided years ago that my family tree starts at my generation.

Mrs

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By *tevieboyyyMan
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville

"Hi OP

I too cut my family ties, I decided years ago that my family tree starts at my generation.

Mrs"

Tough but well done you; energy vampires are not worth the time or vibe.

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By *tacy.TWoman
3 weeks ago

luton

"Right to the core 🍏

I’m finally healing from my PTSD (woo) but it’s making me fully accept I’m the black sheep of the family (boo)

Anyone else just find it so frustrating that no one else wants to break the generational trauma pattern and it falls on you?

Like out of 30+ family members it had to be ME? I’m pissed !

But I’m so glad I chose recovery."

Loving the positivity, my inbox is open if you fancied a chat or sharing some tips on healing ptsd x

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Stockport

My final blood relation ties were cut when I sent my siblings the letters with copies of my dad's death certificate and will. In the one to my brother I told him that there was no money for him, because with him having swindled mum and dad out of hundreds of thousands (let me look after it for you now to make sure the taxman doesn't take when you die, I'll make sure you're okay in your old age) there was nothing at all left when dad died. In the letter to my sister, who has always believed my brother that I was the one after the money, I sent copies of the bank letters showing all the transfers made to my brother. And a copy of the funeral director receipt showing that I had to pay for the cremation out of my own pocket, dad didn't have enough left for that.

I hope that they are fighting between themselves now.

I now regard as family the people that I choose to love, not the ones that were given to me through birth.

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By *ool QuipWoman
3 weeks ago

Cheadle

"Right to the core 🍏

I’m finally healing from my PTSD (woo) but it’s making me fully accept I’m the black sheep of the family (boo)

Anyone else just find it so frustrating that no one else wants to break the generational trauma pattern and it falls on you?

Like out of 30+ family members it had to be ME? I’m pissed !

But I’m so glad I chose recovery."

They won't as they all enable each other. You aren't the black sheep, you are the only sane one.

You are amazing and brave, it will keep getting better xx

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