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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

What are you doing and why?

There's no sleep to be had here. No sooner had they turned the lights out then they put 'em on again and started moving my new pal to another part of the hospital, at random. She had been asleep. We've had porters with noisy walkie talkies and now they're cleaning the area right in front of me AND all the commotion has awoken the dementia sufferers. The lady beside me is confused as fuck.

Another night of no sleep at Chez NHS.

Glorious.

What about you?

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Lay on the floor shattered, just back from work.

Having conversations about dolphins and various other random subjects.

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By *enelope2UWoman
12 weeks ago

Fife

Looking up places for a pedicure trying to see prices online and waiting on my rose to charge so I can go to sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

In bed having spent the last 4 hours walking around York. I'm too old for this 😴

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
12 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

did you see the grand old duke?

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
12 weeks ago

southend-on-sea


"Looking up places for a pedicure trying to see prices online and waiting on my rose to charge so I can go to sleep."

I heard they have vegan piranhas pedicures for the risk takers.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
12 weeks ago

The Continental

I’m attempting to sleep to the soundtrack of my Mersey tunnel mouthed neighbours arguing for the 32296th time this week.

It’s glorious.

The walls are very thin here. According to tonight’s blazer….. he’s a lazy cunt who sits around all day doing nothing, while she’s a whiny moaning bag that should go back to her mothers.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
12 weeks ago

huddersfield

Carnt sleep no fun so just watching tv

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By *illy IdolMan
12 weeks ago

Midlands

Just watching a documentary on Jonah Lomu before I head up to bed😴

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By *drian52Man
12 weeks ago

Derby

Listening to a 'dark and gothic" playlist as I wind down from an extremely busy week, considering options for Saturday even, before I put on a "Thunderstorm " to go to sleep to

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Listening to music and scrolling through Pinterest aka the best activity EVERRRRR

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

North West


"I’m attempting to sleep to the soundtrack of my Mersey tunnel mouthed neighbours arguing for the 32296th time this week.

It’s glorious.

The walls are very thin here. According to tonight’s blazer….. he’s a lazy cunt who sits around all day doing nothing, while she’s a whiny moaning bag that should go back to her mothers. "

You should hear what comes out of the mouth of a tiny little old lady with dementia

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

My personal choice of activity tonight is masterbating in the style of a safari park chimp.. no poo will be thrown

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By *ungandMan
12 weeks ago

daveyhulme

I’m working

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By *tevieboyyyMan
12 weeks ago

Waterlooville

Better half been poorly for last 3 or so weeks, so bit frustrated but not putting any pressure on her.

Have a mate-date booked for next Friday with a bestie so will chill and a hug or two; we normally go out weekly but she's been away.

Bought a new car to me, has all the toys, less than two years old. Goes like **** off a shovel.

Oh, might be retired at 53.

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By *ad NannaWoman
12 weeks ago

East London

I'm eat my second Wispa bar and wondering if the man I'm chatting to from a different website, is a faker, or really is who he says he is, with his 11.5 inch penis 🤔

We're supposed to be videocalling soon.

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By *ungandMan
12 weeks ago

daveyhulme


"I'm eat my second Wispa bar and wondering if the man I'm chatting to from a different website, is a faker, or really is who he says he is, with his 11.5 inch penis 🤔

We're supposed to be videocalling soon."

11.5 inch id rather eat a wispa bar

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By *illy123789Man
12 weeks ago

bracknell

Let us know how that one goes… 11.5 sounds optimistic!!!!

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
12 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

Perving on here and watching porn

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By *cottishguy9Man
12 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

Unable to sleep so browsing (perving) on here

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By *agpuss_1Man
12 weeks ago

on the move

Just got in bed after a few rums. Sober now just bored

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By *ildbillkidMan
12 weeks ago

where the road goes on forever

Recuperating after taking my 93 year old mother shopping

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By *ay jay 500Man
12 weeks ago

.

Hopefully trying to find someone to meet up now and having a little bit of fun tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I hope you’ve fallen asleep by now. Hospital wards are always chaotic, especially with the random electric beeps and the odd dickheads that get wheeled in

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By *illy123789Man
12 weeks ago

bracknell


"Perving on here and watching porn "

I think that’s what we’re all doing… xxx

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By *ungandMan
12 weeks ago

daveyhulme

Still busy but it’s cake time

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
12 weeks ago

Home

Just in from a dart's match

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By *uby-alyCouple
12 weeks ago

London

Just finished our Mmf and relax

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By *illy123789Man
12 weeks ago

bracknell


"Just finished our Mmf and relax "

Fair play… how was it? We’re all very jealous… tell us the gossip…

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Stockport


"I'm eat my second Wispa bar and wondering if the man I'm chatting to from a different website, is a faker, or really is who he says he is, with his 11.5 inch penis 🤔

We're supposed to be videocalling soon."

Maybe he's got a centimetre ruler?

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
12 weeks ago

Home


"Just finished our Mmf and relax "
stop making us jealous

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By *ardytaketwoMan
12 weeks ago

STOCKPORT

Insomnia kicked in midweek. So sat on sofa perving on here with Always Sunny on in the background

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By *orphia2003Woman
12 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I'm on my break at work so chatting to a few people and drinking coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I'm at doner daddy's getting a cheese burger as it seems like a 4:11am thing to do.

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By *airybeardedchubMan
12 weeks ago

Birmingham

Very much so had an unexpected spontaneous night out and now home lol

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By *arlequin_tearsMan
12 weeks ago

Sheffield

Sleep patterns are generally a mess.

Trying to do better but still awake at this time all too often.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
12 weeks ago

Bristol

Just got in after unexpected drinks after the night shift

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
12 weeks ago

Willenhall


"I'm at doner daddy's getting a cheese burger as it seems like a 4:11am thing to do. "

A cheeseburger is the thing to do at 9pm. A large doner kebab with chilli sauce, mint mayonnaise and salad is the thing to do at 4:11am.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
12 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

Eating marmite and peanut butter toast.. I'll be off to work in an hour..

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"I'm at doner daddy's getting a cheese burger as it seems like a 4:11am thing to do.

A cheeseburger is the thing to do at 9pm. A large doner kebab with chilli sauce, mint mayonnaise and salad is the thing to do at 4:11am."

Thankfully I'm not Doner kebab d*unk.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
12 weeks ago

Bristol


"I'm at doner daddy's getting a cheese burger as it seems like a 4:11am thing to do.

A cheeseburger is the thing to do at 9pm. A large doner kebab with chilli sauce, mint mayonnaise and salad is the thing to do at 4:11am.

Thankfully I'm not Doner kebab d*unk. "

Just mildly cheeseburger tipsy

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By *CB1975Man
12 weeks ago

Walsall

Finished work yesterday had food last on the bed about 8 and only just woke up

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By *oodtoshare2Couple
12 weeks ago

harrogate

Dog woke me at 4 to got for a wee. Now I'm busy perving on here.

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
12 weeks ago

Willenhall


"

Thankfully I'm not Doner kebab d*unk. "

I've eaten worse things whilst sober...

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By *inkydarkness90Man
12 weeks ago

North West

Wishing I could just fall asleep but my brain won't shut up. Why does it always think of the most randomest of things at 5am?!

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By *uzzieboyMan
12 weeks ago

taunton


"

Thankfully I'm not Doner kebab d*unk.

I've eaten worse things whilst sober..."

lol well didn’t have a kabab but dunk

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By *akedMMan
12 weeks ago

Witney

Can’t sleep, naked in bed having a perv on here

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By *idlandsdick333Man
12 weeks ago

dudley

Early morning perv

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By *illy123789Man
12 weeks ago

bracknell

Also awake and perving… feel free to message me anyone who’s in the mood for naughtiness

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By *hePleasurerMan
12 weeks ago

Cheshire

I was so sleep deprived during my last hospital stay, I started to hallucinate in the daytime. Even if you get to sleep they wake you up at 6am to be weighed and dosed up

But just now I'm relaxing in a warm bed, perving all the hotties...

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

North West


"I hope you’ve fallen asleep by now. Hospital wards are always chaotic, especially with the random electric beeps and the odd dickheads that get wheeled in"

I got a few snatched hours between the dementia breakdowns, the moving of patients in/out and associated racket and the incessant need to take your blood pressure in the wee small hours.

I'm knackered.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

I'm getting upset at the lack of support for a lady of 102 years

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

12 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I'm getting upset at the lack of support for a lady of 102 years "

This isn't new sadly. Some 25 years ago I was visiting a friend in hospital. The very elderly and those with dementia were consigned to bed and left there unless there was a medical emergency *that was noticed*. I used to have to harass the nurses and HCAs to do things for my mum such as change a four day old dressing on a head wound that I'd asked them to change on every one of those days or provide those sponges on sticks that wet your mouth. Hospital is literally there to treat people for illness and injury, you'll little personal care and next to no emotional support. It has got to the stage where it's becoming dehumanising.

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By *ookie46Woman
12 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m being a bus wanker and on my way to the gym

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

North West


"I'm getting upset at the lack of support for a lady of 102 years

This isn't new sadly. Some 25 years ago I was visiting a friend in hospital. The very elderly and those with dementia were consigned to bed and left there unless there was a medical emergency *that was noticed*. I used to have to harass the nurses and HCAs to do things for my mum such as change a four day old dressing on a head wound that I'd asked them to change on every one of those days or provide those sponges on sticks that wet your mouth. Hospital is literally there to treat people for illness and injury, you'll little personal care and next to no emotional support. It has got to the stage where it's becoming dehumanising.

"

I've asked them so many times this morning to help her. I've fixed her hearing aids so that she's got a chance to hear what people are saying. She was sick and she still has vomit on her face. I was told it's not my business to ask staff to help her. She's in clear distress.

The lady further down has been buzzing for the loo for ages but no-one is coming. She can't get up alone.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

chichester

Looking at some trump memes

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
12 weeks ago

southend-on-sea


"I'm getting upset at the lack of support for a lady of 102 years

This isn't new sadly. Some 25 years ago I was visiting a friend in hospital. The very elderly and those with dementia were consigned to bed and left there unless there was a medical emergency *that was noticed*. I used to have to harass the nurses and HCAs to do things for my mum such as change a four day old dressing on a head wound that I'd asked them to change on every one of those days or provide those sponges on sticks that wet your mouth. Hospital is literally there to treat people for illness and injury, you'll little personal care and next to no emotional support. It has got to the stage where it's becoming dehumanising.

"

12 years ago I was on a southend ward after urological surgery. There was an old man of 84 with macular degeneration, nearly blind. It was 1am saturday. He was on iv drip for too long so he "could feel blood" I was young but the predominant age of the male ward was 70+.

We pressed our buttons to get someone. In the end an old man from half a ward away had to get out of his bed to look for assistance. This horrible nurse turned up and said to the old man... "what?" There are times when I feel like these people are actually just abusers perfectly in their perfect job.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

12 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I'm getting upset at the lack of support for a lady of 102 years

This isn't new sadly. Some 25 years ago I was visiting a friend in hospital. The very elderly and those with dementia were consigned to bed and left there unless there was a medical emergency *that was noticed*. I used to have to harass the nurses and HCAs to do things for my mum such as change a four day old dressing on a head wound that I'd asked them to change on every one of those days or provide those sponges on sticks that wet your mouth. Hospital is literally there to treat people for illness and injury, you'll little personal care and next to no emotional support. It has got to the stage where it's becoming dehumanising.

12 years ago I was on a southend ward after urological surgery. There was an old man of 84 with macular degeneration, nearly blind. It was 1am saturday. He was on iv drip for too long so he "could feel blood" I was young but the predominant age of the male ward was 70+.

We pressed our buttons to get someone. In the end an old man from half a ward away had to get out of his bed to look for assistance. This horrible nurse turned up and said to the old man... "what?" There are times when I feel like these people are actually just abusers perfectly in their perfect job. "

Mostly in my experience the staff are over stretched. They work their socks off and have no time for anything but the basics.

I criticise the system not (most of) the people within it.

I will say that when my mum was actively dying the nurses could not have been more compassionate and the doctor who spoke to my dad was extremely kind.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

12 weeks ago

East Sussex

^^ but yeah, there are some horrible medical professionals

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

North West


"^^ but yeah, there are some horrible medical professionals "

Yesterday's bunch were, to a person, outstanding. They were compassionate, kind, caring and despite the evident pressures and difficulties with staffing etc, they did their utmost for everyone in this bay.

Today's support staff have mainly spent the morning complaining about "god it's going to be frustrating with all these" and how much they dislike the ward etc. The nature of this ward is that most people will need some amount of support, even if they came in independently. There's a lot of joint replacements, fracture surgeries and other things whereby people need a lot of assistance.

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
12 weeks ago

southend-on-sea


"^^ but yeah, there are some horrible medical professionals

Yesterday's bunch were, to a person, outstanding. They were compassionate, kind, caring and despite the evident pressures and difficulties with staffing etc, they did their utmost for everyone in this bay.

Get the right staff, kick out the shit ones, its not hard to have a "concern" database which would I suppose be a "whistleblower" We can use ai for everything now, but for useful things that can actually "really" help the nhs, its ... crickets and church bells.

Oh, how stupidly idyllic, eh?

Today's support staff have mainly spent the morning complaining about "god it's going to be frustrating with all these" and how much they dislike the ward etc. The nature of this ward is that most people will need some amount of support, even if they came in independently. There's a lot of joint replacements, fracture surgeries and other things whereby people need a lot of assistance. "

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
12 weeks ago

Ipswich


"^^ but yeah, there are some horrible medical professionals

Yesterday's bunch were, to a person, outstanding. They were compassionate, kind, caring and despite the evident pressures and difficulties with staffing etc, they did their utmost for everyone in this bay.

Today's support staff have mainly spent the morning complaining about "god it's going to be frustrating with all these" and how much they dislike the ward etc. The nature of this ward is that most people will need some amount of support, even if they came in independently. There's a lot of joint replacements, fracture surgeries and other things whereby people need a lot of assistance. "

Hope everything gets better quickly and you get out of there pronto

Not nice place to be at best of times when my wife was alive spent a couple of weeks in whiston hospital not nice place to be

Speedy recovery

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Making a coffee, debating what to do tonight.

And scratching my balls.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

Looking at hotels for a black tie charity ball at the end of the month.

And then looking for a tux

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By *WB85Man
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Pretending I'm not excited to go to the cinema and see Paddington in Peru.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

We have the same crappy night staff on tonight (excluding the nurse, she is new to me but seems lovely). It's the HCAs

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

I'm still sitting and watching the insanity all around me. The human condition is a baffling one.

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By *uchasGMan
11 weeks ago

Northwest

I'm seeing what's going on while watching the footy....where are you my neighbour x

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By *he Silver FuxMan
11 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Trading filthy messages with women

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By *ags73Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Sofa with dog.

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