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By *ixed_Man OP   Man
3 weeks ago

tadworth

I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

You say you often see this but I rarely see it so it's really only some women are interested in size.

Just as there are lots of men who advertise on their profiles looking for BBW, women with big boobs, small boobs and so on.

Those are just as specific

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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I really don't see it often OP. Perhaps it's both of our confirmation biases coming in to play.

Men do request size. I've seen men saying they're only attracted to women who are under a size 14. Gym fit women. One profile has that he's looking for women no larger than a size 10. You have men who proudly state they want bigger women, even in their profile names.

So I suppose it's down to what you want. What's important to you. If it is, put it down.

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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"You say you often see this but I rarely see it so it's really only some women are interested in size.

Just as there are lots of men who advertise on their profiles looking for BBW, women with big boobs, small boobs and so on.

Those are just as specific "

Ah Reality got there first! Yes. What he's typed.

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Stalybridge

You also see some women saying nothing over 7 inches

I think it's just preference

I also think comparing cock size and someone clothes is like comparing apples and bananas

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By *ee69Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow

Everyone likes different stuff

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By *adyBugsWoman
3 weeks ago

cognito

I’m only interested if it’s 75.73cm long and 25.11cm wide. No more. No less.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

Gay and bi men often have similar things. You can ask for whatever you want but whether you will get it is another question!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts


"Everyone likes different stuff "

Don’t make this complicated.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
3 weeks ago

North West

People like what they like. Some like big and thick. I'd say most prefer average or medium as being too big can hurt. This is just what I've been told by multiple women.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
3 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Things that attract us, should never cause offense to people not meeting that criteria. But...it does way too often, I look for picky guys, I like that quality in them. But all this exclusivity in sexual attraction is bollocks, I have no urge to list why I am not attracted to something. As we are all to often shamed into hiding our preferences.

Anyhoo, I'm waffling. Men and women should both, be able to be honest as to what arouses them, on their profile, without fear of ostracization.

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By * and R cple4Couple
3 weeks ago

swansea

It's very rare I have seen posts like this and then they will say their a size queen so that is self explanatory.

People have their preferences you will see size queens and men wanting bbw and women wanting big bearded men their is someone out their for everyone.

Just focus on those who you think suits you best instead of worrying about those that don't.

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By *elix SightedMan
3 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Yea, coz guys will want to narrow the field a smidge.

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By *ixed_Man OP   Man
3 weeks ago

tadworth

Interesting comments here guys, I like seeing people’s opinions on this.

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By *ountry cowboyMan
3 weeks ago

Kinross


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific? "

I don't see many saying 8"+

But many request 6' in height

There are many shallow people on this forum and when I see specifics like these I simply block the profile as you know very well what they will be like.

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By *ountry cowboyMan
3 weeks ago

Kinross


"Things that attract us, should never cause offense to people not meeting that criteria. But...it does way too often, I look for picky guys, I like that quality in them. But all this exclusivity in sexual attraction is bollocks, I have no urge to list why I am not attracted to something. As we are all to often shamed into hiding our preferences.

Anyhoo, I'm waffling. Men and women should both, be able to be honest as to what arouses them, on their profile, without fear of ostracization."

I do believe 220 verifications would fully make my decision for me

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By *asterfulsoulMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester

The only sensible measurement of size is ml

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
3 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

It’s nothing personal or a slight on anyone who doesn’t match what they are looking for.

Everyone has a right to state their preferences in a respectful manner.

It’s the same if anyone prefers gym fit over dad bods or curvy.

Or if some women like VWE and others prefer above average with nice girth.

I don’t see it as right or wrong unless someone is insulting them for not being their type.

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

If someone’s wants are narrow then I’d much rather they state the fact on their profile. In the same way I wouldn’t message someone wanting only size 10 ladies, if you don’t fit their criteria why bother messaging?

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By *Rocky BalbonerMan
3 weeks ago

the shire

Plenty of guys do state that . Don’t think there is anything wrong in being specific , men or women . It’s not a dating site after all . Save wasting anyone’s time .

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By *essTTWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific? "

Men are allowed to be specific and have their preferences the same as everyone else. I'm confused as to you think they aren't?

It's usually men who are complaining about women being specific about their preference (such as this post) and I've literally never seen a woman make a post complaining about a man being specific or exclusionary.

Lots of men have physical specifics on their profiles, no one cares

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By *essTTWoman
3 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

I don't see many saying 8"+

But many request 6' in height

There are many shallow people on this forum and when I see specifics like these I simply block the profile as you know very well what they will be like."

Alexia - is it shallow to want to have sex with people you find attractive?

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By *8on33Man
3 weeks ago

winfrith


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific? "
To be fair to the OP I've seen this quite a few times in my area but the size of a penis is hardly the same as the size of the woman who has a preference for larger cocks or is it ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

I don't see many saying 8"+

But many request 6' in height

There are many shallow people on this forum and when I see specifics like these I simply block the profile as you know very well what they will be like."

What will they be like then? And why is it shallow? I dont meet men under 6ft. I’m tall which I hate and I don’t like being taller than a man. It’s a me issue not a them issue. How does that make me shallow?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

In answer to the op. I like it when men are specific. I like a man who knows what he wants and won’t accept anything. Each person is here for what they want. I have so many different preferences and things I don’t like that it borders on the ridiculous. But that’s ok

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By *ellhungvweMan
3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If people want to put specifics then that is up to them.

Personally, if someone has specifics that I match and they meet what I am looking for then I would probably say hi as they are more likely to respond positively. If they have specifics that I don’t meet or I don’t fancy them then I will pass.

That said, it is not uncommon for me to get requests from people who are looking for something that their profile says they don’t want so I generally treat specifics as superfluous text.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
3 weeks ago

Chester

Consider this;

The majority of Men are absolutely gagging for sex, and conversely, the majority of Women can take it or leave it.

In reality, for every 50 men looking for sex, you've got 1 woman. Multiply that by 10 for illustrative purposes. You've got 500 men to 10 women.

Those 10 women can be size 268, they can have 3 eyes, they can have a noses like pinocchio. They can request a 10" penis and they're going to get it.

If I was in a situation where I could choose from 500 desperate women, I'd request their souls! 😂

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By *agnar73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

It’s individual choice. If I don’t fit their preference, I move on.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I will counteract some of the comments on here because it's perhaps a geographical variance: in London and home counties most of the women within my locale are indeed looking for 7"++ and 6'+ in height etc. That's fine - it's a preference.

It's a frequent observation however.

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By *agnar73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I will counteract some of the comments on here because it's perhaps a geographical variance: in London and home counties most of the women within my locale are indeed looking for 7"++ and 6'+ in height etc. That's fine - it's a preference.

It's a frequent observation however."

I usually say it’s the motion of ocean, not size of wave, but, if that’s what they’re after, I’d respect it

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By *ohnjones3210Man
3 weeks ago

Chester


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

I don't see many saying 8"+

But many request 6' in height

There are many shallow people on this forum and when I see specifics like these I simply block the profile as you know very well what they will be like.

Alexia - is it shallow to want to have sex with people you find attractive?"

Hello, yes, Swallows do have sex. They then wait for the female to lay the eggs, where they are kept warm in the nest. Is there anything else I can't help you with?

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By *yzykMan
3 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

Seems to pop up fairly regularly on my Local Updates, usually couples looking for VWE, 8 inch+ etc - irrelevant to me but their preference

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Fife


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific? "

They already do it... Plus unlike boobs ass lips..you lot can walk about All day packing 3 inch celebration mixtures and pretending it's a full size joy stuck... While every asset men care about is visible. On occasion you get guys wanting a busted fistable pussy. Otherwise it's not the same..

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By *partharmonyCouple
3 weeks ago

Ruislip

People are attracted to who they are attracted to. There's no point in getting it on with somebody you're not attracted to. If it's polite and respectful, I think anybody can ask for whatever they want. Whether they get it or not is a different matter.

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Fife


"Consider this;

The majority of Men are absolutely gagging for sex, and conversely, the majority of Women can take it or leave it.

In reality, for every 50 men looking for sex, you've got 1 woman. Multiply that by 10 for illustrative purposes. You've got 500 men to 10 women.

Those 10 women can be size 268, they can have 3 eyes, they can have a noses like pinocchio. They can request a 10" penis and they're going to get it.

If I was in a situation where I could choose from 500 desperate women, I'd request their souls! 😂"

Lol

If it only worked that way

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By *im_1878Man
3 weeks ago

Formby

I have no idea about women’s dress sizes, so couldn’t specify want I would like/want 🤷‍♂️

But tbh, a confident women, regardless of size is by far the hottest

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By *ohnjones3210Man
3 weeks ago

Chester


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

They already do it... Plus unlike boobs ass lips..you lot can walk about All day packing 3 inch celebration mixtures and pretending it's a full size joy stuck... While every asset men care about is visible. On occasion you get guys wanting a busted fistable pussy. Otherwise it's not the same.."

"A busted fistable pussy" 😂😂😂 If it isn't tight, yet at the same time isn't able to contain my fist, it's a faulty foo foo. Take it back for a refund.

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By *vonne5exMan
3 weeks ago

Doncaster


"I’m only interested if it’s 75.73cm long and 25.11cm wide. No more. No less."
on my way

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
3 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

lol

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By *agnar73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

They already do it... Plus unlike boobs ass lips..you lot can walk about All day packing 3 inch celebration mixtures and pretending it's a full size joy stuck... While every asset men care about is visible. On occasion you get guys wanting a busted fistable pussy. Otherwise it's not the same..

"A busted fistable pussy" 😂😂😂 If it isn't tight, yet at the same time isn't able to contain my fist, it's a faulty foo foo. Take it back for a refund."

Yeah, like men are ever going to say ‘oh that clunge is the wrong shape and size for me’

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By *ohnjones3210Man
3 weeks ago

Chester


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

They already do it... Plus unlike boobs ass lips..you lot can walk about All day packing 3 inch celebration mixtures and pretending it's a full size joy stuck... While every asset men care about is visible. On occasion you get guys wanting a busted fistable pussy. Otherwise it's not the same..

"A busted fistable pussy" 😂😂😂 If it isn't tight, yet at the same time isn't able to contain my fist, it's a faulty foo foo. Take it back for a refund.

Yeah, like men are ever going to say ‘oh that clunge is the wrong shape and size for me’"

Yeah, after 3 months of begging. 😂

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Fife


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

They already do it... Plus unlike boobs ass lips..you lot can walk about All day packing 3 inch celebration mixtures and pretending it's a full size joy stuck... While every asset men care about is visible. On occasion you get guys wanting a busted fistable pussy. Otherwise it's not the same..

"A busted fistable pussy" 😂😂😂 If it isn't tight, yet at the same time isn't able to contain my fist, it's a faulty foo foo. Take it back for a refund.

Yeah, like men are ever going to say ‘oh that clunge is the wrong shape and size for me’"

They do sadly they do.... I've been told there's no way they'd fck me because they were used to hidden clit chicks and actually said he was disgusted looking at it... So yeah it happens

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By *agnar73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

They already do it... Plus unlike boobs ass lips..you lot can walk about All day packing 3 inch celebration mixtures and pretending it's a full size joy stuck... While every asset men care about is visible. On occasion you get guys wanting a busted fistable pussy. Otherwise it's not the same..

"A busted fistable pussy" 😂😂😂 If it isn't tight, yet at the same time isn't able to contain my fist, it's a faulty foo foo. Take it back for a refund.

Yeah, like men are ever going to say ‘oh that clunge is the wrong shape and size for me’

They do sadly they do.... I've been told there's no way they'd fck me because they were used to hidden clit chicks and actually said he was disgusted looking at it... So yeah it happens "

Really? That’s a cheek

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By *punk n gushCouple
3 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

They already do it... Plus unlike boobs ass lips..you lot can walk about All day packing 3 inch celebration mixtures and pretending it's a full size joy stuck... While every asset men care about is visible. On occasion you get guys wanting a busted fistable pussy. Otherwise it's not the same..

"A busted fistable pussy" 😂😂😂 If it isn't tight, yet at the same time isn't able to contain my fist, it's a faulty foo foo. Take it back for a refund.

Yeah, like men are ever going to say ‘oh that clunge is the wrong shape and size for me’"

Lol here comes a and e haha

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

It helps people to prevent wasted time, if people are very specific and is fine.

What's not right is to have anything abusive about others. And we should all work to keep the forum and Fab a good, positive environment

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By *aven.Woman
3 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Men don't have the balls to be so specific on here in case they upset someone they could have a chance with but who isn't their type. Go figure.

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By *agnar73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I often see posts of women asking about wanting 8+ inch willys and won’t accept anything else on here and I often wonder if a guy was so specific about what they want, how that would go down- for instance if a guy posted he wanted a size 10 and no more required, is that also just acceptable or would people get offended because it’s quite an excluding comment- if you would get offended- why is it ok for women to be so specific?

They already do it... Plus unlike boobs ass lips..you lot can walk about All day packing 3 inch celebration mixtures and pretending it's a full size joy stuck... While every asset men care about is visible. On occasion you get guys wanting a busted fistable pussy. Otherwise it's not the same..

"A busted fistable pussy" 😂😂😂 If it isn't tight, yet at the same time isn't able to contain my fist, it's a faulty foo foo. Take it back for a refund.

Yeah, like men are ever going to say ‘oh that clunge is the wrong shape and size for me’

Lol here comes a and e haha "

Exactly.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
3 weeks ago

London

I prefer a larger than average cock, but I'm also happy to meet regardless of size, as long as it works!!

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By *hyandcurious2021Man
3 weeks ago

exeter


"I prefer a larger than average cock, but I'm also happy to meet regardless of size, as long as it works!!"

Mine works just fine....your pics are making it work right now 😜😜

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By *ealmeetsonlyMan
3 weeks ago

Slough


"I prefer a larger than average cock, but I'm also happy to meet regardless of size, as long as it works!!"
I'm not far from you and mine is larger than average

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I've seen it but not often, think 6ft plus height requirement is more common which is frustrating for me as I pass the other test but am 5ft 10

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

There are lots of male profiles with requests for specific physical attributes.

Men are allowed to pursue the people they find attractive too

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By *haiababeWoman
3 weeks ago

North devon


"

Alexia - is it shallow to want to have sex with people you find attractive?"

Jist this. Brilliant

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