Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to The Lounge |
| Jump to newest |  |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Inspired by NoNutNovember... So I've been talking about this and I don't know if I'm alone in this thinking or a bit weird... possibly both. I find men really attractive before they've come. You know when they're all filled with sexy sex need/lust. Men, do you ever erm... delay orgasms? If you meet someone, do you need to come? Disappointed if you don't? Women/people who have sex with men - do you feel the same way? That's not to say I don't like them after... I guess I just like when people are sexually charged. "Before I've cum, I'm more assertive, more dominant, more frisky, more wild and more hands on. I'll always try to delay it so that it lasts atleast 10 minutes. As I've got older, I started to last longer. The desire to burst has diminished. The last time I had sex I didn't cum. I don't need to cum always, but it can feel very frustrating if I don't. Ofcourse, we feel it also. It's like as if a massive weight is lifted. All physical tension disappears and you don't need sex anymore. Your view of women changes and generally, you just want to relax. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'll generally leave it a day before I meet someone just to get that feeling of lust really ready. I don't think I'm able to hold off any longer than that and if I did, I'd worry I'd cum really quickly 😅" Joe, I'm going to give you such a hug when I next see your cute but manly face. I appreciate the honesty! Some men have a... I can't remember the term but it's like a strategic wank before they meet someone so they don't come too quickly. But when they do that they're not as grrr I need to fuck you. That's a shame. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"In most cases I prefer to delay it as long as possible, I feel its a waste to cum unless I'm with someone or watching probably why I rarely wank, For me the build up, flirting, teasing is stronger if I haven't cum for a few days/weeks " Weeks?! Gosh. What's the longest you've gone? If that's not too personal a question. Yeah, I can understand that, I'm similar. It also means things are far more intense when I do come through their touch. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hello OP. I hope you are well. I do know what you mean, and yes it’s very attractive. I’m not sure if it’s their hormones sending me into a frenzy but a man I’m attracted to is 37.4% more attractive when they’re burning for me. " Hello Miss Jamie Hants, I've not read you for some time now. Things are very good thank you, how are things with you? Nice avatar. Nice hair. Maybe their pheromones are more concentrated if they're needing to release. "Burning for me" - that's exactly it. I like that state. Very much. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"In most cases I prefer to delay it as long as possible, I feel its a waste to cum unless I'm with someone or watching probably why I rarely wank, For me the build up, flirting, teasing is stronger if I haven't cum for a few days/weeks Weeks?! Gosh. What's the longest you've gone? If that's not too personal a question. Yeah, I can understand that, I'm similar. It also means things are far more intense when I do come through their touch." 2-3 weeks but its usually a rampant over in minutes penetrating session if I go that long, Even if I have wanked every day before having sex I still need to be sexually turned on or stimulated through touch or visual for me to go again, It helps if she is the more active after I have cum | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Always when the tank is running low and the desire is weak. Then if you are able to get a respectable result from me, you are a keeper. "Hello stranger | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"They're like puppies begging for attention. Who doesn't love a puppy?" That's very true. But sometimes they're grim. Imagine having the audacity to expect oral every time but only give it if they "deserve" it? Those are the puppies that should be put down. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'll generally leave it a day before I meet someone just to get that feeling of lust really ready. I don't think I'm able to hold off any longer than that and if I did, I'd worry I'd cum really quickly 😅 Joe, I'm going to give you such a hug when I next see your cute but manly face. I appreciate the honesty! Some men have a... I can't remember the term but it's like a strategic wank before they meet someone so they don't come too quickly. But when they do that they're not as grrr I need to fuck you. That's a shame. " I get what you mean about men needing a tactical wank and it's something I may have done in the in the past! But I agree with you that the more time went on, the more eager I wanted to be to get my hands all over her  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
On the other hand I love it when I know the other half is about to cum. His whole demeanor changes, his eyes blanken and his breathing all changes. I could go on but will get a bit too cock thirsty. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I rather like them after when they are all snuggly and sleepy." I was coming to say this too, they're all relaxed and cuddly. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"These days I don’t cum a lot. Last few months, though I’ve had a fair amount of sex it’s been like once or twice. I don’t mind. I know if it’s not gonna happen pretty soon into sex. I just enjoy sex for what it is. And I try and make sure my partner enjoys it as much as possible. Sometimes I might take a break and do something different. I might ask if we stop for a bit. I might just say if I feel like they’re trying to make me cum ‘it might not happen’ knowing your body is important and feeling confident communicating is important. Muy importante. If I cum, great. If I don’t, that’s also ok. I find a few things: It bothers my partner more than me if I can’t cum. I get more stressed when I don’t get hard than when I can’t cum and that bothers me more than it does my partner. Either way- communicating solves all. " I think knowing your body is such an important point though... Which you can only do if you, y'know, actually have sex 😭 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" I find men really attractive before they've come. You know when they're all filled with sexy sex need/lust. Men, do you ever erm... delay orgasms? If you meet someone, do you need to come? Disappointed if you don't?" I dunno Meli. I don’t want to think about my cum face 🙈 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Inspired by NoNutNovember... So I've been talking about this and I don't know if I'm alone in this thinking or a bit weird... possibly both. I find men really attractive before they've come. You know when they're all filled with sexy sex need/lust. Men, do you ever erm... delay orgasms? If you meet someone, do you need to come? Disappointed if you don't? Women/people who have sex with men - do you feel the same way? That's not to say I don't like them after... I guess I just like when people are sexually charged. "Can't say-its literally never happened to me before! Honest! it must have been a bad pint!  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Inspired by NoNutNovember... So I've been talking about this and I don't know if I'm alone in this thinking or a bit weird... possibly both. I find men really attractive before they've come. You know when they're all filled with sexy sex need/lust. Men, do you ever erm... delay orgasms? If you meet someone, do you need to come? Disappointed if you don't? Women/people who have sex with men - do you feel the same way? That's not to say I don't like them after... I guess I just like when people are sexually charged. "Honestly orgasms (my own that is) are getting less important to me. In the past I used to have a problem with finishing when I was with a woman (nerves I guess) and that sometimes upset the woman I was with but honestly it was nothing to do with them - and as it meant I lasted as long as they needed me to I didn't mind.* But I used to ejaculate from masturbation two or three times a day and now I can go for days without - I still play, I just often don't release. You've put it perfectly as usual Meli - it's that sexual charge that builds up when you haven't come for a while, I find myself wanting that more than the orgasm. I know a lot of guys say this but my focus during sex is my partner and their pleasure so if I don't come but they do, I'm happy. I'd happy have sessions where I'm not touched at all and all the focus is on her. *I know that might sound like a humble brag but it didn't always happen and hasn't happened for a long time. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Always when the tank is running low and the desire is weak. Then if you are able to get a respectable result from me, you are a keeper. "Ha, Kai, it's good to read you again. Respectable result is exactly what I'm going to aim for from all of my sexual encounters, thank you for the inspiration. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes, yes and yes. But I also LOVE it when they are so close and struggling to hold themselves back from exploding, ugh.. just something about it 🥵 Miss S x" Yes my favourite cheerleader! You get it. I only started thinking about it because of a friend's valiant efforts. But that moment is so very hot! It's always tempting to push them over that edge.  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes, yes and yes. But I also LOVE it when they are so close and struggling to hold themselves back from exploding, ugh.. just something about it 🥵 Miss S x" That’s when you have to resist, no matter how tempting. Not easy to do 😂 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes, yes and yes. But I also LOVE it when they are so close and struggling to hold themselves back from exploding, ugh.. just something about it 🥵 Miss S x" This! 1000x this🤤 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes, yes and yes. But I also LOVE it when they are so close and struggling to hold themselves back from exploding, ugh.. just something about it 🥵 Miss S x Yes my favourite cheerleader! You get it. I only started thinking about it because of a friend's valiant efforts. But that moment is so very hot! It's always tempting to push them over that edge. "Yes, Mr J gives me that look to say... Be careful, you know what your doing 😏😈 Well that's me horny now for the afternoon, thanks Meli 😂 Miss S x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes, yes and yes. But I also LOVE it when they are so close and struggling to hold themselves back from exploding, ugh.. just something about it 🥵 Miss S x That’s when you have to resist, no matter how tempting. Not easy to do 😂" Yes it is, it just makes it that more hot the more I push, give him a minute or two and do it all over again 😩 Mr J is fairly used to it these days with me 😜😂 Miss S x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Yes, yes and yes. But I also LOVE it when they are so close and struggling to hold themselves back from exploding, ugh.. just something about it 🥵 Miss S x That’s when you have to resist, no matter how tempting. Not easy to do 😂 Yes it is, it just makes it that more hot the more I push, give him a minute or two and do it all over again 😩 Mr J is fairly used to it these days with me 😜😂 Miss S x" Lucky man. I’ll keep hoping for a woman to do that with. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I love being filled with lust until my body is tingling with desire and knowing that it's going to feed into a delicious sexual tension every inch I get closer to that kiss. I'm definitely more chill if I crack one off and there's situations where I might want that chill and clarity of mind like a social event. But if my body is craving someone I want all that pent up energy to meet theirs in the best possible way. To infinity and beyond!" I adore when men can write eloquently. So very much. And yes, that's how I see it. All that delicious pent up energy directed at me is so incredibly arousing. It's almost a palpable sexual tension, before things even begin. Just grrrrr. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Before I've cum, I'm more assertive, more dominant, more frisky, more wild and more hands on. I'll always try to delay it so that it lasts atleast 10 minutes. As I've got older, I started to last longer. The desire to burst has diminished. The last time I had sex I didn't cum. I don't need to cum always, but it can feel very frustrating if I don't. Ofcourse, we feel it also. It's like as if a massive weight is lifted. All physical tension disappears and you don't need sex anymore. Your view of women changes and generally, you just want to relax." I was hoping a man would reply in this sort of detailed manner! It makes perfect sense that you're friskier before you have. Like when I'm ovulating I'm almost feral. With a slightly respectable exterior. Yeah, it's a shift in energy isn't it? I don't think it's that odd for someone to pick up on it, also it varies so much - everyone has different refractory periods, it's finding those who compliment yours. Libido, importance of energy, all of that. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Before I've cum, I'm more assertive, more dominant, more frisky, more wild and more hands on. I'll always try to delay it so that it lasts atleast 10 minutes. As I've got older, I started to last longer. The desire to burst has diminished. The last time I had sex I didn't cum. I don't need to cum always, but it can feel very frustrating if I don't. Ofcourse, we feel it also. It's like as if a massive weight is lifted. All physical tension disappears and you don't need sex anymore. Your view of women changes and generally, you just want to relax. I was hoping a man would reply in this sort of detailed manner! It makes perfect sense that you're friskier before you have. Like when I'm ovulating I'm almost feral. With a slightly respectable exterior. Yeah, it's a shift in energy isn't it? I don't think it's that odd for someone to pick up on it, also it varies so much - everyone has different refractory periods, it's finding those who compliment yours. Libido, importance of energy, all of that." Haha, yes, a lot of men are fearful of divulging details on here because they don't want to put any woman off. There's a lot of stuff that we know women wouldn't want to hear. 😂 Yes, I agree - it is some sort of shift in energy. I guess we go from a sort of sexual trance to a relaxation phase. You can even think radically differently seconds afterwards. It sounds absolutely bizarre, but it's true. Refractory periods; for me, for full recovery it's about a day, although I can be encouraged back into action after 20 minutes. Although, the natural vigour would have most likely (but not always) been lost by this point. For me, if the woman tries to awaken him before that time, it's far too sensitive, it's painful and the pressure to perform can kill it completely. That's another weird thing: pressure. I can't get hard under pressure. Why? I have no idea. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Before I've cum, I'm more assertive, more dominant, more frisky, more wild and more hands on. I'll always try to delay it so that it lasts atleast 10 minutes. As I've got older, I started to last longer. The desire to burst has diminished. The last time I had sex I didn't cum. I don't need to cum always, but it can feel very frustrating if I don't. Ofcourse, we feel it also. It's like as if a massive weight is lifted. All physical tension disappears and you don't need sex anymore. Your view of women changes and generally, you just want to relax. I was hoping a man would reply in this sort of detailed manner! It makes perfect sense that you're friskier before you have. Like when I'm ovulating I'm almost feral. With a slightly respectable exterior. Yeah, it's a shift in energy isn't it? I don't think it's that odd for someone to pick up on it, also it varies so much - everyone has different refractory periods, it's finding those who compliment yours. Libido, importance of energy, all of that. Haha, yes, a lot of men are fearful of divulging details on here because they don't want to put any woman off. There's a lot of stuff that we know women wouldn't want to hear. 😂 Yes, I agree - it is some sort of shift in energy. I guess we go from a sort of sexual trance to a relaxation phase. You can even think radically differently seconds afterwards. It sounds absolutely bizarre, but it's true. Refractory periods; for me, for full recovery it's about a day, although I can be encouraged back into action after 20 minutes. Although, the natural vigour would have most likely (but not always) been lost by this point. For me, if the woman tries to awaken him before that time, it's far too sensitive, it's painful and the pressure to perform can kill it completely. That's another weird thing: pressure. I can't get hard under pressure. Why? I have no idea." I would never be too detailed and it all depends on person it’s with. If there’s a bit of banter and attraction easier to get that feral state, incentive to delay and hold and reason to recover and go again. Been amazed at myself with younger women in past year. Had the internal worrying that I couldn’t keep up, but I did. If it all feels a bit meh, different story. Keep head down and keep going. Maybe one day have someone to do it regularly and have that sort of thing with. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Edging someone over and over is probably up there with one of my favorite things to do. Their facial expressions, gasps and moans of pleasure as their cock swells and their balls tighten, then easing off until you build them back up again and they’re a desperate squirming mess. Yes fucking please.
" | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Edging someone over and over is probably up there with one of my favorite things to do. Their facial expressions, gasps and moans of pleasure as their cock swells and their balls tighten, then easing off until you build them back up again and they’re a desperate squirming mess. Yes fucking please.
"Where and how? I wish. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Edging someone over and over is probably up there with one of my favorite things to do. Their facial expressions, gasps and moans of pleasure as their cock swells and their balls tighten, then easing off until you build them back up again and they’re a desperate squirming mess. Yes fucking please.
"One woman did that to me when I was 25. I never forgot that time. She was incredible. I remember begging... Wtf?! Me begging?When she finally allowed it, the orgasm was insane. I'd never had an orgasm like and never had one like it since. I was shaking and muscle spasms all over?!? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
