FabSwingers.com forum: How do you like your affection?

By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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How do you like someone to express affection towards you?

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By *illy IdolMan
12 weeks ago

Midlands

Nude pictures

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.

Oh, and The Sex 💜

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.

Oh, and The Sex 💜"

This .. x

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.

Oh, and The Sex 💜"

And when you’re apart? These are all things harder to do?

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By *nya NeesWoman
12 weeks ago

Brum

"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.

Oh, and The Sex 💜

This .. x"

What they said 😁😘

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.

Oh, and The Sex 💜

And when you’re apart? These are all things harder to do?"

I love these things too btw

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By *eneralKenobiMan
12 weeks ago

North Angus

Bacon sandwiches

Allll the bacon sandwiches

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan
12 weeks ago

St Leonards

At 6-8 week intervals

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.

Oh, and The Sex 💜

And when you’re apart? These are all things harder to do?"

Time and thoughts. I don't need a lot, if we're apart then at least one of us is otherwise occupied.

An occasional meme or stupid thought that crossed the mind is enough.

If I don't hear from someone for a week I don't assume they've forgotten about me or stopped caring. I just know they have other priorities at the moment and will reach out when they have the time and spoons to engage with me properly 💜

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
12 weeks ago

The Continental

Grab me by the junk and say “ayup hot stuff”

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Tactile expressions. Touch, hugs that feel like embraces, eye contact, kisses.

An interest in my thoughts and feelings. Emotional availability and sharing of their own.

Enjoying time together, simple stuff really. Cooking, going for walks, curling up and watching movies. Playing cards.

When the feeling inspires a behaviour rather than a behaviour to inspire a feeling.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.

Oh, and The Sex 💜

And when you’re apart? These are all things harder to do?

Time and thoughts. I don't need a lot, if we're apart then at least one of us is otherwise occupied.

An occasional meme or stupid thought that crossed the mind is enough.

Real

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"Grab me by the junk and say “ayup hot stuff” "

X100

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"Tactile expressions. Touch, hugs that feel like embraces, eye contact, kisses.

An interest in my thoughts and feelings. Emotional availability and sharing of their own.

Enjoying time together, simple stuff really. Cooking, going for walks, curling up and watching movies. Playing cards.

When the feeling inspires a behaviour rather than a behaviour to inspire a feeling."

#Deep

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By *enk15Man
12 weeks ago

Evesham

Touching, kissing, affirmations, messages, smiles... and of course the sexy sex.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
12 weeks ago

Essex

Very carefully!

Sometimes I want touch

Sometimes I want space

Sometimes I want someone to just listen

Sex is usually a safe option too

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By *enk15Man
12 weeks ago

Evesham

oh and listening to me... like actual listening with genuine interest in what I have to say.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
12 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

On their knees is a good start 🤷‍♂️

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By *weetiepie99Woman
12 weeks ago

cardiff

Cook for me and take the rubbish out, not at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I don’t need a great deal of physical affection. Thinking of me, actually listening to me when I speak and wanting to spend time with me when they can is enough. Simple little things!

“I saw this today and it made me think of you” has me kicking my feet😌

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Privately!

If not with me then messages or phone calls work too

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By *iss.BellaWoman
12 weeks ago

Chester

Being told something that happened reminded them of me. Even if it was a pig leaning on a chain link fence ❤️

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.

Oh, and The Sex 💜"

This

Mrs

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
12 weeks ago

City Centre

"Tactile expressions. Touch, hugs that feel like embraces, eye contact, kisses.

An interest in my thoughts and feelings. Emotional availability and sharing of their own.

Enjoying time together, simple stuff really. Cooking, going for walks, curling up and watching movies. Playing cards.

When the feeling inspires a behaviour rather than a behaviour to inspire a feeling."

This is similar to my own thoughts.

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By *emorefridaCouple
12 weeks ago

La la land

Messages from out the blue saying they're thinking about you. Silly notes left around the place if they're going away.

Making you a cuppa when you get in from a hard day in work.

Being cwtshed in with them.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
12 weeks ago

Chester

I'm not a very emotional person.

I love touch, warmth or hugs. Also, I know it's weird, but I like to be sat on lied on and all that too. You know that cosy slouchy stuff?

But a lot of the time I like my own space.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"Privately!

If not with me then messages or phone calls work too "

What kind of messages?

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"I don’t need a great deal of physical affection. Thinking of me, actually listening to me when I speak and wanting to spend time with me when they can is enough. Simple little things!

“I saw this today and it made me think of you” has me kicking my feet😌"

Hahaha you’re cute.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"oh and listening to me... like actual listening with genuine interest in what I have to say."
being listened to is a top 5 feeling of all time

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"Privately!

If not with me then messages or phone calls work too

What kind of messages?"

The ones where I make their penises grow into massive rock hard erections!

Those Kinds of messages.

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By *WB85Man
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Kisses. Touches. Eye contact. Time together.

Oh, and The Sex 💜"

100% this. Sometimes just the right persons company is enough.

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By *rincipessaWoman
12 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

I’m a very tactile person so I love people who feed into that need for touch in me

But one of the other ways someone makes me feel special is when I know they’ve taken notice of me and I’m not just an outlet for their sexual urges. Things they say or do that reflect something I’ve maybe mentioned in passing before or commented on in a conversation

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

With a splash of insult.

The mr

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
12 weeks ago

Sheffield

Kissing...and/or memes.

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By *ickshawedCouple
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

With dry anal

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Restraining orders.

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By *ad NannaWoman
12 weeks ago

East London

Kiss the top of my head, stroke my face and tell me I'm their beautiful girl.

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By *rill PhilMan
12 weeks ago

Crediton

Not being horrible to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Taking me on an all expenses paid fortnight in the sun would be one way 😂

But i am not going to show my gushy romantic side in public

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By *ackformore100Man
12 weeks ago

Tin town

"How do you like someone to express affection towards you?"

Contact, connection, time, touch

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By *icecouple561Couple
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12 weeks ago

East Sussex

I like my affection to be genuine, heartfelt and freely given.

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By *HUSH-Man
12 weeks ago

London

Cuddles and snacks 🤗 🥰

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"I like my affection to be genuine, heartfelt and freely given. "
yes! Yes!!

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By *iker JackMan
12 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Affection needs to be sincere and meant.

Mostly for me it’s not a word but an action. Just holding my hand. Their legs over mine on the sofa. A look. Anything

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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One of my love languages is compliments.

Another one is face pictures.

one is making me feel attractive/ desired and a final one is making me feel wanted.

(Dw, I’m already in therapy)

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By *ookie46Woman
12 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Bookmarking

I’ll come back to this when finished work

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By *rettCoolMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"How do you like someone to express affection towards you?"

Haha brilliant answer ..

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

South Wales

Honesty.

Showing love/affection (hand holding, kisses, regular sex)

Knowing (feeling) I’m adored. I want to know that if there was a house fire they’d save me before their PlayStation.

If someone upset me they’d act like they’d hunt them down and piss in their coffee (without actually doing that - I don’t want a crim as a boyfriend).

They’d listen to me. The first time.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlong OP Man
12 weeks ago

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"Honesty.

Showing love/affection (hand holding, kisses, regular sex)

Knowing (feeling) I’m adored. I want to know that if there was a house fire they’d save me before their PlayStation.

If someone upset me they’d act like they’d hunt them down and piss in their coffee (without actually doing that - I don’t want a crim as a boyfriend).

They’d listen to me. The first time.

All of this 🫶🏾🫶🏾

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By *mmaleiaWoman
12 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"How do you like someone to express affection towards you?"

Eye contact, a knowing look across a room, tactile, PSA, proud to be seen with me

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By *parkle1974Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

In person, it could be anything from a touch to making me a coffee

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By *vaRose43Woman
12 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Touch, kisses, skin on skin, smiles, genuine desire.

When apart it could be a message, a meme, something that made them think of me… or it could be teasing about next time, phonecalls or video calls. All build and keep the desire and anticipation

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Buy me a kebab after, or during

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
12 weeks ago

The Continental

"Buy me a kebab after, or during "

My mate Harry Pitta, the Chilli Sorcerer does a mean mixed grill kebab sandwich. Perfect mid fuck munch.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

Tactility, in all forms. The back of her hand brushing against mine with a gentle persuasion; stroking her fingers along my thigh, smiling, looking into my eyes with conviction. Little gestures that speak volumes.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Depends who it is. Depends on the situation. But in general terms I like physical affection that happens without having to encourage it. A kiss out of nowhere, a touch, holding hands...

And in the bedroom; lots of eye contact, gentle caresses especially around the face, kisses - long, deep, intense kisses.

Oh, and swallowing

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By *929Man
12 weeks ago

bedlington

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
12 weeks ago

Always on the move

In person, very tactile. I'm a big "feeler".

Not in person, send me memes, jokes, and nudes.

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By *929Man
12 weeks ago

bedlington

I’m not bothered really if I had a partner the level exchanged would purely be based on their needs I’m happy receiving zero (if talking apart from sex) I don’t need any to be content

From family I despise it from everyone accept my kids my mother touched me on the foot the other day and I went ballistic and had to tell her get off haha

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By *ags73Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Normal messages with a bit of humour and some hugs and kisses please

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By *aisydooWoman
12 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

"Bacon sandwiches

Allll the bacon sandwiches "

This.

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By *nya NeesWoman
12 weeks ago

Brum

Definitely not all the bacon sandwiches 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Things that make me feel cared for that aren't directly for sex.

A "Saw this and thought of you" makes my day

It can be just a meme, my favourite biscuits, or bringing me a coffee.

That and the little touches, even if just next to eachother on the sofa, or hand on my back or arm when out together.

Feeling safe, loved and appreciated does wonders for the sex life

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
12 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

Showing me that they care by making a double stack BLT with runny eggs.

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By *eorgesdad69Man
12 weeks ago

Long Eaton

Kissing (on mouth) and caressing and if we feel each others cocks grow we will know there is sexual attraction 🤪🤪

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

What’s affection?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I'm not big on people being all touchy feely with me, just buy me food.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
12 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

It depends on the person and what they're comfortable with. I really value affection that feels genuine and freely given, rather than something forced or routine. Physical affection is wonderful, but when you're apart, there's something special about knowing someone truly enjoys staying in contact, however frequent that is. I love a mix of playful teasing and more heartfelt words. It means a lot when someone cares/trusts enough to share their true feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Language, tone of voice, frequent contact... Pet names, teasing

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By *aisydooWoman
12 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

"Buy me a kebab after, or during "

Are we talking a dirty doner?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
12 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Acts of servitude. When he comes over with a cuppa, because he can see I'm tired

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Quality time, cuddles, going to town hanging out the back of me like a epileptic horse.

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By *inkygentkentMan
12 weeks ago

Maidstone

Quite simple for me - make me feel wanted

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By *JcuriousCouple
12 weeks ago

Derby

I'm needy.

Cuddles, soft kisses. Partial to a slap of the ass or a thrust behind me when I bend over too

Miss S x

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By *tealthbomber2024Man
12 weeks ago

southend-on-sea

"Quality time, cuddles, going to town hanging out the back of me like a epileptic horse."

Very subtle

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"I'm needy.

Cuddles, soft kisses. Partial to a slap of the ass or a thrust behind me when I bend over too

Miss S x"

Yep, I'll join the needy club.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

Physical gestures - cuddles, little strokes, hand holding, little kisses and gentle gestures like that.

Telling me about how they appreciate me.

Doing things to show me how much they appreciate me.

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By *ortney CocksWoman
12 weeks ago

fab land

Hold me in close to them there arms up around my shoulders & a couple of quick pecks on the lips

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