FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong

By *bdangles10 OP Man
13 weeks ago

Thornton-Cleveleys

Wondering wether anyone would consider me attractive, average or below average? I figure I'm average and it's my game going wrong as I am very rusty but open to hear other wise!

By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

This will give you all the answers you need, young Sirrah. ☮️

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/Where%2bam%2bI%2b

By *ophieslutTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Central

Nobody could truly know, unless they have observed everything you have done OP.

But it strikes me as unrealistic to expect to be mutually compatible with anything but a couple of percent of people who you engage with. You've then got personal preferences, availability and circumstances involved, as well as how well each side manages to communicate. With engagement with several hundred people, it would be more reasonable to assume that, if all are very local, that you may gain some traction.

The confounding factor is that this is a swinging site. I don't know what your swinging involvement is, how engaged with swinging you may have been. Such aspects will certainly have influence on your results, in a swinging site.

Lastly - did you make realistic expectations, once you joined? What did you manage to learn, that influenced how you got involved and undertook things?