Affection kink...

Jump to newest

By (user no longer on site) OP
13 weeks ago

One of the best things I've found in human connection is affection. Indeed, in my last relationship I used to say that the sex can stop but if the affection ever stopped then there was an actual problem.

But where sex is concerned, without affection it just seems hollow and transactional.

Am I just being a needy little shit or is the desire for love and affection from a sexual partner an actual kink?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
13 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Sometimes, I just want a good hard quickie and them to fuck off and let me get on with whatever means I don't have time or spoons to do the rest.

But only from people I already have established genuine affection with 💜

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ell GwynnWoman
13 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

It's just normal to enjoy affection, isn't it? Whether it's a hug from a friend, stroking your child's hair, holding a lover's hand.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ansoffateMan
13 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Connection I need. It doesn't have to be affectionate, but I do have a soft spot for it too.

What if it is a need, we are allowed to have needs.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
13 weeks ago

"Sometimes, I just want a good hard quickie and them to fuck off and let me get on with whatever means I don't have time or spoons to do the rest.

But only from people I already have established genuine affection with 💜"

Absolutely, those dishes won't clean themselves...

But yes, sometimes a quickie is good and scratches the itch. But in that situation, the affection is more subtle and drip fed over time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iaandjamesCouple
13 weeks ago

Mias the same, there needs to be sensuality between her and anybody she's playing with.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread