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Cuddle buddies...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago

As someone who's recently single I find that I'm missing tge cuddles and affection more than anything else.

So that's when I came across cuddle buddies.

From what I can ascertain you book some time and spend it cuddled up in some way...

Has anyone visited a cuddle buddy?

Or have you offered cuddling?

How intimate does it get? Are we jyst talking about a cuddle or does stroking hair, touching faces, even kisses or more happen?

So many questions...

I'm very tempted just to see what it's like so may indeed report back.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I miss cuddling too.

Please do update on your findings if you decide to go ahead.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
3 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago


"I miss cuddling too.

Please do update on your findings if you decide to go ahead. "

Yes I will... The more I think about it the more intrigued I am by it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago


"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle."

Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
3 weeks ago

Kidsgrove


"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.

Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection."

I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
3 weeks ago


"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.

Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.

I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally."

I can understand that. Even though I'm perfectly happy (and often prefer) the intimacy and passion of kissing and cuddling, it will often lead to other things but it's necessarily driven by me...

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
3 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.

Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.

I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally."

You’ve got to feed them first.

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
3 weeks ago

york

Agree with the above, fill me with potatoes and you stand a good chance of holding my libido at bay

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By *ourkinkytoyMan
3 weeks ago

anywhere

Oh me too. I have tried to find this on here... maybe not the right place.

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By *ourkinkytoyMan
3 weeks ago

anywhere


"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.

Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.

I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally.

You’ve got to feed them first. "

That sounds even better! Food and cuddles!

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By *ourkinkytoyMan
3 weeks ago

anywhere

Ha you can get professionally certified. There is a training course in cuddling... a Diploma

... I might have found a new calling.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
3 weeks ago

Kidsgrove


"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.

Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.

I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally.

You’ve got to feed them first. "

Ah right. That's where I have been going wrong

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By *agnar73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I do miss a cuddle. But that’s a downside of being single.

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By *tevieboyyyMan
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville


"I miss cuddling too.

Please do update on your findings if you decide to go ahead. "

I love hugs and cuddles. A decent cuddle is better than intimacy.

My cuddle buddies have varied over the past few years, can say I am almost fulfilled there is always room for more.

As an aside, ended up learning Reiki a few years back, and most recently Reflexology - connection with humans is important to me.

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By *omethingoranotherMan
3 weeks ago

near you


"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.

Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.

I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally.

You’ve got to feed them first.

Ah right. That's where I have been going wrong "

Cuddles make me horny. Good food makes me happy. Combine the two and I’m definitely not going to want to stop at just cuddles. That is unless you’ve fed me so much that I’m rolling around like a beached whale (it’s happened a few times, ok, more times than I wish to remember!) and even then, there’s a good chance I’ll want to dine out on you for my dessert!

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By *ungandMan
3 weeks ago

daveyhulme

Nothing beats a cuddle specially in bed or even better spooning in bed

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By *ungandMan
3 weeks ago

daveyhulme


"I miss cuddling too.

Please do update on your findings if you decide to go ahead. "

Can’t beat a nice cuddle

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By *aven.Woman
3 weeks ago

Not the North West...

This is the kind of thing I have nightmares about

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By *akedMMan
3 weeks ago

Witney

As a single man I really miss having a cuddle

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By *exy4youxxWoman
3 weeks ago

Pontefract


"If there is hope of kisses or more, it's not a cuddle.

Not sure I'm that definitive about it... I think a cuddle is a cuddle and a kiss is a kiss. And I think that when you're able to combine the two then the result is exponential in terms of intimacy and connection.

I have not met a man yet who could just kiss and cuddle, and not try to progress to sex personally.

I can understand that. Even though I'm perfectly happy (and often prefer) the intimacy and passion of kissing and cuddling, it will often lead to other things but it's necessarily driven by me..."

I am sure a cuddle buddy will mean just that cuddling nothing sexual I love a good cuddle makes me feel safe and protected with strong arms around me but if them arms started wandering it would make me feel very unsafe ..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"This is the kind of thing I have nightmares about"

Me too. Can’t think of anything worse than meeting a stranger to cuddle!

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By *tevieboyyyMan
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville

I love a cuddle.

When I am at eco festivals I often get asked for a hug or a cuddle by a stranger; sometimes I say no, sometimes I say yes.

Often I just blank them so they don't engage; if I get looked at three or four times in 20 mins I do capitulate and it generally works out well.

If someone has nice vibes and nice energy - they can have all the hugs male or female.

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By *urvychaos94Woman
3 weeks ago

Sunderland

How doesn't love a good cuddle

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By *tevieboyyyMan
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville


"How doesn't love a good cuddle "

Totally, no expectation, and good release of oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin.

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