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"They can fuck off. I dress for me. The unsolicited opinions of strangers are almost always unwelcome 💜" I've had guys slow down and then say in a friendly voice: 'hey you look great hun' or something and i'm totally fine with that... I like that. But then I get the odd one who slows down, trails me for ages, doesn't say anything - just keeps learing over the rim of his specs - probably frantically masturbating. | |||
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"They can fuck off. I dress for me. The unsolicited opinions of strangers are almost always unwelcome 💜 I've had guys slow down and then say in a friendly voice: 'hey you look great hun' or something and i'm totally fine with that... I like that. But then I get the odd one who slows down, trails me for ages, doesn't say anything - just keeps learing over the rim of his specs - probably frantically masturbating." You've just reminded me of a video.  | |||
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"It doesn't happen" I put it down to the clothes I wear, which are quite... 'sexy', but as another poster stated: 'I dress for me'. | |||
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"They can fuck off. I dress for me. The unsolicited opinions of strangers are almost always unwelcome 💜 I've had guys slow down and then say in a friendly voice: 'hey you look great hun' or something and i'm totally fine with that... I like that. But then I get the odd one who slows down, trails me for ages, doesn't say anything - just keeps learing over the rim of his specs - probably frantically masturbating." I know how I look. A woman I don't know complimenting my shoes or something, I don't mind that. Strange men giving compliments are almost always immediately chucked into the creep pile. | |||
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"They can fuck off. I dress for me. The unsolicited opinions of strangers are almost always unwelcome 💜 I've had guys slow down and then say in a friendly voice: 'hey you look great hun' or something and i'm totally fine with that... I like that. But then I get the odd one who slows down, trails me for ages, doesn't say anything - just keeps learing over the rim of his specs - probably frantically masturbating. I know how I look. A woman I don't know complimenting my shoes or something, I don't mind that. Strange men giving compliments are almost always immediately chucked into the creep pile." What if a TV in a shop complimented your lipstick or something? I get women doing that to me a lot... But I don't mind it at all. It all depends on how it's said/motives etc. If they're just being friendly I like it. | |||
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"What if a TV in a shop complimented your lipstick or something? I get women doing that to me a lot... But I don't mind it at all. It all depends on how it's said/motives etc. If they're just being friendly I like it. " I guess that's where the distinction comes in really. Does it seem like a friendly comment or someone trying to get in your pants. And intentions doesn't always define interpretation. | |||
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"You forgot the is it just bloody scary option. "  | |||
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"I dress like Stig of the dumps sister so it never happens 😁" Black sheer-stockings... frilly pink ankle socks... Drives them wild! | |||
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"You forgot the is it just bloody scary option. " This 100% | |||
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"You forgot the is it just bloody scary option. " Honestly I'm more concerned about the potential weirdos online (and there's a fair few) checking me out here. | |||
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"I like it to a degree,if it's subtle and shy way about it yes but if it's coor show us ya tits spout then nope don't do nothing for me " Yeah me too. (Well I don't have tits but you know what I mean).  | |||
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"Ladies how do you feel when you're walking up a street or something and guys in cars slow down behind you - checking you out. Do you like it or does it annoy you?" Hate this for many reasons. Leave people alone. Unsolicited attention is the thin end of a massive misogynistic wedge. | |||
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"When my hair was really long (about knee length) I used to get stopped in the street every 30 seconds. It's not the same dynamic I know.." To be fair you would stop my traffic.  | |||
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"What's that? interesting can't even get an excuse me walking down the sidewalk without having to step to the side because people are oblivious of someone else walking." And if you don't move they are not shy about confronting you. I love confrontation though. | |||
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"Ladies how do you feel when you're walking up a street or something and guys in cars slow down behind you - checking you out. Do you like it or does it annoy you? Hate this for many reasons. Leave people alone. Unsolicited attention is the thin end of a massive misogynistic wedge. " I don't get a lot of the comments like this one... I mean... Not everyone has 'skype' or can be bothered with an 'app' you know what I mean? Just a few years ago (before the 'net') people had to do such things to show someone they were interested in them, and for some people (like myself and some others here) - we enjoy the attention (if it's done in a nice way). Not everyone is weirdos and murderers, and again... I've met far more weird folk online than anywhere else. Well... Maybe the so called church. | |||
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"Hate this for many reasons. Leave people alone. Unsolicited attention is the thin end of a massive misogynistic wedge. If it's someone hot I don't really mind. Two responses to the same question. Obviously the reason misogynistic behaviour continues is because other men don't challenge it. Let's make a running joke of #notallmen. The reality is actually #notallwomen. Surprising at this may be, different people like different things. Some men think this behaviour is creepy and wrong -as do some women. Some men think it's acceptable - as do some women. The sinner we acknowledge these facts the quicker we will be able to get to solutions. P" It's odd how a lot of the people on here claim they hate: 'attention' but have profiles with numerous photos with all with their bits hanging out for everyone on fab to look at (and there's a fair few strange folk around and a gathering of perverts (the wrong kind of attention they claim they want to avoid!). These people also have the place they live on their profiles, what clubs they go to, their friends and contacts... Anyway; I've met great friends over the years by chatting to people in public and them chatting to me. - Male and female... In fact I ONLY meet people that way/the proper way (without sending them a message on a stupid app where I could be talking to anyone). | |||
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"I can imagine for the poor lady it's incredibly embarrassing... personally I've never done it or never will. But I guess some enjoy being the "attention"" But the ones saying they hate attention from pervy sorts are the ones with all their bits dangling about in numerous pics on their profiles on here. I'd rather just be 'clothed' and out a walk with a guy admiring me in a car tbh... Than strangers knowing my home-town, my friends, what clubs I go to (etc) and wanking over my photos. The 'car dude' attention is far more reasonable. | |||
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"I do wish more women/men would approach me if they find me attractive as I get looks (hopefully good) but generally don't have the confidence to approach a woman or man I blame the dating online effect " It's a shame people are so sensitive and afraid for no reason. And not only that but full of contradiction - clueless to where real danger lurks. I mean... A car slows down, a guy/gal looks over at something he/she is admiring (you) and makes it known... Big deal. You can either take them up on the compliment or not, but that's how normal people have communicated since time began and how normal people always will communicate. ...(Maybe minus the car). | |||
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"I blame the dating online effect " There is a lot of anti-social people now because of it, - terrified of the outside (real) world. | |||
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"What if a TV in a shop complimented your lipstick or something? I get women doing that to me a lot... But I don't mind it at all. It all depends on how it's said/motives etc. If they're just being friendly I like it. I guess that's where the distinction comes in really. Does it seem like a friendly comment or someone trying to get in your pants. And intentions doesn't always define interpretation." It comes over like you're just seeking something to complain about to me... Almost as though someone couldn't do right for doing wrong by you. | |||
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"That’s gotta be creepy? I don’t want a strangers attention especially car slowing down to ogle me! What is this some crazy behaviour?! " Wow you've never had guys in cars slow down to enjoy your beauty either? All the men must be chasing the trannys these days! I can't leave the house for it happening lol. | |||
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"Trust me darling I’m don’t want that sort of attention and you be careful sweetie you don’t know whose driving that car xx " 'That' sort of attention? - It sounds like you assume that every person who drives a car and pays someone a compliment from it is a 'bad person'? I've always found meeting people offline is safer and the: 'attention' on sex websites (from cheats/serial wankers/pervy sorts etc) to be far more 'unwanted' for ladies tbh. | |||
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"Trust me darling I’m don’t want that sort of attention and you be careful sweetie you don’t know whose driving that car xx 'That' sort of attention? - It sounds like you assume that every person who drives a car and pays someone a compliment from it is a 'bad person'? I've always found meeting people offline is safer and the: 'attention' on sex websites (from cheats/serial wankers/pervy sorts etc) to be far more 'unwanted' for ladies tbh." I never said people who drive and compliment are “bad people” for myself personally I don’t want anyone kerb crawling and trying to get my attention you do you it’s your life. As for people online yes there is an element of danger but if one takes the right precaution one should be alright. I hope this clarified my stance and you don’t feel offended. | |||
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"But yeah I just wish both myself and my generation or even older had the social skills of old People are too scared or too anxious to do anything That's not to say people shouldn't be careful But I'm just saying ask for that person's number, say hi , smile etc Worst responses are I have (insert significant other here ) Sorry not interested Or no thank you " Yeah, not everyone is an axe-murderer lol. Typically it's just a guy out and about chancing his luck and/or looking to connect with a real human being with real human contact instead of some AI app-speaking antisocial freak. - He should be applauded at least for that. It's a sad day when someone can't approach someone on a street to say: 'hi' but the other person think's they're a weirdo who can: 'get to fuck' (as one poster here said), whilst shitting bricks over fk all. | |||
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"Trust me darling I’m don’t want that sort of attention and you be careful sweetie you don’t know whose driving that car xx 'That' sort of attention? - It sounds like you assume that every person who drives a car and pays someone a compliment from it is a 'bad person'? I've always found meeting people offline is safer and the: 'attention' on sex websites (from cheats/serial wankers/pervy sorts etc) to be far more 'unwanted' for ladies tbh. I never said people who drive and compliment are “bad people” for myself personally I don’t want anyone kerb crawling and trying to get my attention you do you it’s your life. As for people online yes there is an element of danger but if one takes the right precaution one should be alright. I hope this clarified my stance and you don’t feel offended. " No I don't get offended, no need to put words in my mouth. You gave your view and I gave mine. | |||
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"May I be so bold as to simplify this as much as I can. We can debate the moral and social dichotomy of whether public displays of complimenting a stranger is acceptable or not, until the proverbial cows come home. Essentially, it comes down to if you find the person who’s complimented you attractive or not. Attractive people can be creepy and weird as well as anyone else. I find a compliment more flattering from a person I find attractive, and a compliment more weird from someone I don’t. Let’s be honest, this isn’t the answer people want to hear or admit, but I’d say it’s a pretty accurate summarisation." If someone can't take a compliment from another human being (stranger or not); they have issues... And that's fact not opinion. - There is something wrong with them. It's also bizarre to see a compliment as being 'weird' from someone you don't find attractive but not if you find them attractive... What does looks have to with that??? I dunno if it's been a full-moon every night for the past few years, but the real weirdos these days seem to be the ones who don't realize they are. | |||
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"I love when the wife gets it ! " Yeah I definitely agree with this | |||
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"I love when the wife gets it ! " Even when it's late at night and she's walking alone just going about her business and a stranger curb crawls and cat calls? | |||
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