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people looking for friendships only?!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've spent the day talking to the male half of a couple on here and on mobile (big mistake) only to find that despite showing a picture if his girls gorgeous looking behind on their profile, all they want is to find some new friends for drinks and giggles!!! WTF!! I'm sure there are other sites for that kind of shit ad pretty sure this isn't one of those, would I be right?? Should I name and shame?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I would just move on and forget about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've spent the day talking to the male half of a couple on here and on mobile (big mistake) only to find that despite showing a picture if his girls gorgeous looking behind on their profile, all they want is to find some new friends for drinks and giggles!!! WTF!! I'm sure there are other sites for that kind of shit ad pretty sure this isn't one of those, would I be right?? Should I name and shame? "

For doing what ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day? The whole day?

Not being funny - i'm all for phone contact if there's a meet pending but i'd never dream of just having a random chat with someone on the phone. Why not just message on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

name and shame for what?

cause they're not looking for the same as you?

I've heard it all now

dear admin can you ban this couple cause they're looking for frinds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name and shame for what?

cause they're not looking for the same as you?

I've heard it all now

dear admin can you ban this couple cause they're looking for frinds "

One more and then it's correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've spent the day talking to the male half of a couple on here and on mobile (big mistake) only to find that despite showing a picture if his girls gorgeous looking behind on their profile, all they want is to find some new friends for drinks and giggles!!! WTF!! I'm sure there are other sites for that kind of shit ad pretty sure this isn't one of those, would I be right?? Should I name and shame? "

I am confused. Just what are you so mad about? They did tell you just what they want, even though it could have been on their profile. Be flattered that they like your profile very much. If you still believe they were wrong in how things progressed, don't you make a mistake by being rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name and shame for what?

cause they're not looking for the same as you?

I've heard it all now

dear admin can you ban this couple cause they're looking for friends "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Point taken by all. It just seemed a little bit pointless being on here for platonic friendships is all.

Thanks all for responding.

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By *oxerjoshleeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Life's far too short. Let it go, move on.

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By *oxerjoshleeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Point taken by all. It just seemed a little bit pointless being on here for platonic friendships is all.

Thanks all for responding. "

They might just want to dip their toes in the water. As a newbie I can relate to that. No everyone is hardcore.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"I've spent the day talking to the male half of a couple on here and on mobile (big mistake) only to find that despite showing a picture if his girls gorgeous looking behind on their profile, all they want is to find some new friends for drinks and giggles!!! WTF!! I'm sure there are other sites for that kind of shit ad pretty sure this isn't one of those, would I be right?? Should I name and shame? "

move on and contact us instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, different website for that kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

move on and contact us instead

Haha lovin it. Can always count on Fabbers to bring a smile to ones face

Moved on already and thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name and shame for what?

cause they're not looking for the same as you?

I've heard it all now

dear admin can you ban this couple cause they're looking for frinds "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

They might just want to dip their toes in the water. As a newbie I can relate to that. No everyone is hardcore. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"name and shame for what?

cause they're not looking for the same as you?

I've heard it all now

dear admin can you ban this couple cause they're looking for frinds "

Too true. Must be Friday fab fears

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"move on and contact us instead

Haha lovin it. Can always count on Fabbers to bring a smile to ones face

Moved on already and thanks for the advice."

might have moved on but you not contacted us yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name and shame for what?

cause they're not looking for the same as you?

I've heard it all now

dear admin can you ban this couple cause they're looking for frinds "

That's me banned then

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Perhaps, after talking they thought that you wouldn't be a match for them and a polite way of letting you down was they are looking for friendship. Just a thought.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

See, when you say "drinks and giggles" (if THEY worded it like that) could that not mean they may be open to diping their toes with the right people?

And if not, if people are looking to make friends who are open-minded and share an equal love of the lifestyle, where better to look than a swinging site?

At least they've told you before meeting. Imagine that! You've washed your cock and shaved your pubes and you get there to find them waiting with a game of Monopoly and the first season of House.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"move on and contact us instead

Haha lovin it. Can always count on Fabbers to bring a smile to ones face

Moved on already and thanks for the advice.

might have moved on but you not contacted us yet lol"

Lmao.... check your inbox

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"See, when you say "drinks and giggles" (if THEY worded it like that) could that not mean they may be open to *dipping their toes with the right people?

And if not, if people are looking to make friends who are open-minded and share an equal love of the lifestyle, where better to look than a swinging site?

At least they've told you before meeting. Imagine that! You've washed your cock and shaved your pubes and you get there to find them waiting with a game of Monopoly and the first season of House. "

Grrr! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps, after talking they thought that you wouldn't be a match for them and a polite way of letting you down was they are looking for friendship. Just a thought."

Possibly and even hopefully was my outlook on that but then found that that really is all they want but as I've said I do have a better understanding now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See, when you say "drinks and giggles" (if THEY worded it like that) could that not mean they may be open to *dipping their toes with the right people?

And if not, if people are looking to make friends who are open-minded and share an equal love of the lifestyle, where better to look than a swinging site?

At least they've told you before meeting. Imagine that! You've washed your cock and shaved your pubes and you get there to find them waiting with a game of Monopoly and the first season of House.

Grrr! x"

Lmao.....that would be funny in a rather annoying way. Maybe they will eventually dip their toes and hopefully I'll still be on their radar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not meeting anyone so I must be a time wasting fake

Ohhhhhhh

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"move on and contact us instead

Haha lovin it. Can always count on Fabbers to bring a smile to ones face

Moved on already and thanks for the advice.

might have moved on but you not contacted us yet lol

Lmao.... check your inbox"

mmmm ... now check yours

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"move on and contact us instead

Haha lovin it. Can always count on Fabbers to bring a smile to ones face

Moved on already and thanks for the advice.

might have moved on but you not contacted us yet lol"

Thats cos he's worried you just want to be friends and chat for hours on end on the phone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've spent the day talking to the male half of a couple on here and on mobile (big mistake) only to find that despite showing a picture if his girls gorgeous looking behind on their profile, all they want is to find some new friends for drinks and giggles!!! WTF!! I'm sure there are other sites for that kind of shit ad pretty sure this isn't one of those, would I be right?? Should I name and shame? "

Plenty of people say that. But if you meet and get on, im sure it will progress. Go with the mindset of meeting new people and if it progresses, its a nice bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have phone chats and messages on here with people i may never meet due to distance or not wanting the same....its nice to meet friends you can be open with aling with sex partners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm not meeting anyone so I must be a time wasting fake

Ohhhhhhh "

Well are you on here just for the flirting and does it clearly state that in your profile and nothing ominous like " looking for fun and frolics"??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm not meeting anyone so I must be a time wasting fake

Ohhhhhhh "

But one with a nice bum

I would be flattered they chatted instead of hitting the delete button straight away lol

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By *ervySmurfMan
over a year ago

Deutchland

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By *ervySmurfMan
over a year ago

Deutchland


"all they want is to find some new friends for drinks and giggles!!! WTF!! I'm sure there are other sites for that kind of shit ad pretty sure this isn't one of those, would I be right?? Should I name and shame? "

Totally agree with you. Some people here seem to think that they can use the website however they want. But that's like going to a butcher's and demanding that they sell you a bag of cement and complaining when you're told "go to a builder's merchant".

Those looking for dating, emotional involvement, camming, dogging, just chat or anything else that doesn't fall under the term "swinging" would be better frequenting the websites that specialise in those activities rather than waste everyone's time by being here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all they want is to find some new friends for drinks and giggles!!! WTF!! I'm sure there are other sites for that kind of shit ad pretty sure this isn't one of those, would I be right?? Should I name and shame?

Totally agree with you. Some people here seem to think that they can use the website however they want. But that's like going to a butcher's and demanding that they sell you a bag of cement and complaining when you're told "go to a builder's merchant".

Those looking for dating, emotional involvement, camming, dogging, just chat or anything else that doesn't fall under the term "swinging" would be better frequenting the websites that specialise in those activities rather than waste everyone's time by being here."

I'm not looking to 'swing' just regular NSA sex should I not be on here

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By *ervySmurfMan
over a year ago

Deutchland

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"move on and contact us instead

Haha lovin it. Can always count on Fabbers to bring a smile to ones face

Moved on already and thanks for the advice.

might have moved on but you not contacted us yet lol

Thats cos he's worried you just want to be friends and chat for hours on end on the phone...."

The real deal I can assure you

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By *ervySmurfMan
over a year ago

Deutchland

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By *ervySmurfMan
over a year ago

Deutchland


"I'm not looking to 'swing' just regular NSA sex should I not be on here"

If you're single, regular NSA sex with someone else who is single is just "having sex".

Regular NSA sex with someone who isn't your partner or is part of another couple is either swinging (if the respective partners know about it) or cheating (if they dont).

Swinging is, by definition NSA - that's what it's all about.

The only thing that ever blurred the "swinging" lines were singles going to clubs to hook up with other singles or for gangbangs... is that swinging - probably not. It's just having a LOT of sex all in one go!

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Well i guess people use profiles for different reasons.

Some however do state that they are on the site purely to chat/cam and others dont make it clear it would appear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not looking to 'swing' just regular NSA sex should I not be on here

If you're single, regular NSA sex with someone else who is single is just "having sex".

Regular NSA sex with someone who isn't your partner or is part of another couple is either swinging (if the respective partners know about it) or cheating (if they dont).

Swinging is, by definition NSA - that's what it's all about.

The only thing that ever blurred the "swinging" lines were singles going to clubs to hook up with other singles or for gangbangs... is that swinging - probably not. It's just having a LOT of sex all in one go! "

I agree absolutely!!!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

So let me get this straight, and correct me if I have got it wrong, you want to name and shame them because they are only looking for friends at the moment?

I despair at times.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all they want is to find some new friends for drinks and giggles!!! WTF!! I'm sure there are other sites for that kind of shit ad pretty sure this isn't one of those, would I be right?? Should I name and shame?

Totally agree with you. Some people here seem to think that they can use the website however they want. But that's like going to a butcher's and demanding that they sell you a bag of cement and complaining when you're told "go to a builder's merchant".

Those looking for dating, emotional involvement, camming, dogging, just chat or anything else that doesn't fall under the term "swinging" would be better frequenting the websites that specialise in those activities rather than waste everyone's time by being here."

If someone is using the site in a different way to that which you choose to - and therefore having no impact on your activities, either positively or negatively - how can they "waste everyone's time by being here"?

I couldn't give a monkeys about anyone else's motivations. I'm concerned purely with my own motives, those I chat to and those I meet and am looking to meet.

And I certainly wouldn't ever accuse anyone of being in the wrong place! Exclusive, rather than inclusive - and shows a serious 'arrogance' and sense of 'ownership' about what is supposed to be a welcoming and open community.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"all they want is to find some new friends for drinks and giggles!!! WTF!! I'm sure there are other sites for that kind of shit ad pretty sure this isn't one of those, would I be right?? Should I name and shame?

Totally agree with you. Some people here seem to think that they can use the website however they want. But that's like going to a butcher's and demanding that they sell you a bag of cement and complaining when you're told "go to a builder's merchant".

Those looking for dating, emotional involvement, camming, dogging, just chat or anything else that doesn't fall under the term "swinging" would be better frequenting the websites that specialise in those activities rather than waste everyone's time by being here."

People can use the site however they bloody well want, if they don't match what your looking for just move on!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

at the end of the day you can only ever go as fast as the slowest person...

for me... my swinging has always been friends first and if anything happens from there that is a bonus.....

no expectations asked... none given...

I suppose I should be named and shamed then.... oh bad me!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes my pubes curl that people are so up in everyone elses business when it comes to how to use this site.

Not so much the nanny state as the fanny state.

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