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By *ad Nanna OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

East London

I decided to do the dating thing, seeing as I'm not doing so well in the friend with benefits department.

For our first date, he wants to go up a skyscraper and chat while we look at the view of London.

Should I back out, go for it and suffer the consequences, or really sell myself and admit I'm claustrophobic and scared of heights, so I'll probably have a panic attack in the lift and cry at the top?

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By *agnar73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Don’t push.

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By *929Man
3 weeks ago

newcastle

Maybe just say your scared of heights and suggest doing something else ?

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By *dam1971Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford

If you’re really afraid of heights, don’t do it.

Also, on a first date you want to avoid anywhere that has 5 awkward minutes in the lift if you have to leave. A pub is ideal, preferably with an exit near the toilet.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
3 weeks ago

Brum

No don't do it, tell him x

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Just be honest with him. If he doesn't care or gets arsy, next! I'd be mortified if I had planned something for a dare and it was the other person's worst nightmare.

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By *oo..Woman
3 weeks ago

Boo's World

Tell them and suggest an alternative 🤔

Boat cruise instead?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London


"Just be honest with him. If he doesn't care or gets arsy, next! I'd be mortified if I had planned something for a dare and it was the other person's worst nightmare."

I agree with this nanna. Could be a good way to gauge his personality.

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Take me with you

We can panic together and then laugh about it over cake when we're back at street level

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

Suggest a date that you'd like and decline the skyscraper

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
3 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

There are two people going on the date so you should have some input.

If he doesn’t get why a trip up a skyscraper fills you with fear due to your aversion to heights and enclosed spaces.

He isn’t living up to the friends part of a FWB

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

Suggest a scenic bus tour

But seriously, just politely say you'd not enjoy the heights and offer a couple of alternative suggestions?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

You’d better double up on cardigans Nanna, catch your death up one of them skyscrapers this time of year you know 🥶

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"Suggest a scenic bus tour

But seriously, just politely say you'd not enjoy the heights and offer a couple of alternative suggestions? "

They have afternoon tea buses

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By *ad Nanna OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

East London


"Take me with you

We can panic together and then laugh about it over cake when we're back at street level "

I'm starting to think I should go with you instead of him.

I think I've found an Andrew Tater 😔

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By *ad Nanna OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

East London


"You’d better double up on cardigans Nanna, catch your death up one of them skyscrapers this time of year you know 🥶"

I'm scared he'll try to push me off.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West


"Take me with you

We can panic together and then laugh about it over cake when we're back at street level

I'm starting to think I should go with you instead of him.

I think I've found an Andrew Tater 😔"

Oh no no no, you don't want an Andrew Tater

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By *layfullsamMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull


"I decided to do the dating thing, seeing as I'm not doing so well in the friend with benefits department.

For our first date, he wants to go up a skyscraper and chat while we look at the view of London.

Should I back out, go for it and suffer the consequences, or really sell myself and admit I'm claustrophobic and scared of heights, so I'll probably have a panic attack in the lift and cry at the top?

"

Call his bluff and say you’re into base jumping, take 2 rucksacks pretending they’re parachutes and hope he changes plans

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By *sWyldWoman
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

That's quite a first date!

I think be honest. Keep it simple. A drink or a coffee and take it from there.

Plan something more interesting for date 2

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"You’d better double up on cardigans Nanna, catch your death up one of them skyscrapers this time of year you know 🥶

I'm scared he'll try to push me off."

Better wear three then

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By *WANDTGCouple
3 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

In my view there's only 2 places open publicly for a panoramic view of London, one is the shard the other is the London eye. So I doubt there's any fear of falling and you'll be safe.

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By *ad Nanna OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

East London

It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

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By *ee69Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

"

Sounds a treat

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

"

It's a hard pass, Nanna

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By *ad Nanna OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

East London


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

Sounds a treat "

You think you've heard it all.

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By *ad Nanna OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

East London


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

It's a hard pass, Nanna "

Seriously, he's on another level.

Thinks I'm going to swallow his cum, let him cum all over me, suck his dick when he wants and not use protection ever.

He just said we aren't equal, because something about Adam and Eve.

I can't work out if he's pulling my leg.

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By *mf123Man
3 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

If skyscrapers scrape the sky what do they scrape off

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By *ira2024Woman
3 weeks ago

SW


"Maybe just say your scared of heights and suggest doing something else ?"

I’m here to say the same 🙌🏻

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

It's a hard pass, Nanna

Seriously, he's on another level.

Thinks I'm going to swallow his cum, let him cum all over me, suck his dick when he wants and not use protection ever.

He just said we aren't equal, because something about Adam and Eve.

I can't work out if he's pulling my leg.

"

I think you should leave him on the 47th floor and do one back home

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By *aizyWoman
3 weeks ago

west midlands


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

It's a hard pass, Nanna

Seriously, he's on another level.

Thinks I'm going to swallow his cum, let him cum all over me, suck his dick when he wants and not use protection ever.

He just said we aren't equal, because something about Adam and Eve.

I can't work out if he's pulling my leg.

I think you should leave him on the 47th floor and do one back home "

What MrsKC said! 😱

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By *ad Nanna OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

East London


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

It's a hard pass, Nanna

Seriously, he's on another level.

Thinks I'm going to swallow his cum, let him cum all over me, suck his dick when he wants and not use protection ever.

He just said we aren't equal, because something about Adam and Eve.

I can't work out if he's pulling my leg.

I think you should leave him on the 47th floor and do one back home "

I'm not even leaving my house. I just hope I don't bump into him on the street. I broke my golden rule and replied to a local man.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 weeks ago

London


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

It's a hard pass, Nanna

Seriously, he's on another level.

Thinks I'm going to swallow his cum, let him cum all over me, suck his dick when he wants and not use protection ever.

He just said we aren't equal, because something about Adam and Eve.

I can't work out if he's pulling my leg.

I think you should leave him on the 47th floor and do one back home

I'm not even leaving my house. I just hope I don't bump into him on the street. I broke my golden rule and replied to a local man.

"

He sounds like a proper twat. Let's go for a drink and a sit somewhere nice and discuss the peculiarities of some single guys on here.

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

"

Nanna; I like you. You're great fun. I really hope you're not even remotely, like 1%, considering it. He'll make you feel more queasy than the tallest building in the world will.

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

You should have pushed him off that tall building with that attitude

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By *ad Nanna OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

East London


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

Nanna; I like you. You're great fun. I really hope you're not even remotely, like 1%, considering it. He'll make you feel more queasy than the tallest building in the world will.

"

No, I'm not considering it.

I'm wary of just blocking him as he's local and has seen my face.

I've reminded him we aren't on the same page regarding safe sex, but he seems to be ignoring me.

He's also very cocky with a huge amount of hubris.

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
3 weeks ago

Brum

When are you meant to meet him Nanna? We could all go instead and "dispose" 🤣

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By *uriousscouserWoman
3 weeks ago

Wirral


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

It's a hard pass, Nanna

Seriously, he's on another level.

Thinks I'm going to swallow his cum, let him cum all over me, suck his dick when he wants and not use protection ever.

He just said we aren't equal, because something about Adam and Eve.

I can't work out if he's pulling my leg.

"

What a catch!

And by catch I do of course mean colossal dickhead.

I know there are plenty of fish in the sea but there are also a few turds bobbing around out there.

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By *ad Nanna OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

East London


"When are you meant to meet him Nanna? We could all go instead and "dispose" 🤣"

😂 he's a really busy person, apparently, so I'd be squeezed in in between work and his children anyway.

I think the skyscraper may be near his work and he was going to see what I'm like in person without going out of his way.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

If it puts him off then what an ass.

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By *rthur30Man
3 weeks ago

Warrington

Definite NO, Nanna.

So what if you pass in the street? You can smirk and say to yourself "w*nker"!

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Stalybridge


"It's a non-starter.

He doesn't use condoms because the chances of catching an sti are no different than if you wore one, he only gives oral to women he thinks deserve it, and he expects to receive oral every time.

"

Go up the skyscraper

Throw him off

Go for cake

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By *agic.MMan
3 weeks ago

Orpington


"Take me with you

We can panic together and then laugh about it over cake when we're back at street level

I'm starting to think I should go with you instead of him.

I think I've found an Andrew Tater 😔"

TOP G ...or more like top floor G

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