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"The scenario where folks have sex up the windows at hotels or leave the doors open so folk going down the corridors can see. Or jizz face walk of shame or theres a coat over us so no one will know we’re wanking. Wheres the line? 🤔" the line is that if people are seeing you that have not been consented thats the line .. amazes me on a scene like swinging thats based on consent that there quite a large group who think its ok or funny to flash yet scream consent if anything happens to them ... im my mind flashers are just as bad as those people who touch without permission ... its a unlawful act that can get you on the sex offenders register and its gross | |||
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"The scenario where folks have sex up the windows at hotels or leave the doors open so folk going down the corridors can see. Or jizz face walk of shame or theres a coat over us so no one will know we’re wanking. Wheres the line? 🤔 the line is that if people are seeing you that have not been consented thats the line .. amazes me on a scene like swinging thats based on consent that there quite a large group who think its ok or funny to flash yet scream consent if anything happens to them ... im my mind flashers are just as bad as those people who touch without permission ... its a unlawful act that can get you on the sex offenders register and its gross " I think that's it exactly. | |||
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"The scenario where folks have sex up the windows at hotels or leave the doors open so folk going down the corridors can see. Or jizz face walk of shame or theres a coat over us so no one will know we’re wanking. Wheres the line? 🤔 the line is that if people are seeing you that have not been consented thats the line .. amazes me on a scene like swinging thats based on consent that there quite a large group who think its ok or funny to flash yet scream consent if anything happens to them ... im my mind flashers are just as bad as those people who touch without permission ... its a unlawful act that can get you on the sex offenders register and its gross "  | |||
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"The scenario where folks have sex up the windows at hotels or leave the doors open so folk going down the corridors can see. Or jizz face walk of shame or theres a coat over us so no one will know we’re wanking. Wheres the line? 🤔" What you describe is disgusting behaviour..if you are doing that kind of thing there is something very morally wrong with you. | |||
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"The scenario where folks have sex up the windows at hotels or leave the doors open so folk going down the corridors can see. Or jizz face walk of shame or theres a coat over us so no one will know we’re wanking. Wheres the line? 🤔 What you describe is disgusting behaviour..if you are doing that kind of thing there is something very morally wrong with you. " I’ll take that as the universal you. Lol! I personally wouldn't be caught dead doing any of the things i used as examples. I also believe in consent and doing things in appropriate places like swingers clubs or private parties. | |||
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"I use to watch a lady opposite me every night get undressed, she would put the light on no curtains look out the window then peel off , I didn't consent lol but omg the wanks I had , but yes ok I understand it's not for all and can get you into trouble. " Surprised that you haven’t been denigrated on here for being a pervert and not looking the other way! Someone will be along soon to put you in your place… | |||
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"I use to watch a lady opposite me every night get undressed, she would put the light on no curtains look out the window then peel off , I didn't consent lol but omg the wanks I had , but yes ok I understand it's not for all and can get you into trouble. Surprised that you haven’t been denigrated on here for being a pervert and not looking the other way! Someone will be along soon to put you in your place…" I'm sure they will ,lol. | |||
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"I think somewhere between dogging and standing outside someone’s window tugging it. I think scientists have managed to isolate the line to a 100km ² area but can’t pinpoint it exactly " Yes, but does this include cumface? …..wouldn’t be a problem if they’d swallowed! | |||
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"I use to watch a lady opposite me every night get undressed, she would put the light on no curtains look out the window then peel off , I didn't consent lol but omg the wanks I had , but yes ok I understand it's not for all and can get you into trouble. Surprised that you haven’t been denigrated on here for being a pervert and not looking the other way! Someone will be along soon to put you in your place…" This is the problem. Some people would love to be flashed - and those who want to flash are aware of this. It's a bit like wolf whistling. Whenever that comes up as a debate there will be a bunch of people who think it's morally wrong and tantamount to sexual assault and some who actually enjoy being on the recieving end. The reality is everyone has an opinion that will sit somewhere on a spectrum between "I think it's ok to walk down the street with my ankles showing" to there's nothing wrong with sitting on a park bench having a wank. Everyone will then maintain that where they draw the line is the only correct place, anyone with a less lenient opinion is up their own arse and a right party pooper and anyone with a more lenient opinion is a pervert who should be tarred and feathered. Moral outrage is a strange thing, it completely overrides rational thought. Debates like this are important, somewhere across the spectrum will be the line that is agreed to be socially acceptable at this moment in time. The debates need to continue though because, without the slightest shadow of a doubt, that line will slowly wander back and fore. We laugh at the Victorians and their insistence that table legs needed to be covered, we react in horror at the Greek and Ottoman practice of adult men having sexual relationships with boys. Nobody knows what society will deem acceptable in 100 years but ask anyone now and they will be adamant that their opinion on a whole range of issues is a moral absolute and all other societal norms, past and future are utterly wrong. P | |||
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"When i put my dick in my pasty."  | |||
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"The staff here seem obsessed with decency. When a person with dementia wants to sit in pants and a top (so not naked at all) with the bed covers off, they're constantly told to cover up. I was challenged for sitting in a pair of shorts and a top and was suggested to cover my legs with a blanket. If, on an all female ward, these things are indecent, then god knows where to start with the original question. The law says you cannot do something likely to cause alarm or distress or intended to harass. The problem is, one person's alarm/distress is different to the next person's. I would suggest not doing anything sexual that could be seen in "proper" public, i.e. in parks, woods etc. and keep it for consenting public places like, club events. " Are you sure you're in a hospital and not some 15th century convent? | |||
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"When i put my dick in my pasty. "That’s so inappropriate. Was corned beef too. | |||
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"If someone sees you and they are offended then you crossed that line. You could be arrested and charged then. " If evidence is available | |||
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"When i put my dick in my pasty.
That’s so inappropriate.
Was corned beef too."watch out, your dick might grow mad cow horns. | |||
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"The staff here seem obsessed with decency. When a person with dementia wants to sit in pants and a top (so not naked at all) with the bed covers off, they're constantly told to cover up. I was challenged for sitting in a pair of shorts and a top and was suggested to cover my legs with a blanket. If, on an all female ward, these things are indecent, then god knows where to start with the original question. The law says you cannot do something likely to cause alarm or distress or intended to harass. The problem is, one person's alarm/distress is different to the next person's. I would suggest not doing anything sexual that could be seen in "proper" public, i.e. in parks, woods etc. and keep it for consenting public places like, club events. Are you sure you're in a hospital and not some 15th century convent? "Seriously. They're obsessed with covering up legs! The woman has dementia and gets delirious and throws off her sheets but she has underwear on and a vest top. No-one in the room is offended. It's quite bizarre. | |||
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