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"Pof is actually a shag site just on here u know ppl are after sex with the right ppl on there they don't have the balls to say lol " It makes them feel better about having hook up sex if they buy or make dinner first. | |||
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"Pof is actually a shag site just on here u know ppl are after sex with the right ppl on there they don't have the balls to say lol It makes them feel better about having hook up sex if they buy or make dinner first." Lol 🤣🤣 | |||
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"What's a ridiculous request? " I don't mind going for a social to get to know someone. I think it's great but some ladies wanting to get wined and dined and specify high end restaurants and things like that. I'm not trying to date you!! | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc " If I'm looking on those kinds of sites it means I'm looking to date someone or I would make it clear that I'm only interested in a bit of fun My efforts definitely wouldn't be the same though | |||
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"I don’t think a woman having preferences is her having a ridiculous request ? Should they accept lower standards just for the blokes benefit" Prefences are fine. Everyone has them A ridiculous request for example would be if I'm demanding the lady shows up dressed in designer and has to spend 100s of £ for a one off meet | |||
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"I don’t think a woman having preferences is her having a ridiculous request ? Should they accept lower standards just for the blokes benefit Prefences are fine. Everyone has them A ridiculous request for example would be if I'm demanding the lady shows up dressed in designer and has to spend 100s of £ for a one off meet "  | |||
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"Pof is actually a shag site just on here u know ppl are after sex with the right ppl on there they don't have the balls to say lol " Another thing is stalking verifications for example. If it's a shag site why does it matter so much who I've been with in the past? Unless someone's been with someone who's the same sex and claims to be straight in their bio | |||
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"Everyone is free to set their own standards and expectations, the same as you are free to set yours. For some people it won’t matter whether they’re on Fab/Pof, they’ll still expect a social/date/drinks etc. If you can’t/don’t want to meet those standards, you are free to look elsewhere too "I'm more than happy to get to know someone in a social setting. That's not the issue. But necessarily as a date setting | |||
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"Pof is actually a shag site just on here u know ppl are after sex with the right ppl on there they don't have the balls to say lol Another thing is stalking verifications for example. If it's a shag site why does it matter so much who I've been with in the past? Unless someone's been with someone who's the same sex and claims to be straight in their bio" Matters to me. If you’ve met loads of people for sex I’m not gonna want to meet you. And that’s ok | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs " The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! | |||
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"Pof is actually a shag site just on here u know ppl are after sex with the right ppl on there they don't have the balls to say lol Another thing is stalking verifications for example. If it's a shag site why does it matter so much who I've been with in the past? Unless someone's been with someone who's the same sex and claims to be straight in their bio Matters to me. If you’ve met loads of people for sex I’m not gonna want to meet you. And that’s ok "That's fair and understandable. I feel the same. I'm talking about what people call verification trail when people want to see who you've met and then see who those people met and so on. Kinda stalking | |||
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"Pof is actually a shag site just on here u know ppl are after sex with the right ppl on there they don't have the balls to say lol " To be fair as a single guy on POF I was perfectly straight forward with what I was looking for and found other women looking for the same (and some open to both dating or no strings adult company). Generally other single parents like me who hadn't got the desire, time or energy for dating but still had a desire for adult company. Some openly on their profile and some you had to read a little between the lines (for obvious reasons of any woman who's ever been on a dating site). Same on Tinder and OK Cupid I found to be far more open and non-monogamy and kink freindly. Most women know the difference between a decent bloke with open intentions and someone with disingenuous intentions. Naturally I'd avoid profiles clearly solely looking to date. I had a fair bit of success, had some wonderful experiences and met some cool women over that period. Mr | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc " 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women"
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex" | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex"😬 Well I’d say that’s more of a ‘you’ issue rather than a ‘women of fab expecting too much’ issue. Perhaps you should consider why you would accept different/lower standards for someone you only wanted to have sex with as opposed to someone you wanted to date. A lot of women (and a lot of men) won’t settle regardless of whether it’s for sex or dating… | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex
😬 Well I’d say that’s more of a ‘you’ issue rather than a ‘women of fab expecting too much’ issue. Perhaps you should consider why you would accept different/lower standards for someone you only wanted to have sex with as opposed to someone you wanted to date. A lot of women (and a lot of men) won’t settle regardless of whether it’s for sex or dating…". Then you're making my point that there's not much difference from here than a dating site Dating and swinging isn't the same thing | |||
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"They both have the same results , lazy women expecting messages to come in so they can either poo poo them or just straight up ignore them without ever messaging first " I message plenty of people thanks | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex
😬 Well I’d say that’s more of a ‘you’ issue rather than a ‘women of fab expecting too much’ issue. Perhaps you should consider why you would accept different/lower standards for someone you only wanted to have sex with as opposed to someone you wanted to date. A lot of women (and a lot of men) won’t settle regardless of whether it’s for sex or dating….
Then you're making my point that there's not much difference from here than a dating site
Dating and swinging isn't the same thing"Dating and swinging are different but that doesn’t mean standards and expectations go out the window… | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex
😬 Well I’d say that’s more of a ‘you’ issue rather than a ‘women of fab expecting too much’ issue. Perhaps you should consider why you would accept different/lower standards for someone you only wanted to have sex with as opposed to someone you wanted to date. A lot of women (and a lot of men) won’t settle regardless of whether it’s for sex or dating…"Bare in mind I'm not saying that women on here should lower their standards as what they like/dislike Everyone has a preference and you don't have to meet everyone that messages you I'm talking about expectations when it comes to outside of the bedroom | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex
😬 Well I’d say that’s more of a ‘you’ issue rather than a ‘women of fab expecting too much’ issue. Perhaps you should consider why you would accept different/lower standards for someone you only wanted to have sex with as opposed to someone you wanted to date. A lot of women (and a lot of men) won’t settle regardless of whether it’s for sex or dating….
Then you're making my point that there's not much difference from here than a dating site
Dating and swinging isn't the same thing
Dating and swinging are different but that doesn’t mean standards and expectations go out the window…" | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex
😬 Well I’d say that’s more of a ‘you’ issue rather than a ‘women of fab expecting too much’ issue. Perhaps you should consider why you would accept different/lower standards for someone you only wanted to have sex with as opposed to someone you wanted to date. A lot of women (and a lot of men) won’t settle regardless of whether it’s for sex or dating….
Then you're making my point that there's not much difference from here than a dating site
Dating and swinging isn't the same thing
Dating and swinging are different but that doesn’t mean standards and expectations go out the window…
"Can you specify what you mean when it comes to standards and expectations? Because I think we're talking about different things | |||
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"They both have the same results , lazy women expecting messages to come in so they can either poo poo them or just straight up ignore them without ever messaging first " I disagree with that. Plenty women message first and if they choose not to reply you should kind of take the hint | |||
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"Guess it depends on your approach and what you're looking for. Fab works quite well for me." Works well for me too. Maybe I didn't word what I was trying to say properly | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex
😬 Well I’d say that’s more of a ‘you’ issue rather than a ‘women of fab expecting too much’ issue. Perhaps you should consider why you would accept different/lower standards for someone you only wanted to have sex with as opposed to someone you wanted to date. A lot of women (and a lot of men) won’t settle regardless of whether it’s for sex or dating….
Then you're making my point that there's not much difference from here than a dating site
Dating and swinging isn't the same thing
Dating and swinging are different but that doesn’t mean standards and expectations go out the window…
Can you specify what you mean when it comes to standards and expectations?
Because I think we're talking about different things "Standards in the partner you’re seeking (their looks, attitude, manners, hygeine, sexual health, communication skills.). Expectations for them to communicate effectively regarding any plans/arrangements. Standards for the time that you share together - decent conversation, respect, courtesy, location. Off the top of my head as a minimum… | |||
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"They both have the same results , lazy women expecting messages to come in so they can either poo poo them or just straight up ignore them without ever messaging first I disagree with that. Plenty women message first and if they choose not to reply you should kind of take the hint " If that is true, why did Bumble implode? If plenty of women messaged first, that dating site would have thrived on the "women message first" policy. It didn't, they had to change it and now the share prices of the company are on par with toilet paper. Like it or not, Women are marketers, men are sales men. Most women wait to be approached by an acceptable man who sells himself to her. Sure they'll give hints that they are intrested but women handle rejection a lot differently than men. And you can argue the opposite all you like but it won't make my and many other mens lived reality amy less true. Most men don't get chased..they have to do the chasing. | |||
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"They both have the same results , lazy women expecting messages to come in so they can either poo poo them or just straight up ignore them without ever messaging first I disagree with that. Plenty women message first and if they choose not to reply you should kind of take the hint If that is true, why did Bumble implode? If plenty of women messaged first, that dating site would have thrived on the "women message first" policy. It didn't, they had to change it and now the share prices of the company are on par with toilet paper. Like it or not, Women are marketers, men are sales men. Most women wait to be approached by an acceptable man who sells himself to her. Sure they'll give hints that they are intrested but women handle rejection a lot differently than men. And you can argue the opposite all you like but it won't make my and many other mens lived reality amy less true. Most men don't get chased..they have to do the chasing. " Pretty much every meet I've had as a result of messaging has been because someone got in touch with me first. I send a first message a few times a year at best and usually get a reply if I do. Just my lived experience with all those lazy women  | |||
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"What do you class as a ridiculous request? Blokes are free to have requests / preferences too… My standards would be the same whether I was looking on Fab/ Pof / Tinder etc 100% this
guys always complain when a woman is rightfully out of there reach then they turn it into the ridicules/jumpping thru hoops rather than except that its not going to happen... my standards /preference is the same anywhere online / club or any other situation sexual attraction is a must and its not the onlything we need to get on too and be on the same page so that make 99% of guys/women that im not interested in ...im not here to fuck anything anbody anytime ...
lucky for me ive been on the scene so long that i dont really need to find anyone as my little black book is full of guys i know as well as couples/women
Unless I was on a dating site looking for casual sex then my standards would be different.
I would definitely put more effort into someone that I want for more than just sex
😬 Well I’d say that’s more of a ‘you’ issue rather than a ‘women of fab expecting too much’ issue. Perhaps you should consider why you would accept different/lower standards for someone you only wanted to have sex with as opposed to someone you wanted to date. A lot of women (and a lot of men) won’t settle regardless of whether it’s for sex or dating….
Then you're making my point that there's not much difference from here than a dating site
Dating and swinging isn't the same thing
Dating and swinging are different but that doesn’t mean standards and expectations go out the window…
Can you specify what you mean when it comes to standards and expectations?
Because I think we're talking about different things
Standards in the partner you’re seeking (their looks, attitude, manners, hygeine, sexual health, communication skills.). Expectations for them to communicate effectively regarding any plans/arrangements. Standards for the time that you share together - decent conversation, respect, courtesy, location. Off the top of my head as a minimum…"That's not what I meant at all. Of course your preferences on what you like/dislike shouldn't change. And nothing you stated isn't the minimal of what anyone should expect. I was talking about ridiculous demands | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social!" You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x | |||
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"They both have the same results , lazy women expecting messages to come in so they can either poo poo them or just straight up ignore them without ever messaging first I disagree with that. Plenty women message first and if they choose not to reply you should kind of take the hint If that is true, why did Bumble implode? If plenty of women messaged first, that dating site would have thrived on the "women message first" policy. It didn't, they had to change it and now the share prices of the company are on par with toilet paper. Like it or not, Women are marketers, men are sales men. Most women wait to be approached by an acceptable man who sells himself to her. Sure they'll give hints that they are intrested but women handle rejection a lot differently than men. And you can argue the opposite all you like but it won't make my and many other mens lived reality amy less true. Most men don't get chased..they have to do the chasing. " I've never used bumble so I'm not sure but let's say for example if most of the members on there are below average then why would they get messages? Do you message people you don't like and aren't attracted to?? | |||
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"Is fab turning into a dating site? Sometimes the only difference is instead of normal profile pics, you get to see some nudity (if they even got pics up) Is the demand for single women so high on here that they just get to make ridiculous requests in order to meet or...?" I find that I am the one receiving ridiculous requests from men or couples. Like they demand I wear high heels, short skirts, shave my pussy, wear stockings ect I have never made a request for a man to dress a certain way or shave his hairy bollocks. | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x " The social side of it is the best part about swinging for me personally. I've met and made great friends on here. You can be choosy if you like but knowing that more than likely I won't be meeting someone more than once and it would just be casual then expecting to go on a £500 social meet for me its a ridiculous request | |||
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"Is fab turning into a dating site? Sometimes the only difference is instead of normal profile pics, you get to see some nudity (if they even got pics up) Is the demand for single women so high on here that they just get to make ridiculous requests in order to meet or...? I find that I am the one receiving ridiculous requests from men or couples. Like they demand I wear high heels, short skirts, shave my pussy, wear stockings ect I have never made a request for a man to dress a certain way or shave his hairy bollocks. " That's is ridiculous as you would look great regardless! | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x The social side of it is the best part about swinging for me personally. I've met and made great friends on here. You can be choosy if you like but knowing that more than likely I won't be meeting someone more than once and it would just be casual then expecting to go on a £500 social meet for me its a ridiculous request " I agree with that. That’s a ridiculous amount of money and they are probably not genuine | |||
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"Is fab turning into a dating site? Sometimes the only difference is instead of normal profile pics, you get to see some nudity (if they even got pics up) Is the demand for single women so high on here that they just get to make ridiculous requests in order to meet or...? Reality is that not many women are open to NSA sex in comparison to men. Therefore the ratios between men and women on here are simply ridiculous! Sexual women are in massive demand, they know that, and therefore they use it to their advantage, and why not? Us guys often do the same on dating sites. We know that women are crying out for good men and commitment, so we make them work for it - players." I get that the demand for single women is high and they have plenty of options. And if they choose to use that as advantage then fine. If they're bold enough to make such requests it means that there are men willing to do that i suppose | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x The social side of it is the best part about swinging for me personally. I've met and made great friends on here. You can be choosy if you like but knowing that more than likely I won't be meeting someone more than once and it would just be casual then expecting to go on a £500 social meet for me its a ridiculous request I agree with that. That’s a ridiculous amount of money and they are probably not genuine " I'm all for spoiling and treating the woman I'm with. But to be honest I wouldn't do that for someone I'm meeting for a 1st date because I'm still getting to know them and I wouldn't do it for someone on here also even if sex is in the cards after | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x The social side of it is the best part about swinging for me personally. I've met and made great friends on here. You can be choosy if you like but knowing that more than likely I won't be meeting someone more than once and it would just be casual then expecting to go on a £500 social meet for me its a ridiculous request " In my 16 years I've found myself a wide, a partner and several FWB's. Not once has anyone expected a £500 social meet. Maybe my standards are slipping. 🤷♂️ It's a swingers site OP. Some use it for one off random hook ups. Some for regular meets. And some for dates. As always, if what someone suggests doesn't match what you want, then move on. It's honestly not that complicated. 🤔🤔 | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x The social side of it is the best part about swinging for me personally. I've met and made great friends on here. You can be choosy if you like but knowing that more than likely I won't be meeting someone more than once and it would just be casual then expecting to go on a £500 social meet for me its a ridiculous request " I’m not really sure I understand what your issue is… if someone says they expect you to wine and dine them at an expensive restaurant or wear expensive clothes and you do not wish to do that, then just don’t do it or don’t engage with them. I would find that type of request unreasonable whether it was Fab or on any other typical dating site, regardless of whether it was for the intention of long term dating or a hook up/ONS. I’ll go as I am (with my usual high standards for myself and them) and wouldn’t bow to anyone’s requests unless they suited me. | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x The social side of it is the best part about swinging for me personally. I've met and made great friends on here. You can be choosy if you like but knowing that more than likely I won't be meeting someone more than once and it would just be casual then expecting to go on a £500 social meet for me its a ridiculous request In my 16 years I've found myself a wide, a partner and several FWB's. Not once has anyone expected a £500 social meet. Maybe my standards are slipping. 🤷♂️ It's a swingers site OP. Some use it for one off random hook ups. Some for regular meets. And some for dates. As always, if what someone suggests doesn't match what you want, then move on. It's honestly not that complicated. 🤔🤔" *wife. Not 'wide'. 🤦♂️ | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x The social side of it is the best part about swinging for me personally. I've met and made great friends on here. You can be choosy if you like but knowing that more than likely I won't be meeting someone more than once and it would just be casual then expecting to go on a £500 social meet for me its a ridiculous request I’m not really sure I understand what your issue is… if someone says they expect you to wine and dine them at an expensive restaurant or wear expensive clothes and you do not wish to do that, then just don’t do it or don’t engage with them. I would find that type of request unreasonable whether it was Fab or on any other typical dating site, regardless of whether it was for the intention of long term dating or a hook up/ONS. I’ll go as I am (with my usual high standards for myself and them) and wouldn’t bow to anyone’s requests unless they suited me. " Well said!!! | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x The social side of it is the best part about swinging for me personally. I've met and made great friends on here. You can be choosy if you like but knowing that more than likely I won't be meeting someone more than once and it would just be casual then expecting to go on a £500 social meet for me its a ridiculous request " Who expects a £500 social meet!?! Most just have a coffee 🤣. That’s not the norm | |||
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"Fab is a swingers site, the others a dating site. I'm guessing because there's a certain level of anonymity here is why so many men join but I would say it's far from the best place to be looking for a hook up, there's plenty of places for that. Mrs The difference for me would be if I'm on a dating site I'm probably hoping to meet a lady more than once and probably aiming for it to turn into something more serious On here I know that there's a high probability that I'll never see them again so I won't be taking them Hakkasan for a social! You speak and come across as this is a hook up site.its a swinging site and there's a massive social side to it so yes ppl have preferences and can be choosy maybe u need to look at it different x The social side of it is the best part about swinging for me personally. I've met and made great friends on here. You can be choosy if you like but knowing that more than likely I won't be meeting someone more than once and it would just be casual then expecting to go on a £500 social meet for me its a ridiculous request Who expects a £500 social meet!?! Most just have a coffee 🤣. That’s not the norm " My point exactly! I guess my norm is different than others | |||
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"Pof is actually a shag site just on here u know ppl are after sex with the right ppl on there they don't have the balls to say lol Another thing is stalking verifications for example. If it's a shag site why does it matter so much who I've been with in the past? Unless someone's been with someone who's the same sex and claims to be straight in their bio" I have a veri from a woman but I'm 100% straight. She is someone I've known for years. If that veri put someone off meeting me then they weren't for me anyway, problem solved 🤣 | |||
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"Pof is actually a shag site just on here u know ppl are after sex with the right ppl on there they don't have the balls to say lol Another thing is stalking verifications for example. If it's a shag site why does it matter so much who I've been with in the past? Unless someone's been with someone who's the same sex and claims to be straight in their bio I have a veri from a woman but I'm 100% straight. She is someone I've known for years. If that veri put someone off meeting me then they weren't for me anyway, problem solved 🤣" I think when it comes to ladies no one minds lol I definitely don't | |||
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"Also look at the women's eyes in their pics , always look weird coz of the filters they use , the eyes are a big giveaway . I saw someone with half a nose once and three eyes they had so many filters on . Glad men ain't that fickle" The eyes chico...they never lie "Tony Montana" | |||
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