FabSwingers.com forum: [redacted] if you’re reading this I just want to say

By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

Ends

What do you want to say to someone you haven’t spoken to in a long time?

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By *ah HumbugMan
3 weeks ago

here and there

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By *ah HumbugMan
3 weeks ago

here and there

I love you dad

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
3 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Where the fuck have you been, i was at your funeral????

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By *amie HantsWoman
3 weeks ago

Atlantis

Meli, listen to my voicenote. It’s showtime. Mistakes were made 🫠

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By *usyBusyGirlWoman
3 weeks ago

Brum

Call me 😂

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

East Sussex

Hello?

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

Jamie, listen to my voicenote, I only coughed once so it's safe.

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By *jlondon78Man
3 weeks ago

Suffolk

It's been a while

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By *ib.Man
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

Where are my voice notes?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
3 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Absolutely nothing. The deep trench of silence is there for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Hi, it's been a while.. How's life with you??

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

Lib, listen to your voicenote. Women take pity on you.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere

I'm sorry, I should keep in touch far more than I do. Life sometimes gets in the way. I'm glad when we do speak, and you know you can always reach out too.

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By *etstalk999Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

It really hurt when you just ghosted me like that 😢

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

Ends

I suppose I should go

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton

"I love you dad "

Hugs xx

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By *aven.Woman
3 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I don't care anymore

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By *lessandra_BWoman
3 weeks ago

Here, There & Everywhere

"I love you dad "

^^ This ... but to my mum xx As well as, to my best friend, who I never had the chance of saying goodbye to before she died xx Can't explain in words how much I miss you both 💔

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By *ib.Man
3 weeks ago

Hampshire

"Women take pity on you."

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

Ends

You’ll never be a stranger to me. I know you. I know the inside of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

No-one to say anything to!

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

Ends

I guess I am still mad at you for the promises you didn’t keep and the effort you didn’t make.

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By *929Man
3 weeks ago

newcastle

"I love you dad "

This

Was literally 2-3 times we said I love you while he was alive, all those during childhood

Would give anything to say it now

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
3 weeks ago

Wales

I wish we could have worked it out. Reading what happened to you in the local news still haunts me. Maybe it wouldn't have been avoided but maybe I could have saved you

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
3 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"I wish we could have worked it out. Reading what happened to you in the local news still haunts me. Maybe it wouldn't have been avoided but maybe I could have saved you

Wow that's deep.

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By *parkle1974Woman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Fuck all, there's a reason we haven't spoken!

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
3 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"I wish we could have worked it out. Reading what happened to you in the local news still haunts me. Maybe it wouldn't have been avoided but maybe I could have saved you

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By *orningGlory555Man
3 weeks ago

Wells

"I love you dad "

This too, just wish I could ask him if he was proud of me…

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By *ell GwynnWoman
3 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I miss you 😢

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I'd turn back time if i could.

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By *lover888Man
3 weeks ago

Gosport

Don't leave

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By *orningGlory555Man
3 weeks ago

Wells

"I miss you 😢"

Sending hugs to you and everyone else

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By *orthern_knobberMan
3 weeks ago

manchester

Pull my finger.

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By *lover888Man
3 weeks ago

Gosport

Don't leave

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By *aptain obviouslyMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester

I’ve been in the clubs this whole time

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By *sWyldWoman
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I miss you. I know I shouldn't but I do

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By *ruceyyMan
3 weeks ago

London

"What do you want to say to someone you haven’t spoken to in a long time? "

Depends on if they're male or female.

Male? What's up tosser? been a while!

Female? What's up babycakes? Been a while!

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By *uacksplat.Woman
3 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

ive literally just written this in my notes app.

because that's what i do when i can't talk to someone.. it all goes in there.

im missing you today.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

Ends

"ive literally just written this in my notes app.

because that's what i do when i can't talk to someone.. it all goes in there.

im missing you today.

Px "

So me.

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By *enfleetMaleMan
3 weeks ago

Hadleigh

Where did you put the remote for the soundbar

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By *j188Couple
3 weeks ago

aberdeenshire

It’s your round…get up the bar !

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By *ucka39Man
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

Id like a decent apology shouted from the rooftops.

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By *weetRollMan
3 weeks ago

Angus/Dundee/Perth

"What do you want to say to someone you haven’t spoken to in a long time? "

This is what I would like convey over a very lengthy conversation. Have had to crystallize it all into a reflective piece and its still too long but whatever, nobody is obligated to read it.

[ I had so much to give, but hesitancy and fears prevented me from doing the things that must be done to foster the sort of relationship I truly wanted.

I was not prepared for what came, nor was I capable enough to prevent it. In spite of my numerous life victories and triumphs, how things developed shook me.

The irony of such overwhelming triumph in every other facet of my life being undermined in part by my failure to accomplish one of the things that mattered to me the most, that had to do with you, what we could have been.

Many important lessons have been seared into me from that experience, that disappointment and confusion. The death of misguided hope; a desire which itself was one of the chains lulling me to... inadequacy.

A cosmic joke it all was, the universe granting me boons of competence as it keeled over and laughed at the young fool: promising but incomplete. Romantic in heart but inarticulate in action.

The chapter of 'us' and what could have been was shredded years ago. But I know exactly why things ended like that and I will not forget it. Ever.

In the aftermath of our parting, I find a peculiar grace - that for a brief moment in time, our paths aligned enough to call you friend. That friendship, untainted by my later failings, remains a truth I can hold onto, even as I learned to let everything else go. ]

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
3 weeks ago

Sheffield

I wish things weren’t how they are…and I miss you.

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By *inxy777Woman
3 weeks ago

essex

Sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"ive literally just written this in my notes app.

because that's what i do when i can't talk to someone.. it all goes in there.

im missing you today.

Px "

I do this too ❤️

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

Why don't you answer?

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By *agnar73Man
3 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

More than one person I can’t think of.

Best not.

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