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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago

A bit of thought from the "Leagues" thread, it made me think about who I would approach either in terms of dating, messaging on here, or even in clubs and I realise that I sometimes don't dismiss approaching people thinking I wouldn't be their type.

And then I've thought about it more and I've realised that I don't really know whose type I am. Do you feel like you know or are you just happy to approach anyone in general?

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By *IXEN200Woman
12 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

I've always thought I was nobodies type, but I'm comfortable to approach most people unless I get a vibe where it's not going to happen

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By *he.Jungle.VIPMan
12 weeks ago

London

If they look like they only believe in the first 151 pokemon.....I'm their type.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
12 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Ha! No!

I'm autistic. There's no way I'm going to be able to figure that shit out. I just approach anyway.

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By *amie HantsWoman
12 weeks ago

Atlantis

I assume I would be everyones

🥸

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By *riar BelisseWoman
12 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

I approach and then read their body language, eye contact is very telling on how into me he is

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By *ir tootMan
12 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"I assume I would be everyones

🥸"

If you weren't just squirrels in a coat probably.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I've always thought I was nobodies type, but I'm comfortable to approach most people unless I get a vibe where it's not going to happen"

That's actually a good way to go about it, I guess. I suppose that where having a thick skin can come in handy

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By *929Man
12 weeks ago

bedlington

I don’t ever approach, every single encounter/relationship I’ve ever had I was approached/chased.

I don’t appeal to very many people, the whole time I was in relationship when I’d go out with my mates at least one lass would approach due to the size/physique, I think muscles only appeal to a very small percentage of women, typically this dried up when I became single haha Sod’s Law

The amount of men I’ve been complimented or touched without asking when out is about x100 just in a complimentary way nothing sexual haha

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By *ucka39Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle

Well

Tbh I do very well off the site, but have done pretty well on the site and surprised if anything.

I'm happy to approach in public, and have done ok for a little fish in a big pond i just don't have any nerves

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin

I think so yes. My tattoos do alienate some, draw some in. It depends on preference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"If they look like they only believe in the first 151 pokemon.....I'm their type."

So not 150... Or 152... It has to be 151?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I go for those with low standards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"Ha! No!

I'm autistic. There's no way I'm going to be able to figure that shit out. I just approach anyway."

If there was a way to figure it out though, you could sell that and make a fortune!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I assume I would be everyones

🥸"

You are everyone's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I approach and then read their body language, eye contact is very telling on how into me he is "

I think reading body is great when you have the courage to approach them in the first place! I guess part of my question comes from knowing you would be their type to approach them in the first place 🤔

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By *cotlad178Man
12 weeks ago

falkirk

Working up the courage to go to a club for the first time and I feel like I'm aswell as not going, situation one I get jumped on by rabid women which I'd be be fine with and hopefully put at ease quickly. Situation 2 I go to the bar get a drink and chat to folks at the bar again this would be OK.

Situation 3 is I just freeze and sit on a chair the whole time. 3 i want to really really avoid but I really don't know how it'll go.

Am I just overthinking this?

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By *IXEN200Woman
12 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"I don’t ever approach, every single encounter/relationship I’ve ever had I was approached/chased.

I don’t appeal to very many people, the whole time I was in relationship when I’d go out with my mates at least one lass would approach due to the size/physique, I think muscles only appeal to a very small percentage of women, typically this dried up when I became single haha Sod’s Law

The amount of men I’ve been complimented or touched without asking when out is about x100 just in a complimentary way nothing sexual haha "

I'd eye you up from afar, while in my head thinking I'd have no chance with you at all......

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By *ee69Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow

I know am an acquired taste but all talk to anyone lol

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

chichester

Not many as I am a trans woman

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By *IXEN200Woman
12 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"I've always thought I was nobodies type, but I'm comfortable to approach most people unless I get a vibe where it's not going to happen

That's actually a good way to go about it, I guess. I suppose that where having a thick skin can come in handy"

A thick skin does help and a lot of Dutch courage too

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

No confidence to approach anyone and wouldn't know how. Besides, no opportunities anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I don’t ever approach, every single encounter/relationship I’ve ever had I was approached/chased.

I don’t appeal to very many people, the whole time I was in relationship when I’d go out with my mates at least one lass would approach due to the size/physique, I think muscles only appeal to a very small percentage of women, typically this dried up when I became single haha Sod’s Law

The amount of men I’ve been complimented or touched without asking when out is about x100 just in a complimentary way nothing sexual haha "

It's typical that we go to the gym to impress women but end up impressing fellow men! Being the one approached is interesting but been feeling a bit tired of things not going anywhere so almost tried to take the initiative so to speak and yeah... That's how this question came about 😅

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By *ellhungvweMan
12 weeks ago

Cheltenham

No one knows what type anyone goes for before you speak to them. Say hello and see what happens is my motto.

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By *ivilised matureMan
12 weeks ago

Barnes sometimes Dulwich Village

No Idea until I meet them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"Well

Tbh I do very well off the site, but have done pretty well on the site and surprised if anything.

I'm happy to approach in public, and have done ok for a little fish in a big pond i just don't have any nerves "

The humblest of brags... 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I have no clue

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton

I genuinely have no idea who's type I am ...🤣

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I think so yes. My tattoos do alienate some, draw some in. It depends on preference. "

That's really interesting because I find heavily tattooed women really sexy, but they're an example me feeling like I'm not their type as I find most only look for tattooed men as a preference

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

If I knew whose type I was my inbox would of exploded by now...so I'm going with I'm no one on fab's type

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By *uacksplat.Woman
12 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

no, not a clue. Px

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By *ucka39Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle


"Well

Tbh I do very well off the site, but have done pretty well on the site and surprised if anything.

I'm happy to approach in public, and have done ok for a little fish in a big pond i just don't have any nerves

The humblest of brags... 😂"

Dude making up for lost time, wasn't always like that, I was very shy in my teens but it's paying off. I'm just being honest, and you'd prefer an honest answer 😂🤣😝

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin


"I think so yes. My tattoos do alienate some, draw some in. It depends on preference.

That's really interesting because I find heavily tattooed women really sexy, but they're an example me feeling like I'm not their type as I find most only look for tattooed men as a preference"

Not me anyway. Not essential the guy has any.

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By *IXEN200Woman
12 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne


"I think so yes. My tattoos do alienate some, draw some in. It depends on preference.

That's really interesting because I find heavily tattooed women really sexy, but they're an example me feeling like I'm not their type as I find most only look for tattooed men as a preference"

The difference between tattooed people and none tattooed people is those with tattoos don't care if you're tattooed or not. Well, that's my opinion

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By *eliWoman
12 weeks ago

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I know whose type you are Joe, if you'd like me to tell you?

As far as myself? I don't think I'm any particular group's type. I don't think I am the sort who will be someone's type. And that's okay with me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

I'll approach anyone have the same sort of interests as me, I've nothing to lose by doing so. If they say no then there are plenty more fish in the barrel x

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I tend to friend zone instantly, so I find it really hard to figure out if people are into me or not

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop


"I tend to friend zone instantly, so I find it really hard to figure out if people are into me or not "

I can testify that midnight is very good at not figuring out

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By *ymClassDropoutMan
12 weeks ago

Berkshire

I always think the ‘no Asians’ seen on profiles is a good indicator I need to steer clear

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Swansea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I go for those with low standards."

Yeah... But low standards by whose standards? 👀

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Swansea

This is a good question!

I suppose if I categorise my physical attributes (tall, physically fit, big boobs, smaller waist, wide hips aka think Amazonian woman) and mix with my age. I would probably be in someone's cougar or MILF fantasy.

Having said that, I don't select prospective lovers based on this information. I suppose I approach those I or we are interested in.

Mrs

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By *ucka39Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle


"I'll approach anyone have the same sort of interests as me, I've nothing to lose by doing so. If they say no then there are plenty more fish in the barrel x"

More in a pond 😝 tight squeeze in a barrel 😂🤣x welcome to jump in x

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By *929Man
12 weeks ago

bedlington


"I don’t ever approach, every single encounter/relationship I’ve ever had I was approached/chased.

I don’t appeal to very many people, the whole time I was in relationship when I’d go out with my mates at least one lass would approach due to the size/physique, I think muscles only appeal to a very small percentage of women, typically this dried up when I became single haha Sod’s Law

The amount of men I’ve been complimented or touched without asking when out is about x100 just in a complimentary way nothing sexual haha

I'd eye you up from afar, while in my head thinking I'd have no chance with you at all...... "

No need to think like that I certainly don’t think I’m ever out of anyone’s league

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By *parkle1974Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds


"I'll approach anyone have the same sort of interests as me, I've nothing to lose by doing so. If they say no then there are plenty more fish in the barrel x

More in a pond 😝 tight squeeze in a barrel 😂🤣x welcome to jump in x"

I like to keep it tight

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By *929Man
12 weeks ago

bedlington


"I don’t ever approach, every single encounter/relationship I’ve ever had I was approached/chased.

I don’t appeal to very many people, the whole time I was in relationship when I’d go out with my mates at least one lass would approach due to the size/physique, I think muscles only appeal to a very small percentage of women, typically this dried up when I became single haha Sod’s Law

The amount of men I’ve been complimented or touched without asking when out is about x100 just in a complimentary way nothing sexual haha

It's typical that we go to the gym to impress women but end up impressing fellow men! Being the one approached is interesting but been feeling a bit tired of things not going anywhere so almost tried to take the initiative so to speak and yeah... That's how this question came about 😅"

Haha definitely mate if even just half as many lasses liked it as much as the blokes do we’d be laughing mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"Working up the courage to go to a club for the first time and I feel like I'm aswell as not going, situation one I get jumped on by rabid women which I'd be be fine with and hopefully put at ease quickly. Situation 2 I go to the bar get a drink and chat to folks at the bar again this would be OK.

Situation 3 is I just freeze and sit on a chair the whole time. 3 i want to really really avoid but I really don't know how it'll go.

Am I just overthinking this?"

I think it's easy to overthink. Just try what feels right, although 2 seems like a good shout!

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
12 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

I (Mrs) feel like I'm not most people's type as I'm on the bigger side, but as long as I've had a few vodkas I get brave (like the last time I was at CJs, was fully like "who's next" to the ladies ) and I just kinda go with it

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By *ucka39Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle


"I'll approach anyone have the same sort of interests as me, I've nothing to lose by doing so. If they say no then there are plenty more fish in the barrel x

More in a pond 😝 tight squeeze in a barrel 😂🤣x welcome to jump in x

I like to keep it tight "

But but you'll have more to lose in a pond and not just your breath 😌😉

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"Not many as I am a trans woman "

How do you feel about being dismissed because of that and would it stop you trying to approach people you're interested in? I have thought how difficult it can be for trans women to find genuine people on here and not feeling fetishised as a result, although I could be far off the mark!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"No confidence to approach anyone and wouldn't know how. Besides, no opportunities anyway. "

I think opportunities can be tough to come by, and asserting yourself to be in that position can be a tough thing to overcome 😕

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By *Jblue321Man
12 weeks ago

Chester


"A bit of thought from the "Leagues" thread, it made me think about who I would approach either in terms of dating, messaging on here, or even in clubs and I realise that I sometimes don't dismiss approaching people thinking I wouldn't be their type.

And then I've thought about it more and I've realised that I don't really know whose type I am. Do you feel like you know or are you just happy to approach anyone in general?"

I assume i’m no-one’s type but I can get a laugh, problem is struggling to read people sometimes, just be honest and forward, hope you’re good mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"No one knows what type anyone goes for before you speak to them. Say hello and see what happens is my motto."

Yeah, the "what happens" part is the worrying thing 😅😂

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Yeah the ones who acknowledge me possibly 😂😂😂

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
12 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I know whose type I wish I was. I have no clue who’s type I am.

Did that make sense? 🤔

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
12 weeks ago

Ends

Wearing clothes, I’m the type of lots of people who fetishise. Then they see an average sized dick and I’m no longer their type.

And also I tend to be more attractive to woc in my experience. As in, in spaces with woc, they make me feel more attractive/ desirable tell me I’m handsome etc. I like that shit.

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By *elix SightedMan
12 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Only the criminally insane.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I know whose type you are Joe, if you'd like me to tell you?

As far as myself? I don't think I'm any particular group's type. I don't think I am the sort who will be someone's type. And that's okay with me."

If you say older, horny women... 😂 But if you do have an idea, I'd love to know!

I suppose that can be more freeing in a way as it opens up more opportunities to chat to various people rather than pigeonholing yourself to a set group!

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
12 weeks ago

Ends

In short- I know whose type I am. I fancy the people who fancy me.

But I also fancy older women and I tend not to be their type at all.

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By *ustamanMan
12 weeks ago

weymouth

Long felt Im nobody's type (at least those that I find attractive,). Ce la vie

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By *sWyldWoman
12 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I don't know who's type I am. However I go on certain assumptions. For example seriously fit, gym going types are unlikely to want a fattie like me

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"Working up the courage to go to a club for the first time and I feel like I'm aswell as not going, situation one I get jumped on by rabid women which I'd be be fine with and hopefully put at ease quickly. Situation 2 I go to the bar get a drink and chat to folks at the bar again this would be OK.

Situation 3 is I just freeze and sit on a chair the whole time. 3 i want to really really avoid but I really don't know how it'll go.

Am I just overthinking this?"

I mean this with kindness.

A previous generation jumped out of aeroplanes and faced machine guns on beaches. Now people want to know how a club night will go before they leave the house. Situation 3 is where you are right now. Get off the chair.

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By *nya NeesWoman
12 weeks ago

Brum

I don't know, I don't think I attract a specific type

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
12 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
12 weeks ago

Ends


"I don't know, I don't think I attract a specific type"

You attract me.

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By *aughtylist DuoCouple
12 weeks ago

Kilmarnock


"I know whose type I wish I was. I have no clue who’s type I am.

Did that make sense? 🤔 "

you're my (Mrs) type

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Swansea


"I don't know who's type I am. However I go on certain assumptions. For example seriously fit, gym going types are unlikely to want a fattie like me "

I can correct you my lovely, many gym fit guys adore the curves and softness against their physiques.

Mrs

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
12 weeks ago

Newcastle


"I don’t ever approach, every single encounter/relationship I’ve ever had I was approached/chased.

I don’t appeal to very many people, the whole time I was in relationship when I’d go out with my mates at least one lass would approach due to the size/physique, I think muscles only appeal to a very small percentage of women, typically this dried up when I became single haha Sod’s Law

The amount of men I’ve been complimented or touched without asking when out is about x100 just in a complimentary way nothing sexual haha "

I must be in that small percentage then. I do often find muscular/bodybuilder type guys very down to earth and humble… the exact opposite to what many people probably assume them to be. You look great x

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By *nya NeesWoman
12 weeks ago

Brum


"I don't know, I don't think I attract a specific type

You attract me. "

That's good, glad to hear it 😘😘😘

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
12 weeks ago

Newcastle

I find I usually attract my type tbh, but maybes that’s because I’m often oblivious to attention from those I’m not interested in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I'll approach anyone have the same sort of interests as me, I've nothing to lose by doing so. If they say no then there are plenty more fish in the barrel x"

It can be different lived experiences though. I suppose for some, it's plenty more fish in the barrel and for some, the fish have all escaped!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I tend to friend zone instantly, so I find it really hard to figure out if people are into me or not "

Oh trust me... I've noticed! 😛😂

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

Tough one, Joe. I know I'm an acquired taste, so will assume I am not someone's type.

But I don't lack confidence and am quite happy chatting to most people, so am quite good in most social situations. I just tend to friend zone myself very quickly assuming they couldn't be interested in me in any other way!

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By *929Man
12 weeks ago

bedlington


"I don’t ever approach, every single encounter/relationship I’ve ever had I was approached/chased.

I don’t appeal to very many people, the whole time I was in relationship when I’d go out with my mates at least one lass would approach due to the size/physique, I think muscles only appeal to a very small percentage of women, typically this dried up when I became single haha Sod’s Law

The amount of men I’ve been complimented or touched without asking when out is about x100 just in a complimentary way nothing sexual haha

I must be in that small percentage then. I do often find muscular/bodybuilder type guys very down to earth and humble… the exact opposite to what many people probably assume them to be. You look great x"

I knew you were from conversation in past, most of us are id say maybe 90% at least going off the general population of the gym the odd arrogant dickhead but most of us always complimenting each other, thinking the other one is bigger ect haha it’s the odd few give us a bad name. Thank you, you look amazing have always thought so x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
12 weeks ago


"I always think the ‘no Asians’ seen on profiles is a good indicator I need to steer clear "

I wouldn't say it's even just that. But other physical attributes that can easily prevent you from approaching people you are interested in.

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By *eah BabyCouple
12 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Guess we know who’s type we are by who asks to meet on here. In clubs and party’s people get to see the whole of you and not just a pic with a little write up.

Can’t say I (AJ female half of Yeah Baby) as a type, I’m big on personality and often surprise myself who I’d like to get jiggy with, people who I look at and think their hot can go the opposite way when I chat with them then there’s been times where it’s gone the other way, so guess sometimes you never know who may float your boat or who may sink it, so never be afraid to approach someone as you just never know you could be what they are looking for they just don’t know it yet

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By *uffnmuffCouple
12 weeks ago

London


"Ha! No!

I'm autistic. There's no way I'm going to be able to figure that shit out. I just approach anyway."

Same I just approach x

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By *orphia2003Woman
12 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Fat, grumpy, craft-beer drinking scary Welsh dragon, with a soft side.. apparently.

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By *ABflirtyWoman
12 weeks ago

Norwich

I really have no clue who is my type . It change i know what i like.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
12 weeks ago

Maidstone

I honestly don't think I'm anyone's type. I'm an acquired taste. Not really a type at all. I don't really care about all that crap either.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
12 weeks ago

Essex

This is interesting!!

Because personally I’m confident that my profile

Is quite accurate to what & who I am.

So when the “wrong” ones approach me I think WTF!?!?!

For those who can read, however. I’m the type for a sapiosexual priest. Who has boundless patience.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
12 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I don’t approach people with a view to whether there’s an attraction. I chat to people and see if there’s a connection first and we vibe.

So I don’t have a problem approaching people as I’ve got no ulterior motive.

If I feel there’s an attraction from both sides then it flows easier then anyway.

K

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
12 weeks ago

Ends


"I honestly don't think I'm anyone's type. I'm an acquired taste. Not really a type at all. I don't really care about all that crap either. "

Blah blah blah! You know you’re my type.

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By *ickleTheWonderSchlongMan
12 weeks ago

Ends


"This is interesting!!

Because personally I’m confident that my profile

Is quite accurate to what & who I am.

So when the “wrong” ones approach me I think WTF!?!?!

For those who can read, however. I’m the type for a sapiosexual priest. Who has boundless patience. "

Short hair! Would bang.

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By *ib.Man
12 weeks ago

Hampshire

No, not these days. It's more difficult to guage than 5-20 years ago.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
12 weeks ago

Chester

On here I'm not afraid to approach anyone, it's a website with strangers, so I can handle online rejection.

In person, I'm initially very reserved so probably wouldn't dare to approach anyone. That's sober me anyway.

Tipsy Bella is a whole other kettle of fish, I'd love a bit of her confidence 💁😂

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
12 weeks ago

North West

Kind of. I have an idea of who I can approach. Whether I'm brave enough to do it is a different matter though.

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands


"On here I'm not afraid to approach anyone, it's a website with strangers, so I can handle online rejection.

In person, I'm initially very reserved so probably wouldn't dare to approach anyone. That's sober me anyway.

Tipsy Bella is a whole other kettle of fish, I'd love a bit of her confidence 💁😂"

This is so me as well! Tipsy me does not care at all

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
12 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Depends on what they’re looking for, I guess. I’m different things to different people. It probably helps if they enjoy my ridiculous humour and oversharing.

Mrs TMN x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
12 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I don't know who's type I am. However I go on certain assumptions. For example seriously fit, gym going types are unlikely to want a fattie like me "

This is a massive pile of horseshit my lovely xx

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By *weetiepie99Woman
12 weeks ago

cardiff

On here, I really don't think I've ever made the first move with anyone, though as with most women on here I get enough messages etc.

Away from here, on for example a dating app where I have face pics etc, I seem to attract younger men, which actually is fine by me! Maybe as someone has stated, they are going for the Milf/Cougar thing, though I hate that terminology. Maybe I'm going through some sort of mid life crisis!!

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
12 weeks ago

Sheffield

I definitely find it easier in person at a club, online is always more difficult. Pictures never give a full picture or allow your personality to shine. X

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

It varies if i like the look and sound of them i take my shot.

I win some i lose some but i have an idea of which women wouldn’t look twice at me.

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By *ruceyyMan
12 weeks ago

London


"A bit of thought from the "Leagues" thread, it made me think about who I would approach either in terms of dating, messaging on here, or even in clubs and I realise that I sometimes don't dismiss approaching people thinking I wouldn't be their type.

And then I've thought about it more and I've realised that I don't really know whose type I am. Do you feel like you know or are you just happy to approach anyone in general?"

Well Joe, I have basically discovered that to British women, I am, how to say...garbage? Unless they're posh and loaded for some reason. Usually blonde. Not sure why that is but it's a fine niche.

Asians, be it south Asian or East Asian, seem to generally be a fan. I mean it's what dating apps are telling me what can I say? And it's great! I'm more than happy with that.

When out and about, it's usually more alternative types I might kiss on a night out. Usually at a gig.

So ultimately yes I do know and feel more confident around a certain type of looking woman? But if they're on fab, hell no! I, not even woe is me style, have NO IDEA how to attract fab women. It's just alien to me now 😂

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By *ruceyyMan
12 weeks ago

London


"A bit of thought from the "Leagues" thread, it made me think about who I would approach either in terms of dating, messaging on here, or even in clubs and I realise that I sometimes don't dismiss approaching people thinking I wouldn't be their type.

And then I've thought about it more and I've realised that I don't really know whose type I am. Do you feel like you know or are you just happy to approach anyone in general?"

My other answer was I'm usually always in with the women who only want BBC though obviously.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
12 weeks ago

Southampton


"A bit of thought from the "Leagues" thread, it made me think about who I would approach either in terms of dating, messaging on here, or even in clubs and I realise that I sometimes don't dismiss approaching people thinking I wouldn't be their type.

And then I've thought about it more and I've realised that I don't really know whose type I am. Do you feel like you know or are you just happy to approach anyone in general?

Well Joe, I have basically discovered that to British women, I am, how to say...garbage? Unless they're posh and loaded for some reason. Usually blonde. Not sure why that is but it's a fine niche.

Asians, be it south Asian or East Asian, seem to generally be a fan. I mean it's what dating apps are telling me what can I say? And it's great! I'm more than happy with that.

When out and about, it's usually more alternative types I might kiss on a night out. Usually at a gig.

So ultimately yes I do know and feel more confident around a certain type of looking woman? But if they're on fab, hell no! I, not even woe is me style, have NO IDEA how to attract fab women. It's just alien to me now 😂"

Hello 👋 alt girl here 😉🤣

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By *Jblue321Man
12 weeks ago

Chester


"A bit of thought from the "Leagues" thread, it made me think about who I would approach either in terms of dating, messaging on here, or even in clubs and I realise that I sometimes don't dismiss approaching people thinking I wouldn't be their type.

And then I've thought about it more and I've realised that I don't really know whose type I am. Do you feel like you know or are you just happy to approach anyone in general?

I assume i’m no-one’s type but I can get a laugh, problem is struggling to read people sometimes, just be honest and forward, hope you’re good mate"

Will say I’m more happy to approach in person than I am online, whether I think I’m their type or not is debatable but just happy to meet

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By *indergirlWoman
12 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

Honestly no clue tbh, those whos type I've thought i wouldn't be have asked me to meet me, those I'd like to I'd never have the gumption to come out with it so I'd never know if I was or not

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
12 weeks ago

your head

I'll approach someone I like but I never think I'm actually someone's type. Even if I could be sure they like slightly crazy, poly women with a dark sense of humour and very little free time, it still won't guarantee I'm their type.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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12 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I don't and I've been very surprised by some of the people who say I am.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
12 weeks ago

Newcastle


"I don’t ever approach, every single encounter/relationship I’ve ever had I was approached/chased.

I don’t appeal to very many people, the whole time I was in relationship when I’d go out with my mates at least one lass would approach due to the size/physique, I think muscles only appeal to a very small percentage of women, typically this dried up when I became single haha Sod’s Law

The amount of men I’ve been complimented or touched without asking when out is about x100 just in a complimentary way nothing sexual haha

I must be in that small percentage then. I do often find muscular/bodybuilder type guys very down to earth and humble… the exact opposite to what many people probably assume them to be. You look great x

I knew you were from conversation in past, most of us are id say maybe 90% at least going off the general population of the gym the odd arrogant dickhead but most of us always complimenting each other, thinking the other one is bigger ect haha it’s the odd few give us a bad name. Thank you, you look amazing have always thought so x"

When you’ve mixed in those sort of circles before you know the majority are decent. Thank you very much ☺️ x

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By *indergirlWoman
12 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace


"I don't know who's type I am. However I go on certain assumptions. For example seriously fit, gym going types are unlikely to want a fattie like me "

Oh you would actually be surprised how wrong that assumption is, in my single days I was meeting someone from here who was classed as extremely gym fit and well muscled and I was shocked when he was the one who chased me 😱

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By *929Man
12 weeks ago

bedlington


"I don’t ever approach, every single encounter/relationship I’ve ever had I was approached/chased.

I don’t appeal to very many people, the whole time I was in relationship when I’d go out with my mates at least one lass would approach due to the size/physique, I think muscles only appeal to a very small percentage of women, typically this dried up when I became single haha Sod’s Law

The amount of men I’ve been complimented or touched without asking when out is about x100 just in a complimentary way nothing sexual haha

I must be in that small percentage then. I do often find muscular/bodybuilder type guys very down to earth and humble… the exact opposite to what many people probably assume them to be. You look great x

I knew you were from conversation in past, most of us are id say maybe 90% at least going off the general population of the gym the odd arrogant dickhead but most of us always complimenting each other, thinking the other one is bigger ect haha it’s the odd few give us a bad name. Thank you, you look amazing have always thought so x

When you’ve mixed in those sort of circles before you know the majority are decent. Thank you very much ☺️ x"

Yes I remembered you have without giving out info on here. any time x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
12 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Absolutely no idea JB, I get approached by all ages and all types...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

I know I'm at least one person's type. I don't think about types though. Other people have processed interest in me, at least superficially, so I'm possibly their type too. But I can't be sure.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

I'll be honest with you Joe, whilst in the real world I could hazard a 'micro guess', here on Fab, because of my non-Caucasian 'slant' I'm damned if I know. 🫤

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By *ags73Man
12 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Dunno.

Chucked messaging here. Keep thinking maybe I should do the search/message thing but, I don’t think that’s the way to go.

Wish I had more chances to go to clubs but, it is what it is.

Go between wondering if I go back to dating, to having moments of hope. I just don’t know.

As to where I figure in leagues? No idea.

I’m me, I try to see myself as the thing to do better with rather than compare.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

At socials I’m happy to approach anyone cos it’s not a pressure situation that you must play once you utter the word hi. I just enjoy chatting to new people

But for play purposes I do probably have a bit of imposter syndrome. I’d say hi but they’d need to make the first move…which is tricky cos some people who approach you you really hope they get the no vibes so awkward situations don’t have to happen 🙈 - Mrs

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By *ir tootMan
12 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent


"At socials I’m happy to approach anyone cos it’s not a pressure situation that you must play once you utter the word hi. I just enjoy chatting to new people

But for play purposes I do probably have a bit of imposter syndrome. I’d say hi but they’d need to make the first move…which is tricky cos some people who approach you you really hope they get the no vibes so awkward situations don’t have to happen 🙈 - Mrs"

I'll be the one with the gin.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
12 weeks ago

Maidstone


"Absolutely no idea JB, I get approached by all ages and all types... "

Better than being approached by none. I think I might be invisible

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

Given the saying "opposites attract" then surely what ever it is you think is your type most probably isnt

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By *r SmartypantsMan
12 weeks ago

London

For me it's very much about the glint in a ladies eyes that says how she sees life.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
12 weeks ago

West Dublin


"For me it's very much about the glint in a ladies eyes that says how she sees life. "

Funny you should mention that. A fair few guys say I have a twinkle in my eyes. I have never seen that myself. Mad!!

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
12 weeks ago

hot wife

I knoe I'm someone's type

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I live in hope

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By *afkaMan
12 weeks ago

Nottingham (ish)


"If they look like they only believe in the first 151 pokemon.....I'm their type."

When you say "believe in" ??

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester

I haven’t a clue who’s type I am

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Honestly, no. That’s probably why I don’t approach anyone first because I’m never sure if they would be interested in me.

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By *opeyXWoman
12 weeks ago

Dundee

I haven't a clue. I know if they tell me. I need that level of bluntness. I generally think people are just being friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"I haven't a clue. I know if they tell me. I need that level of bluntness. I generally think people are just being friendly. "

Same!!!!! - Mrs

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By *ruceyyMan
12 weeks ago

London


"I haven't a clue. I know if they tell me. I need that level of bluntness. I generally think people are just being friendly.

Same!!!!! - Mrs"

I'm not ginger but I'm feeling nuts looking at you 😘

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By *afkaMan
12 weeks ago

Nottingham (ish)

And no, I have absolutely no clue whose "type" I am, I get approached by all shapes, sizes, genders, colours, personality disorders etc.

Life would be so much simpler if you could just look at someone and know right away yep, I'm their type, we're gonna get along but I'm not convinced it would be as varied and entertaining as doing the finding out.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"I haven't a clue. I know if they tell me. I need that level of bluntness. I generally think people are just being friendly.

Same!!!!! - Mrs

I'm not ginger but I'm feeling nuts looking at you 😘"

Haha! Thanks Brucey

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By *neeyedwillieMan
12 weeks ago

Darlington

I'm my wife's type.

Beyond that....I don't know as I don't have a type. I'm rather sociable, have no issues striking up conversations in clubs or at socials and can usually tell if she's into me so I just go with it if I fancy them.

What gets me though is I've flirted with some, thought it wasn't going anywhere and just pulled back or left it on freindly terms only.to later hear "I totqlly.would have but i thought you where not interested".

Oh well....

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By *ad NannaWoman
12 weeks ago

East London

I'm the man with full balls' type

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By *ea monkeyMan
12 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

This is a strange question to me. I don’t believe that I appeal to a specific demographic, it’s all about individuals and what they find attractive.

Maybe I’m misunderstanding though

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By *afkaMan
12 weeks ago

Nottingham (ish)


"I haven't a clue. I know if they tell me. I need that level of bluntness. I generally think people are just being friendly. "

⬆️ Same

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By *avexxMan
12 weeks ago

cheshire

ive know idea

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By *heshireguy99Man
12 weeks ago

Northwich


"Not many as I am a trans woman "

The hottest one on this site

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By *orphia2003Woman
12 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Get your rocks off.

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By *effdelightMan
12 weeks ago

Grimsby

Haha I love this. It seems no ones. Or mens. But in real life it's usually older women who like me. Which I can't complain about ha.

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By *mf123Man
12 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Im nobodies type anymore i dont put myself out there to be desired enough to be

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By *arley QuimWoman
12 weeks ago

Somewhere


"This is a strange question to me. I don’t believe that I appeal to a specific demographic, it’s all about individuals and what they find attractive.

Maybe I’m misunderstanding though"

If I told you that you're beautiful, would you hold your hold your cock against me?

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
12 weeks ago

Bristol

I genuinely wouldn’t have the slightest clue

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By *lueLotusWoman
12 weeks ago

the wilderness

If you don't ask you don't get.

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By *tr8MrEMan
12 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop


"If you don't ask you don't get. "

Or you just get ..... (Put appropriate non response here)

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By *vaRose43Woman
12 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I don’t even know what my type is let alone the type I attract.

If I like someone and I have a reason to message them then I’ll approach them.

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By *oveandfastWoman
12 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

I’ve always assumed the gym fit/ conventionally attractive people would not be into me and when those people message me on here, I generally ignore because I assume they are casting their net as wide as possible 😅😅

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
12 weeks ago

St Leonards

Yes. I appeal most to 28-40 year old women who are independent, emotionally and financially stable, inquisitive of the world and cultures, with a goofy-girly quality they are comfortable showing around someone they've learned to trust enough.

People who get on with living, build more in the process, and are happy-smiley-intrigued when something new and previously alien appears in their consciousness.

Ambitious, capable, with a love of the novel and absurd.

I appeal most to them, and they appeal most to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

We tend to attract thin "dom tops" who are looking for a bi mmf so we can "worship their cock".

That or guys who are playing away. So, so many guys who are playing away.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Goth girls in fishnets are a pretty universal type, so I don't worry too much about it. If I try it on with someone and they're obviously not into me that's okay, nobody is for everyone 💜

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