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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"

Excuse me, my voluptuous tummy is definately not overweight....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"

No.

Next question.....

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No, I've got a friend who's a size 6 with DD boobs and a tiny waist. She's curvy and def not overweight x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol nice one 421

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooo overweight suggests you have too much weight.Ample, voluptuous and curvy suggests your frickin yum

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The site doesn't give an option for fat. I'm just fat but as I'm female it falls into curves and I have boobs so some will call me voluptuous.

How we view ourselves and how others view us are not always the same things. The descriptors mean different things to different people. You make your choices on how you like and leave everyone else to do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?

Excuse me, my voluptuous tummy is definately not overweight...."

That did make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider my self as being curvy, But the Diabetic nurse says that i am borderline obese

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I use curvy to describe myself, yes I am overweight but thats not why I use it.

But they are very subjective terms and mean different things to different people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then ld like to meet her hmmm x

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

The descriptions on here are way too ambiguous. I've seen profiles were someone claims to be average but is clearly overweight - which I guess is average nowadays.

Anyway, it's not the words themselves, it's that people don't use them properly.

While we're on it, what the hell is fabulous supposed to mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer here is, use your eyes and look at the pictures, if you don't like what yu see, move on to someone you do like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use curvy to describe myself, yes I am overweight but thats not why I use it.

But they are very subjective terms and mean different things to different people."

Would say you were overweight... Absolutely stunning figure

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By *r and Mrs BiteMeCouple
over a year ago

Belbroughton, Stourbridge

I went for fabulous as I am overweight lol - I guess they were trying to be polite with their options lol

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By *erkshireMan123Man
over a year ago

Devizes


"I consider my self as being curvy, But the Diabetic nurse says that i am borderline obese "

You're f*cking kidding me. No way are you. You look fantastic to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider my self as being curvy, But the Diabetic nurse says that i am borderline obese "

If you are borderline obese the god help me I've gone off the scale you have a gorgeous figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The descriptions on here are way too ambiguous. I've seen profiles were someone claims to be average but is clearly overweight - which I guess is average nowadays. "

Ambiguous? Yep. The 'average' dress size for woman is a size 16. So what would that make curvy, ample, fabulous etc?

This is one area of profiles that really needs revision IMHO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"

not necessarily you can get people who are curvy yet their bmi wouldn't class them as overweight. Ample maybe a kinder word as is voluptuous but whets wrong with using more sympathetic words?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"
Dunno is it?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The descriptions on here are way too ambiguous. I've seen profiles were someone claims to be average but is clearly overweight - which I guess is average nowadays.

Ambiguous? Yep. The 'average' dress size for woman is a size 16. So what would that make curvy, ample, fabulous etc?

This is one area of profiles that really needs revision IMHO."

What terms would you use? They are all subjective. I have been told by some men that I am too small to be fabulous and others have said I am too big to be curvy or ample.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider my self as being curvy, But the Diabetic nurse says that i am borderline obese

You're f*cking kidding me. No way are you. You look fantastic to me "

This is all down to the medical profession's obsession with BMI scores AND with what their charts say is your 'ideal weight'. You only have to be 15% or more over your 'ideal weight' (according the THEIR charts) and you are borderline obese.

If I listened to BMI charts, I should be dead (according to them) but there is much more relevance looking at percentage bodyfat. On those scores, I fair reasonably okay, as it tends to show up if you did a lot of sport or fitness training in the past. I'm never going to get back into the 'athletic' category at my age (short of contracting amoebic dysentery for a protracted period!), but the way the medical profession tries to put the frightners on people who look damned good is shameful.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I don't see the need for the options to be polite, after all it's a swingers site, no one here is shy and retiring and we should all know by now that there's something for every one. Lying about your physical characteristics is only going to mean that you get over looked by the people looking for someone your size and it will put off the people who aren't.

You should be able to add height/weight or BMI to search criteria. That way you only find what you're looking for and it would encourage everyone to be truthful about their size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the need for the options to be polite, after all it's a swingers site, no one here is shy and retiring and we should all know by now that there's something for every one. Lying about your physical characteristics is only going to mean that you get over looked by the people looking for someone your size and it will put off the people who aren't.

You should be able to add height/weight or BMI to search criteria. That way you only find what you're looking for and it would encourage everyone to be truthful about their size. "

Im sorry, I thought this was a swingers site - it appears I've wandered into the Department of Homeland Security API database by accident.

My bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The descriptions on here are way too ambiguous. I've seen profiles were someone claims to be average but is clearly overweight - which I guess is average nowadays.

Ambiguous? Yep. The 'average' dress size for woman is a size 16. So what would that make curvy, ample, fabulous etc?

This is one area of profiles that really needs revision IMHO.

What terms would you use? They are all subjective. I have been told by some men that I am too small to be fabulous and others have said I am too big to be curvy or ample."

Well, certainly not the same ones for men and women for starters. Difficult to say. Would help more if there was a guide so you could choose which category you fit in on the same basis as everyone else.

If I had to describe myself in reasonable terms, I would say 'heavy/muscular' (others may call me a fat git!) so what would that be under the current 'system'? I've now gone for 'ample' as, when I used to list myself as Large, I was told I was not - crucially, by comparison with other guys they had met off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the need for the options to be polite, after all it's a swingers site, no one here is shy and retiring and we should all know by now that there's something for every one. Lying about your physical characteristics is only going to mean that you get over looked by the people looking for someone your size and it will put off the people who aren't.

You should be able to add height/weight or BMI to search criteria. That way you only find what you're looking for and it would encourage everyone to be truthful about their size. "

Shall we add a retina scanner too

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't see the need for the options to be polite, after all it's a swingers site, no one here is shy and retiring and we should all know by now that there's something for every one. Lying about your physical characteristics is only going to mean that you get over looked by the people looking for someone your size and it will put off the people who aren't.

You should be able to add height/weight or BMI to search criteria. That way you only find what you're looking for and it would encourage everyone to be truthful about their size. "

BMI is meaningless - very fit but muscly people would show as having high BMIs. Men that look overweight to me describe themselves as athletic. They may well be athletic but their photos don't give ME that impression but it might give YOU that impression.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"

Not all of them no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the need for the options to be polite, after all it's a swingers site, no one here is shy and retiring and we should all know by now that there's something for every one. Lying about your physical characteristics is only going to mean that you get over looked by the people looking for someone your size and it will put off the people who aren't.

You should be able to add height/weight or BMI to search criteria. That way you only find what you're looking for and it would encourage everyone to be truthful about their size. "

At the moment, I think I am right in saying you can't get your profile listed if you don't enter a choice in the body type box. If BMI is brought in as the option in that box, I would be off here like a shot. Do not agree with it. People tell fibs about their height etc, and without that being accurate, the BMI is useless.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

What, so sharing your sexual preferences and exploits with a thousand strangers is fine but asking someone for their weight is too intrusive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What, so sharing your sexual preferences and exploits with a thousand strangers is fine but asking someone for their weight is too intrusive?"

No it's not. But this is not 'Select-a-Shag' either. I've had great experiences with large people - I've had bad experiences with large people. The same can be said for the athletic/slim people I've met.

But why did I have great experiences with some, and bad experiences with others? Nothing to do with how small or large they are - it was to do with them as a person, their personality, whether we jelled - a whole range of things, none of which had anything to do with their size.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What, so sharing your sexual preferences and exploits with a thousand strangers is fine but asking someone for their weight is too intrusive?"

Weight is irrelevant really. 2 people could weigh the same but be completely different body shapes and dress sizes due to height etc.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"What, so sharing your sexual preferences and exploits with a thousand strangers is fine but asking someone for their weight is too intrusive?"

It's subjective.

Let's cut all the crap and just list penis, cunny and arse sizes. Too intrusive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The answer here is, use your eyes and look at the pictures, if you don't like what yu see, move on to someone you do like!"

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


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No it's not. But this is not 'Select-a-Shag' either."

Are you sure? Some of the profiles I've read have a list of demands the length of a short novel.

Anyway, my point was that every niche, fetish, kink or desire is catered for on here and you will undoubtably find someone that wants you for you, so what's the point in embellishing the truth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know the best way to determine someones size and if they appeal to you. Its to sit across from them in a cafe or bar, as you get to know one-another.

As the evening progresses, your respective minds wander to mentally undressing each other and planning how to ruin each other in an orgy of sexual activity; you won't remember what those words were...

...by the time shes standing before you, naked, trembling in anticipation of what is to come; or lying in your arms as you share in the afterglow of such wanton debauchery that would make Kublai Kahn green with envy, you won't even care.

..and thats my take on it.

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By *ot30scoupleCouple
over a year ago

Oxford, London

The terms are subjective. I would describe my figure as curvy, but wouldn't be considered overweight..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No it's not. But this is not 'Select-a-Shag' either. Are you sure? Some of the profiles I've read have a list of demands the length of a short novel."

Hmmm...... yeah, you got a point there...

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I've always thought curvy was an odd term for a man to apply to himself. I don't think the male and female choices for body type should be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to health guide lines about 70% of the population is overweight so maybe for some people it is.

And tbf it is their profile and they have a right to describe themself how they wish.

If a larger voluptuous woman isn't for you don't meet them stick to the athletic of slim choices,no harm done them put i filter thing on your search or something.

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town


"I consider my self as being curvy, But the Diabetic nurse says that i am borderline obese "
iyour far from obese but god dam sexy

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"

if I was 4 inches taller I'd be perfect

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By *eaverfeverCouple
over a year ago

nr Manchester


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"

yes, not sure what point your typing to make tho?

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By *eaverfeverCouple
over a year ago

nr Manchester

Im a siz 12 but for my weight and height i am over weight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah good point _cottishrich lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

different women carry weight differently. am more interested in bodyshape than bodyweight

in answer to the question. only if ur an ample, curvy or voluptuous bloke lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are just words we all know what they mean, no one likes a fat bird with a chip on her shoulder about her weight, well do we? so to put on your profile curvy or voluptuous just sounds nicer and softer, what would you have them put, single fat woman? even guys who like big women probably wouldn't reply to that as it sounds harsh and a bit attitudie (is that even a word? lol) single voluptuous women means the same but just sounds better

lets not split hairs and make mountains out of mole hills eh

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york


"I consider my self as being curvy, But the Diabetic nurse says that i am borderline obese "

I'd say you were stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider my self as being curvy, But the Diabetic nurse says that i am borderline obese "

the medical professions idea of obsess and most peoples isn't the same, my idea of obese is someone who's a size 20+ but anyone over the BMI of 30 is medically obsess, so you could only be 2 stone over weight to be medically obsess where as I wouldn't class someone 2 stone over weight as obsess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider my self as being curvy, But the Diabetic nurse says that i am borderline obese

the medical professions idea of obsess and most peoples isn't the same, my idea of obese is someone who's a size 20+ but anyone over the BMI of 30 is medically obsess, so you could only be 2 stone over weight to be medically obsess where as I wouldn't class someone 2 stone over weight as obsess [/qoute]

They tell me that my ideal weight between 8 1/2 stone to 9. BMI should be about 20-22, but mine is sitting a little higher. And because i do have dibetes i do know what i have to do to reduce this. Now at my age i would say that, that weight loss is was way to low for me, ok i do need to lose some but not 3 stone!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?

if I was 4 inches taller I'd be perfect"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BMi is a false way to determine if someone is overweight or unhealthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am size 14 5.8 tall with BIG tits hips and a bum and go in and out so I say curvy , lol never get called fat but curvy ,

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I consider my self as being curvy, But the Diabetic nurse says that i am borderline obese

the medical professions idea of obsess and most peoples isn't the same, my idea of obese is someone who's a size 20+ but anyone over the BMI of 30 is medically obsess, so you could only be 2 stone over weight to be medically obsess where as I wouldn't class someone 2 stone over weight as obsess "

12kgs overweight on an average size woman is clinically obese.

Clinical Obesity has nothing to do with dress size or personal opinions. It is a medical definition whereby the accumulation of body fat might become detrimental to the health of the person.

Many people who describe themselves as BBW are clinically obese. You may not like the term as such, but it's not a value statement it's a clinical issue. If you have medical problems with heart, breathing, knees, back, arthritis, diabetes, stroke, kidney disease etc etc and you are in the morbidly obese range then you need to lose weight or put up with associated medical problems. Whether you or others find you attractive is irrelevant to obesity.

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By *oudnproudWoman
over a year ago

penrith

Im a bbw... but bloody proud !

Im healthy, have no health problems and enjoy my life!

My answer..... ive got photos if people are not intrested then dont wink and dont send me messages!!

Actually just dont look at me if ya dont like what you see... simples xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I got told I am a lump of lard and don't deserve a poke!!!!! I won't repeat my reply ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"

it is but when i used to have on my profile i was fat people would mail me telling me not to ne so hard on myself etc yet if you put your curvy or voluptuous people say oh they just nice words for fat, people don't like BBW because they take it to literal no matter what you put some will pick fault, at the end of they day you know what it means so what does it matter now its worded?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone up for a cream bun, donut n a bag of chips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just state on my profile, hight, dress size and bra size, let others decide from that what I am.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I'm fat & couldn't give a monkeys what term others wanna use or what I wish to use to describe myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site doesn't give an option for fat. I'm just fat but as I'm female it falls into curves and I have boobs so some will call me voluptuous.

How we view ourselves and how others view us are not always the same things. The descriptors mean different things to different people. You make your choices on how you like and leave everyone else to do the same."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate "

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?"

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 24 pack round my waist, and happy in the way I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat but they don't have that as am option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a bbw... but bloody proud !

Im healthy, have no health problems and enjoy my life!

My answer..... ive got photos if people are not intrested then dont wink and dont send me messages!!

Actually just dont look at me if ya dont like what you see... simples xx "

Totally agree!!!!

I'm a BBW and proud to have lumps, bumps, curves etc. After losing 13 stone in weight im still classed as morbidly obese by doctors, nurses etc. Do I care? Not one iota, my blood pressure is perfect, not diabetic, not asthmatic. Do I enjoy life? Too bloody right. I think I look ok and couldn't care what others think. If you don't like it then don't look (if you do like then please fab the pics lol!!!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it"

But if they sent you a picture then its not misleading you is it? It would be misleading if they turned up at your door and hadn't told you. People's perception of themselves is what goes up on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well im fat, overweight , bbw ,curvy, fabulous, massive whatever !

Trouble is any system of catagorisation isnt really objective, and how people see themselves is not how others will.Some women who feel they are big look teeny to me, and a big girl can be beautifully proportioned so doesnt seem as big.Dress sizes are all over the place and photos (as mine are) can be taken to be flattering (or kind) .I get quite a few messages wanting a meet from people whose profiles say they dont like big women though im very upfront about it, i think you just have to think of everyone as an individual especially where attraction is concerned x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

But if they sent you a picture then its not misleading you is it? It would be misleading if they turned up at your door and hadn't told you. People's perception of themselves is what goes up on their profile. "

Saying one thing and showing you another thing is probably the very definition of misleading, whether its in person or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the "bigger" ladies on here and heather trott who used to be on eastenders. Ladies on here have some shape and have curves. So its good to look at and hold on. That lady of eastenders is fat. As long as its proportioned out properly. People won't care if you are "big" as long as you look after yourself. There are plenty of "big" ladies on here who I would consider very attractive and I would get with them if I had the opportunity, but I would never get with the celebrity because she doesn't catch my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

But if they sent you a picture then its not misleading you is it? It would be misleading if they turned up at your door and hadn't told you. People's perception of themselves is what goes up on their profile.

Saying one thing and showing you another thing is probably the very definition of misleading, whether its in person or not"

I disagree completely. Curvy covers a multitude of sizes. I'm fat, but I have an hourglass/cello figure, thus making me curvy. I send pictures out to show people what I look like. The fem in question may feel that she is curvy and may self identify as that. Self identification is how we classify ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

But if they sent you a picture then its not misleading you is it? It would be misleading if they turned up at your door and hadn't told you. People's perception of themselves is what goes up on their profile.

Saying one thing and showing you another thing is probably the very definition of misleading, whether its in person or not

I disagree completely. Curvy covers a multitude of sizes. I'm fat, but I have an hourglass/cello figure, thus making me curvy. I send pictures out to show people what I look like. The fem in question may feel that she is curvy and may self identify as that. Self identification is how we classify ourselves. "

We'll agree to disagree. Not arguing this over a forum. and yes, she had curves alright, the same way a football does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen it all now. May I ask what women class as being fat as some women have claimed there are and they aren't fat at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it"

Like some of the guys on here who describe themselves as athletic really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 16 stone plus, have myself down as curvy because I thought it included me. Should I put ample then? Ive lost nearly a stone in 6 weeks, am taking it slowly. But yes I am fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

Like some of the guys on here who describe themselves as athletic really "

I guess I deserved that one I was going to put average, but I play a lot of sports so thought athletic would be more fitting. Am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

Like some of the guys on here who describe themselves as athletic really "

How do you describe a guy on here that has no fat and isn't that big, muscle wise? Athletic is about half way through the options and that's probably why a guy chooses it as its the middle weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 16 stone plus, have myself down as curvy because I thought it included me. Should I put ample then? Ive lost nearly a stone in 6 weeks, am taking it slowly. But yes I am fat "
dont put yourself down i know larger ladies that are lovely looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's everyone's definition of fat or ample?

I am 6ft, weight 15stone, have a bit of belly, am I classed as fat or ample?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

But if they sent you a picture then its not misleading you is it? It would be misleading if they turned up at your door and hadn't told you. People's perception of themselves is what goes up on their profile.

Saying one thing and showing you another thing is probably the very definition of misleading, whether its in person or not

I disagree completely. Curvy covers a multitude of sizes. I'm fat, but I have an hourglass/cello figure, thus making me curvy. I send pictures out to show people what I look like. The fem in question may feel that she is curvy and may self identify as that. Self identification is how we classify ourselves.

We'll agree to disagree. Not arguing this over a forum. and yes, she had curves alright, the same way a football does"

I'll argue it anywhere - its how I feel about the scenario. I've met plenty of men who've put athletic or average and have been less than athletic or average. It is the profile holder's prerogative to identify themselves in whichever way they choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm overweight, obese, morbidly obese, fat, lardy, whatever. Labels are labels and only used by those that don't really know or want to know you so I couldn't give a flying glob of sloth semen what they think. I'm not ashamed of my size and would happily fill in a required BMI box, though this won't tell you alot about proportion, I could post a weekly calorie intake or weigh my poo to give people an idea of what I absorb. But no one really cares.

No one is forcing anyone to sleep with someone they don't find attractive so I don't really understand the issue here. If you aren't attracted to fat girls, don't sleep with them, you can usually tell by the pictures if they are and if then have been oh so deceitful with clever lighting I'm sure their ruse will become apparent during a social.

Rant over... There's a donut with my name on it!

Mrs Hippo

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

Like some of the guys on here who describe themselves as athletic really

I guess I deserved that one I was going to put average, but I play a lot of sports so thought athletic would be more fitting. Am I wrong?"

Look love call yourself what you like just remember other people have the right to do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average size woman is a size 16. I think beautiful comes in different shapes and sizes.

I am in no way skinny and have lumps and bumps that I likes to call curvy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?"

You'll be wishing for world peace next. Now I think about it more chance of that than people not being rude on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

But if they sent you a picture then its not misleading you is it? It would be misleading if they turned up at your door and hadn't told you. People's perception of themselves is what goes up on their profile.

Saying one thing and showing you another thing is probably the very definition of misleading, whether its in person or not

I disagree completely. Curvy covers a multitude of sizes. I'm fat, but I have an hourglass/cello figure, thus making me curvy. I send pictures out to show people what I look like. The fem in question may feel that she is curvy and may self identify as that. Self identification is how we classify ourselves.

We'll agree to disagree. Not arguing this over a forum. and yes, she had curves alright, the same way a football does

I'll argue it anywhere - its how I feel about the scenario. I've met plenty of men who've put athletic or average and have been less than athletic or average. It is the profile holder's prerogative to identify themselves in whichever way they choose. "

Argue as much as you want. My initial point was, there's no standard definition of what ample, curvy, athletic, average or slim mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did anyone feel the need to drag this up again

Feel the need to stir a little shit up in the heat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 16 stone plus, have myself down as curvy because I thought it included me. Should I put ample then? Ive lost nearly a stone in 6 weeks, am taking it slowly. But yes I am fat dont put yourself down i know larger ladies that are lovely looking"
thank you but just saying it like it is. honesty best policy etc.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

Like some of the guys on here who describe themselves as athletic really "

Or vwe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

Like some of the guys on here who describe themselves as athletic really

I guess I deserved that one I was going to put average, but I play a lot of sports so thought athletic would be more fitting. Am I wrong?

Look love call yourself what you like just remember other people have the right to do the same "

That may have come across a bit rude, what I ment was, theres a body pic there, I've put athletic, but could probably put average. If it's misleading I'd rather change it and save disappointment and arguments later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 16 stone plus, have myself down as curvy because I thought it included me. Should I put ample then? Ive lost nearly a stone in 6 weeks, am taking it slowly. But yes I am fat dont put yourself down i know larger ladies that are lovely looking thank you but just saying it like it is. honesty best policy etc. "
i understand x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 16 stone plus, have myself down as curvy because I thought it included me. Should I put ample then? Ive lost nearly a stone in 6 weeks, am taking it slowly. But yes I am fat dont put yourself down i know larger ladies that are lovely looking thank you but just saying it like it is. honesty best policy etc. "

I agree honesty is best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's definition of fat or ample?

I am 6ft, weight 15stone, have a bit of belly, am I classed as fat or ample?"

Fat to me is when your more round than straight all over and when you have to go down a corridor/hall way or through a door and only you have to manoeuvre your body all the time and you have things adjusted for you or you go without.

Going by this thread society is very strange as if you aren't a size 0 or a barbie doll type. People class themselves as fat. There is a difference between fat and big in my eyes. Bigger women who are well proportioned tend to be the most attractive women on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's very few clear definitions for anything used to describe ourselves! There's a spectrum of brunette dipping into dirty blonde and some red heads classing themselves as strawberry blonde!!! oh the liberties being taken!!!

Use your eyes and the definitions you hold and make decisions based on those rather than that you've read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm overweight, obese, morbidly obese, fat, lardy, whatever. Labels are labels and only used by those that don't really know or want to know you so I couldn't give a flying glob of sloth semen what they think. I'm not ashamed of my size and would happily fill in a required BMI box, though this won't tell you alot about proportion, I could post a weekly calorie intake or

weigh my poo to give people an idea of what I absorb. But no one really cares.

No one is forcing anyone to sleep with someone they don't find attractive so I don't really understand the issue here. If you aren't attracted to fat girls, don't sleep with them, you can usually tell by the pictures if they are and if then have been oh so deceitful with clever lighting I'm sure their ruse will become apparent during a social.

Rant over... There's a donut with my name on it!

Mrs Hippo

Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 16 stone plus, have myself down as curvy because I thought it included me. Should I put ample then? Ive lost nearly a stone in 6 weeks, am taking it slowly. But yes I am fat dont put yourself down i know larger ladies that are lovely looking thank you but just saying it like it is. honesty best policy etc. i understand x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm overweight, obese, morbidly obese, fat, lardy, whatever. Labels are labels and only used by those that don't really know or want to know you so I couldn't give a flying glob of sloth semen what they think. I'm not ashamed of my size and would happily fill in a required BMI box, though this won't tell you alot about proportion, I could post a weekly calorie intake or

weigh my poo to give people an idea of what I absorb. But no one really cares.

No one is forcing anyone to sleep with someone they don't find attractive so I don't really understand the issue here. If you aren't attracted to fat girls, don't sleep with them, you can usually tell by the pictures if they are and if then have been oh so deceitful with clever lighting I'm sure their ruse will become apparent during a social.

Rant over... There's a donut with my name on it!

Mrs Hippo

Xx "

Fat, big, however you describe yourself. I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 16 stone plus, have myself down as curvy because I thought it included me. Should I put ample then? Ive lost nearly a stone in 6 weeks, am taking it slowly. But yes I am fat dont put yourself down i know larger ladies that are lovely looking thank you but just saying it like it is. honesty best policy etc.

I agree honesty is best policy"
Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm overweight, obese, morbidly obese, fat, lardy, whatever. Labels are labels and only used by those that don't really know or want to know you so I couldn't give a flying glob of sloth semen what they think. I'm not ashamed of my size and would happily fill in a required BMI box, though this won't tell you alot about proportion, I could post a weekly calorie intake or

weigh my poo to give people an idea of what I absorb. But no one really cares.

No one is forcing anyone to sleep with someone they don't find attractive so I don't really understand the issue here. If you aren't attracted to fat girls, don't sleep with them, you can usually tell by the pictures if they are and if then have been oh so deceitful with clever lighting I'm sure their ruse will become apparent during a social.

Rant over... There's a donut with my name on it!

Mrs Hippo

Xx

Fat, big, however you describe yourself. I would"

Ill save you a donut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's definition of fat or ample?

I am 6ft, weight 15stone, have a bit of belly, am I classed as fat or ample?

Fat to me is when your more round than straight all over and when you have to go down a corridor/hall way or through a door and only you have to manoeuvre your body all the time and you have things adjusted for you or you go without.

Going by this thread society is very strange as if you aren't a size 0 or a barbie doll type. People class themselves as fat. There is a difference between fat and big in my eyes. Bigger women who are well proportioned tend to be the most attractive women on this site. "

Thanks for that. I personally have a preference for the well proportioned women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen it all now. May I ask what women class as being fat as some women have claimed there are and they aren't fat at all. "

I'm size 20 with a big mum tum I'm fat I did have it wrote on profile but I got told off for it so removed it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's definition of fat or ample?

I am 6ft, weight 15stone, have a bit of belly, am I classed as fat or ample?

Fat to me is when your more round than straight all over and when you have to go down a corridor/hall way or through a door and only you have to manoeuvre your body all the time and you have things adjusted for you or you go without.

Going by this thread society is very strange as if you aren't a size 0 or a barbie doll type. People class themselves as fat. There is a difference between fat and big in my eyes. Bigger women who are well proportioned tend to be the most attractive women on this site.

Thanks for that. I personally have a preference for the well proportioned women."

I could name names, but it may offend. Even though i am trying to prove a point that there is a difference and I am not insulting these ladies. If anything I am complimenting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen it all now. May I ask what women class as being fat as some women have claimed there are and they aren't fat at all.

I'm size 20 with a big mum tum I'm fat I did have it wrote on profile but I got told off for it so removed it ."
you look great kelly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm overweight, obese, morbidly obese, fat, lardy, whatever. Labels are labels and only used by those that don't really know or want to know you so I couldn't give a flying glob of sloth semen what they think. I'm not ashamed of my size and would happily fill in a required BMI box, though this won't tell you alot about proportion, I could post a weekly calorie intake or

weigh my poo to give people an idea of what I absorb. But no one really cares.

No one is forcing anyone to sleep with someone they don't find attractive so I don't really understand the issue here. If you aren't attracted to fat girls, don't sleep with them, you can usually tell by the pictures if they are and if then have been oh so deceitful with clever lighting I'm sure their ruse will become apparent during a social.

Rant over... There's a donut with my name on it!

Mrs Hippo

Xx

Fat, big, however you describe yourself. I would

Ill save you a donut"

A donut maybe sweet and tasty, but you look even more sweet and tastier than that. So why have something that's second best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about this as a scale

Curvy=haven't I got lovely feet

BBW= If I lean slightly I can see my beautiful new shoes.

Overweight= Haven't I got lovely toenail varnish?

Morbidly Obese= I wonder what happened to my feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen it all now. May I ask what women class as being fat as some women have claimed there are and they aren't fat at all.

I'm size 20 with a big mum tum I'm fat I did have it wrote on profile but I got told off for it so removed it .you look great kelly x"

We should be allowed to post celebrities on here and I can prove my point then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen it all now. May I ask what women class as being fat as some women have claimed there are and they aren't fat at all.

I'm size 20 with a big mum tum I'm fat I did have it wrote on profile but I got told off for it so removed it .you look great kelly x"

Awww thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen it all now. May I ask what women class as being fat as some women have claimed there are and they aren't fat at all.

I'm size 20 with a big mum tum I'm fat I did have it wrote on profile but I got told off for it so removed it .you look great kelly x

Awww thank you xx"
xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take on all this is :-

'well it's up to you porky'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

But if they sent you a picture then its not misleading you is it? It would be misleading if they turned up at your door and hadn't told you. People's perception of themselves is what goes up on their profile.

Saying one thing and showing you another thing is probably the very definition of misleading, whether its in person or not"

but she may see herself as curvy... I think I have ample ticked as fat bitch isn't available but I have enough photos for people to decide if they like me or not.

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick


"Why did anyone feel the need to drag this up again

Feel the need to stir a little shit up in the heat? "

I brought this thread back up because the OP posted a similar offensive thread this morning which was removed. He had been sending PMs to people who'd posted inoffensive lighthearted remarks. It was an example of thread posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did anyone feel the need to drag this up again

Feel the need to stir a little shit up in the heat?

I brought this thread back up because the OP posted a similar offensive thread this morning which was removed. He had been sending PMs to people who'd posted inoffensive lighthearted remarks. It was an example of thread posting."

And he's now left the site!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did anyone feel the need to drag this up again

Feel the need to stir a little shit up in the heat?

I brought this thread back up because the OP posted a similar offensive thread this morning which was removed. He had been sending PMs to people who'd posted inoffensive lighthearted remarks. It was an example of thread posting.

And he's now left the site!! "
an still your legs look great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did anyone feel the need to drag this up again

Feel the need to stir a little shit up in the heat?

I brought this thread back up because the OP posted a similar offensive thread this morning which was removed. He had been sending PMs to people who'd posted inoffensive lighthearted remarks. It was an example of thread posting."

Ah! A light begins to dawn at end if tunnel

Was the offensive post relating to the good ladies of Stoke on Trent? Cos u been on n off searching in vain for a comment I posted relative to that subject

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm fat and really short. My boobs alone would ensure I am classed as obese. I say I am fat and short and there are pictures for people to judge how fat for themselves.

I was surprised to see this one back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did anyone feel the need to drag this up again

Feel the need to stir a little shit up in the heat?

I brought this thread back up because the OP posted a similar offensive thread this morning which was removed. He had been sending PMs to people who'd posted inoffensive lighthearted remarks. It was an example of thread posting.

Ah! A light begins to dawn at end if tunnel

Was the offensive post relating to the good ladies of Stoke on Trent? Cos u been on n off searching in vain for a comment I posted relative to that subject"

It was indeed and the thread has been removed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did anyone feel the need to drag this up again

Feel the need to stir a little shit up in the heat?

I brought this thread back up because the OP posted a similar offensive thread this morning which was removed. He had been sending PMs to people who'd posted inoffensive lighthearted remarks. It was an example of thread posting.

Ah! A light begins to dawn at end if tunnel

Was the offensive post relating to the good ladies of Stoke on Trent? Cos u been on n off searching in vain for a comment I posted relative to that subject

It was indeed and the thread has been removed! "

Thank you for the info! I was beginning think I'd had a twilight zone moment cos I was sure I'd posted a comment and then doubted myself when I couldn't locate it . It's me age ('poor old sod' I hear u whisper lol)

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"I have seen it all now. May I ask what women class as being fat as some women have claimed there are and they aren't fat at all. "

I'm morbidly obese, Heather Trotts twin sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it"

Curvy is a shape not a size overweight people can be curvy also!

I am curvy yeah i may be a little overweight but i have a big bust little waiste big bum ok legs ....curvy

So how is anyone misleading people can describe themselfs as they desire and if they have pics and its not for you move on dont diss them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

Curvy is a shape not a size overweight people can be curvy also!

I am curvy yeah i may be a little overweight but i have a big bust little waiste big bum ok legs ....curvy

So how is anyone misleading people can describe themselfs as they desire and if they have pics and its not for you move on dont diss them!"

Curvy yes means a woman! Boobs, bum & waist!!!

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over a year ago


"The site doesn't give an option for fat. I'm just fat but as I'm female it falls into curves and I have boobs so some will call me voluptuous.

How we view ourselves and how others view us are not always the same things. The descriptors mean different things to different people. You make your choices on how you like and leave everyone else to do the same."

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over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

Curvy is a shape not a size overweight people can be curvy also!

I am curvy yeah i may be a little overweight but i have a big bust little waiste big bum ok legs ....curvy

So how is anyone misleading people can describe themselfs as they desire and if they have pics and its not for you move on dont diss them!

Curvy yes means a woman! Boobs, bum & waist!!! "

Can I have those then please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

Curvy is a shape not a size overweight people can be curvy also!

I am curvy yeah i may be a little overweight but i have a big bust little waiste big bum ok legs ....curvy

So how is anyone misleading people can describe themselfs as they desire and if they have pics and its not for you move on dont diss them!

Curvy yes means a woman! Boobs, bum & waist!!! "

Yup even the slightest of ladies can be curvy i have a sister who is a siZe 8 but has an ample bust and an arse that would put jlo to shame ....i get so sick of curvy being thrown in as fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a little overweight

But i am losing tummy very quickly i would and do call myself curvy i have 38dd boobs but im in a size 14-16 clothes i have also been told my curves are all in the right places xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if people thought I was being a dick, I could have worded my opinions a little better. All I was trying to say was everyone has a different version of the body sizes you can pick for your profile, and the body type you pick to match what you think is your type, could mean something different to the man or woman viewing your profile.

I do have my own opinions and I will voice them. Ill just choose my words better next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if there was a standard definition of what ample and curvy actually was and not just what the person see's them self.

I was chatting to a woman on here who had her self down as curvy, then she sent me a photo. I think the curvy woman she was talking about was the one she just ate

Wouldn't it be nice if people weren't rude about others weight in public?

I don't mind people being overweight. its there lifestyle choice, doesn't effect me what so ever. But its misleading when there not properly describing them self, if a guy did it on here the woman would have a shit storm about it

Curvy is a shape not a size overweight people can be curvy also!

I am curvy yeah i may be a little overweight but i have a big bust little waiste big bum ok legs ....curvy

So how is anyone misleading people can describe themselfs as they desire and if they have pics and its not for you move on dont diss them!

Curvy yes means a woman! Boobs, bum & waist!!!

Yup even the slightest of ladies can be curvy i have a sister who is a siZe 8 but has an ample bust and an arse that would put jlo to shame ....i get so sick of curvy being thrown in as fat "

Nothing wrong with Jennifer Lopez' arse

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Isnt ample, voluptuous, curvy, just other words for over weight?"

oh look.. user no longer on site surprise!

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over a year ago


"The site doesn't give an option for fat. I'm just fat but as I'm female it falls into curves and I have boobs so some will call me voluptuous.

How we view ourselves and how others view us are not always the same things. The descriptors mean different things to different people. You make your choices on how you like and leave everyone else to do the same."

ditto

Thing is, though, fat people can slim down or trim up if they want to but rude and critical people will find it harder to change. As you say, there is room for everyone!

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