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"I am struggling to justify paying for some new trainers but would shell out this amount on a night out in the scene or on a night in hotel plus travelling etc or even just at a group social. Do you find it hard to spend money on (nice) things like clothes or trainers for yourself? " No I don't find it hard to spend on clothes , the older I get the more I want to look my best | |||
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"yeah i do. i'll put off buying something by reminding myself 'that would pay for this or that and they're more important' or something.. then when i eventually do buy myself something, the guilt that comes with it is consuming. Px" Wow. This is literally me. I haven’t bought new trainers in 4/5 years. And last bought boots 2/3 years ago. | |||
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"I am struggling to justify paying for some new trainers but would shell out this amount on a night out in the scene or on a night in hotel plus travelling etc or even just at a group social. Do you find it hard to spend money on (nice) things like clothes or trainers for yourself? " Get yourself on vinted eases the burden But I always online on a Sunday before work | |||
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"I am struggling to justify paying for some new trainers but would shell out this amount on a night out in the scene or on a night in hotel plus travelling etc or even just at a group social. Do you find it hard to spend money on (nice) things like clothes or trainers for yourself? " Trainers is the one thing that I justify splurging on. Comfort is everything. Plus your feet ain't getting any bigger so if you look after them and have a few pairs to rotate they'll last forever | |||
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"Yes I do find it difficult buying clothes as a treat I’d rather spend it on wallpaper or things to DIY Had one pair of boots and 1 pair trainers for 4 years, I really need to get new ones but then I dislike those sports stores staff" Online shopping is a thing | |||
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"Treat, yes. As in, I don't actually need it or the money needs to go elsewhere. If I need something then I get it as and when I can, I don't go without because I need to have footwear and clothes just like the children do. It usually takes me longer to buy something for myself because I'm really fussy about what I wear and it takes ages to find what I like. " I jus Take you shopping with me and you say buy it all | |||
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"Unfortunately I wish I did struggle to treat myself because jesussssss where’s all my money " Become a professional art thief and make millions | |||
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"I am struggling to justify paying for some new trainers but would shell out this amount on a night out in the scene or on a night in hotel plus travelling etc or even just at a group social. Do you find it hard to spend money on (nice) things like clothes or trainers for yourself? " This may be sad that i think this way about clothes, but hear me out....£100....wear them 10 times they're a tenner. 100, a pound each time....u get a few years out of them it's pennies.....if u think u will get ur monies worth, go for it mate.....I struggle to buy for myself so end up working it out this way if its not something a desperately want......then I just buy it and fuck the consequences Yes I know that's contradictory | |||
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"Sometimes yes. Sometimes no. I spent about 4 months not buying new shoes even though I needed some. But in the past couple of weeks I've ordered myself 3 absurd dildos. So I guess it depends if it's a necessity or just a want really 💜" How obsurd? Asking for the group | |||
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"Hubby loves trainers but he doesn't wear most of the ones he buys. He used to go to 'specialist' shops in town to purchase what he called Originals, most of these from the 80s. But he just keeps getting parcels delivered now and they just spend time stacked up in a wardrobe. They don't even see the light of day. It's frustrating because he never misses ant parcels I have delivered and always asks me why I need more shoes, dresses, whatever, cheeky that. When I quiz him he says they are an investment... bollocks. Hate trainers, well his trainers anyway. Mrs x" I love those shops there is one here with trainers and T-shirts all shrink wrapped since the 80s. I’d be worried they would just disintegrate once opened | |||
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"I am struggling to justify paying for some new trainers but would shell out this amount on a night out in the scene or on a night in hotel plus travelling etc or even just at a group social. Do you find it hard to spend money on (nice) things like clothes or trainers for yourself? " I have the opposite problem - I buy myself too many treats. It's that dopamine hit when I click 'buy now'. | |||
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"I bought the trainers. And a new bag while I was there. " Result Jordans by any chance? | |||
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"I bought the trainers. And a new bag while I was there. Result Jordans by any chance?" I’m not made of money | |||
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"I bought the trainers. And a new bag while I was there. Result Jordans by any chance? I’m not made of money " Well when you said night out money, i just assumed 😎 | |||
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"I bought the trainers. And a new bag while I was there. " Yay! X | |||
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"Hubby loves trainers but he doesn't wear most of the ones he buys. He used to go to 'specialist' shops in town to purchase what he called Originals, most of these from the 80s. But he just keeps getting parcels delivered now and they just spend time stacked up in a wardrobe. They don't even see the light of day. It's frustrating because he never misses ant parcels I have delivered and always asks me why I need more shoes, dresses, whatever, cheeky that. When I quiz him he says they are an investment... bollocks. Hate trainers, well his trainers anyway. Mrs x I love those shops there is one here with trainers and T-shirts all shrink wrapped since the 80s. I’d be worried they would just disintegrate once opened" I can tell you from experience that they don't, mores the pity. He doesnt just collect originals, he even buys new editions of existing trainers. He loves Adidas and I think he loves Samba the best. We must have had almost a dozen different variants of Samba in the last few months. I don't just mean colours but slightly different designs. He's like a kid showing me but to be honest I cannot tell the difference but he seems made up with them. Think he loves them more than me. Mrs x | |||
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