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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Depending how long they been members....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how long they've been here. I've met unverified men before. Everyone has to start somewhere

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no ..l don't mind

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

I don't treat them as a no go area. I just apply some extra caution and take longer to talk to them.

The loads of fake profiles are to blame for that tbh there have probably been a lot of genuine newbies join and leave because no one would take them on because people thought they were timewasters or whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how long they've been here. I've met unverified men before. Everyone has to start somewhere "

If they are fairly new then it would not necessary put me off, but if they have been on here for "over a year" then I probably would not meet.

x

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"I don't treat them as a no go area. I just apply some extra caution and take longer to talk to them.

The loads of fake profiles are to blame for that tbh there have probably been a lot of genuine newbies join and leave because no one would take them on because people thought they were timewasters or whatever"

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, as you have been on here for 9m months and have no meet verifications - what are your thoughts? Do you find yourselves a No Go area?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not if they're new members.... But 6months or more and no verifications would be likely I'd steer clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area "

yes

and they cant email me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only here for chat/forum, so i'll be one of those no-go types in 6 to 12 months time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope , not bothered by veris everyone has to start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if my lack of meets is down to not having verifications

Just wish one of you ladies would take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, as you have been on here for 9m months and have no meet verifications - what are your thoughts? Do you find yourselves a No Go area?

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That would be my question.

It comes down to lots of factors. Length of time on site - especially when profiles say they've been here before (surely it's relatively easy to get an old aquaintence to verify you?) - is the main one though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have been here 6 months or longer without one we tend to think of them as not serious about actual play mire into the idea but not actually up for meeting.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"OP, as you have been on here for 9m months and have no meet verifications - what are your thoughts? Do you find yourselves a No Go area?

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Good shout

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I think the only option is to read profiles, strike up a conversation and see where it goes from there. After all, there are some verified folk on here I wouldn't touch with someone else's barge pole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a meet but it was with someone who wasn't verified so we can't verify each other. So id say there's a few people on here who are genuine but can't verify due to the rules on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I've met people without verifications so they mean naff all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a meet but it was with someone who wasn't verified so we can't verify each other. So id say there's a few people on here who are genuine but can't verify due to the rules on here "

ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, as you have been on here for 9m months and have no meet verifications - what are your thoughts? Do you find yourselves a No Go area?

Good shout "

I wouldn't go there

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Interesting to read this thread as I have no veris - not because I haven't met a few people but because I don't like veris.

Why don't I like them ?

1) They are never anything but simperingly complimentary - too many people will write any old tosh in the hope that they'll receive equal praise in return.

2) They are misleading. Have you ever read one that read "she was 10 years older and 10 dress sizes larger than the woman in the pic that she sent me" ? No, you haven't, which is a shame because if you had, I'd have read it too, and I'd never have met her . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting to read this thread as I have no veris - not because I haven't met a few people but because I don't like veris.

Why don't I like them ?

1) They are never anything but simperingly complimentary - too many people will write any old tosh in the hope that they'll receive equal praise in return.

2) They are misleading. Have you ever read one that read "she was 10 years older and 10 dress sizes larger than the woman in the pic that she sent me" ? No, you haven't, which is a shame because if you had, I'd have read it too, and I'd never have met her . . ."

I do have a couple of veris from when I very first started but never show them , you get a from me with this answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting to read this thread as I have no veris - not because I haven't met a few people but because I don't like veris.

Why don't I like them ?

1) They are never anything but simperingly complimentary - too many people will write any old tosh in the hope that they'll receive equal praise in return.

2) They are misleading. Have you ever read one that read "she was 10 years older and 10 dress sizes larger than the woman in the pic that she sent me" ? No, you haven't, which is a shame because if you had, I'd have read it too, and I'd never have met her . . ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting to read this thread as I have no veris - not because I haven't met a few people but because I don't like veris.

Why don't I like them ?

1) They are never anything but simperingly complimentary - too many people will write any old tosh in the hope that they'll receive equal praise in return.

2) They are misleading. Have you ever read one that read "she was 10 years older and 10 dress sizes larger than the woman in the pic that she sent me" ? No, you haven't, which is a shame because if you had, I'd have read it too, and I'd never have met her . . .

I do have a couple of veris from when I very first started but never show them , you get a from me with this answer "

from me too. Heard of too many instances where the veri system has been abused - my partner came across one this week (must remember to help her report it) - to put too much faith in it, but... if someone has been on here six months or more and not got any at all, it does put a great big question mark in my mind about whether they are either not here really to meet, or are just the proverbial 'T' word... so I go very cautiously if I do talk to them.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner


"It does put a great big question mark in my mind about whether they are either not here really to meet, or are just the proverbial 'T' word... so I go very cautiously if I do talk to them."

I didn't think the site was exclusively for the use of people who want to meet in person. And verifications are not the be all and end all of assessing the suitability of potential meets.

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By *oxerjoshleeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Anyone without a verification should be shot.... and anyone who dares to wink should be totured slowly until death.

IM OUTRAGED JUST THINKING ABOUT IT *********************

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone without a verification should be shot.... and anyone who dares to wink should be totured slowly until death.

IM OUTRAGED JUST THINKING ABOUT IT *********************"

and don't forget them that hide verifications or even profile

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By *oxerjoshleeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Anyone without a verification should be shot.... and anyone who dares to wink should be totured slowly until death.

IM OUTRAGED JUST THINKING ABOUT IT *********************

and don't forget them that hide verifications or even profile "

Grrrrrr I'm REALLY CROSS NOW!!! Makes me want to lash out

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I am delighted to gleefully announce that I just got another veri which means I am very real indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone without a verification should be shot.... and anyone who dares to wink should be totured slowly until death.

IM OUTRAGED JUST THINKING ABOUT IT *********************"

lmao.

I have no verifications on here as i deleted my old profile for a while and then came back. I have a met a couple recently which also have no verifications because neither of us have been verified by verified users. Doesn't really matter to me but does to an awful lot of others

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I wonder if my lack of meets is down to not having verifications

Just wish one of you ladies would take one for the team "

Get yerself to la chambre for the open day on the 28th and im sure you'll find someone to verify you.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I wonder if my lack of meets is down to not having verifications

Just wish one of you ladies would take one for the team "

I was going to volunteer until I read that you won't drop your pants to the first lady who messages you. Then I decided it was pretty pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting to read this thread as I have no veris - not because I haven't met a few people but because I don't like veris.

Why don't I like them ?

1) They are never anything but simperingly complimentary - too many people will write any old tosh in the hope that they'll receive equal praise in return.

2) They are misleading. Have you ever read one that read "she was 10 years older and 10 dress sizes larger than the woman in the pic that she sent me" ? No, you haven't, which is a shame because if you had, I'd have read it too, and I'd never have met her . . ."

whilst i have had a few meets, i am not bothered by the veri's. I would much rather have fun and a good time. oohhh well looks like it will get harder and harder to meet people.

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton

in case anyone thinks that i'm a hypocrite . . .

i've revised my opinion about showing veris, although i still think that they're daft.

the logic is simple : there are clearly many people to whom veris matter, and i don't want to exclude myself from those people's company simply because we don't share the same view of veris.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area "

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

They help, but they aren't the only deciding factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, as you have been on here for 9m months and have no meet verifications - what are your thoughts? Do you find yourselves a No Go area?

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Out thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, as you have been on here for 9m months and have no meet verifications - what are your thoughts? Do you find yourselves a No Go area?

Out thoughts too"

Or even 'our'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few comments stating that veri's are irrelevant from people stating that they've had meets but don't want them or choose to show them.

Some of these comments came from those with little green ticks - some without.

Regardless of your view on visibility of veri's - does it not make sense to have that important little green tick, rather than just a green flag - or nothing?

There's nothing stopping someone hiding veri's. But whenever I hear the old 'Ive had meets but don't want veri's statement I get a tad suspicious that its not simply BS!

And since there's a filter option to block the unverified from messaging you - aren't people shooting themselves in the foot by not getting verified?

All seems a bit odd to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no diff to us, as the truth be known we have never read any that say shit cpl or shit shag, so we can only presume that everyone that's has been verified must be the dogs bollocks and if you believe that you will believe anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had 1 meet with a male couple when I was in my bi curious stage who would verify me.... but think it would look a little odd having it seeing as profile says im straight.... now that I know I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had 1 meet with a male couple when I was in my bi curious stage who would verify me.... but think it would look a little odd having it seeing as profile says im straight.... now that I know I am."

But it did say bi curious back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area "

See it how you prfer. I dont have verifications on mine mainly because I have not met anyone yet. It has been a case of not available for a meet cos of outside work commitments and also finding ladies that take enough interest in you for a meet within the short time I am on here.

I do however reply to forum topics I find interesting no matter where in the world I am.

So if there is a lady out there who find me nteresting enough for a drink or/and meet...do get in touch. You will be treated with respect either way

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I've seen a few comments stating that veri's are irrelevant from people stating that they've had meets but don't want them or choose to show them.

Some of these comments came from those with little green ticks - some without.

Regardless of your view on visibility of veri's - does it not make sense to have that important little green tick, rather than just a green flag - or nothing?

There's nothing stopping someone hiding veri's. But whenever I hear the old 'Ive had meets but don't want veri's statement I get a tad suspicious that its not simply BS!

And since there's a filter option to block the unverified from messaging you - aren't people shooting themselves in the foot by not getting verified?

All seems a bit odd to me? "

Etrange!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area "

No!

I do find strange that people do not get photo verified..its a good starting point is it not OP?

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By *ir LongLanceMan
over a year ago

hull

I found it difficult at first... a lot of people didnt believe it was me in my pics!? But after a while of talking to people a got a couple of meets and got verified... just takes time.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I found it difficult at first... a lot of people didnt believe it was me in my pics!? But after a while of talking to people a got a couple of meets and got verified... just takes time."

May I ask why they thought that? Just curious really.

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By *ir LongLanceMan
over a year ago

hull


"I found it difficult at first... a lot of people didnt believe it was me in my pics!? But after a while of talking to people a got a couple of meets and got verified... just takes time.

May I ask why they thought that? Just curious really. "

Some thought my pics were fake!!??

Some even though i was photo verified were unsure because i wasnt verified in person... thankfully somebody took the plunge and gambled on me lol..... needless to say she was a very happy bunny after lol

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By *rnmrsinkedCouple
over a year ago

wednesbury

I want a sexy meet anyone up for it

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By *ir LongLanceMan
over a year ago

hull


"I want a sexy meet anyone up for it "

If only you were closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area

No!

I do find strange that people do not get photo verified..its a good starting point is it not OP? "

I'm not photo verified and I won't ever do that. Verifications mean nothing. I'm not bothered if people don't have any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area "

Certainly not. We have been on this site for approaching 2 years and only got a veri a couple of weeks ago.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area

No!

I do find strange that people do not get photo verified..its a good starting point is it not OP?

I'm not photo verified and I won't ever do that. Verifications mean nothing. I'm not bothered if people don't have any. "

I agree with you and I am not bothered either, all I was trying to say is that if the person finds it difficult to get veri from either meeting in person or because they do not have a cam, being photo verified is a start. It will mean nothing to some but may reassure others.

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By *ir LongLanceMan
over a year ago

hull


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area

No!

I do find strange that people do not get photo verified..its a good starting point is it not OP?

I'm not photo verified and I won't ever do that. Verifications mean nothing. I'm not bothered if people don't have any. "

Why would you never fo that??? Its not like you have to display it? Dont understand?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area "

I do. It's just one of my filtering processes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area "

if everyone did that no one would get any meets lol....i do take a little more time but i take time with any meet first anyway xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it has some bearing on whether you send a message or not to that person. I've been on here a while now but had no joy with anyone. I'm not the best looking guy either so I don't think I have much hope really lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area "

We both have a single profile as well as our couples , we are doing he meets one she meets one , its simple

She has had her go but as a single guy it's really hard to meet someone local from here so we have given up and will only. Meet as a couple

Doesn't mean we are not genuine just means we can't find anyone local worthy of the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area "

Pretty much yes......and even cam only verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I tend to block people who message me with no varifications. I automatically think they are fake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area

We both have a single profile as well as our couples , we are doing he meets one she meets one , its simple

She has had her go but as a single guy it's really hard to meet someone local from here so we have given up and will only. Meet as a couple

Doesn't mean we are not genuine just means we can't find anyone local worthy of the attention "

I hope the good people of Hampshire will forgive that last comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people on fabs look at a profile with no verifications as a no go area

No!

I do find strange that people do not get photo verified..its a good starting point is it not OP?

I'm not photo verified and I won't ever do that. Verifications mean nothing. I'm not bothered if people don't have any.

I agree with you and I am not bothered either, all I was trying to say is that if the person finds it difficult to get veri from either meeting in person or because they do not have a cam, being photo verified is a start. It will mean nothing to some but may reassure others. "

Fair enough. Sorry I wasn't trying to say it was a bad idea, it's just not for me. It can help. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see the issue with verifications, in terms of 'potential' member safety but a verified user is no less a danger than a non verified one (imo)

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By *45plusMan
over a year ago

chichester

I have no veri's and been here a while because of and injury which meant I couldn't meet and now it seems like a catch 22 ..Can't meet because no verification and can't be verified without a meet...may delete and re-do profile but will also be at AbFabs soon so hopefully someone says Hi

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By *45plusMan
over a year ago

chichester

Also its far harder for a single guy to be verified as couples and single women tend to only go for verified single guys... whereas most single guys and couples would meet an unverified single woman ... catch22 or sexism? You decide lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also its far harder for a single guy to be verified as couples and single women tend to only go for verified single guys... whereas most single guys and couples would meet an unverified single woman ... catch22 or sexism? You decide lol "

Ok say a 4 month old unverified single man wouldn't be really questioned by us as being genuine. An unverified woman....well that's a different story. I wouldn't say its sexism but there is a different perspective.

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