FabSwingers.com forum: Shopping help required!

By *erIndoors OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Essex

As a total shopping addict, I never thought I'd need help in this area but I'm planning ahead for new adventures.

Where do I find outfits for club nights? Anything I should know about or avoid?

Also, I really struggle in heels, what can I wear that won't kill my feet or the look of lovely lingerie?

Is walking around in stocking'd feet a big no no?

If heels are essential, would I easily find a nice strong man to carry me around 😂

Thanks in advance for helping a newbie out...it's a nerve-wracking world for a newly-out single bi lady x

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By *avexxMan
3 weeks ago

cheshire

you can have my arms carry you around

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Loads of women arrive at clubs in heels and take them off if it's too much. Your comfort is what's important. Check what club dress code rules are. I know at the central station bar footwear is mandatory as they have had floors and serve drinks in glass.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"Loads of women arrive at clubs in heels and take them off if it's too much. Your comfort is what's important. Check what club dress code rules are. I know at the central station bar footwear is mandatory as they have had floors and serve drinks in glass. "

*Hard floors

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By *arla SwingerWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere

You might find shoes are more essential in terms of you not wanting to walk around without them

. Especially whilst going to the toilets. I wear heels and take a pair of ballet shoes to pop in my locker. The flats normally win later in the night

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By *he Silver FuxMan
3 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"As a total shopping addict, I never thought I'd need help in this area but I'm planning ahead for new adventures.

Where do I find outfits for club nights? Anything I should know about or avoid?

Also, I really struggle in heels, what can I wear that won't kill my feet or the look of lovely lingerie?

Is walking around in stocking'd feet a big no no?

If heels are essential, would I easily find a nice strong man to carry me around 😂

Thanks in advance for helping a newbie out...it's a nerve-wracking world for a newly-out single bi lady x"

Crocs and a Fishnet body stocking

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By *erIndoors OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Essex

Perfect, thanks ladies xx

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By *erIndoors OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Essex

Crocs and a Fishnet body stocking"

Oooff now that's an image!! 😂

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By *erIndoors OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Essex

"you can have my arms carry you around

What a gent! 😘

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By *winging for the fencesMan
3 weeks ago

london

"you can have my arms carry you around

What a gent! 😘"

I can help by watching you try on different outfits and lingerie and giving you feedback

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By *arla SwingerWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere

Also as you asked about outfits - my top tips are taking a second pair of stockings/fishnets in case the first set get laddered. I also take my own dressing gown, by that I mean just a little satin or lace one so I can pop that on vs a towel. The beauty of lockers is you can take a bag stuffed with extras

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

Shein, Amazon and eBay have lots of club outfits and lingerie. A low-ish heeled block mule will give a flattering look with stockings/lingerie but will still be comfortable. Fluffy slippers could also work, depending on the style

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By *leaningdutiesMan
3 weeks ago

South London

Lovehoney might be a good place to look,site supporters also get a discount on there too

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By *he Silver FuxMan
3 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Also see the vanillatovixen website

It’s an online store run by thenaughtycpl of the Vanilla to Vixen podcast

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By *JcuriousCouple
3 weeks ago

Derby

I've got a very comfy pair of heeled knee high boots from Asda, I can walk, dance, fuck and everything Inbetween in those!

Outfits wise, I tend to wear out-out club night wear as our regular club isn't a dress down must. Just tend to go for a bit more daring shorter skirts and cleavage showing outfits.

Shein and Temu are good ones for sexy cheap club/lingerie wear if you don't want to spend the earth as I know sometimes things can get "ruined" in a club environment.

Miss S x

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By *BWmetalcouple666Couple
3 weeks ago

houghton

"As a total shopping addict, I never thought I'd need help in this area but I'm planning ahead for new adventures.

Where do I find outfits for club nights? Anything I should know about or avoid?

Also, I really struggle in heels, what can I wear that won't kill my feet or the look of lovely lingerie?

Is walking around in stocking'd feet a big no no?

If heels are essential, would I easily find a nice strong man to carry me around 😂

Thanks in advance for helping a newbie out...it's a nerve-wracking world for a newly-out single bi lady x

Crocs and a Fishnet body stocking"

The height of fashion IMO

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By *hrista BellendWoman
3 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I wear ballet shoes, because of others potential fungal infections and verrucas

Also because of the slippery untied discarded full condom, yes it is like stepping on slug barefoot

With crotchless suspender tights and a lacey chemise, no need to get undressed for sex then

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By *he Silver FuxMan
3 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"I wear ballet shoes, because of others potential fungal infections and verrucas

Also because of the slippery untied discarded full condom, yes it is like stepping on slug barefoot

With crotchless suspender tights and a lacey chemise, no need to get undressed for sex then

I always like sexy AND convenient 😻

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By *orphia2003Woman
3 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Flat knee high or over knee boots are my staple.

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By *erigold300Couple
3 weeks ago

Doncaster

I love KillStar for clothes.

I love Hot Chocolate for shoes.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Stockport

A lot of the outfits in my more recent photos are from Shein, some of the slightly older pics are bodysuits from Primark. I'd recommend going bright colours but budget, you want to be seen and look good, not be worrying about what your beautiful silk negligee might get stained with.

Maybe try some one inch heels or similar, not quite flats, something you can feel good in but also be able to walk okay. If there's a hot tub though, take crocs or other pool sandals for that. And a pair of flats for coming home or just for later in the evening. TBH nobody is really going to be looking at your shoes, they're going to be looking at you 😘♥️

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