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By *JB1954 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Reading

Outed by someone who knows me. Yet due to their settings did not know on here.

I will not give details but . Tonight someone I know message ( from another message app) and stated I was on here. This has pissed me off.

They have seen my profile and obviously blocked me from seeing theirs.

Then send message on another app to say I am on here

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By *r John WickMan
3 weeks ago

The Continental

Just ignore them and block them from any other apps too.

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By *JB1954 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Reading


"Just ignore them and block them from any other apps too.

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Yes have blocked from other apps. Just to say a bit complicated as know family . So have family members on same app.

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By *adam PadamWoman
3 weeks ago

leeds

This happened to me years ago, a work colleague. He was looking thru his friends fab. Messaged me on Whatsapp, totally inappropriate and ignoring the discretion.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Stockport

They're obviously just an arsehole. Do you have any idea of their profile name (don't say it on here mind, site rules are very definite, naming will lead to blocking from the forum and in extreme cases even banning from the site). May be worth dropping a line to admin to warn that this person is liable to be bad news. You won't get direct feedback from the admin but they will take a look, people like that are bad for the site.

You should just block them on all other apps though and ignore. You're not doing anything wrong being on fab. Everyone has sex, or wants to have sex. Anyone being holier-than-thou is just a liar and a hypocrite. Don't let them steal your oxygen. Polly xx

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By *JB1954 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Reading


"This happened to me years ago, a work colleague. He was looking thru his friends fab. Messaged me on Whatsapp, totally inappropriate and ignoring the discretion. "

Yes totally agree as what happened tonight should not have occurred. Yet has happened . Friendship now ruined . If yes I am on here. Then only way to see my profile is being a member ?

Yet reason for outing me was nothing to with Fab site .

Very very very pissed off

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Outed by someone who knows me. Yet due to their settings did not know on here.

I will not give details but . Tonight someone I know message ( from another message app) and stated I was on here. This has pissed me off.

They have seen my profile and obviously blocked me from seeing theirs.

Then send message on another app to say I am on here "

When you say 'outed' do you mean they've informed someone else that you're on Fab, or just that they've let you know they've seen you on here themselves?

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By *JB1954 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Reading


"They're obviously just an arsehole. Do you have any idea of their profile name (don't say it on here mind, site rules are very definite, naming will lead to blocking from the forum and in extreme cases even banning from the site). May be worth dropping a line to admin to warn that this person is liable to be bad news. You won't get direct feedback from the admin but they will take a look, people like that are bad for the site.

You should just block them on all other apps though and ignore. You're not doing anything wrong being on fab. Everyone has sex, or wants to have sex. Anyone being holier-than-thou is just a liar and a hypocrite. Don't let them steal your oxygen. Polly xx"

I have no idea of site name of their profile. Then way I found out was. A message stating I was-on Fab. . Yes have been for a lot of years.

Message I had was from person . I could respond to other messages . (Fab named) But not to them.

Basically . Person had joined Fab. Seen my profile and blocked.

Due to messages on another app yesterday got pissed off . There was good reason. So now problem

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By *JB1954 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Reading


"They're obviously just an arsehole. Do you have any idea of their profile name (don't say it on here mind, site rules are very definite, naming will lead to blocking from the forum and in extreme cases even banning from the site). May be worth dropping a line to admin to warn that this person is liable to be bad news. You won't get direct feedback from the admin but they will take a look, people like that are bad for the site.

You should just block them on all other apps though and ignore. You're not doing anything wrong being on fab. Everyone has sex, or wants to have sex. Anyone being holier-than-thou is just a liar and a hypocrite. Don't let them steal your oxygen. Polly xx"

I have no idea of site name of their profile. Then way I found out was. A message stating I was-on Fab. . Yes have been for a lot of years.

Message I had was from person . I could respond to other messages . (Fab named) But not to them.

Basically . Person had joined Fab. Seen my profile and blocked.

Due to messages on another app yesterday got pissed off . There was good reason. So now problem

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central


"They're obviously just an arsehole. Do you have any idea of their profile name (don't say it on here mind, site rules are very definite, naming will lead to blocking from the forum and in extreme cases even banning from the site). May be worth dropping a line to admin to warn that this person is liable to be bad news. You won't get direct feedback from the admin but they will take a look, people like that are bad for the site.

You should just block them on all other apps though and ignore. You're not doing anything wrong being on fab. Everyone has sex, or wants to have sex. Anyone being holier-than-thou is just a liar and a hypocrite. Don't let them steal your oxygen. Polly xx"

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By *AYENCouple
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Why worry, you're (presumably) on here looking for sex - it's what single people do, so it's really no big deal. I understand that your privacy should be respected, but being on here isn't anything to be embarrassed about.

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By *8on33Man
3 weeks ago

winfrith


"Outed by someone who knows me. Yet due to their settings did not know on here.

I will not give details but . Tonight someone I know message ( from another message app) and stated I was on here. This has pissed me off.

They have seen my profile and obviously blocked me from seeing theirs.

Then send message on another app to say I am on here "
So you're an adult you can be here .

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Whenever I've had a close call the first thing I do is hide my profile. Be a bit crazy to post on the site about it and still have my photos visible. It might help until this has blown over.

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By *JB1954 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Reading

Thanks for replies. Yes a bit complicated . I have blocked on other app female and her relatives. Did get a message from one not happy . Did not reply as could not give reason why block.

I like all ? On here realise that by putting photo’s profiles up can be recognised ? So know risk.

I have worked in IT and yes seen , had like others photo’s used on other sites.

Nothing is safe.

I an a widower , so now single. What I do is up to me ?

Not for others to decide or then message me to say on sex site ? When they are on there or was also ?

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By *othwaysnudeMan
3 weeks ago

chesterfield

Happened to me 3 times and twice we agreed to meet and fuck so not all bad

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