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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago

Are you someone who enjoys having crushes on people? Do you enjoy the feeling of liking someone even if you're not sure they like you back?

Personally I find crushes painful - when I'm with the person I worry that the crush is showing and when I'm not around them for a few days I wish I were.

Also, do you find sometimes your crushes are with inappropriate people - the partners of others, or people with whom there's a substantial age difference, or are you able to switch feelings off in those cases?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

There’s a lot of rejection in my life and yet I enjoy crushes because I clearly can’t get enough

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
40 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I always find that the people I'm crushing on, don't like me like that in return so I find the whole crush thing rather painful lol

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By *sWyldWoman
40 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I've not had a crush, an in person proper one, for a long time. Sadly when I did, they didn't feel the same way.

A mutual crush with all that giddy energy, sizzling chemistry and fun would be very welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I love a good crush. I occasionally get them at work. I have one on a guy and everyone knows about it, even the guy. He's very flirty when we chat and I feel myself blushing. That feeling is more fun than actually acting upon it.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"I love a good crush. I occasionally get them at work. I have one on a guy and everyone knows about it, even the guy. He's very flirty when we chat and I feel myself blushing. That feeling is more fun than actually acting upon it. "

Ok work crushes are good. Only thing I like about work at the moment

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By *eliWoman
40 weeks ago

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I quite like having a little crush on someone - it gives me a frisson of excitement, that daft smile that plays across my lips when I see them or read a message from them. It doesn't mean that I like them romantically, it's just a crush. Fun, exciting. I like finding out it's reciprocated, those little subtle clues. I'm quite cautious so it's not been unreciprocated so far.

I like kissing someone I have a crush on. When does a crush become something else?

The age gap thing is never a thing for me. Well, a bad thing.

That song is going through my head as I type this, won't lie.

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By *rincipessaWoman
40 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

I have a love/hate relationship with them. Great when you’re feeling it and it’s all secret or if it’s reciprocated. Shit when it’s not or crumbles and falls apart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
40 weeks ago


"I quite like having a little crush on someone - it gives me a frisson of excitement, that daft smile that plays across my lips when I see them or read a message from them. It doesn't mean that I like them romantically, it's just a crush. Fun, exciting. I like finding out it's reciprocated, those little subtle clues. I'm quite cautious so it's not been unreciprocated so far.

I like kissing someone I have a crush on. When does a crush become something else?

The age gap thing is never a thing for me. Well, a bad thing.

That song is going through my head as I type this, won't lie. "

Which song? I'm getting old so increasingly I have no idea about new music.

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By *eliWoman
40 weeks ago

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"I quite like having a little crush on someone - it gives me a frisson of excitement, that daft smile that plays across my lips when I see them or read a message from them. It doesn't mean that I like them romantically, it's just a crush. Fun, exciting. I like finding out it's reciprocated, those little subtle clues. I'm quite cautious so it's not been unreciprocated so far.

I like kissing someone I have a crush on. When does a crush become something else?

The age gap thing is never a thing for me. Well, a bad thing.

That song is going through my head as I type this, won't lie.

Which song? I'm getting old so increasingly I have no idea about new music."

Ha it's an old song! Jennifer Paige I think. Crush. Off to listen to it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I’ve had a shit tonne of fab crushes

Then spoken to them 🤣🤣🤣

Nah - seriously I don’t do crushes. I do interest in the way someone presents. A hmmmmm thing.

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
40 weeks ago

longeaton,ng10

My daughters friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"I quite like having a little crush on someone - it gives me a frisson of excitement, that daft smile that plays across my lips when I see them or read a message from them. It doesn't mean that I like them romantically, it's just a crush. Fun, exciting. I like finding out it's reciprocated, those little subtle clues. I'm quite cautious so it's not been unreciprocated so far.

I like kissing someone I have a crush on. When does a crush become something else?

The age gap thing is never a thing for me. Well, a bad thing.

That song is going through my head as I type this, won't lie.

Which song? I'm getting old so increasingly I have no idea about new music.

Ha it's an old song! Jennifer Paige I think. Crush. Off to listen to it now. "

You've spread an ear worm infection!!!! Off to the virus thread with you

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By *avexxMan
40 weeks ago

cheshire

crushes at my age nah.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
40 weeks ago

North West

Not really just from fab. In person I've definitely had crushes. And I do enjoy that feeling, the flutters and excitement. Luckily the biggest crush was reciprocated.

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By *G74Woman
40 weeks ago

Blackburn

I enjoy feeling a good crush and messaging and knowing how they doing and being told they want me as much as much as I want them ... i find i crush a lot and over think and feel i am a pest though so end up befriending them without them realising how much I'm crushing... I over complicate things but probably all in my own head 🙈

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
40 weeks ago

Reading

No not at all.

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By *orngryMan
25 weeks ago

Hull

I have multi crushes and I see them everyday lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading

I get bored with the lack of reciprocity so they never last long.

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By *ife NinjaMan
25 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I have a work crush. We've danced and kissed, but she is so shy.....it'll never be 😬

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By *oyeurmaxMan
25 weeks ago

Plymouth

I probably haven't had a crush for about 50 years. I see some profiles on Fab and think, " I wouldn't mind knowing more about them".

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By *elix SightedMan
25 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I get crushes, occasionally. And when I crush, I crush hard, but I always keep it to myself. It’s a wonderful feeling to fancy everything about someone so completely they pervade your thoughts, daydreams, and feelings about yourself. But, as nice as that is, it’s horrible to know that no matter how much you like someone, they can or will never be yours.

I’ve had one crush on fab that still has smouldering embers but is otherwise dead. She isn’t interested

I’ve had a number of crushes at work and in my private life and none of them have been fulfilled, with one notable exception - the love of my life - but that ended in 2013. I should stop allowing my mind to do this to me but I suspect I’ll never manage that.

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands

Nell Gwynn👌

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By *elix SightedMan
25 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Neil Gwynn👌"

Top bloke

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By *es not the MessiahMan
25 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Hate having crushes as they are always one sided

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I think roughly it'll be around about Runcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"I get crushes, occasionally. And when I crush, I crush hard, but I always keep it to myself. It’s a wonderful feeling to fancy everything about someone so completely they pervade your thoughts, daydreams, and feelings about yourself. But, as nice as that is, it’s horrible to know that no matter how much you like someone, they can or will never be yours.

I’ve had one crush on fab that still has smouldering embers but is otherwise dead. She isn’t interested

I’ve had a number of crushes at work and in my private life and none of them have been fulfilled, with one notable exception - the love of my life - but that ended in 2013. I should stop allowing my mind to do this to me but I suspect I’ll never manage that."

Can I just say bravo for how honest and raw this post is 😘

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
25 weeks ago

North West

I currently have a bit of a work crush on one of the senior managers. We teams call twice a week and his nerdiness just makes me swoon. When I visit his home office I get a hug and I swoon a bit more … *sigh*

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
25 weeks ago

IPSWICH


"I get crushes, occasionally. And when I crush, I crush hard, but I always keep it to myself. It’s a wonderful feeling to fancy everything about someone so completely they pervade your thoughts, daydreams, and feelings about yourself. But, as nice as that is, it’s horrible to know that no matter how much you like someone, they can or will never be yours.

I’ve had one crush on fab that still has smouldering embers but is otherwise dead. She isn’t interested

I’ve had a number of crushes at work and in my private life and none of them have been fulfilled, with one notable exception - the love of my life - but that ended in 2013. I should stop allowing my mind to do this to me but I suspect I’ll never manage that."

That sounds far too familiar. 😟

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"There’s a lot of rejection in my life and yet I enjoy crushes because I clearly can’t get enough "

I’ve come a long way in 16 weeks.

Crushes are boring. Not into them.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
24 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No. I don’t really have them. If someone doesn’t like me back I lose all interest. Has to be a mutual thing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

It's just..

.. a little crush

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
24 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"It's just.. .. a little crush "

The cover of that by The Dismemberment Plan absolutely breaks me. In a good way.

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By *eoBloomsMan
24 weeks ago

Springfield


"No. I don’t really have them. If someone doesn’t like me back I lose all interest. Has to be a mutual thing for me. "

Amazingly my son (20) asked me for relationship advice recently although he may have been taking the p. One thing I said was don't waste time (yours and theirs) on unreciprocated feelings. When we have strong feelings/attraction for someone it can be very hard to accept its one way traffic, but it is always better to get over it asap and move on.

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By *elix SightedMan
24 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"I get crushes, occasionally. And when I crush, I crush hard, but I always keep it to myself. It’s a wonderful feeling to fancy everything about someone so completely they pervade your thoughts, daydreams, and feelings about yourself. But, as nice as that is, it’s horrible to know that no matter how much you like someone, they can or will never be yours.

I’ve had one crush on fab that still has smouldering embers but is otherwise dead. She isn’t interested

I’ve had a number of crushes at work and in my private life and none of them have been fulfilled, with one notable exception - the love of my life - but that ended in 2013. I should stop allowing my mind to do this to me but I suspect I’ll never manage that.

Can I just say bravo for how honest and raw this post is 😘"

Thank you, Misty 🤗 I can be serious when it’s absolutely necessary.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
24 weeks ago

Reading

I have a lot of crushes. Mostly on people who are not available, emotionally or otherwise. Sometimes, because I’m a headcase, I have crushes on those thaf showed an interest in me but I’ve said it can’t work out and then constantly thought of them 🤦‍♀️

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By *ros40Man
24 weeks ago

Bedford

Got a few gym crushes, won't ever be more than that though

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
24 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Every person I’ve ever had a crush on turns out to be horrible human beings 🤨

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By *uchessdoeWoman
24 weeks ago

Northampton

I almost exclusively crush on people who aren't crushing on me back, and that's probably an indicator for some therapy

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By *rHotNottsMan
24 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not since about age 14

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By *inkShyWoman
24 weeks ago

near Windsor

Usually unrequited crushes 🤗🤗🤗

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By *exyScientistsCouple
24 weeks ago

Castlebar

I have some Fab crushes...

I like having a crush, especially if I get to meet them

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By *eliWoman
24 weeks ago

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"There’s a lot of rejection in my life and yet I enjoy crushes because I clearly can’t get enough

I’ve come a long way in 16 weeks.

Crushes are boring. Not into them. "

DM me hun xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Yeah crushing on someone and then getting crushed not crushed on by them hurts….walks go up quickly but me tries me best

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By *he Gentleman 84Man
24 weeks ago

North East

I don’t mind a lady having a crush on me, I do like a cheeky crush in return a little cheeky wink or smile to start & it moves from there!

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