FabSwingers.com forum: I just don’t find you attractive

By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
4 weeks ago

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And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?

Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
4 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

I have weird taste in men, you’re not my kind of weird

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
4 weeks ago

Markfield

My radio doesn’t work

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By *mmaleiaWoman
4 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Don’t think I read the brief

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"Don’t think I read the brief "

That’s a good one funnily enough

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Your just not a fan of cheese so I don't think this will work.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
4 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

True story;

Was in a ‘club’… a club where you dress down; and a woman who’d been there all evening, we had exchanged some banter and general chit-chat, who had generally been polite and pleasant all evening, who’d had some fun with those she was with, just like I had with mine; she watched me go upstairs and get changed back in to my usual ‘Chad’ attire.

On seeing me come down ready for going home, she said ‘fuck me, you’re far better with your clothes on than clothes off, keep your all clothes on next time’! 👀😔😔

I’ve never been back since. Probably never will.

Regards

Chad ThunderShame 👀🫣😔🤷

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
4 weeks ago

A dazzling place you never knew

I have gone off men and become a lesbian. Sorry its me and not you.

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

Because I don't like upsetting people. Especially if they're someone consider a friend.

"I'm not currently meeting anyone". Got to keep them believing if I was I'd meet them. 🧡

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By *ony MannMan
4 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

"True story;

On seeing me come down ready for going home, she said ‘fuck me, you’re far better with your clothes on than clothes off, keep your all clothes on next time’! 👀😔😔

I think she wanted you with you zip open, but dressed

I’ve never been back since. Probably never will.

Regards

Chad ThunderShame 👀🫣😔🤷

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"I have weird taste in men, you’re not my kind of weird"

I like that one.

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By *sian FlowerWoman
4 weeks ago

Sin City X

Sorry I’m currently celibate until further notice

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By *ymClassDropoutMan
4 weeks ago

Berkshire

I think sometimes they need to say not a word. Their actions will let you know. It can be pretty blatant without a sound uttered.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"I think sometimes they need to say not a word. Their actions will let you know. It can be pretty blatant without a sound uttered. "

Sometimes I say I love you to my gf and she doesn’t say it back.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester

I go the other way - I tell them that I *do* fancy them and they run a mile in panic.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"I'm totally into you but have a herpes flair up atm" usually does the trick. Usually, but not always.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
4 weeks ago

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""I'm totally into you but have a herpes flair up atm" usually does the trick. Usually, but not always. "

You said that to be you bastard

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

"I think sometimes they need to say not a word. Their actions will let you know. It can be pretty blatant without a sound uttered. "

Actions not words

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

""I'm totally into you but have a herpes flair up atm" usually does the trick. Usually, but not always.

You said that to be you bastard "

I meant it that time

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By *eandthebossCouple
4 weeks ago

Walsall

"Sorry I’m currently celibate until further notice

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wow that sounds harsh lol

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By *iscotti32Woman
4 weeks ago

gateshead

Tell them you’ve picked out the children you’ll have togethers names and that you’ve put your names down on the waiting list for a wedding venue.

SEE YA 🏃🏻‍♀️

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
4 weeks ago

North West

I find it almost impossible to say, so I don't. I use evasions, deflection and subject changes.

What's your next thread going to be about OP?

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By *ellinever70Woman
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Unless someone is pestering for a reason why you won't meet them or have sex with them or whatever, it's probably not something that needs to be said

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
4 weeks ago

Essex

It’s incredibly hard to say. It’s hard enough approaching someone and putting your face out there. Without then being told yours ugly.

For the none serious part..::

My gods only allow me to fuck on the 7th Saturday and the witching hour. Wearing the cloth of power and divinity.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

I'm generally up for it but only with the man who gets engaged and married to me and you're possibly not ready for that yet?

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By *asterfulsoulMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester

I just remembered that girls are stupid and smelly. You reminded me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

You look like my dad.

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By *ildTimes777Man
4 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"Tell them you’ve picked out the children you’ll have togethers names and that you’ve put your names down on the waiting list for a wedding venue.

SEE YA 🏃🏻‍♀️"

Lol, brave, could definitely backfire 😬

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By *asterfulsoulMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester

"You look like my dad."

You joke but I have initially found at least two women very attractive before realising upon further inspection that they look exactly like my mother.

The whiplash those women must have felt.. eh, they probably didn't even notice

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By *iscotti32Woman
4 weeks ago

gateshead

"Tell them you’ve picked out the children you’ll have togethers names and that you’ve put your names down on the waiting list for a wedding venue.

SEE YA 🏃🏻‍♀️

Lol, brave, could definitely backfire 😬"

Then I would look forward to my life full of marriage and children 😬

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By *an1978Woman
4 weeks ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

"I need to be the pretty one"

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"I find it almost impossible to say, so I don't. I use evasions, deflection and subject changes.

What's your next thread going to be about OP? "

Ouch

I won’t know until 30 seconds before I post it

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

You look so much better at night .. True story from my friend's younger sister when we were teenagers 🤬🤬🤬😭😭😭

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
4 weeks ago

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"You look so much better at night .. True story from my friend's younger sister when we were teenagers 🤬🤬🤬😭😭😭"

😂 if someone said that to me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

We dont find them hard to say, just people find it hard to hear.

I suppose there is a level of not wanting to hurt someones feelings as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I don't like any sort of confrontation... Well it's not that I don't like it, but when I do, I find it tough to say it in a way that's not being a blunt arsehole...

And you can't go wrong with the classic "it's not you, it's me"

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
4 weeks ago

Markfield

"You look like my dad."

When I was first on fab I did actually turn down a couple of guys in quick succession as they looked so much like my ex husband and it was just all too much too soon.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
4 weeks ago

Markfield

Sorry I’m washing my sheets

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By *illy IdolMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands

Sorry, but I only date vegans

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
4 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

If it is wrong answers only

“I have had a freak cycling accident and ruptured by balls, i am going to be out of action for months ”!

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By *issFussyWoman
4 weeks ago

hitchin

Oops my bad mixed you up with someone else

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By *ymClassDropoutMan
4 weeks ago

Berkshire

"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?

Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "

Surprised no one has said ‘block user’.

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By *ah HumbugMan
4 weeks ago

here and there

You're to Wonko for me

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

If we all liked everyone, it'd be a very boring place

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
4 weeks ago

Southampton

"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?

Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "

Let me take my glasses off 🤣🤣

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
4 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Sorry I thought I'd like you more with the lights off but I forgot I have dark vision.

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
4 weeks ago

Ends

I mean I’d probably fuck you but you’re not my type at all.

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By *issFussyWoman
4 weeks ago

hitchin

Sorry what led you to think I’d be interested

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By *ildTimes777Man
4 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"Tell them you’ve picked out the children you’ll have togethers names and that you’ve put your names down on the waiting list for a wedding venue.

SEE YA 🏃🏻‍♀️

Lol, brave, could definitely backfire 😬

Then I would look forward to my life full of marriage and children 😬"

🤔🤔🤔 Try it out then.. 😂

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

"You look like my dad.

You joke but I have initially found at least two women very attractive before realising upon further inspection that they look exactly like my mother.

The whiplash those women must have felt.. eh, they probably didn't even notice

I wasn't joking

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By *ad NannaWoman
4 weeks ago

East London

"I mean I’d probably fuck you but you’re not my type at all. "

Knew it!!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
4 weeks ago

chichester

"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?

Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "

I’d just say if i was into poking pigs I’d be farmer

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"I mean I’d probably fuck you but you’re not my type at all.

Knew it!!"

Did I steal your line Nanna

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

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"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?

Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY.

I’d just say if i was into poking pigs I’d be farmer

This is outrageously funny

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By *uctifanoWoman
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?

Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "

I say “thank you but I have all I need happy fabbing” (one can adapt to other situations)

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By *nnCeeWoman
3 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

I would, but I'm about to go UNLOS...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Her: I find you attractive, we should go out sometime.

Me: have a fucking word with yourself, look at the state of you.

The mr

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By *esthetic21Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

I can't tonight I'm washing my hair

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By *ony MannMan
3 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

Take a shower

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By *oredhorny41Man
3 weeks ago

stirling

"You look like my dad."

Ill bet that doesnt deter some

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By *JcuriousCouple
3 weeks ago

Derby

Maybe we can make it work with a bag on your head?

Miss S x

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By *ffy.Woman
3 weeks ago

Fife

*searches face for glasses* “oh they’re on? Right, ok, this is awkward. Umm, no thanks.

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By *an1978Woman
3 weeks ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

"You look like my dad.

Ill bet that doesnt deter some

"I've f***Ed your dad" doesn't deter some either 😅

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By *cott14Man
3 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Because …….. Brexit 🤷‍♂️

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By *aven.Woman
3 weeks ago

Not the North West...

Luckily for you most women are all about personality, I'm not one of those women.

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By *ixenitedWoman
3 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
3 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣"

Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?

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By *ou only live onceMan
3 weeks ago

London

Got to admire that kind of lateral thinking...

🤣

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By *enk15Man
3 weeks ago

Evesham

Sorry, my cock fell off.

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By *ixenitedWoman
3 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

"I told some guy the other day your not my cuppa tea he said ok that's fine but I really want a blow job from you so how about you close your eyes so you don't have to look at my face 🤔 🤣🤣🤣

Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?

Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol "

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By *ixenitedWoman
3 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

Got to admire that kind of lateral thinking...

🤣

Uh huh thinking outside the box lol "

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
3 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?

Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol "

Yeah I mean I suppose it better then slurring abuse, but a no is a no you know.

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By *tr8MrEMan
3 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

I quit when the mirror literally says "no...you are not L'Oréal"

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By *ixenitedWoman
3 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?

Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol

Yeah I mean I suppose it better then slurring abuse, but a no is a no you know.

👍 "

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By *ixenitedWoman
3 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

"I quit when the mirror literally says "no...you are not L'Oréal"

this cracked me up....because your not worth it lol "

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By *tr8MrEMan
3 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

"I quit when the mirror literally says "no...you are not L'Oréal"

this cracked me up....because your not worth it lol "

I can't believe you felt the need to finish it...the mirrors job is done

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By *ixenitedWoman
3 weeks ago

Here or There abouts

"I quit when the mirror literally says "no...you are not L'Oréal"

this cracked me up....because your not worth it lol

I can't believe you felt the need to finish it...the mirrors job is done

Lol i couldnt resist

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
3 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?

Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol

Yeah I mean I suppose it better then slurring abuse, but a no is a no you know.

👍 "

I to asked to get trainee last week, funny enough the thumbs to was there response to my no 🤣

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By *tr8MrEMan
3 weeks ago

Shireoaks, Worksop

"I quit when the mirror literally says "no...you are not L'Oréal"

this cracked me up....because your not worth it lol

I can't believe you felt the need to finish it...the mirrors job is done

Lol i couldnt resist

Well that's the first for me...being resisted

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan
3 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

Dammmm I mean he tried atleast right?

Yeah god loves a trier i dont but lol

Yeah I mean I suppose it better then slurring abuse, but a no is a no you know.

👍

I to asked to get trainee last week, funny enough the thumbs to was there response to my no 🤣 "

Okay toot needs to think about how to type correctly.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
3 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Oh hi OP

Mrs TMN x

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenic OP Man
3 weeks ago

Ends

"Oh hi OP

Mrs TMN x"

Yes. You’ve rejected me

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By *nnCeeWoman
3 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?

Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "

"Never, not ever. Not even if you were the only living human after a nuclear holocaust"

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By *atinaChica54Woman
3 weeks ago

Marlborough

My sides are hurting here! 🤣🤣🤣

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By *Silver-Man
3 weeks ago

Mold

I think I could if you let me fuck you from behind as I watch porn on my phone.

Just dont look back.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
3 weeks ago

North Somerset

I'd rather have a wank with a cheese grater got me some abuse recently 🤣

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By *ts been emotionalMan
3 weeks ago

Solihull

I would love to lick ice cream from your pussy will you be my cookie crumble ? Slurp 😋

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By *all me missWoman
3 weeks ago

South Wales

"I have gone off men and become a lesbian. Sorry it’s me and not you."

Perfect

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By *ucketlist DuoCouple
3 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

"I have weird taste in men, you’re not my kind of weird"

That's a good one!

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By *ansoffateMan
3 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

What do we mean by attractive? I think the word itself can be an obfuscation at times.

There's lots of ways someone can be attractive that doesn't mean I will definitely want to have sex with them or that we are compatible sexually. I find that can't be known till we have sex.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
3 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"And other rejections. Why do we find them hard to say? Or is it just me that finds it hard to say?

Tell me the best way to tell someone you don’t fancy them. WRONG ANSWERS ONLY. "

It's the lip ferret. Soz.

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By *uckurcumMan
3 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Just be honest and say ...'Your not for me' if that doesn't work ' Sorry I don't sleep with toads'

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By *heoPugzMan
3 weeks ago

your hotlist

I just get ghosted which I take as 'youre not my type' lol

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By *ornishvikingMan
3 weeks ago

lala land

Been told I have a face for radio 😆

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By *ea monkeyMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Agree to meet, then a week before go UNLOS. Works every time

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By *itty9899Man
3 weeks ago

Craggy Island

I just say no thanks. It works for them.

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By *osey WalesMan
3 weeks ago

Surrey

Wrong answer ...?

You look way too much like my sister and i'm not going there again

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Fife

I'm in you're league but I'm sorry you weren't invited to the team.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
3 weeks ago

My Own Little World

My Mum warned me to stay away from girls like you

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By *all me missWoman
3 weeks ago

South Wales

I just say it as it is lol can’t help it i have no filter and it just comes out …..at least everyone knows exactly where they stand with me

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By *olinOfBathMan
3 weeks ago

Corsham

My hovercraft is full of eels.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
3 weeks ago

Wirral

When I first signed up and was trying to figure out what was going on I got a message from someone who at that time was very active on the forum. The message was "face pic", that was it.

Being stupid I actually obliged and sent a face pic to this guy I'd never even spoken to, and I received a message back: "no"

That was a pretty clear indicator without actually needing to say the words

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By *nnCeeWoman
3 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"My hovercraft is full of eels."

Love this!!

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By *erfHerder74Man
3 weeks ago

Greenock

I’ve had “ you’re too nice to be real” and “ I really fancy you but you live too close”???

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