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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single str8 guy on here I am amazed at the people who look at my profile.

1 Other single str8 guys. Ok I know they are just verification surfing.

2 Gay guys/ tranny's - why?

3 Couples who are 'not interested in single guys'. Why show an interest by looking? Some will look several times over a period of a few days but by being ' not interested' I can't message them to ask why...

Also cpls who post meets for single guys but have them blocked. That's just stupid.

Anyone else noticed this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i get exactly the same sooooo frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Dont let it bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you care, I'm sure you'd complain if no one was bothering you

And it's tv/cd not tranny

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Would you rather be ignored and have your profile not looked at?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why do you care, I'm sure you'd complain if no one was bothering you

And it's tv/cd not tranny "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I don't care who looks at me

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Why do you assume that looking at your profile is 'showing an interest'? It's just looking at your profile.

Getting frustrated about something you have zero control over is silly. The easiest way to end your frustration would be to stop looking at who looks at your profile...and that's something you do have control over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay men etc don't know your sexuality until they have opened your profile to read it.

Couples often block single men, so they can seek their own playmates, rather than get bombarded with unwanted mail I believe.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"To be honest I don't care who looks at me"

Be assured I've looked at your profile many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in a nutshell they have to click on your profile before they can find out your sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single str8 guy on here I am amazed at the people who look at my profile.

1 Other single str8 guys. Ok I know they are just verification surfing.

2 Gay guys/ tranny's - why?

3 Couples who are 'not interested in single guys'. Why show an interest by looking? Some will look several times over a period of a few days but by being ' not interested' I can't message them to ask why...

Also cpls who post meets for single guys but have them blocked. That's just stupid.

Anyone else noticed this??"

Ok. Here we go!

1. You've kind of answered this. Yes they may be veri checking, but they may also have seen forum posts, status updates or just be checking out other profiles for tips to improve their own.

2. Gay guys and TV's? As a single straight guy I guess you browse single female profiles right? I'm pretty sure there's no flashing neon signs to indicate whether they are straight or bi until you get down to their personal details. It's obviously the same with single guy profiles. Don't stress. You can always block guys from messaging you via filters.

3. Couples "who are not interested in single guys" often are - they just have this statement on their profile due to having blocked incoming messages from men. Don't assume they may not enjoy the odd meet with a guy but choose to do the searching themselves. Likewise the couples who post meets looking for single guys.

There's a multitude of reasons why people look at profiles. So why worry?

Plus (and sorry - nearly forgot this!!)don't forget about the possibly hundreds of daily views you get from singles, couples, gay guys, bi guys, TV's and every other possible group that choose to browse WITHOUT showing on your "Who's looked at me"!!

Bet that's got you even more worried, confused and frustrated now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I don't care who looks at me

Be assured I've looked at your profile many times "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in a nutshell they have to click on your profile before they can find out your sexuality. "

Exactly what I just said, we get loads looking and dont expect them to contact us lol

If we didn't want to be looked at we would hide or block!!

I like a good perve at other profiles

Gill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single str8 guy on here I am amazed at the people who look at my profile.

1 Other single str8 guys. Ok I know they are just verification surfing.

2 Gay guys/ tranny's - why?

3 Couples who are 'not interested in single guys'. Why show an interest by looking? Some will look several times over a period of a few days but by being ' not interested' I can't message them to ask why...

Also cpls who post meets for single guys but have them blocked. That's just stupid.

Anyone else noticed this??

Ok. Here we go!

1. You've kind of answered this. Yes they may be veri checking, but they may also have seen forum posts, status updates or just be checking out other profiles for tips to improve their own.

2. Gay guys and TV's? As a single straight guy I guess you browse single female profiles right? I'm pretty sure there's no flashing neon signs to indicate whether they are straight or bi until you get down to their personal details. It's obviously the same with single guy profiles. Don't stress. You can always block guys from messaging you via filters.

3. Couples "who are not interested in single guys" often are - they just have this statement on their profile due to having blocked incoming messages from men. Don't assume they may not enjoy the odd meet with a guy but choose to do the searching themselves. Likewise the couples who post meets looking for single guys.

There's a multitude of reasons why people look at profiles. So why worry?

Plus (and sorry - nearly forgot this!!)don't forget about the possibly hundreds of daily views you get from singles, couples, gay guys, bi guys, TV's and every other possible group that choose to browse WITHOUT showing on your "Who's looked at me"!!

Bet that's got you even more worried, confused and frustrated now!

"

Haha he's terrified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you also complain if no one looked at you. As others says do not worry about it viewing you aint marriage proposal

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I have noticed this but then spotted some cookies and quickly lost all interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you also complain if no one looked at you. As others says do not worry about it viewing you aint marriage proposal "

Where did I say I was complaining. Simply said I was puzzled. Not by guys looking. I know they often are trolling veris to find someone who will meet single guys. It's tge cpls who specify 'not looking fir single guys' but then look 7 or 8 times over a two day period. Just puzzled thats all. Don't care who looks - certainly does no harm. But still puzzled by some of it.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

dont mind who looks or doesnt look ..try using filters if it traumatises you this much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you also complain if no one looked at you. As others says do not worry about it viewing you aint marriage proposal

Where did I say I was complaining. Simply said I was puzzled. Not by guys looking. I know they often are trolling veris to find someone who will meet single guys. It's tge cpls who specify 'not looking fir single guys' but then look 7 or 8 times over a two day period. Just puzzled thats all. Don't care who looks - certainly does no harm. But still puzzled by some of it."

It might be the bi male half of the couple having a sly wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single str8 guy on here I am amazed at the people who look at my profile.

1 Other single str8 guys. Ok I know they are just verification surfing.

2 Gay guys/ tranny's - why?

3 Couples who are 'not interested in single guys'. Why show an interest by looking? Some will look several times over a period of a few days but by being ' not interested' I can't message them to ask why...

Also cpls who post meets for single guys but have them blocked. That's just stupid.

Anyone else noticed this??"

I would add a no. 4:- Couples looking for people way below my age... why???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you also complain if no one looked at you. As others says do not worry about it viewing you aint marriage proposal

Where did I say I was complaining. Simply said I was puzzled. Not by guys looking. I know they often are trolling veris to find someone who will meet single guys. It's tge cpls who specify 'not looking fir single guys' but then look 7 or 8 times over a two day period. Just puzzled thats all. Don't care who looks - certainly does no harm. But still puzzled by some of it.

It might be the bi male half of the couple having a sly wank! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all fairness the only way a Bi or Gay guy can find out if you are looking for similar is for them to click on your profile!!

Couples who are not looking for single guys May be thinking about a change and want to have a look!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

If I like or even dislike a poster's comments I might click on their profile out of nosiness. It doesn't mean I want sex with them or that I have entered into some sort of contract to provide fucks.

OP I would suggest you stop worrying about it, profiles are for viewing by anyone for any reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at profiles all the time even if i have no interest...it can be something written on a forum post,or a pic that has caught my interest.

I would just let it go right over your head.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Some couples say, no single men, will find you when needed.

Lots more do this without stating it on the profile. If a couple views repeatedly, they're thinking hard about getting in touch - doesn't mean they will, but thinking about it.

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