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By *oudini 123 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Doncaster

I guess I'm a home body so except for online I'm struggling to figure out how to meet like minded people who may eventually like to own me, here is mostly vacant or can be pretty disheartening, 99/100 attempts to meet or speak with someone just gets ignored, I find myself on here less and less I guess

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
4 weeks ago

A dazzling place you never knew

FFS, I thought this was going to be how to find the owner of lost keys or something.

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By *oudini 123 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Doncaster


"FFS, I thought this was going to be how to find the owner of lost keys or something."

Sorry to disappoint, but may e try all the doors nearby, they have to work on one

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
4 weeks ago

Essex

Start by thinking who you’d like to own you! Give yourself worth. Rarer commodities are more valuable.

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By *oudini 123 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Doncaster

I think I know whom id like to serve, but the issues I guess I'm having is one of not getting out into the world a great deal, I know what type of Domme, id like to meet, of course they won't fit that exactly if and when I meet them, but I guess id just like to meet someone who will train me, maybe a mommy Dom type, a real genuine human, not the current OF pay to play types, I miss before money became the motif

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By *vaRose43Woman
4 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I think fab may be a difficult place to find the sort of dynamic you’re seeking. The other site for Fetish Lifestyles among others might be more suitable, especially if you’re brave enough to attend munches.

I also don’t know many Dommes who would jump right into a full time 24/7 style lifestyle with an unknown, untrained sub, and it’s worth remembering that the trust needed for such a life will take time to grow.

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By *oudini 123 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Doncaster


"I think fab may be a difficult place to find the sort of dynamic you’re seeking. The other site for Fetish Lifestyles among others might be more suitable, especially if you’re brave enough to attend munches.

I also don’t know many Dommes who would jump right into a full time 24/7 style lifestyle with an unknown, untrained sub, and it’s worth remembering that the trust needed for such a life will take time to grow. "

Thankyou for the advice, I am on the other site, however using it is incredibly difficult, I have much of the same issue here I think, I don't portray myself well online, but I guess the conversation has to start somewhere and I in no way expect this to prompt a 24/7 dynamic, but maybe even to meet people in those roles and make friends and gain advice and become a better submissive would be a nice start, just conversation and connections but at present these forum comments are about the closest I've gotten to interactions on here

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By *iker JackMan
4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

D/s takes time.

Full ownership even longer. Many don’t have the time.

How does ownership look for you? What do you want from it?

Get yourself to local munches

Just be very clear what you want and don’t compromise that for anyone

Good luck

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By *oudini 123 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Doncaster


"D/s takes time.

Full ownership even longer. Many don’t have the time.

How does ownership look for you? What do you want from it?

Get yourself to local munches

Just be very clear what you want and don’t compromise that for anyone

Good luck "

Thankyouu

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